Chapter 422: Advantages and Biggest Disadvantage (2)

"How many times has Lao Zhou helped us! Later, your father got him into the government unit several times. As a result, once counted, it didn't take long to run into something, and the longest one was only a year. Every time he encounters something, Lao Zhou takes the initiative to take responsibility. Either blocked the disaster for your dad, or cleared the obstacle for your dad, and sent your dad to climb up for a while. Lao Zhou laughed at himself and said that he didn't have the life to do things in the government units, so he admitted it. Your father refused to admit it, and later he could only admit it, Lao Zhou's last big thing was big, and he entered the bureau, and it was not easy to get it in later, even if he got in, because of that incident, it will be difficult to have any future in the future. Later, he found a job for Lao Zhou outside, but he was not very happy, and after half a year, the previous turmoil passed. Your dad discussed with Lao Zhou and asked him not to go out to look for a job, just to be a driver in the unit, and your dad also needs a driver, but this driver has been a driver for so many years......"

"You haven't forgotten him, I remember hearing you and your dad say in the room that Uncle Zhou invested 30,000 yuan, but in fact, you don't lack it at all, just to give him shares and let him live a worry-free life, in fact, it's to repay him, right?"

"It's as it should be, it's not a reward. Originally, Lao Zhou was delayed by us because of his affection, with his ability, not to mention that he was big, and he earned more than being a driver. As for his help to your father, it is not something that can be repaid with this money later, if Lao Zhou had been a little selfish at that time, he would have sold your father at any time, and he would have a backer to gain a stable foothold! Besides, now that he can spend money to go back to the beginning to resolve those crises again and again? Without those crises, your father and I can have today? We don't dare to mention any money in return, that is to insult Lao Zhou, he is not aiming for those. Over the years, he has helped deal with a lot of the family's money, and he has not earned any benefits from it. When he bought this villa, he originally bought one for Lao Zhou, but he didn't want it, saying that he couldn't use it, saying that he couldn't rent it out or sell it, but he didn't want it. It's the one in front of it, it's still renting it out, and if Lao Zhou wants it, he can transfer it to him at any time. ”

Xiao Xiao felt that the time was almost up, so he asked: "Why? He doesn't care about money, his two children will definitely need it in the future, why doesn't he think about his family? Doesn't he love his wife and children?"

"......" Xiao Mu obviously felt that it was inappropriate to mention this, and was thinking about what to say, Xiao Xiao suddenly said: "It seems that you have some hidden feelings that are inconvenient to say." Why don't you ask him, can I know, if he's willing to let me know?"

"Lao Zhou is definitely willing to let you know, but I'm afraid you have too many mouths. Xiao's mother directly expressed her reluctance to say it.

"I promise that even if I hate him and hate you being together, I will only know his privacy, and I will never use it as a weapon or a tool for anger......! Immediately Chen Wenjin broke up!What are you laughing atβ€”such a poisonous oath!" Xiao Xiao pursed her lips unhappily, she was sincerely promised, but her mother still felt that this was a child's joke.

"I'd better ask him. Xiao Mu thought, still felt bad and said so.

Xiao Xiao didn't want to give up halfway, so he said, "I confess." In fact, I asked someone to investigate the matter at Uncle Zhou's house, although I didn't find out the details, but I already knew that both of them had type O blood, and both children had type A blood. Obviously, neither of them is Uncle Zhou's child. But I don't know what's behind it. ”

"I said why did you suddenly inquire about these things!" Xiao Mu was suddenly, but she was also settled, she was always a little uneasy, I was afraid that Xiao Xiao had some bad intentions, but now she understands that Xiao Xiao's attitude will be loosened because of the investigation of something, so she should make it clear.

"I apologize, can you forgive me?" Xiao Xiao knew that it was not good to do this, but she also knew that her mother would definitely forgive this matter, because the knot between them was likely to be untied because of this.

"As I said, Lao Zhou's strengths and weaknesses are too affectionate. Lao Zhou did not give birth, his wife is the widow of another good friend of his, Lao Zhou's friend used to be kind to Lao Zhou, people suddenly encountered an accident and disappeared, at that time there were still debts outside, and they were forced to come to the door every day, all of them were Lao Zhou to block, and finally Lao Zhou promised to take on the debt, and the debt collection stopped. This woman was pregnant with the second child at the time. Suddenly there was no support, life was not settled, and I was also afraid, and I felt that Lao Zhou could be trusted reliably, so I used the excuse to drink and drunk Lao Zhou, and then lied that the little one I was pregnant with was Lao Zhou's. Lao Zhou didn't have children, he knew it himself, and after saying that, the woman cried and begged him for forgiveness, and begged him to get married, saying that he also needed companionship, and she and the child also needed Lao Zhou. ”

"How can this be promised?" Xiao Xiao felt that the woman was excessive, and this kind of marriage match was clearly wrong!

"Having said that, Lao Zhou's advantages and disadvantages are too affectionate. People who value love and righteousness too much will regard commitment and affection as more important than everything about themselves, and will take self-sacrifice for granted. Lao Zhou was not ready to get married and hurt others, the woman had children and needed to rely on, Lao Zhou felt that he owed the woman a favor to her dead husband, and it was very appropriate to raise his wife and children for him. Lao Zhou himself doesn't have any hobbies, and the money can't be used up, so he agreed, and made an agreement for the sake of the woman: they are a husband and wife, mainly for the growth of the children, even if the two people are not suitable, they should try to wait for the two children to graduate and work before breaking up. During this period, if there is someone you like, the other party only blesses and does not interfere. originally thought that if the woman met someone she liked later and needed to start a family, there would be no psychological burden for divorce and separation, but the woman had not found a man who was willing to raise two children for her over the years. ”

Xiao Xiao suddenly realized, and finally knew what the so-called good things that Uncle Zhou and his wife were talking about, and the good things they said had nothing to do with her mother, from the beginning it was a woman with two children, who needed to rely on, and used the kindness of her dead husband to Lao Zhou, and used the means to ask Lao Zhou to be a good person. This good man was thoughtful for the woman from the beginning, but he didn't expect that it was not the woman who used the terms of the agreement in the end.

"Since that's the case, Uncle Zhou can just divorce her directly!" Xiao Xiao felt that in that case, she would have no problem.

"If you let Lao Zhou go back on his word, it's easier to let him jump into the sea. Although the two children are not his, but the father who has been called for so many years, the children do not have as much thought as their mother, and they all think that Lao Zhou is their own father, and with Lao Zhou's temperament, can he have no feelings for them? The reason why Lao Zhou restrained them and did not dare to really invest in their feelings as his own children was that he had concerns, worried that the woman would find someone at any time and leave, and the more feelings he invested in it, the more he could not bear it. Let's talk about that woman, although there have been a few ambiguous relationships outside over the years, but they haven't crossed the line, knowing that people dislike children, they haven't talked anymore, and everything that should be done at home has been done, probably feeling ashamed, unless there is a job that can't be done, it won't bother Lao Zhou. The matter was taken by Lao Zhou at the beginning, he had no resentment against the woman and the child, and he would definitely not be untrustworthy, unless the woman herself wanted to separate, but the woman had a hope for Lao Zhou, and she would not be willing to tell the truth to the two children. So this divorce is impossible. ”

"You can find that woman to do the work!Mom, you don't usually do this, why don't you want to solve the problem at all in this matter?" Xiao Xiao felt that this was very abnormal.

"Half of it is out of respect for Lao Zhou, what I do against his will, even if it is done, it will make Lao Zhou live in guilt in the future, and the other half is because of you-" Xiao's mother said, looking at Xiao Xiao with a cold gaze, and said: "I will not marry again, except for your father, anyone may take away what belongs to you in the future." ”

"Isn't it enough to be a notarization?"

"Doing notarization hurts feelings. Xiao's mother replied, thought about it, and added: "Actually, it's useless, what if we are both gone? Don't stare at me with such big eyes, as if I am a bad person? ”

"You don't believe people like Uncle Zhou?" Xiao Xiao felt too shocked.

"Don't talk nonsense! I trust him, and if he needs anything, whether it's me or your dad, he won't think about it, and he will hand it over to him with both hands. But I believe in him as a person, and I can't believe in human nature. If you are not married, Lao Zhou will not have an inducement, and when you get married, you will be tired of it for a long time, and when you have no novelty, such a big incentive is in front of you, and no one can guarantee that Lao Zhou will not change. So this matter, it's best now, Lao Zhou can't get divorced, and I can't get married again at all. But I like Lao Zhou, and I am relieved of him, he is not tired of me, and I am willing to be with him for the rest of my life. Seeing Xiao Xiao's expression, Xiao's mother knew that she was still a child, and the kind of right and wrong in her heart was still an important standard used to measure people and things, and it might even be an extremely important standard.

Therefore, Xiao's mother didn't plan to talk to Xiao Xiao about this before, because she felt that it was useless to say it, and it was difficult for her to understand that the real color of adult society was black and white mixed gray, and it was surrounded and covered by all kinds of colors.

β€œβ€¦β€¦ So you and Uncle Zhou have a real relationship, not for the sake of a moment of emptiness? In fact, if you are with him, you are not considered a third party?" Xiao Xiao of course thinks these are very important, she can't accept that her mother is looking for someone to make up that kind of relationship for the sake of loneliness and loneliness, which makes her feel that her mother's body has become dirty, and she can't accept her mother as a third party, which makes her feel that her mother's spiritual world has become dirty.

"The first question is for sure, in this world, apart from your father and you, the one I believe most must be Lao Zhou! After so many years, although I think he is a little too pedantic in his affection, but this kind of excessive pedantry itself shows how shiny he is inside, and your father and I both respect him from the bottom of our hearts, and I must be very willing to like him." What we like and hate each other, what we think in our hearts, we all know clearly, if this is not true feelings, what is?"

Xiao Mu paused and said, "As for this second question, it is definitely not for me and Lao Zhou, but for that woman, it must be." Whether it's for you or not, it's up to you to weigh it yourself. After all, they are legally husband and wife, and I must be a third party in terms of legal theory, but in terms of facts, I mean the past. ”

"I don't think my mother is a third party!" Xiao Xiao felt that this was the case, although he was still a little unhappy for his mother, but he felt that there was no way to solve this grievance, even if others accused, her mother could not tell people about these privacy for this, so she could only endure it.

"Then, my Xiao Xiao baby doesn't hate Lao Zhou anymore?"

"Hmm...... Don't hate it anymore. However, I still don't want to meet at home lately, I still need time to adjust. Xiao Xiao said, suddenly leaned over to Xiao's mother's face, and said with a smile: "Then if you talk more about the previous things, I will be able to accept Uncle Zhou earlier." ”