Chapter 834: Strawberry-flavored ice cream, waiting for an opportunity for a long time
11 Talk and talk heart-to-heart, and the river in the fireworks of the world
Jiang Fang saw some clues, took Lazhen's father out, and asked Lazhen's grandmother alone: "Grandma, do you want Lazhen to continue to go to school?"
Jiang Fang had to clarify Grandma Lazhen's attitude first, if she and Lazhen's father disagreed, then the matter would be difficult to handle, but if she agreed, there would be less resistance.
Grandma Lazhen didn't hesitate, she nodded, "I support her to go to school, she is still so young, what can she do if she doesn't go to school......?"
Grandma Lazhen supported, and Jiang Fang was relieved, "Since you support Lazhen to continue going to school, can I ask her the reason why her father is unwilling to let her go to school?"
Although Lazhen's family was not wealthy, Jiang Fang could see that her father did not let her go to school for this reason alone.
Lazhen's father's emotions are very complicated, there is rejection, disgust and entanglement, Jiang Fang didn't understand why this happened, in order to facilitate the right medicine, he decided to ask Lazhen's grandmother alone.
Grandma Lazhen glanced at Lazhen's father outside the door not far away, sighed and said, "It's not that he doesn't want her to go to school, it's just that he ...... He couldn't get over the hurdle in his heart. ”
"May I ask him what the hurdle in his heart is?"
Grandma Lazhen was a little embarrassed to say, after all, it was a private matter at home.
Jiang Fang said again: "Please rest assured, I won't tell the outside world about your family's affairs, I just want to know the reason why Lajan's father disagrees with her to continue schooling, you also know that Lajan should continue to study and should not be buried, I asked these just to understand the situation so as to help Lajan continue her studies, I hope to contribute to her future, I can see that you also hope that she can continue to go to school." ”
Grandma Lajan has suffered from being uneducated, so she hopes that Lajan can be educated, have a good development and future, but, "Lajan's mother is also a literate person, and there are few people who have gone to school and learned on our side." In the past, Lazhen's father drank and smoked and was not diligent, and Lazhen's mother couldn't stand it and divorced him. You also know that very few people on our side are divorced, and it's a shame for him. ”
As a result, Rajan's father did not want her to go to school, and he attributed the reason for her mother's divorce to him to being educated.
He didn't want her to be like her mother.
Grandma Lazhen couldn't help but sigh again, "I insisted on letting Lazhen go to the present in elementary school, and Lazhen has always been very sensible and listened to her father because of family affairs." ”
Grandma Lazhen looked at Jiang Fang and said: "A few days ago, after she came home from vacation, she began to clean up the house, saying that she couldn't let you see our house so messy when she came to visit, her father knew that you were going to visit the house and quarreled with her, she rarely talked back to her father, and her father also had a bad attitude towards you because of this, I hope you don't take it to heart." ”
Jiang Fang shook his head, "Don't worry, I don't care." ”
She really didn't care.
After talking to Lazhen's grandmother, Jiang Fang found Lazhen's father again and said: "Lazhen will graduate from primary school in one semester, her grades are very good, it's a pity to drop out of school now, girls can change their fate by studying, I hope you can think about Lazhen well." ”
Lazhen's father smoked a cigarette and didn't speak, and Jiang Fang didn't say anything more.
Nowadays, economic problems are no longer the main problem for children to go to school, but people's attitudes towards children, especially girls, are the biggest obstacles.
Jiang Fang finally talked to Lazhen alone, "Do you want to continue going to school?"
Lazhen nodded without hesitation, and Jiang Fang also nodded, "Okay, then you must persevere, and the teacher will definitely do her best to help you continue to go to school." ”
After the words fell, Jiang Fang thought about it and asked, "That woman ...... that day Is that your mother?"
Lazhen looked at Jiang Fang and was entangled for a second, then nodded.
"Is there something she's looking for you?"
"She said she wanted to come and see me. ”
"I saw that she was still holding something in her hand. ”
"I didn't ask for clothes and food that I bought. ”
Jiang Fang cautiously asked the last question, "You hate her, don't you?"
Rajan didn't answer, only silently lowered her head a little more.
Jiang Fang touched her head, "If you don't want to say it, don't say it, the teacher just wants you to know that you have the qualifications to hate and the right to forgive." ”
Jiang Fang's words Lazhen understood in a daze, and Lazhen rarely confided in her heart, "I don't want to forgive her, and I won't forgive her, she ...... Abandoned me. ”
Rajan has a grudge and resentment towards her mother, which she cannot easily forgive.
Jiang Fang also did not persuade Lazhen to forgive.
She is not Lajan, she can't empathize with Lajan's heart, and she is not qualified to persuade Rajan to make any decisions.
She could only enlighten Lazhen as much as possible, "No matter what you think, the teacher will support you." The teacher just wants to tell you that things between adults have nothing to do with children, let alone children's fault, you should not be trapped by them, and you don't need to bear the consequences brought by them, life is still very long, the future is still very broad, you have to learn to let go of yourself, let yourself live happily. ”
Lazhen listened to Jiang Fang's words and didn't come back to her senses for a long time.
She was thinking, because, no one had ever said anything like this to her before.
She only remembers that when she was a child, when her mother had just divorced her father, many of her friends made fun of her, saying that she would be a motherless child in the future, and that her mother had run away with someone else.
Those children may have forgotten what they had said, and they did not know the meaning of what they had said, and they may have made fun of Rajan for a simple joke, without much malice, but it was enough to cause indelible pain to Rajan.
Jiang Fang wants to teach here, not only to teach the knowledge in the textbooks, but also to enable these children to develop and grow in an all-round way.
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Because there was too much time delayed at Lazhen's house, Jiang Fang only visited four students that day.
Fortunately, she also knew that she couldn't notify all the students in three days, so she asked the students to notify each other again.
After three days of home visits, Jiang Fang only visited a dozen students in total, and with the students notified by phone, a total of more than 60 students got the news.
Coupled with the mutual notification between the students, it should be almost as good as it gets.
On the fourth day, Hui Zhixing came to the school first.
There was a scene yesterday morning that he was not satisfied with, and he didn't achieve the effect he wanted after filming for a long time, so he could only make up the shot today.
He asked the assistant director to take the actors over to make up the shooting, and he came to choose the young actors first.
Although these students are all group performers, there are also a few who want to show their faces to speak, and he has to pick them.
When he came, it was just dawn, and he thought he had come early, but as soon as he entered the school gate, he saw a group of children.
He had a car, the children didn't, and some even lived far away but arrived earlier than he did.
The children's skin is not white, and their faces are obviously honest plateau red, most of them are standing stunned and don't know how to react when they see him, some of them will even hide to the side, and a few of them are bold and run to the kitchen, "Teacher, teacher, someone is coming!"
Hui Zhixing saw that there were many children at the door of the kitchen.
There were curling fireworks outside the kitchen, and Jiang Fang's voice came from the kitchen, "Just let them in." ”
In such a scene, Jiang Fang's voice was also a little less cold.
Hui Zhixing heard Jiang Fang's words, said a brief hello to the children and walked towards the kitchen.
The stove in the kitchen was blazing, and Jiang was wearing an apron and cooking around the stove in the fireworks in the world.
This was the first time Hui Zhixing saw Jiang Fang cooking, which was not the same as he guessed, but there was not much contrast.
Although Jiang Fang is different from her in peacetime, she is not in harmony.
She can be cold without pretense, or soft without twisting.
Only then did Hui Zhixing discover that Jiang Fang was a magical unity of contradictions.
The corners of his mouth inadvertently hooked up a little smile, and his curiosity was aroused even more.