Passing the previous question, Yuan Jia continued to read the next letter.

"Hello Mr. Yuan, our family lives in a small city, my brother is twenty-eight years old, three years ago because of a frustration in his work, I heard that he was bullied by his colleagues, and then resigned, and then there is no employment until now. ”

"At present, I suspect that he has depression, he doesn't eat all day, he refuses to communicate, he is also suspicious, he is very irritable, and he loses his temper every day, and then he goes back to his hometown by himself, and he doesn't see anyone, we don't answer the phone, and communication is almost interrupted. ”

"Now his condition is getting worse and worse, the day before yesterday he had a big fight with his father, and he almost did it, we asked him to see a psychiatrist and didn't look at it, and now the whole family is very distressed and doesn't know how to guide him. ”

[Subject: Your brother's problem is a bit big]

[This kind of should see a doctor]

[It's scary to watch]

Yuan Jia frowned, and said: "I have read your letter, according to your description, your brother's situation may be a little more complicated than depression, given that he has great mood swings and is very prone to irritability and anger, I suspect that he may be suffering from bipolar disorder, accompanied by depressive episodes and manic episodes. ”

In other words, his condition is more serious than the general psychological disorder, and it is no longer possible to help him through verbal counseling alone. ”

"I regret this, and I also suggest that you be mentally prepared, his current situation is not something that can be solved by family communication, he is now living in his hometown to escape from the world, escaping from the present world, afraid of facing pressure, and he can't listen to any communication at all. ”

"It is recommended to give him a little more patience, he has no way to face his family now, his heart must be extremely painful, the more his family is concerned, the more it stimulates his rebellious mentality. ”

"While stabilizing his emotions, you should also contact the local psychiatrist as soon as possible, he may need medication, and you can ask the local agency to help persuade your brother to seek medical treatment. ”

That's all Yuan Jianeng can say, after all, he can't contact the patient, and the other party suffers from a very difficult bipolar disorder.

The most troublesome part of this condition is the manic episode, and the patient is not willing to cooperate with the psychiatrist at all, and even beats people when they are in a hurry.

The last time I chatted with Zhao Shiyin and them, Yuan Jia also mentioned that psychological counseling is not a panacea, especially when patients are unwilling to cooperate, and the first to collapse is often the family.

In the face of this kind of patient, Yuan Jia has no choice, if the other party is willing to cooperate with the treatment, he can also help him slowly recuperate through hypnosis, otherwise he will be beaten by compulsory treatment.

It is said that the Buddha is destined for people, and so are doctors.

In this case, the patient can only be forcibly sent to the hospital for medication, and after a period of time, the patient will be emotionally stabilized before counseling for psychological treatment.

Yuan Jia continued to read the next letter.

"Hello Mr. Yuan, I am a girl, and my growth environment is healthy, but I feel very indifferent, especially I am very indifferent to my feelings, even if I am a good relative, my feelings are also very indifferent. ”

"I've been in contact with a lot of people, they all say that I never care about others, and I don't seem to care about anything, I talked about a boyfriend before, and he said that I was too cold, and then I didn't mean to keep it when I broke up, in fact, I really liked him, but in the end I didn't say it, and my relatives also said that I was impersonal. ”

"Maybe I'm really a cold-blooded and selfish person, I want to change, but I don't know where to start, alas. ”

After reading the letter, many people in the live broadcast room said that they seemed to have this symptom as well.

[It's just that the Buddha is a little]

[Me too]

[I have never taken the initiative to contact my friends, and basically others contact me]

[I don't want to trouble others, and I don't want others to trouble me]

[I'm too tired to come and go]

Yuan Jia looked at the letter while looking at the barrage of the audience in the live broadcast room, and he began to speak.

"After reading your letter, I would like to ask you a question, or a question to my classmates in the live broadcast room who are also distressed. ”

"Why do you care so much about being a cold person, or what does that mean to you?"

[My mother said to be enthusiastic]

[To understand the world]

[If you are too cold, you will not be liked]

Everyone is talking about their own answers, all kinds of them, and it can be summed up as 'other people's opinions'

Yuan Jia said: "Then do you find that when you try to get close to others, try to be enthusiastic, try to be tactful, do you feel very uncomfortable, as if you are wearing a mask, you feel very tired." ”

[Yes] x99

"People have a thousand faces, learning to accept oneself is the most important thing, the subject's problem is that 'I want to change because of other people's opinions' but 'I am actually comfortable in this state', so there are psychological contradictions and entanglements. ”

"No one is naturally cold-blooded, we can only say that the way we express it is different from the way most people think we care and care, although we don't say it, but we actually care very much in our hearts, not cold-blooded. ”

"Maybe you will be indifferent to other people's gifts, or you may be moved to tears because of the story of the loyal dog Hachiko, this is not indifference, but the things that move you are different from others. ”

"There are always people who stay with you, become friends or lovers because you are you. ”

"So it's good to be yourself happily, it's not selfish and indifferent, it's just that everyone's attitude is different. ”

[Teacher Yuan is so comfortable to speak]

[Teacher Yuan really understands me too well]

[I see kittens abandoned in the garbage heap and they will be sad all afternoon, but I don't care much about others]

[The loyal dog Hachiko is really crying to death]

......

Two hours later, the live broadcast ended, and Yuan Jia was also relieved.

[Singing!] x999

Yuanjia: "......"

Agreed, then sing, Yuan Jia pulled the microphone closer and said, "Just now our administrator ordered a song, so now it's the turn of the list to sing...... Ah, it's still Gardenia-san, what song do you want to listen to, Gardenia-san?"

[Please ask Gardenia directly]

[So fair!]

[Hate me for not being a rich woman]

Gardenia was of course very happy, so she held her mobile phone and posted the name of the song in the live broadcast room.

Gardenia: "I want to hear the secret that can't be said~"

This song, Yuan Jia can also sing it, and he can sing Dong Chou's songs, and he often hums blindly from his seat in high school.

"The most beautiful thing is not the rainy day, but the eaves that have sheltered from the rain with you......"

Yuanjia likes this sentence the most, and Gardenia also likes this sentence the most, just looking at the lyrics, a beautiful sense of picture emerges.

After singing the song, the audience was a little unsatisfied.

Although his singing skills are not as good as professional singers, he is ...... in appearance In the psychological area, Yuan Jia is almost the best one to sing.

The key is that his breath is very stable, and his emotions are particularly devoted, his expression is in place and does not appear to be excessive, and when he sings, it seems to be telling a story, which makes people unconsciously immersed in the atmosphere of the story.

"See you tomorrow, good night everyone, remember to drink plenty of hot water and cover the small quilt. ”

......

At the end of the live broadcast, Yuan Jia checked the system's points acquisition.

It's about the same as yesterday's increase in points, and it's about 2,500 points, and if you calculate it, it seems that the number of points that can be increased by the song is less than 500 points.

After all, the healing effect that songs can play is too limited, and it is also related to different songs themselves, so you can't just have a healing effect on any song.

Counting the five hundred points added by Wang Yalin during the day, Yuanjia's current total number of points is three thousand points.

After taking a shower, Yuan Jia leaned on the head of the bed and took out his mobile phone to chat with Gardenia.

Gardenia also likes to talk to him, and if one day, she can be like other girls, wearing a little skirt, and swaying into his arms, then Gardenia will be like a bear, shrinking in the warmth and not coming out.

Thinking of a topic in tonight's live broadcast, Xu Nanyu cautiously tested: "Yuanjia, will you dislike a girl because she is very rich, in fact, she herself has no money......"

Yuanjia: "I feel like you're talking about yourself. ”

Gardenia: "I'm not...... Just ask......"

Yuanjia: "Of course not. ”

So Gardenia put her mind at ease and saw that so many people in the live broadcast room were talking about what was right, but she was scared a lot, and they all jumped out to speak.

It's early ten o'clock, and it's not yet time to go to bed, and the two of them are lying on the bed together, looking sideways at their phones, smiling.

Actually, I don't talk all the time, but as long as the chat window is open, I feel like I'm with the other person.

Yuan Jia: "I sang two songs to you, do you want to sing me a song too?"

Gardenia: "I can't sing......"

Gardenia actually felt that what Yuan Jia said made sense, and she should sing it back, so she reluctantly said: "Then I can sing a little line......

Yuanjia: "Well, I'll listen. ”

Xu Nanyu sat up on the bed with his mobile phone in his hand, thinking about which sentence to sing with a bitter face.

Yuanjia seemed to know that she was struggling, and sent a sentence: "Just sing the secret that can't be said, your favorite sentence." ”

Gardenia was not distressed, she took a glass of water and drank some water, then cleared her throat, brought the phone to her mouth, and recorded a sentence in a low voice.

'The most beautiful thing is not the rainy day, but the eaves that have sheltered from the rain with you......

Fortunately, QQ can listen to the recording first, and Gardenia will listen to it herself first, and if she doesn't sing well, she will re-record it.

After tossing and turning like this for nearly ten minutes, she nervously sent a recorded song to Yuan Jia.

Yuanjia didn't rush her, just waited quietly, he knew that Gardenia must be very nervous, but everything has a beginning, if you want to meet in the future, this step must be taken.

If she voices Gardenia now, she must be so nervous that she can't even speak, after all, she is a girl who even has to hand over the courier call to her mother to pick up.

The recording is not long, there are two sentences.

The most beautiful thing is not a rainy day, but the eaves that have escaped the rain with you-

The picture of memories, swinging, dreams are not sweet-

Very sweet.

Her voice.

It's soft, it's really like a little butterfly talking, even if the little butterfly really can't speak, but it's very accurate to describe her voice in this way.

Because of her nervousness, she was a little out of tune, but she still worked very hard to record these two lines.

Yuanjia listened to it twice, and when she was about to listen to it again, Gardenia withdrew the voice and sent a message.

Gardenia: "Hmm...... If you don't sing well, I'll sing it to you again......"

Yuan Jia: "I've listened to it all, and I'm singing very well, like a little butterfly singing." ”

Xu Nanyu's face was red, and he couldn't believe it, so he replied: "Where can the little butterfly sing......"

Yuanjia: "I like it very much anyway. ”

Gardenia: "Really?"

Yuan Jia: "Send it to me and save it." ”

Gardenia: "Don't give~"

With Yuan Jia's encouragement, Xu Nanyu was fooled into singing two more sentences, and this time it was finally saved for Yuan Jia.

The chatter between the two revolves around the little things of the day, most of the time Gardenia is talking, and then Yuanjia is listening.

Unlike chatting with others, Yuanjia has to send Gardenia a sentence of 'I'm listening' every three or two sentences, otherwise Gardenia will be cranky and wonder, 'Is he not listening, am I annoying'

Of course, Xu Nanyu can feel his gentleness, and it is precisely because of his gentle treatment that when chatting with him, he has a feeling of being protected by warmth.

Gardenia: "Yuanjia, do you think I can't continue last night's dream tonight?"

Yuanjia: "What did you dream about last night?"

Gardenia: "I won't tell you. ”

Yuan Jia: "[Suspicion]"

Yuan Jia: "Then you have to go to bed early, children who go to bed late will not be able to receive today's sweet dreams." ”

Gardenia: "Then I'm going to write a diary, good night~"

Yuan Jia: "See you tomorrow~"

......

Xu Nanyu held the mobile phone in his hand, sat on the edge of the bed and was stunned for a while, then got up and came to the desk, took out his notebook and began to record today's diary.

There was also a piece of paper in the notebook, which was a picture she had drawn today, and the content was a dream from last night.

Gardenia lay on the table, seriously and shyly recording today's mood, of course, not forgetting to write last night's dream into it.

"March 23, 2020, fine. ”

"It rained last night, and the sun is out today, and the weather has been good all day, and the watermelons have been planted smoothly. ”

"I don't know if I can continue last night's dream tonight. ”

"I dreamed that we were in a no-man's land, the chirping birds built a nest in the tree, there is a small bamboo house that belongs to us, the stars are brilliant in the summer night, bathing in the sunset at dusk, you hold me to take a nap in the bamboo house, I lean on your chest and whisper, I really like it, I like it, I like it, I like it......"

"Like a drunken wicker on the side of the road, like winter snow bathing in the sun, like a love poem in the mailbox that has not yet been opened......"

"In this dream, I have all the good things in the world. ”

"With gentleness, I also have you. ”

......

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(Another 4,000 words, this chef is so tired)