Chapter 6: Childhood Home Changes

When Chen Huaguo came out of the room, the man in uniform was already sitting at the big table in the hall. As soon as Chen Huaguo saw the visitor, he was immediately stunned. It's not that Chen Huaguo doesn't know this person, but he knows this person and told him some time ago. As early as half a year ago, Chen Huaguo wanted to divorce Yang Donggu. Chen Huaguo's marriage, although it is said that it was not arranged by his parents, but after getting married, they have been arguing and quarreling with each other, and it is only because of Chen Hansheng and later a daughter that this marriage continues to drag on. Not long ago, Chen Huaguo listened to a policy propaganda of the civil affairs officer surnamed Xu, who was free to fall in love, and casually said that he wanted to divorce. The civil affairs officer, surnamed Xu, strongly supported him and encouraged him to take the lead as an effect of policy advocacy. Chen Huaguo knows very well in his heart that if he files for divorce, he will definitely be resolutely opposed by his father, and even condemned by the society. Therefore, Chen Huaguo expressed his attitude to Director Xu very cautiously, saying that he would go back and do his work first, and then come to him when he got it done. During this period, Chen Huaguo also wanted to find an opportunity to communicate with his parents first, but when he thought of his parents' attitude towards Yang Donggu, he didn't have a score in his heart, and he didn't have the courage to bring it up. A few days ago, he wanted to find an opportunity to communicate with his parents, but because of Chen Hansheng's matter, he kept delaying it, and he felt that it was not the right time, so he delayed it.

Of course, Director Xu didn't know about Chen Huaguo's situation, and he even thought that Chen Huaguo's divorce should have been known to his family a long time ago, so as soon as he saw Chen Huaguo, he asked bluntly, "Has the matter you said been decided?"

Because of his mother's presence, Chen Huaguo was hesitant and didn't dare to make a statement. Instead, Xie Chunxiang asked Officer Xu, "What's the matter?"

Director Xu said, "Your son wants to divorce." ”

"What?" Xie Chunxiang looked at Chen Huaguo with round eyes and asked, "Do you want to divorce?"

Chen Hansheng didn't know what divorce meant, so he pulled Xie Chunxiang and asked, "Milk, what is divorce?"

"Divorce is separation!" Xie Chunxiang looked at Chen Huaguo very angrily and explained to his grandson.

"What do you mean by breaking away?" Chen Hansheng still couldn't figure it out, and continued to chase and ask.

"It's just that you don't want your mother anymore! I'm going to drive your mother away!" Xie Chunxiang looked at Chen Huaguo angrily and asked, "Is there really such a thing?"

Chen Hansheng glanced at his father hatefully, his eyes full of fear of family change.

Chen Caomin heard the noise in front of the hall and also walked out of the room. When he heard that his son wanted a divorce, he immediately rolled his eyes in anger. Although his son has not yet communicated with him about this matter, from the noisy and noisy days in the past, he also sees the future direction of this marriage, but he has not expressed his opinion, and hopes that this marriage can slowly turn a corner and gradually reconcile. Besides, the son and daughter-in-law now have both a son and a daughter, so they should not really get divorced.

Chen Huaguo, who lowered his head, thought about it left and right, and finally mustered up the courage to say to Xie Chunxiang, "Mother! ”

"Of course we oppose it!" Xie Chunxiang said, "Do you still expect us to support you in doing this immoral thing?"

Chen Huaguo lowered his head and thought for a while, and said, "Whether you agree or not, I must divorce this marriage." I really can't get along with Yang Donggu, and I don't want to live with her. It's better to leave late than early, and you'll let me go, right?"

"Dream!" Xie Chunxiang said, "With me alive, don't even think about divorcing Yang Donggu!"

Chen Caomin was about to say something, when he felt that things were not as simple as he imagined, so Director Xu stood up and said, "Now is a new society, marriage is autonomous, and love is free! As parents, you must emancipate your mind, and you can't play with that old-fashioned feudal mentality! Besides, if there is no affection between husband and wife, and life is full of quarrels and quarrels, then it will not work!"

Just as Director Xu was doing his work, Yang Donggu's sobbing sound came from the room. It can be seen that although Yang Donggu quarreled with Chen Huaguo, she was unwilling to divorce, and she couldn't give up the son and daughter she had already born.

Director Xu knew that there was still a lot of ideological work to be done in this matter, and he needed to buffer the family, so he first called Chen Huaguo aside and said, "I don't know that you haven't communicated well with your family, so you came recklessly, I don't encourage you to divorce, but if you really want to divorce, you have to try to do a good job in the ideological work of adults, including your wife's ideological work, and strive to talk about it and disperse, and try to avoid accidents." When the time is right, I will come back to do the work and assist in the process. ”

Chen Huaguo nodded, and Director Xu came over to Xie Chunxiang and Chen Caomin again, "Whether it is divorce or marriage, it is all personal rights, you are adults, it is best not to interfere with them, after all, this is related to the happiness of their lives." In addition, the government also stipulates that interfering with other people's marriages is subject to legal responsibility and consequences. ”

Chen Caomin and Xie Chunxiang nodded again and again, after all, the person who came was eating public food and doing public affairs, and he had his own reason for speaking, besides, there was a legal responsibility behind it, and it seemed that it was something that they couldn't bear.

The two adults made a willingness to give in.

Chen Huaguo took the opportunity to send Director Xu out, gave Director Xu a ride, and once again said that his decision to divorce and the unhappiness brought to him by married life.

After Chen Huaguo came back, he saw Chen Caomin and Xie Chunxiang sitting there as if they were sick, and Xie Chunxiang still had a son standing in his arms, so Chen Huaguo said to Chen Hansheng, "You go out to play first, and I'll talk to my grandparents." ”

"No!" Chen Hansheng looked at Chen Huaguo hatefully and said, "I won't go out! I don't want you to drive my mother out!"

Chen Huaguo couldn't cry or laugh, he first called his father aside, talked in detail about his long-standing idea of wanting to divorce, and laid out the fact that their husband and wife had been noisy for a long time, trying to persuade his father with emotion and reason.

Although Chen Caomin had sympathy for his son, he felt sorry for his daughter-in-law, so he replied, "Don't expect me to agree to this matter, I won't agree, even if the public investigates, I won't agree!"

Chen Huaguo said, "Dad, whether you agree or disagree with this matter, I have made a decision." ”

"Then you can do it. Chen Caomin said this angrily, and the Buddha walked away.

Chen Huaguo returned to his mother and said to Xie Chunxiang, "Mother, you have also seen my situation, you also heard what Director Xu said just now, and I have also done my father's ideological work, so you should also turn the corner." ”

Xie Chunxiang is a law-abiding woman, she doesn't know how big the crime of opposing her son's divorce is, and she doesn't know how the old man responds to her son, so she said, "I can ignore this matter, but I won't agree to it! You can watch it! Then Yang Donggu, I have been both a daughter-in-law and a daughter for so many years, how can I be so ruthless to let her go?"

When Xie Chunxiang said this, she shed tears, which were sentimental, self-blame and guilt.

Chen Caomin seemed to see a glimmer of hope, and he decided to do a good job with Yang Donggu first, and then go back to convince his father and mother.

In the evening, Chen Hansheng was taken away by his grandmother, and Chen Huaguo began to do Yang Donggu's ideological work. Although Yang Donggu was listening, her heart was like turning over the river and the sea. Before Chen Huaguo could finish speaking, Yang Donggu said to Chen Huaguo with tears in her eyes, "Do you already have someone in your heart? For the sake of the two children, can we not divorce? The usual noisy quarrels are caused by some of my faults and some of my careful eyes, but should I change my career?"

"No, you can't. Chen Huaguo said, "It is not a question of temper between us, but a matter of character. We are all adults, and it is very difficult to change. Rather than quarreling and quarreling like this, it is really better to get rid of it as soon as possible! As for whether you say that there is already someone in my heart, I don't want to explain it to you, and you won't believe it if you explain it. Over the years, almost all of our quarrels and quarrels have come from this. ”

Chen Huaguo didn't know that Yang Donggu felt that she was far inferior to Chen Huaguo in terms of appearance and education, so it was natural for her to have all kinds of worries about Chen Huaguo, and because of this, she had contradictions and entanglements with Chen Huaguo.

Yang Donggu knew that things had reached the point of no return, and it was too late to regret some of the past practices. She reluctantly gave up saving her, but she was very sad, and she couldn't let go of Chen Hansheng and Chen Yue, so she couldn't help but burst into tears and cried for almost a night.

Although Yang Donggu is nostalgic for this family and is unwilling to divorce, she is also a person with an arrogant temper. When she learned that the marriage was irretrievable, she let it go completely.

The next morning, when her parents-in-law came to the room separately and asked about it, Yang Donggu took the initiative to say that she agreed to the idea of divorce, which made her parents-in-law who were worried all night at a loss.

Hearing that his father and mother were leaving, and his mother was going to walk out of this house, Chen Hansheng's heart couldn't tell what it was like, he just felt lonely, and for the first time he had a negative feeling about the world.

Of course, Chen Hansheng didn't expect that what would break his heart was still to come.