"Hello Mr. Li. Yuan Jia stepped forward to say hello to the teacher.

Teacher Li looked at the voice, his eyes widened a little, and he subconsciously straightened his clothes, and said with a smile: "Hello Yuanhui's brother, you sent Yuanhui to school again today?"

"Yes, how is Huihui at school these days?

"No, no...... Huihui is very well-behaved, but she likes to whisper in class, and she has a good time with her classmates, do you work near here?"

"Yes, help someone with counseling. ”

"You're a counselor, no wonder Huihui has such a good personality. That Yuan Hui's brother, is it convenient to add your WeChat? It's that students usually have a lot of psychological problems, and I want to ask you more about it. ”

The reason is very appropriate, and the eyes are very sincere.

Yuan Jia naturally doesn't mind, most of his customer group are students, and the probability of children's psychological problems is too high now.

Yuan Jia took out a business card from his backpack and handed it over, Mr. Li took it with both hands, looked at it seriously for a while, and then held it in his hand.

"It's almost class, then Teacher Li, I'll go to work first, Huihui will trouble you to teach. ”

"Yes, you should go and get busy first. ”

Yuan Jia squatted down and scratched Yuan Hui's face, and admonished: "Did you hear that, the teacher said that you like to whisper in class, and you are not allowed to talk secretly anymore, you know?"

Yuan Hui nodded obediently, her big eyes rolling around her bones.

Yuan Jia knew what her stupid sister was thinking, and quickly dispelled her new thoughts: "It's not okay to speak openly!

"Oh......"

Yuan Hui's little abacus was knocked over, she pouted, ignored her brother, and pulled Qiao Shanshan to the classroom.

What a headache......

Yuan Jia watched the little girl run away from each other, and then turned around and walked towards the office.

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There is no appointment from the client today, and only Yuanjia himself is in the 50-square-meter office.

After putting down the backpack, he picked up a rag and wiped the table and window, and simply swept the floor, although the location is not very good, but the hygiene still needs to be done, and the impression of the guests is very important.

The main purpose of communication between the counselor and the client is to gain the trust of the other party, trust is the premise of everything, only the client trusts him, and is willing to listen to his advice.

At nine o'clock, the installer came, Yuanjia gave him a hand, and soon the new signboard was replaced.

I know your counseling room

Counseling for emotional problems, family problems, adolescent psychological problems, neurosis counseling (depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, phobias, etc.), psychological tests and private counseling.

Appointment Tel: 188****7927

Looking at the new signboard, Yuanjia was very satisfied, how to say it, it was just a feeling that he could be trusted.

For psychological counseling firms, customers do not come in like they enter a convenience store, and they usually notice the store and make a note of the reservation number, thinking that they really need it, and then contact the door.

Therefore, even if the signboard has an effect, I am afraid that it will have to wait for two or three days.

Although the atmosphere of the market here is relatively heavy, resulting in the store is not high, but it also brings the benefit of large flow of people, and with the blessing of the effect of the golden signboard, the business will get better and better.

Yuan Jia returned to the office, the phone vibrated a little, picked it up and saw that it was a girl who added him, note: Yuan Hui's head teacher - Li Jinsi.

Yuan Jia quickly passed the other party's friend request, and then received three messages on his mobile phone.

Li Jinsi: [Photos] [Photos] [Photos]

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Hey, it's Huihui and Qiao Shanshan, who are at the same table.

The two naughty ghosts didn't seem to speak in class, but they hid their hands under the table and seemed to be stealing food......

Yuan Jia: "Haha, hello Mr. Li, what is Huihui doing?"

Li Jinsi: "These two little guys are stealing snacks, and I thought I didn't see it, haha." ”

Yuan Jia: "I'll criticize Huihui when she comes back." ”

Li Jinsi: "No, no, I just think it's fun to show you, Huihui is much more serious today, don't criticize her." ”

Yuan Jia: "Well, thank you, Mr. Li, if Huihui is not well-behaved, you can tell me." ”

At this time, Yuan Hui, who was happily stealing food, didn't realize that the evil brother had already planted clairvoyance in the school......

Li Jinsi: "Okay, I'm still in class, let's not talk about it yet." ”

Yuanjia: "......"

What should I do if the teacher likes to play with his mobile phone in class?

After putting down the phone, Yuanjia turned on the computer and logged in to the background of the WeChat subscription account.

At present, the customer drainage method of 'I understand you', in addition to this store, is the official account made by Yuanjia itself.

Yuanjia will publish some articles about mental health on the subscription account every two or three days, and under the forwarding of relatives and friends, there are currently more than 8,000 followers, and each article has about two or three hundred readings.

There are all kinds of psychological counseling questions above.

Q: 'Hello teacher, I like to take off my clothes and sleep when I sleep, otherwise I can't sleep, is this normal?'

A: Normal, it means that you are more eager for unrestrained comfort.

Q: 'I want to ask, every time I ask my male ticket to call my father, is he a little psychologically perverted?'

A: Sex is easy to reflect a person's subconscious, his desire to conquer may be stronger, maybe the usual gentle performance makes you feel a huge contrast, you can try daily life to give him more affirmation and encouragement.

Q: 'Hello teacher, I'm a little hard to talk about...... I'm a girl, but I just can't control myself, I feel so guilty, I feel so stressed......

A: First of all, you have to face up to your desires, and girls are the same, don't specialize yourself, read more freely, and relieve the pressure of life.

Q: 'My girlfriend often goes to KTV with a few boys, I don't let her go, she thinks I'm small, but I just feel uncomfortable, teacher, is it wrong for me?'

A: You can go with her, if she refuses, and the communication is fruitless, you can choose to give up the relationship, there is no right or wrong for both parties, maybe it is not suitable for each other.

Q: 'My friends like to call me sand sculptures, are they joking?' I usually have a good time, but I just feel very uncomfortable, what should I do?'

A: You can try to communicate with them in different situations, and if you are a true friend, you will respect your wishes.

Q: 'I've been unemployed for eight months, I've been getting more and more anxious lately, I feel very bored in life, I'm not motivated to do anything, teacher, am I depressed?'

A: Regular life and rest, go to bed early and get up early, don't stay in bed, go out for a walk in a sunny life, you can find a stable job transition first.

Q: 'I'm a boy, I recently bought a set of women's clothes without telling my parents, and I usually lock them in my room to wear them by myself, I feel that after changing into a dress, the whole person is very happy, teacher, am I sick?'

A: Happiness is the most rare, don't have a psychological burden, don't endanger the society and hinder others, any hobbies are okay.

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I didn't go backstage for two days, and I accumulated more than a dozen counseling messages about psychology.

As a psychological counselor, Yuanjia will not laugh at anyone's psychological problems.

Love, respect, and acceptance are the most basic qualities of becoming a counselor.

It is inevitable that there are many secrets in life that people do not want to mention to the people around them, and holding them in the mind for a long time will give rise to more problems.

It's like a girl who usually looks very cheerful and lively, until one day she suddenly committed suicide, and then people reacted, it turned out that she was hiding so much pain in her heart, and she still held on to a smile to meet every day.

Psychologists are the ones who solve psychological problems.

Even if many of the people who ask questions will not become Yuanjia's guests, Yuanjia is happy to help them answer some psychological questions.

Only people who are really powerless about their illness will come to their homes for treatment, and they are also the most helpless.

Yuanjia read every question carefully, and gave the other party a detailed reply, most of them are based on encouragement and affirmation, small problems will not affect people's normal life, but if there is burden and pressure, then mental illness will sprout and grow like a seed.

The reply to the message was received by the other party immediately, and soon Yuanjia received a lot of "thank you", "special thanks to the teacher's understanding", "Uh-huh! I understand!"

There are also some serious ones, and they will consult once or twice, but when it comes to a deeper level of diagnosis and treatment, Yuanjia can only ask the other party to come to the 'I understand you' store for consultation.

It's not that Yuan Jia deliberately didn't give a solution, but only by sitting down face-to-face and talking, he can more accurately judge this person, as well as the cause of his illness, and give an accurate treatment plan.

After replying to the Q&A, Yuanjia opened the system interface.

To his surprise, the points actually increased!

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