With Huihui's enthusiastic participation, the dinner appointment scheduled for tomorrow at noon was simply changed to now, and it happened to be almost time for dinner.

"Mom, you don't have to cook my meal with Huihui tonight, we'll eat outside. ”

"What are you eating outside? ”

"Just with a friend, we'll go back later, that's all. ”

He didn't dare to say that he was with Zhao Shiyin, otherwise he would have to face interrogation after returning home.

Yuan Jia hugged Huihui and got out of the car with Zhao Shiyin, who had not yet come to her senses, this area happened to be a commercial center, and there were still a lot of places to eat.

"What does Mr. Zhao usually like to eat?"

Yuan Jia looked at the restaurant where Linlang was satisfied, walked all afternoon, and now his stomach was indeed a little hungry.

"I can do it all......"

Zhao Shiyin smiled and followed Yuan Jia's right half a step behind.

Judging from her position and body movements, Yuanjia also knows that she is not a particularly assertive person, which is also the common feature of most ordinary girls.

If you ask her what she is eating tonight, she will say listen to you, and when you walk her into the noodle shop, she will pout and say she wants pizza.

So when you encounter this situation, you must ask her in a different way, just ask her: What don't you want to eat tonight? She really didn't know what she wanted to eat, but she still knew what she didn't want to eat......

"Does Mr. Zhao have any taboos?"

"Well, it's not too spicy. ”

That is, it is better not to eat spicy at all.

Yuan Jia opened Meituan, quickly eliminated nearby restaurants with spicy tastes, and then chose a Cantonese restaurant.

Su cuisine is similar to Cantonese cuisine, both are light, but a little sweeter, they are all from southern Jiangsu, and the taste will not be too bad.

After determining the restaurant, Yuan Jia took Zhao Shiyin over with him, not far away, and walked for about ten minutes.

Girls and boys have very different ways of thinking.

Usually when a boy invites a girl to dinner, he will take the initiative to determine the time and place of the meal, and if the relationship is not ordinary, he will bring his ID card, and plan whether to go for a walk or watch a movie after eating...... It's well arranged.

When a girl invites a boy to dinner, she will ask you what to eat, where to eat, how far away, how to get there, and finally check out and pay, and ask you what we should do next.

Of course, this time it was temporary, Yuan Jia took the initiative to choose restaurants and set menus, Zhao Shiyin actually enjoyed this process without using her own brains, and Yuan Jia was really good at communication, so she would not feel a little embarrassed.

Most of the guys who go on a blind date, before meeting the girl, will clean up themselves, and then think about the topics that the other party may be interested in, and then prepare a few travel plans.

Counting Zhao Shiyin, Yuan Jia has been arranged to go on a blind date three times, and it is not unfamiliar with this, after all, the other party is not the girl he likes, he is in the spirit of going through the motions, ending this blind date naturally and harmoniously, and if he can, he can make an ordinary friend.

Maybe it's because I'm too good, my mother asked the introducer several times about the reaction of the girls over there, and they all said that they were very satisfied with him, but Yuanjia didn't have that kind of idea about other girls, which really made Yang Hemei angry to death.

"Teacher Zhao, order. Yuan Jia took the menu from the waiter and put it in front of Zhao Shiyin.

The three of them sat at a rectangular table, Yuan Jia and Zhao Shiyin sat opposite each other, and Huihui sat with Yuan Jia, sitting in the middle position, her calves were not long enough to reach the ground, so she hung in the air and swayed~

"You can order it, I like the dishes you mentioned before. ”

Zhao Shiyin gave him the menu again, and Yuan Jia began to order, chose a nourishing soup suitable for girls, recalled the content of the food photos that appeared in her circle of friends, and ordered two dishes that she would probably like to eat.

Not for her, but for her.

"Huihui, what do you want to eat?"

"I want to eat this pig's trotters, and this little cake, and this ribs!"

Zhao Shiyin likes children very much, Huihui is pink, super cute, and has two missing front teeth, which looks very fun.

"Huihui, what grade are you in this year?"

"It's first grade!"

"Did you see a lot of critters at the zoo today?"

"That's a lot! Big stupid elephants have such big ......."

Yuan Hui stretched out her arms hard, gesturing at how big the stupid elephant was, making Zhao Shiyin giggle.

The three of them chatted, and soon the dishes were ready, four dishes and one soup with a small dessert.

Yuan Hui began to bury her head in eating, she couldn't gnaw on the pig's trotters, so Yuan Jia tore off the meat little by little and gave it to her.

It is said that gentle boys are the most popular among girls, looking at Yuan Jia and Yuan Hui, Zhao Shiyin feels that he is very gentle, if he also has a baby in the future, he must also be a very good father.

When eating, Zhao Shiyin still pays attention to her image, eats slowly and methodically, and the dishes ordered by Yuan Jia are just right for her taste.

The two tacitly did not mention the blind date, and ate and chatted like ordinary friends.

It's just that Yuan Jia's thoughts may be different from hers, after all, this meal will have to be eaten sooner or later, and some hints still have to be given to her.

"Being a class teacher is very busy, in addition to daily classes, I also have to deal with all kinds of notification work and all kinds of information statistics...... I need to summarize and report every week, and sometimes I have to participate in the training in the city education on weekends, mainly when some students are disobedient, it is quite a headache......"

Zhao Shiyin said, "But sometimes I am also touched by the students, last time I was sick, and the students in the class specially brought fruit to the dormitory to see me, I felt very relieved." ”

Yuan Jia nodded in understanding, and the conversation between the two was basically about work, which was also the direction of the conversation that Yuan Jia deliberately oriented.

"Doctor Yuan, thank you very much for Liu Yuan's matter, she sent me a message today, saying that I don't have to worry about her, and she will come back to class next Wednesday. ”

"That's good. ”

Zhao Shiyin was going to ask Yuanjia about it.

"Doctor Yuan, what do you think about puppy love? I found out that some classmates in the class had this situation, but I didn't know how to deal with it. ”

"Like ......?"

"Just two weeks ago, I was supposed to take a break, and a girl in the class called me, and she talked to me for a long time, mostly around a boy in the class. ”

Yuanjia put down his chopsticks and listened to her quietly.

"She said, do you know the teacher, Zhuang Zhiren is very good, and he usually cares about his classmates, every time he leaves the classroom at the latest, responsible for closing the windows and doors, and wiping the blackboard, but he is too honest, there are classmates in the class who bully him, after a night of self-study, Zhuang Zhi quarreled with them, and he also moved......"

I didn't know about it at all, so I asked her for details, and I was very angry at the time, and told her that I would deal with it tomorrow. ”

"But she said, teacher, can you not talk about their fight, Zhuang Zhi doesn't want this matter to be known by the teacher, if you mention it, Teacher, Zhuang Zhi will know that I told you......"

"I asked her, what should the teacher do?"

She said that she didn't know, she didn't want things to be turned over, and she didn't want those people to continue to bully Zhuang Zhi, so she was very annoyed. ”

She spoke softly, talking about Zhuang Zhi over and over again, and said a lot of things, and even I didn't know what to do with it later, after all, it was a thing of the past, so I suppressed it for the time being. ”

"Later, I learned from another girl in her dormitory that she had always had a crush on Zhuang Zhi, but Zhuang Zhi didn't know it. ”

After Zhao Shiyin finished speaking, she sighed and said helplessly: "Doctor Yuan, am I talking a little messy, that is, I not only don't know these things between them, but I don't know how to do it if I know it." ”

Yuan Jia basically knew the ins and outs of the matter, he picked up the teapot and poured a cup of tea for Zhao Shiyin, and said with a smile: "Actually, it's nothing, you can pretend that you don't know about this matter and be an observer." ”

"But I'm a teacher......"

"Have you read the book 'The Catcher in the Rye'?"

"I've seen it. ”

"Holden's dream was to be a catcher in the crop, watching over the children who ran wildly, and only when they ran off the cliff did Holden catch them and keep them from harm. ”

Yuan Jia continued: "In many cases, the teacher is not a gardener who restricts the growth of a sapling with rules, but more often an observer. ”

"Observer?"

Zhao Shiyin didn't quite understand, this seemed to be a little different from what she had always thought of as a teacher's duties.

"When students have never crossed the line, you, as an observer, can tolerate their little secrets, understand their small mistakes, and be proud of their success and kindness, and do not need to be involved in everything. ”

Listening to Yuan Jia's words, Zhao Shiyin fell into thought.

What Yuan Jia said did make sense, just like the incident she just said, because she didn't know how to deal with it at the time, so she temporarily pressed it, and this was already the best result.

The conflict between Zhuang Zhi and those classmates did not appear again, and the girl also poured out her troubles, and she and Zhuang Zhi still got along in the way she wanted......

What if Zhao Shiyin had dealt with this matter at that time?

Maybe those classmates who made mistakes will be punished, but for Zhuang Zhi, or the girl who confides in her, it may not be the best result.

"Doctor Yuan, what if, what if, how can I convince him to change his mind?"

"You know, a lot of times when I receive visitors, they will tell me all kinds of opinions, some of them are biased and some are immature"

"But I never wanted to change their perspective, I just taught them a new way of thinking about problems, and they slowly summed up their own mature ideas about the world in the process. ”

Only then will they not be reluctant to let you see your true heart, and both you and them will benefit from it. ”

Seeing that Zhao Shiyin was thinking, Yuan Jia didn't bother her.

"I'll go to the bathroom, Huihui don't run around here. ”

"Ji Zhi Na ......"

Yuan Jia went to the front desk to settle the account, after all, he brought a small rice bucket over, and he was still embarrassed to let Zhao Shiyin treat him.

It's past seven o'clock, and it's almost time to go back.

The phone vibrated a little, and it was a prompt tone of QQ's 'special concern'.

Gardenia: "Yuanjia, what are you doing?"

Yuan Jia: "You're having dinner with your buddies, how about you?"

Gardenia: "I'm already full, and then I also drew the photo you sent me to show today, just noodles~"

Gardenia: "[Image]"

Yuan Jia clicked on it and saw that it was a Q version of a little raccoon, hiding behind a big tree with big eyes open and looking at something curiously.

He flipped through the original photos again, and sure enough, in a group of little raccoons, he found this little raccoon hiding behind a big tree, but he didn't expect Gardenia to notice this inconspicuous little guy.

Yuanjia: "It's so cute, what is it looking at?"

Gardenia: "You. ”

......

Yuan Jia took his mobile phone and walked back while typing and chatting, Gardenia's paintings are not realistic styles, like distant mountains and clouds in the morning, and the crisp noodles just painted, all of which are cute and lovely.

She has never learned to paint, she thinks about it by herself, but when she paints it, she has a different taste, as if she has painted her own mood in it.

When I returned to my seat, I saw Zhao Shiyin talking to the waiter.

"Miss, your table has already been settled......"

Yuan Hui also wiped her hands and mouth, probably Zhao Shiyin helped her wipe it.

"Brother, did you fall into the toilet, why did it take so long!"

Zhao Shiyin seemed to have noticed Yuan Jia's eyes looking at the messages on his mobile phone, so gentle, with a smile on the corner of his mouth......

Big things are not good - Zhao Shiyin

Leaving the restaurant, Yuan Jia took Huihui by the hand and prepared to say goodbye and go home.

"Is Dr. Yuan still live tonight?"

"Let's open it, but it may be a little later, Mr. Zhao remembers to support it." ”

"Definitely, listening to your live analysis, you can also learn a lot. Originally, I wanted to invite you to dinner, but I still didn't get it, so I'll invite you again next time, right?"

"It's okay, we're all friends, and there will be many opportunities to eat together in the future. ”

Zhao Shiyin is not stupid, and she has rejected many blind dates, some euphemistically and some directly.

She could hear that there was something in Yuan Jia's words, but she didn't expect that she would ...... today

was rejected so gently......

If she was a blind date, she would probably accept it calmly, but she always felt a pity at this time......

Because Yuanjia is really good, he has never experienced a comfortable relationship with him.

She thinks that the two of them should have a good heart, after all, there are so many topics and they can talk about each other, but why doesn't Yuanjia seem to show any meaning other than friends......

Zhao Shiyin was a little speechless and stopped, for two people who were originally blind dates, they met and had dinner, if they didn't ask about some key things, then they would probably have no chance to talk about feelings or anything.

"Doctor Yuan...... What kind of girls do you like?"

Hearing the sound, Yuan Jia looked back at her, and the girl's face was slightly red under the neon light.

It's the first time I've asked a boy such a question in person.

Actually, Zhao Shiyin is quite good, the kind of daughter-in-law that parents like.

But the points that Yuan Caneng can get are not these......

"Girls...... Didn't you say it last night. ”

Yuan Jia smiled jokingly and did not answer positively.

Zhao Shiyin couldn't figure out what he thought, but she just asked it out, and she didn't mind asking more.

"Does Dr. Yuan have someone you like now?"

Yuan Jia was silent for a while, all along, there is probably only one girl who can really touch his heart and want to protect......

The more intense that feeling became after experiencing the past she had experienced.

Do you like it? I'm not sure yet, but it must be special.

So he covered Huihui's ears and whispered, "Yes." ”

Huihui twisted and twisted, and hammered her brother's knee with a small fist: "Why are you covering my ears!"

Zhao Shiyin was stunned, but after a short period of loss, she was exchanged for greater relief.

Sure enough, it's even happier to be single, but fortunately, I haven't liked him yet!

It's easy, it's relaxing, and you don't have to worry about it all day......

"If you can like Teacher Yuan, then she must be very good, right?" Zhao Shiyin said curiously.

"Maybe not great, but she's definitely the hardest worker. ”

Yuan Jia smiled softly.

Zhao Shiyin may be able to meet other boys she likes, but Gardenia is different.

Gardenia is the only one left.

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(4,400 words of big chapter, oh, if you don't vote, I'm going to cry, I'm going to cry, I'm sad and crying, my heart is like a knife!)