People don't think about it most of the time, and they rely on their subconscious to deal with most of the things around them.

For example, when no normal person stands up and is ready to walk, he thinks about whether to step on his left leg or his right leg first, and he does not count the time to see when to blink and rest.

It's interesting to see if you have a talking and focused person in front of you, and if you put your hand in front of him, he will subconsciously take whatever you hand him.

If he thinks about some things in his heart, he will inevitably ignore others, that is to say, he does not fortify the rest of the things, and as long as there is a good entry point, he can invade his subconscious and achieve the effect of control.

There are some very interesting pit games that take advantage of this principle.

'Say 10 times quickly, yes, yes, ......yes,

'Yes and ......'

'Is there a difference between you and a pig?'

'Nope. ’

I think that 99% of the students who just played this little game will be pitted, because he is consciously beware of you using inertia to pit him, when he hears the word 'pig', he subconsciously immediately says 'no', but he is cheated instead.

Today is Sunday, Yuanjia did not go to work, and after breakfast, he went back to his room to write his thesis.

The theme of this paper is about the heart anchor, and how to use the heart anchor to treat mental illness is the theme of his paper.

After writing it, he will submit it to major psychology journals to see, Yuan Jia is not stingy to share his experience, even if there are other psychological experts who can learn his theory, but they lack the experience of real courses, and they are far inferior to him in practical application.

Mom went to the market to play cards, Yuanjia had something to do again, and Huihui still had a lot of homework to do, so she had to catch her father who loved her the most to ask.

Yuan Yuan usually barely tutored his daughter in her homework, but after only half an hour of teaching, she felt like a cow.

"Daddy, what do you mean when your head is as big as an ox?"

"It's just very annoying, I feel like my head is bigger than a cow!"

"Is there such an animal in the zoo? My brother and I saw a lot of animals yesterday! And the monkeys, who are very smart, and they can peel peanuts and eat them. ”

"Humans evolved from monkeys. ”

Yuan Yuan took the opportunity to tell her about the theory of evolution, which still has many omissions that cannot be explained, but it is still very suitable for children to understand it.

Seeing Yuan Hui nodding again and again, with a stunned look, Yuan Yuan felt the pride of being an old father.

"Daddy, which zoo did we live in?"

“？？？”

At nine o'clock, Yuan Jiayue's courier arrived, and seeing that the father and daughter were studying seriously, he quietly avoided Huihui and took out the worry relief bear and the sleeping pillow.

The same city express is sent directly, which is equivalent to an errand service, and the volume of things is relatively large, and it costs a hundred yuan.

Yuan Jia: "I'll send it to you, it will take about two hours to receive it, it's a pillow and a bear." ”

Gardenia: "Mmmmmmmmmm

Xu Nanyu decorated the painting of the little raccoon and asked Bai Yan to arrange for someone to give it to Yuanjia.

Bai Yan was a little curious, and asked her, "Who is Yuanjia?"

"That's it...... A classmate from high school ......"

Xu Nanyu's face was a little red, if she dared to send the courier by herself, in the face of her mother's curiosity, she had to say: "I have chatted with him recently, he is a very good friend......

Bai Yan was naturally very happy to hear this, this is a very good start.

So Bai Yan asked the driver at home to send it to Yuanjia, and told the driver to help see what was going on with the other party.

But it won't be too bad to think about, after all, she has also seen Gardenia's performance in the past two days, and to a large extent, she has been encouraged by her classmate.

Not long after Yuan Jiacai sent the things out, the doorbell rang, and Huihui ran to open the door as soon as possible.

It was a middle-aged man dressed very formally, with a reliable appearance, and a sealed letter bag in his hand.

Yuan Yuan also walked over and said curiously: "Hello, who are you looking for?"

"Hello, I'm delivering a letter, here is a letter from Mr. Yuanjia, is he at home now?" the middle-aged man was very polite.

Yuan Yuan was stunned, it seems that express delivery is not easy to do these days, and the courier has to send the letter so officially?

"Jia, there's your letter!" Yuan Yuan shouted into the room.

Yuan Jia walked out, and when he saw the middle-aged man, he simply looked at him, he was dressed very neatly and neatly, and his manners were in place.

Yuan Jianeng guessed that Xu Nanyi's family was very rich, so it was natural and reasonable to let the driver deliver the letter, and the family's private driver would usually take care of some housework, such as going out to buy groceries, buying daily necessities, and running errands.

The middle-aged man was also looking at Yuan Jia, as the private driver of the rich family, he was very good at observing people.

The young man in front of him gave him the feeling that he was calm, unhurried, and his eyes were also very calm, and he had a particularly comfortable feeling.

"Hello, I'm Yuanjia. ”

"Hello Mr. Yuan, my surname is Liu, and my wife entrusted me to bring you a letter. ”

Driver Liu handed the letter to Yuan Jia, Yuan Jia did not open it, looked at it briefly and said with a smile: "Excuse me." ”

"You're welcome. ”

Driver Liu left, Yuanjia also closed the door, and his father and sister gossiped and asked him what it was.

"Nothing, a letter from a friend. ”

"What a friend, it feels so magnificent. ”

"It's called solemnity. ”

Yuanjia returned to his room, closed the door, and opened the letter that Gardenia had sent him.

There was a picture of a little raccoon inside, just like he saw in the photo yesterday, the little raccoon hiding behind a big tree, carefully looking at the camera.

Yuanjia likes gardenia's paintings very much, although she is not a master, but she has a different taste when she paints.

Especially the big eyes of the Q version of the little raccoon, hiding caution and fear, and its small paws holding the trunk tightly, wanting to come out but not daring.

Yuan Jia turned on his phone and took a picture of Gardenia.

Yuan Jia: "I received the paintings, which are better than the pictures." ”

Gardenia: "Really......"

Yuanjia: "Really. ”

Xu Nanyu was very happy, looking at the time from time to time, looking forward to the gift from Yuanjia.

When Driver Liu returned to the villa, Yuanjia's express delivery also arrived, Gardenia's mobile phone popped up in the phone message box, she had already turned on the mute mode, her heart was pounding, holding her mobile phone like a hot potato, and hurriedly ran over to find Bai Yan to answer the phone.

"Mom, quick, help me answer the phone......"

......

"Oh, okay, you wait a minute, I'll come out and get it now. ”

Bai Yan returned the phone to Xu Nanyu, looked at her anxious appearance, and said with a smile: "Look at you, I'm in a hurry." ”

When I came out, I met Driver Liu, and we briefly talked for a while.

"It's a pretty good boy, good-looking, very polite, and has a calm personality. ”

Bai Yan has also asked someone to check Yuanjia's information, she is indeed a high school classmate, and now she is engaged in psychological work, and she is very good in all aspects.

Bai Yan was relieved, she couldn't blame her for being careful, she was not willing to interfere with her daughter's socialization, but because of the injury that Gardenia had suffered, Bai Yan was unwilling to happen again.

I went out to get the courier, and it was a pillow and a big stuffy bear.

When she handed over Yuanjia's gift to Xu Nanyu, Bai Yan really saw the joy on her daughter's face.

The eyes that never looked away when they fell on the gift, and the corners of the mouth rose in a beautiful arc.

Gardenia is really happy.

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