Chapter 371: The Phenomenon of Empathy
Huanhuan sat on the sofa, looking at the whirlpool in the glass in a trance, she hadn't closed her eyes yet, but she had indeed entered a state of hypnosis.
Hypnosis is not a literal entry into sleep, but rather a state that is similar to sleep but not like sleep, with the aim of allowing the hypnotist to have a dialogue with his or her subconscious.
That state is similar to people's occasional unconscious wandering minds, and the mind is completely empty.
Xiaobai discovered Huanhuan's abnormality, and he stretched out his hand to shake it in front of Huanhuan's eyes in confusion, but Huanhuan didn't notice it at all.
Shaking his index finger at him, Fernan motioned for him not to mess with him.
Xiaobai put down his hand and looked at him curiously, not understanding what he was going to do.
Huanhuan is very safe now, the surroundings are very quiet, Huanhuan can clearly hear his breathing, exhalation...... Suck...... Call...... Suck...... Every breath will make Huanhuan relax. ”
Finan's voice was low and mellow, as if it had a magnetism, and people couldn't help but believe his words.
Huanhuan heard the number of people, and with each count, Huanhuan would be more relaxed. ”
"One, Huanhuan's head relaxed. ”
Huanhuan's head drooped down.
Second, Huanhuan's hand also relaxed. ”
Huanhuan held Xiaobai's hand and slowly relaxed, but it did not completely loosen.
"Three, Huanhuan's legs relax ......"
"Fourth, Huanhuan's body relaxes ......"
Fifth, Huanhuan's whole body relaxed, and Huanhuan closed his eyes. ”
With Fernand's mellow voice, Huanhuan closed his eyes.
Xiaobai looked at her in surprise and opened her mouth wide.
Fei Nan continued to guide: "Huanhuan felt that his body was getting lighter and lighter, and he slowly floated, and now Huanhuan can go wherever he wants. Huanhuan left the house and came outside......"
Guided here, Huanhuan, who had closed his eyes, suddenly moved his arm a little nervously.
Sensing this phenomenon, Fernan paused and guided in a low voice: "Huanhuan has something to say, Huanhuan ...... say"
Huanhuan opened his mouth: "Huanhuan doesn't want to go outside." ”
This was the first time Fei Nan had heard Huanhuan's voice, soft and flexible, like the chirping of a bird, which was very good.
Fei Nan continued to guide and said softly: "Huanhuan saw a cute bird, it likes Huanhuan very much, can Huanhuan tell me what it looks like?"
Huanhuan's long eyelashes fluttered, and she whispered: "It has feathers like fire, which are very soft to the touch, its eyes are very beautiful, and Huanhuan's shadow can be seen in it, its voice is very good, its mouth is golden, and it is always smiling......"
Feinan listened as he jotted down key words on a piece of paper.
The warm and soft feathers like fire represent the embrace, the reflection in the eyes represents longing, and the mouth with a smile represents the kiss...... Fernan drew a circle and stopped.
With the description, Huanhuan gradually calmed down, and a smile began to appear on the corner of his mouth.
After she stopped describing, Fei Nan continued to guide slowly: "The little bird is Huanhuan's best friend, it will protect Huanhuan, with it, Huanhuan will be very safe, no one or anything can hurt Huanhuan." ”
After a pause, he asked, "The little bird accompanied Huanhuan outside, what did Huanhuan see?"
This time, Huanhuan was much more relaxed, she replied with a smile: "Huanhuan saw the grass, and Sister Butterfly, Brother White Rabbit, and Grandpa Big Tree, the little bird pulled Huanhuan, Huanhuan flew up!"
"Huanhuan looked up at the front, what did Huanhuan see?"
Huanhuan paused, and then trembled with fear.
"Run, run!"
She breathed heavily.
"What did Huanhuan see?" asked Feinan.
"Earth...... The earth is cracked......"
Tears welled up in the corners of her eyes: "There is fire...... Bird Run......"
Why let the birds run?
Seeing that she was not in the right state, Fei Nan immediately guided: "Huanhuan is in danger, Sister Butterfly, Brother White Rabbit came to help, pulled Huanhuan back to a safe place, and Grandpa Big Tree sewed the cracked earth with roots......"
Huanhuan shook his head, and tears slipped down in large pieces: "The bird has fallen...... The bird is dying...... What to do? What to do......"
Why did she dream about this?
There was no element to use, and seeing that Huanhuan was in pain, Fei Nan was in a hurry, so he had to continue to guide: "Huanhuan saw Uncle Liang appear, he caught the bird, and returned to Huanhuan's side with the bird, and Huanhuan and the bird were safe." ”
Hearing this, Huanhuan's trembling gradually stopped, and she gasped, tears hanging on the corners of her mouth, revealing a smile.
Frowning and shaking his head, Fei Nan guided: "Little Bird and everyone sent Huanhuan back to the house, Huanhuan said goodbye to them, and came to play with them next time." ”
Huanhuan saw the sun come out, and it was very comfortable to shine warmly on her body. ”
Huanhuan smiled happily, as comfortable as taking a pleasant hot bath.
Huanhuan heard that there were people, and when the count reached three, Huanhuan would wake up. ”
"One, two, three. ”
After Fernan counted three, Huan Huan slowly raised his head and opened his eyes in confusion.
Xiaobai was still sitting beside her, looking at her blankly, not knowing why.
She saw Fei Nan smiling on the other side, suddenly jumped off the sofa, threw herself into Fei Nan's arms, and whispered in a whimper, "Uncle Liang!"
Holding her and rubbing her head, Fei Nan comforted her and sighed helplessly.
In the end, I still have no experience, and I made a mistake in operation.
Huanhuan's sudden closeness to him is called empathy in psychoanalysis, that is, the phenomenon in which the client develops a strong emotion for the analyst, and projects his past feelings for some important person in his life onto the analyst.
Huanhuan hugged Feinan's arm tightly, unwilling to let go, like a person who had been drowning for a long time finally found a piece of driftwood.
People have feelings of attachment and dependence, which exist regardless of age, education, upbringing, or race. Sometimes, this affection can be transferred to the counselor, teacher, doctor, supervisor, etc., as compensation for the parents.
Huanhuan's transference is a positive transfer, that is, because of the lack of love during the period when she needs care, so as to transfer the affection to someone who can bring them the same behavior or feelings as the person they loved in the first place.
Fei Nan had no choice but to use his own image during the hypnosis, so that Huanhuan's subconscious mind regarded him as someone who cared for her and could empathize with her, and to a certain extent, became a protector.
This is not a bad thing, at least she has gained Huanhuan's trust and opened her defense mechanism.
But this is not a good thing, he is not Huanhuan's relative after all, because he caused Huanhuan to empathize during the hypnosis process, which will make it difficult for her to transfer her attachment to Feinan in the future treatment and guidance process.
Xiaobai was a little jealous, and also ran over and squeezed into Feinan's arms.
Picking them up and placing them on his knees, Fernan sighed helplessly.
At this point, we can only take it one step at a time.
Overall, this hypnotherapy was relatively effective, and he saw the hope of healing Huanhuan.
But Huanhuan's performance during the hypnosis process made his mood a little heavy, and according to the dreams she described, the triggers of her psychological problems were probably more complicated than he expected.