Chapter 222: Be a humble person
And Heng Zhi also heard the news, and the whole person was stunned, and even the skin jelly next to him didn't pinch, and fell on the table.
Mrs. Wen felt a little wrong after seeing it, so she gently put down the dishes and chopsticks, carefully looked at Heng Zhi's stunned expression, and thought about what was going on with the other party?
"What's the matter? Is it that the food here is not to your liking? Why does this expression still think about business again? Could it be that we have been eating for too long? Is it delaying your business?"
Mrs. Wen spoke slowly, with a hint of temptation, and Heng Zhi quickly shook her head after hearing it, and said with a smile.
"No, no, no...... Mother, I just thought that we should go to Zhenbao Zhai after dinner to have a look, today is the time for the new products on Zhenbao Zhai, and those famous ladies will definitely send some Guan-style or personally to Zhenbao, in the selection of those jewelry.
Do you remember the last time Mrs. Yong'an Hou, the last time he brought that ruby colorful head and haute couture clothes?
That guy took a lot of effort to grab it, after all, most of our new products are high-priced discounts, and they are generally not valuable......
And I heard that he repainted his makeup, changed his dressing style, and after dressing up, he had a young and gorgeous appearance?
After seeing this Yong'an Hou, who had been spending time outside, he couldn't help but praise it, and the two of them were intimate for a while. ”
Heng Zhi casually picked up some lace news that everyone in the market knows, and hurriedly diverted her attention, thinking that she must not let the other party know that the frost county lord next door is it!
"Oh, really, I just vaguely heard that there is a noble lady who spent a lot of money to order a set of skin care products that can make people look radiant again, and made a set of beauty methods, and as a result, she won the love of her husband and won the new favorite......
As a result, the person I didn't expect was Yong'an and Mrs., he has always been very arrogant, and he has always been dignified as a woman, but he didn't expect to dress up himself, and he was a person!"
Some time ago, Mrs. Wen accompanied Mrs. Wen to the Jade Dragon Temple to make a vow, and she practiced penance for half a month, so I really don't know whether some of this information is true or false.
"I was quite puzzled at the time, I never thought that this woman was dressed up, and I always thought that she was dressed like this for men.
After all, our slogan is to please ourselves, so if we dress up beautifully, we will be happier if we dress up beautifully, and in this way, our spiritual level will be richer. ”
Heng Zhi took a breath lightly, smiled and took a sip of fruit wine, and then slowly suppressed the impatience in her heart, thinking that Mrs. Wen could divert her attention and stop paying attention to herself, just distracted.
Just after hearing that Su Rou was pregnant with a dragon and phoenix fetus, Heng Zhi was really stunned for a moment, this is the dragon and phoenix fetus that the protagonist's aura only has!
So Heng Zhi is really curious now, is the child in Su Rou's belly Gu Ziche?
I was quite sure before, after all, no matter what, Gu Ziche is the son of this luck after all, and he has not been betrayed, this precedent.
But this Su Rou can be pregnant with a dragon and phoenix fetus, who is the child in this belly?
"Yes, yes, but this woman has always regarded her husband as the sky, and she uses red devil eggs in this world, and it would be a pity if they couldn't change such thoughts all of a sudden.
But daughter, we have to have a humble heart and a humble heart, we don't have to be very proud of our advanced ideas, and we don't have to feel superior to their backward ideas, we have to look at them with a tolerant mind.
After all, why should women be embarrassed by women? We are all women born in the world, and we should help each other when we encounter difficulties, and we should not feel that we are smarter than him and will choose and feel superior. ”
Mrs. Wen lowered her head for a moment, her expression changed, and with a very serious and generous smile, she slowly said this truth, which made Heng Zhi feel very shocked, and felt that it was a matter among lovers.
Yes, the reason why I am smarter and more fickle than them is that I live in a world where everyone is equal, but they are in this level of ancient times.
If these women lived in my time, they didn't have to be much worse than me, after all, they also learned some piano, chess, calligraphy and painting in this era, and also knew some principles of literacy, female red needlework, and would also deal with the housekeeper and so on.
If they had received nine years of compulsory education since childhood, and had accepted such advanced concepts of equality for all, then the decisions they made and the career that came out of them would certainly not be worse than mine.
After hearing Mrs. Wen's words, Heng Zhi seemed to be touched, the whole person thought slowly, and slowly told herself in her heart, thinking that after she came to this ancient time, she found that the ancient times were indeed very feudal, but although these women's thoughts were rotten, they were full of hope, and they were also thinking that they were really living their own lives, and they should not be superior in their hearts because they had accepted advanced ideas, and they should be proud to despise others!
This kind of thinking is very arrogant, and very rude to one's own personality is a very disrespectful, disrespectful performance, and it is also an insult to others!
And what is rare is that Mrs. Wen did not say it directly after she noticed it, or reprimanded herself for being gentle and virtuous like an ordinary woman, but still taught herself slowly in her own way of ease, and guided herself to the right path.
Therefore, Heng Zhi also feels that there is still a lot of things to learn, and the wisdom of the people around her is not much worse than her own.
Therefore, we must always maintain a curious and inquisitive and humble heart, so that we can stand in the world for a long time, and not be too conceited, often make mistakes, and drive ourselves into a dead end.
If you are blindly complacent, a glass of water has been poured full, you think you are full, you think you are full, you think you are full of a lot, then compared with the big rivers and seas, but so little, then what is the difference between it and the frog at the bottom of the well?
So Heng Zhi secretly warned herself in her heart not to be affected by this kind of complacency, and to be a humble person.