"Therefore, it is a social responsibility for minors to go online. ”

The ubiquitous Internet has made everyone a "person in the net", and the Internet has become the daily life of modern people. This also includes minors. Looking around, how many children hold their mobile phones all day long and play non-stop, and how many primary and secondary school students have become "mobile phone control" and "computer fans". If you think it's just a "hobby", then parents need to be wary because your child is likely to start to slip into the trap or go astray.

This is by no means alarmist!

There have been media reports that it was before Zhou Fangyuan's rebirth, and after the relevant media evaluated 100 APPs (applications), it was found that soft color * eroticism and violent elements are common in many software, but about eighty percent of APPs have no restrictions on minors. Even if there is a parental consent mechanism, most of them are in vain, and minors can effortlessly enter the virtual world that is "not suitable for children". Some social networking sites also have erotic pictures aimed at children, and there are adults who induce children to "love literature".

In the past, most people focused on the phenomenon of "Internet addiction" among children and minors, and once children were infected with "Internet addiction", they became tired of school, skipped classes, their academic performance declined, or even they contracted bad habits, which led to family tragedy. In this regard, there are too many real-life cases and lessons. But what many parents don't know is that the risks and pitfalls in the online world are really dangerous for minors. In particular, some unscrupulous businesses and lawbreakers, driven by profits, collect private information, induce consumption, and infringe on the rights and interests of minors, posing harm to families and society.

The online world is a mixed mix of adults and many feelings, but its colorfulness and all-encompassing are irresistible temptations for children who are simple, curious and eager to learn. "Keep children away from the Internet" was the heartfelt cry of many parents. However, in the real environment, it is neither possible nor necessary to artificially isolate children from the online world, and they are not allowed to touch the computer or "play with the mobile phone". After all, the Internet is inseparable from reality, and it is also an important medium and tool for children to learn and understand the world.

Obviously, the feasible strategy is to set up "safe passages" or "fire doors" for children and minors to access the Internet. Just like the United States, the United Kingdom, Germany and other countries, laws are enacted to ensure that minors are "safe online". For example, it is mandatory to require game ratings, set up age barriers, and are not allowed to enter under the age of 18, or real-name registration, restrict the content and time of transmission, and do not allow logins at a certain time at night. In short, regulate online content service providers, and severely punish them once they cross the line. For example, Fuso also has a third-party agency that specializes in monitoring harmful information about children online.

In China, although mothers have been calling for "saving their children" for many years, and calls for online platforms to take social responsibility have also been frequently reported in the newspapers, there has been no substantial progress on how to truly control content providers like apps from the source and make them provide "safe channels" for minors. In particular, many contents that do not seem to be illegal, but are extremely inappropriate for children, how to distinguish between different service objects, have never drawn a clear line of responsibility, and businesses can play "edge ball" at will, and the ultimate victim is still minors. Obviously, in addition to stepping up the formulation of relevant regulations, there must be practical actions in terms of industry self-discipline and supervision, third-party monitoring, etc.

But this is the future, and this is the situation that needs to be faced at the stage when smartphones are fully popularized and mobile Internet is ubiquitous.

For the time being, in this 06-year time period, the mobile Internet cannot be exhaustive, so minors are facing more broadband networks, that is, Internet cafes and personal computers.

In this case, the responsibility to prevent minors from surfing the Internet is, on the one hand, this society, including online platforms such as remote games, and on the other hand, all physical Internet cafes, because they are the main carriers that receive minors online.

"I don't agree that parents blame the game company for everything.

As a game company, all we can do is to implement ID card review in the game account registration system, and reject all underage ID cards. But what is the reality? Many children, they can get an adult's ID number from various sources, or even directly get an ID card, even if we start more complex image moderation, we still can't stop these teenagers. So at this time, the social responsibility of the Internet café is very important, if the Internet café does not prevent minors from surfing the Internet, what can we do if we make games, thousands of kilometers away from the players?

And parents, what do you do? Isn't it something that every parent should do to take care of their children and pay attention to their study and life? There are always people who say that I am busy, I want to go to work, and I want to make money, so I want to ask, what are you busy with your work, what are you making money for? In addition to getting better living conditions, isn't what you do to give your children a better future? Well, now the question is, your children have already started to go down the wrong path, and this has nothing to do with money, so what should you do at this time? Since you want your children to have a better future, in addition to the economy, make sure that they do not go down the wrong path in their studies and life, isn't it very important?

Society has social responsibilities, parents have parental responsibilities, and everyone can share their own responsibilities in order to ensure a better living environment for minors. Don't push any responsibility to the society, push it to others, others should be responsible, people don't do it, you scold and say a few words, just forget it, rectify the rectification, and be responsible for the responsibility. But what about your own turn? What if you don't fulfill your responsibilities as parents? Do you expect us to do it for you? There is no reason for that!"

Zhou Fangyuan has always been the strongest responsibility-sharing faction.

The social division of labor is different, and everyone has their own responsibilities.

Instead of simplifying it and reducing all the blame to one point, what is that called? That's shameless!

Zhou Fangyuan, as a reborn, has seen too many similar cases in his previous life, for example, there is a parent who found that his child was addicted to a certain mobile game and failed the exam. When the worried mother checked her son's phone, she found that her son was in the QQ group of the mobile game. The excited mother entered the group regardless of 3721 and scolded the group members, and then walked away in a dashing manner, leaving a group of confused melon-eating people.

And these very magical "What kind of group are you, it's really harmful", "My son's grades in each subject are not the average score of the class", "You have made my son miserable", "What are you doing in this group" and other classic quotations were quickly forwarded and adapted by countless netizens, and successfully appeared on the Weibo hot search list.

Neil Bozeman, in The Passing of Childhood, argues that the future will be a world without children. "It is becoming increasingly difficult to distinguish between a child's behavior and an adult's behavior," he said.

It's a pity that there is a big premise that as an adult, you must really mature, and only in this way can children become positive and actively become "little adults". The situation of parents entering the group and angrily denouncing group members also reflects the educational logic of many parents - "There is nothing wrong with my education, you have led my child astray!", which is such a "blame logic", which makes children more "naïve" and "extreme", making it difficult for them to become mature, because their parents are not mature at all.

Children's addiction to games also stems from their parents' loss of control over education. In the news, we often see all kinds of bear children dismantling toys and dismantling homes, and after causing losses, parents always say lightly, "The child is still young and ignorant, you bear with me", the child did not learn a lesson in the incident, and continued to "do evil". When parents find that their children are addicted to games, they are already out of control in education, and the loss of control in education is actually the fact that parents themselves have already lost control.

When a mature parent is faced with his child's addiction to games, the first thing he should do should be to reflect on whether he has not cared enough about his child recently and to reflect on the gains and losses in education. Taking out one's anger on irrelevant people is the most unwise and hurtful way for children, which will only make children become more rebellious and rebellious by anger and discrimination from classmates and friends in private.

Many parents say that their children are disobedient and that their children are very rebellious.

But what are the facts? Let's not talk about all of them, at least in this wave of parents, a large number of parents are not able to listen to their children's words every time, and often after hearing half of them, they plan to speak for their children and begin to express their own summary views.

The same is true for emerging things such as online games, many parents do not understand why this game is popular in their children's dating circles, why their children keep playing this game, and so on. Parents insist that the game is the real culprit that destroys the achievements of family education, and must be eliminated immediately in order to let the child return to the right path and continue to move forward under the wise leadership of the parents. In fact, the biggest problem with children's addiction to mobile games is not that parents don't understand games, but that parents don't understand their children.

If you have the ability, don't let him touch his mobile phone, buy a computer at home, lock the children, and don't let him play with the mobile phone, won't he just strangle the signs from the root? Although this seems to be a bit impersonal, the problem is that since many parents are unwilling to think about so much educational experience, is it not okay to use a stupid method directly? Yes, but no one uses it.

Zhou Fangyuan does not deny the social responsibility of game companies, he also knows that Internet addiction is not a good thing. But as a businessman, if you want to make money, sometimes you can't think about it that much. Besides, that's what games are, he's there, some people are addicted, why can't some people not be addicted? In the end, it's a matter of self-control. Does self-control have anything to do with social responsibility? It's an individual responsibility.

What he dislikes is that some parents, a little bit of something, okay, he is all right, and everyone else is wrong.

Do you want face?

In his previous life, when he played games, he had seen relevant news more than once, especially in his previous life, when even the central media stood up and criticized the World of Warcraft, which was hot at that time.

Well, he didn't dare enough to provoke Yang Ma.

But this shows how ridiculous the mainstream of society was at that time.

Games follow the development of technology, and when personal computers are not mature, games like World of Warcraft are simply not possible. In the early days, weren't all handheld computers or red and white machines? Aren't there people who were addicted to games at that time? Later, computers appeared, and then computer games also appeared, and then many people put the responsibility for addiction on computer games. It's ridiculous, it's still the same sentence, why can some people not be addicted? Those who swear that they shirk their responsibilities faster than taking off their pants, why can't you look at those who don't indulge? You can't compare yourself with others, or what is the difference between your own children and other people's children?

Whether it is a platform or a company, a large part of the social responsibility that can be undertaken can only be a preset threshold. Because for the company to survive, it is impossible to kill all players with a stick.

The social responsibility of Internet cafes is actually greater than that of companies and platforms, because they are the first line of consumers in the real sense, and if they can't do a good job here, then it is useless to say more.

But in the end, the biggest responsibility is still to be implemented on the parents, not to mention the school, the school teaches and educates people, educates your children with knowledge, and educates your children to grow up some truths are enough.

Therefore, for the growth of students and the growth of their minds, the biggest responsibility lies with the family and parents after all.

Daily education, the inculcation of good and evil, and the influence of the three views are all things that others can't give, and they can and must be given by parents. Those who make excuses and shirk responsibility are the real irresponsibility and the real ruin.

In fact, do you say that those parents don't understand this truth? No, they also understand, but as mentioned above, they may neglect or even ignore the education of their children for various reasons, and when they find that something is wrong, or even irreparable, they are eager to shirk their responsibilities, dare not and are unwilling to admit their mistakes, and the first thing they think about is not how to twist the crooked little tree, but to loosen their hands and say "it is not my fault."

Such parents should actually be hung in front of everyone and criticized fiercely.

It's a pity that Zhou Fangyuan is soft-spoken, and the words he said in the show will be cut out nine times out of ten, after all, there are a lot of social contradictions involved, such as the contradictions between parents and children, the contradictions between parents and schools, all of which are contradictions that the country can't do.

So Zhou Fangyuan said openly, vent, but the program team will definitely cut it, and there is no need to say hello to him, when he said these words, Zhou Fangyuan himself realized this.