Li Muqi said that he was so good, but Li's mother disagreed.

She felt that Yang Xinyue's house was too far away, and she had to go all the way away, so it was better to let her family come to Haishi.

Father Li felt that they should go, after all, it was their family to marry a daughter-in-law, and there were many Yang families, if they all came, the air ticket money would also cost a lot, and it was not easy for the young couple to save some money.

Li's mother thinks that it is enough for the parents of both sides to meet, if the Yang family comes, it will be two people, and if their Li family goes over and adds Li Muqi and Yang Xinyue, it will cost four people to go back and forth for air tickets.

Daddy Li thinks he's shrewd, but he can't talk about.

Li Muqi was a little helpless: "Mom, I said I would give you money every month, but you don't want it, count these now." Our family is a man, and it is right for the man to go to the woman's house to propose his parents, and it is unreasonable to let the woman's family come to see us. ”

Li's mother said: "Your money has to be filled into your company, and it is the same as filling the hole of dissatisfaction, why should your father and I spend your money." And I think Yuanyuan is right, you are starting a business now, it is a critical time, if you get married at this time, how distracted! She originally wanted to wait for you to succeed in starting a business before marrying you, and you still don't understand her. In a hurry, I found someone casually and got married......"

Li Muqi interrupted her: "Mom, why are you still talking about this!"

He felt more and more powerless about his mother: "Cui Yuanyuan, is she such a considerate person? If she really thinks so, she will be done with the record, what can she delay? She hasn't had enough fun, she doesn't want to be tied down at all! She doesn't want to settle down at all, she doesn't want to start a family! Mom, she and I are not all the way! And she doesn't have enough money to spend, so how can her family ask for less bride price? Why don't you understand!"

Li's mother disagreed: "Even if she asks for a lot of dowry, her family must have a lot of dowry! Why don't you understand! Besides, Yuanyuan herself has a house and a car, even if she doesn't do anything, as long as she rents out the house after marriage, the rent money collected is enough for her own expenses." How many dowries can the Yang family have! The bride price from our family may not be recovered! I wonder if her family will still be a drag on you in the future. In the future, her relatives will come to the sea market from time to time, and they won't be able to leave, and they will annoy you to death!"

Li Muqi sighed deeply: "Mom, what are you talking about? Her family is not as bad as you say! Xinyue has her own ability, she will not be a drag on me, and her parents will not live in Haishi." Besides, I am a man, and it is my responsibility to support my family, so how can I say that it is a drag. ”

Li's mother couldn't listen to it: "That's not what I said! Son, let's find someone with the same family background, and you will be able to suffer less sins in the future." Although people live all their lives, isn't it good to be able to live a more relaxed life? Why do you have to live a tired and miserable life? Besides, our family and her family are not all the way, and I can't talk to your father and her parents. ”

Li Muqi stroked his forehead: "Mom, how can you be considered a person all the way? Besides, you don't live together, and you may not see each other for a few years after such a long distance, so why do you want to talk together? Just respect each other when you meet and make phone calls." Her parents and family are very good talkers, and now everyone can speak Mandarin and can communicate. ”

"Meat bun, you don't understand, my mother is from here, and getting married is not as simple as you said. It's not like two people get married when they pat their heads and say they get married, it's a matter between two families. If the two families do not have the same views, and the family background and background are too different, it is easy to have contradictions in the future, and this contradiction will definitely affect the relationship between the young couple. How many couples divorce is not because of their own bad feelings, but because of trivial matters from both families. ”

"Mom, her parents don't live with us, it's far away, it's rare to see each other once or twice a year, and you and Dad don't live with us permanently, what contradiction can there be? ”

"Meat bun, you are still young, and you have a lot of knowledge in this marriage. Who is not happy and happy when they get married? It is the small contradictions in the marriage that accumulate into irreconcilable big problems, which leads to divorce. You don't realize now that this family background is different, the growth environment is different, and the three views are different, and it is easy to have problems. ”

"Mom, Xin Yue and I have the same three views, and the two of us don't have the questions you said! Mom, I'll ask you, when will you and my dad have time, right? I made an appointment with Xin Yue's family to go to her house to meet my parents, don't make it difficult for me. ”

Li's mother avoided talking about the meeting.

still said earnestly: "Meat bun, Mom still said the same thing, marriage is a big deal, you have to be cautious." Mom thinks you're still not calm, and there's still a hesitation period to buy insurance, and Mom is afraid that you're hot-headed. I heard that there is a cooling-off period for divorce now, and my mother thinks you also need to be calm and calm. ”

"Mom, I'm very cautious and calm now. Why don't you support me?"

"It's not that Mom doesn't support you, Mom is afraid that you will regret it in the future. Mom is afraid that you will be hurt by your marriage and affect your future life. Once a person is hurt by marriage, it is easy to lose confidence in life, and my mother is afraid that it will affect your mentality. ”

Li Muqi felt that he couldn't communicate with his mother.

If he wasn't worried that the Yang family would say that his Li family was not sincere in marrying Xin Yue, he would have wanted to go to her hometown with Xin Yue.

But only a man who has no one in charge of the family will come to the door alone to propose. His parents are alive, and if he goes to propose marriage alone, he will be criticized, and Xin Yue will also be looked down upon.

He didn't want to do that.

But it doesn't make sense. He had a headache.

He felt a little sorry for Yang Xinyue.

And Yang Xinyue can roughly guess most of the content of his call.

The house she rented was not big, a one-bedroom house, and the sound insulation was not very good. She can't avoid it.

Just to avoid embarrassment, when Li Muqi was about to hang up the phone, she hid in the bathroom.

Yang Xinyue has never felt that getting married will take so many twists and turns.

It turns out that marriage is not two people who like each other, two people think that they can get married if they want to.

Although this society emphasizes equality for all, in fact, there have always been classes, and people from each class do not understand people from the other class.

They just want to have fun with their class.

While playing together, I also hope to get the pity of the higher class people, and get some attention, so that I can also enter the higher class circle.

It's human nature.

She was totally able to understand.

But it's one thing to understand, it's another thing to put it on yourself and want to accept it.

It's really bad to not be understood and recognized.

It's frustrating.

Lose.

It's still a little sad.