Chapter 223: Men Are Still Difficult

After a drink, the young men and women who came for the excitement left the scene one after another and went home.

In order to enhance the relationship with Wang Shuai and the yellow-haired prince, they all left late, except for those who had to go home, and they were all accompanied until the night market closed.

The director bought the order and said that he would make an appointment the next day.

Wang Shuai happily agreed, saying goodbye on both sides, and didn't say anything about having supper together.

Wang Shuai, Chen Wenjin, Rose, Ah Bao, Li Xiang, Tank, Ami, and Red Hair, as well as two who had a good relationship with Wang Shuai, they then ate barbecue.

Most of the chats are about tonight, and Wang Shuai is also interested in listening to everyone's views on the Huangmao Prince's group.

Chen Wenjin expected that the people on the Huangmao Prince's side were also looking for a place to eat and chat with them at this moment.

However, as far as the brief contact tonight is concerned, there is not much impression, Wang Shuai mainly wants to know the information of those people who are close to the Huangmao Prince.

After sitting down and talking for a while, Xiao Xiao called.

Chen Wenjin went back to the car to answer, and Xiao Xiao on the other end of the phone sounded a little tired.

"The situation of the conversation is not very ideal, my dad didn't say anything against it, but he didn't express his support, he probably felt that opposition would only have the opposite effect, and he thought that I still seemed to be in control and more rational. Therefore, he should have the patience to talk to me on the side, and he will not rush to take drastic measures. Xiao Xiao said this, and lowered his voice a little to remind: "But you still have to be careful, my dad shouldn't want to stimulate me now, so he won't do anything that affects your parents' work, but maybe he won't do anything against you, you have been more defensive recently." ”

"I'll be extra careful, I've worked hard for you, so rest early. Chen Wenjin thought about it and it was also interesting, Xiao Xiao had some understanding of her father's personality in order to contribute to this kind of result that was not easy to achieve.

However, they wanted Xiao Xiao's father to support it, which was unlikely for a considerable period of time, and it would be good to avoid provoking her father's blatant opposition.

The key to whether Xiao Xiao's father will clearly oppose it depends on the situation of their relationship, and if the distance is appropriate, Xiao Xiao's father does not need to destroy the harmony between father and daughter for this reason.

Chen Wenjin pondered that Xiao Xiao's age could handle this kind of thing so calmly and determinedly, it must be her father or mother's ability to teach by example for a long time. For example, Wang Shuai and Xiao Xiao's growth environment, if there is any advantage, that is, they have grown up under the influence of stunts, even if they don't know the deep meaning, they can also use it skillfully at a critical time.

The impact of these stunts in practice is greater or less, and others often need to pay the price at work to learn, and even need to touch the head to break the blood to understand.

"Are you home?" Xiao Xiao was very tired, but he was still concerned about Chen Wenjin's condition.

"I'm eating barbecue, and the yellow-haired prince is making good progress. Chen Wenjin chatted with Xiao Xiao for a while, and only ended the call when he urged her to rest for the second time.

Xiao Xiao hung up the phone, sent a message to her father, and then lay down to rest.

Xiao Xiao's father was in the car, just squinted for a while, received the message, he read it, and called Xiao Xiao's mother.

"Don't worry, you can't solve the problem in a hurry, you need to solve your own emotions first, and if you don't solve it before, talking to Xiao Xiao about her boyfriend will only be counterproductive...... If you can't think about it, then think about it again, you can figure it out first, and only then can you communicate with Xiao Xiao...... I am very passive in my current situation, and you are also very passive, and the initiative has been grasped by Xiao Xiao. She was very thoughtful in her words, emotionally stable and calm, and she gave us peace of mind when we were worried......

The emotion that you don't rush and your eagerness to solve the problem itself will make it harder to solve. Xiao Xiao's performance today surprised me, she is very stable, and we must also be steady. If she is stable, she will be able to communicate for a long time, and if we knock on the side or remind her directly, she will listen, and if she is pushed to the opposite side, she will not let us know what she thinks, let alone listen to any words of dissuasion from us. Especially now that she's not in a stable state, our opposition will make her particularly sensitive and resistant......

You have to figure it out, and you have to adjust your own emotions, if you can't do it, you'd rather not meet Xiao Xiao first...... Don't talk about this kind of emotional anger, how can I not care about this matter? As a father, I have even more emotions than you. The baby daughter raised so big, and suddenly a kid came out of nowhere, which father can have no emotions? Is my emotions important? Or is the impact on Xiao Xiao important? It is precisely because I am her father that I must deal with my emotions well in order to choose the most appropriate way for Xiao Xiao......

When we first met, if the family objected, could we listen? Xiao Xiao is soft on the outside and strong on the inside, and she is assertive, she now has the initiative and has clearly given us information, and now we can only passively accept her arrangement, and communicate repeatedly in the way she is willing to accept, as long as she always controls and controls the principle in this process, there is no need for us to push her to the opposite side. ...... Of course, our work must also be done. But it can't stimulate Xiao Xiao, it must be curved...... I'll make arrangements for this and let you know when it's done. ”

After ending the call, Xiao Xiao's father rubbed his temples tiredly, then closed his eyes and rested, borrowing the time on the way back to sleep for a while......

Where can I stop worrying about being a father?

It is necessary not only to try to prevent children from going wrong and making mistakes of principle, but also to avoid traumating their children's self-esteem and personality and affecting their mental health, and to control their own emotions to avoid children learning the wrong way to deal with problems. Today's Literature Network

This is the unattainable luxury of greed, but we must do our best to do it, so all hardships have to be carried, carried, pressed, and supported......

After Chen Wenjin finished chatting with Xiao Xiao on the phone, he saw that the time was not early, so he went over to say hello and said that he would withdraw first.

Wang Shuai accompanied him back to the car and said, "What will you say tomorrow?"

Chen Wenjin felt that Wang Shuai was asking knowingly, so he said: "I'm embarrassed to say it directly? It doesn't matter if Xiao Xiao and I don't appear for the next period of time, it is even more convenient for you to operate." You can't just let me be wronged and act as an image of a simple mind with developed limbs, right?"

“...... Do you mean let me pretend to sell you?" Wang Shuai was reluctant to play that role, but thinking about it, if he didn't blacken himself, Chen Wenjin might not agree, not to mention that if he was willing to blacken himself, he would indeed be able to achieve the goal of the second stage faster.

"Your family's situation, why does it make you so enthusiastic about the yellow-haired prince? The yellow-haired prince will definitely think about this question, if you have an idea in your heart because Xiao Xiao is with me, and you don't want to do something by yourself, and you have the heart to encourage the yellow-haired prince, will he think it is reasonable? He is willing to take action, so is it natural that you have a closer friendship?" Chen Wenjin guessed that Wang Shuai was also worried about his image, if he played this role himself, maybe the yellow-haired prince would mention it to others in the future, and it would make people think that he Wang Shuai had a honey-bellied sword, two sides and three swords.

"In this way, I will think of a suitable person to choose the opportunity to reveal similar information to the yellow-haired prince, then you and Xiao Xiao will still appear tomorrow, so that I can choose the opportunity to pretend to be jealous, and the yellow-haired prince thinks that he has found the reason, so he doesn't have to leave a handle. Wang Shuai refused to be so self-deprecating, the impact can be big or small, it is really not worth it, and at the end, he said: "Your image is temporary, besides, whether you are happy or not, you can't stand others thinking like this, can't you all say that it is for the initiative to sacrifice for this matter, right? If I blacken myself as you say, the impact of that image may last for a lifetime." ”

"It's not you for any bad things!" Chen Wenjin said, thinking about it: "We'll go tomorrow, if Xiao Xiao can't go, I won't go." ”

"You have to play alone!"

"I don't have to go, I can do it another day. ...... Whether I go or not tomorrow, I'll go back to sleep first. Chen Wenjin was not in a hurry to be sure, because he didn't know if Xiao Xiao's mother would come back suddenly, and if she did, Xiao Xiao might need to have space to be alone with him.

"Try your best tomorrow, I have something to do the day after tomorrow, I have to bring Rose to see my father, and you have to look at the plate on Monday and don't want to deal with them, it can only be tomorrow. Wang Shuai emphasized again, and Chen Wenjin said: "I will try my best." ”

Chen Wenjin thought that Wang Shuai was doing things so happily now, as if he didn't have much nostalgia for Rose, and he was obviously sure that the relationship was still short, and he shouldn't be bored.

The next day, Xiao Xiao really changed his plan to meet Chen Wenjin temporarily.

Xiao Xiao's mother came back, and the mother and daughter went out for activities together, during which they chatted about Chen Wenjin.

Xiao Xiao's mother kept her emotions in check, chatting and chatting and igniting, so the mother and daughter quarreled, and Xiao Xiao shook his hand and went out.

After Xiao Xiao's mother calmed down, she remembered the words that Xiao Xiao's father persuaded her and reminded her, and secretly regretted it.

Chen Wen is still doing group activities at this time.

When it was almost noon, the yellow-haired prince came with a few more friends, all of them were girls, and all three of them were beautiful.

When the yellow-haired prince introduced, when Chen Wenjin met one of the girls, he couldn't help but secretly feel that it was too coincidental.

Chen Wenjin has the story of this girl in his memory, and this girl was still a special existence in the eyes of many people back then.

The light in the girl's eyes as she looked at Chen Wenjin was particularly bright, obviously the kind of situation that had a particularly good first impression when she saw the right eye.

Chen Wenjin looked at the girl's eyes, and the memories that emerged became clearer.

In my memory, this girl looked at him like this.

In Chen Wenjin's memories in the future, there were some times when he knew this girl, and now, it was obvious that they met in advance.

This girl has a special reputation, and is jokingly called 'the iron pants that can't be pulled off, or iron pants for short'.

The origin of this nickname is related to someone who the yellow-haired prince used to play with.