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There are three kinds of origins in this dynasty, lowly nationality, slave nationality, and good nationality.
Cheap people refer to those who are in the lower ninth rank, such as prostitutes, actors, etc., and this kind of person can be regarded as unable to leave the country.
Slavery refers to the servants, who have signed a deed of sale, and that is slavery. The difference is that the slave can become a good person, and they redeem the deed of sale.
The last kind of good nationality is a bit complicated, like the ordinary people who are liberated by their families belong to the good nationality, and if you want to subdivide it, it can be divided into commercial and official registration. But the two are not very different in many ways. At the very least, they all belong to the liberated common people.
Suffice it to say that if a good person's life is transformed into a slave, it is a difficult thing for someone to take over. Especially from a good family, he enjoyed prosperity when he was young.
"He agreed?"
Han Ziye was stunned for a moment, and laughed casually: "I didn't ask." ”
The corners of Liu Dong'er's mouth also showed a hint of a smile, yes, she really said something stupid. When the second master of the Liu family decided to come down, would he still think about Brother Xiang'er's opinion? As for Brother Xiang'er's daughter-in-law...... I'm afraid that they haven't been taken seriously by them at the end of the day, right?
This is a kind of sorrow for them, but it is a very feminine result for Liu Dong'er.
"I have only one request. Liu Dong'er spoke with a serious face: "In this life and contemporary times, I don't want to meet them again, of course, including Brother Tai." We never want to see them. ”
Han Ziye smiled lightly and nodded, he didn't report to Liu Dong'er, Brother Xiang and his wife were directly sold to him by the second master of the Liu family, and he was handed over to a familiar friend. My friend was working in Rongxing, and in two months, he was going to send some capital criminals to the border.
Banishing for 3,000 miles is really not a joke.
What's more, even if Brother Xiang and his wife can be lucky enough to live to the border, then what awaits them is a dark slave life.
Hopefully, they can stay up longer.
"Rest assured, this will never happen again. By the way, I inquired about something meaningful the other day, would you like to hear it?"
Liu Dong'er didn't know why he changed the topic, she really didn't want to talk about Brother Xiang anymore: "Huh?"
"Before we left the capital last time to go to Luzhou City, didn't we fight with our fellow clans and a team in a row? Speaking of which, my grandmother is really good at picking days. Her passing not only allowed me to avoid the matter of taking the heir, but also made me really disjointed. "What do you mean by that, haven't they all already left?" Han Ziye showed a shining smile, but that smile carried the meaning of sitting back and not helping: "Those female dependents are penniless, and they were dismissed by their clansmen, and at that time, they were still thinking, we will not die without help." What's more, I am an official, and I have watched my relatives starve to death and freeze to death, and this reputation is not good. Hawkers, no one thought that we would leave the capital to go to Luzhou City for funeral, so ...... And they were out of luck. ”
Liu Dong'er has never been an oversympathetic person, and if it is a weak person who has nothing to do with her, such as the widows and orphans of Ci'an Church, she will still sympathize with her. But as for the person who has already been ruthlessly blamed on her, to be honest, she has not taken revenge directly, which is already a kindness.
"Hehe, Dong'er, guess how I got this information?"
Slightly stunned, Liu Dong'er also knew that with the nature of Han Ziye, coupled with the fact that it had been so long, they were all out of filial piety, and they really wouldn't make a special trip to investigate these things, although it would not be difficult to investigate.
Just as he was about to shake his head and say that he didn't know, a thought came to Liu Dong'er's mind: "Ci'an Hall?"
At this moment, Han Ziye was really impressed by Liu Dong'er.
"That's right, it's Ci'an Church. The last time you asked me to donate some money to them, I called a little guy to inquire a little. In addition to finding out how polite all the members of the Tzu An Tang were, they learned this information by accident, and not all of those female relatives entered the Tzu An Tang, and I heard that there were several who did not survive that winter. Later, several people passed away that year, and it is estimated that those three or five people remained in Ci'an Hall at this time. ”
"Do they know you're investigating them?"
Han Ziye shook his head slightly: "Don't worry, I didn't come forward at all, they won't know about it." Moreover, I only listened to it as a small joke and never wanted to be involved in it again. ”
This is the nature of Han Ziye.
Liu Donger nodded most satisfied, the longer they have been married, the greater the impact on both parties. Before you know it, the two are of the same nature, and at this time they are almost the same.
Whether it's the same clan or one, it's all something that has nothing to do with the Han family. And because Tai Ge'er was frightened again before, although he was happy with the official school and the palace, he was no longer willing to go to Liu's house. Even when visiting relatives and friends, he refused to go. If Brother Tai made a fuss, Liu Dong'er would still reason with her, but Brother Tai would only look at her in shock, or it would be inconvenient to cry heartbreakingly, and in desperation, Liu Dong'er had to choose a compromise.
Because of this, they didn't go to Gu's house later, but Han Xi took Brother Pan'er back to his parents' house. Han Xi's youngest daughter was too young, and she was still raised by the Gu family's wife at this time, so she didn't bring it with her.
Brother Pan is very popular in the Han family, and the person who has the most porridge Pan Brother is Brother Hao, and the children are all porridge and play with people who are close to their age.
Han Xi returned to her parents' house this time, except for visiting Brother Tai, there was one thing.
"It's ......"
Taking the post in Han Xi's hand in surprise, Liu Dong'er glanced at it, but her face was even more surprised.
Han Xi was a little unbeautiful: "Sister-in-law, you can help, I don't want to be successful, but ...... Will it be entrusted to Mrs. Liu?"
This is a Geng post.
Liu Dong'er was a little funny on her face, as early as last year, she told Liu Zhang's that after the beginning of spring, she would help Brother Rui to see the marriage. But no one would have thought that something had happened to Brother Tai, and naturally, Brother Rui'er's marriage was left behind by Liu Dong'er. And it just so happened that the Liu family was the same, because Brother Xiang and his wife often made trouble at that time, and this matter was temporarily delayed.
Now that Brother Tai is back, the Liu family is no longer troubled, but it is indeed time to think about Brother Rui'er's marriage.
If this is a lady's family, they usually see each other first at the age of twelve or thirteen, and it is time to get married. Like some women in the capital, they even married at the age of twelve or thirteen.
But the buddies are different, fifteen or sixteen years old is not engaged is common, seventeen or eighteen years old should be the first to look at each other, and the latest is generally twenty years old. If you are not engaged at the age of twenty, it will be criticized.
Brother Rui and Lei'er are dragon and phoenix legs, Lei'er got married the year before last, and had a son last year. Brother Rui should also think about his life's events first.
"Okay, I've accepted this post. Just slightly stunned, Liu Dong'er quickly took the post.
Han Xi really doesn't know, this Liu family and the Han family are really different. In the Han family, Han Xi saw that the major affairs about the Han family had no impact, and even the old lady of the Han family, who loved Han Xi the most, would not let Han Xi ask about the birth of the heir. But the Liu family is different, the second master of the Liu family has always only cared about major matters, like some things in the back house, he will ask at most later, but he will not join all of them halfway. But Liu Zhang's is very concerned about Liu Donger's opinion.
"Great, I know that my sister-in-law loves me, and that lady is really good, I dared to take the post after reading it before. When Han Xi laughed, his eyes would subconsciously squint, and he didn't look very bright, but there was a feeling that people were like the east wind.
Vaguely, Liu Dong'er felt that Han Xi's temperament was becoming more and more like Lei'er.
"Xi'er, sister-in-law asked you something, who have you been hanging out with lately?"
"Mix?" Han Xi was dumbfounded.
Liu Dong'er snickered: "It's Lei'er, right? After returning to the capital, you are often in contact?"
"Yes, I don't have many friends in the capital, and many of them ignore me after we return to the capital. Only Lei'er is the most woman, I often go to play with her, and she often comes to the Gu family to accompany me. ”
The old lady of the Han family, who was holding Brother Pan on the side and listening quietly to Liu Dong'er and Han Xi, raised her eyebrows at this time. It seems that there are some things she did right, letting her cowardly daughter have a good relationship with her slightly strong daughter-in-law, not only can her daughter finally have a background, but it seems that even the nature of her daughter has changed a little at this time.
Liu Dong'er's sister-in-law, Lei'er, the old lady of the Han family has seen it more than once. To tell the truth, Lei'er is not the kind of girl that the old lady of the Han family is porridge, her nature is too out-of-the-box, and she is idle, as if she is full of energy every day, and even unintentionally does something not very polite.
It was because of Lei'er's nature that after summarizing it with Han Xi, it made Han Xi also open-minded. And it's not polite...... Thinking that Gu Industry is still in the filial piety period, people who are generally more sophisticated will be spared from interacting with the Gu family. And Lei'er obviously doesn't care about this kind of thing, and even Lei'er's husband's family doesn't seem to care very much.
The old lady of the Han family would not have thought that this old lady of the Zhang family stood up in the business of Europe and the United States, and he had been in Europe and the United States for almost 20 years. Many polite habits have also been lost by him in the past twenty years. Even if he knows all kinds of secrets in the filial piety period, he won't care too much.
Really, thinking about the Han family's filial piety, they knew that Lei'er could often run to the Han family, and she really didn't hide these things.
People of this nature will live more happily and happily, right?
"Xi'er, can you tell me which good lady is giving to your sister-in-law?
Han Xi turned his head and smiled at the old lady of the Han family, not pretentious, and said crisply: "It's the lady of the Tang family in the south of the city, the old man of the Tang family is the squire of the military department, and the old lady of the Tang family is the secretary of the military department, and he has passed away in the early years." As for the lady of the Tang family, she is the eldest daughter of the family, fourteen years old, good-looking, and I look very good. ”
Liu Dong'er listened quietly, and at the same time looked at the post in his hand casually.
What is written on this post is similar to what Han Xi said, at most it is more detailed, but Liu Donger also knows that these things can't explain anything. Just like when Brother Xiang married his daughter-in-law, Yue Lao also said that it was very good, and the people of the Liu family thought it was okay after discussion, and then the marriage was finalized. But later on those things, Liu Donger felt that she had nothing to do with Brother Xiang'er's daughter-in-law.
The marriage is related to Brother Rui'er's life, about Brother Xiang'er, Liu Dong'er can not care about it, but about Brother Rui'er, she must look at it carefully.
Over there, the old lady of the Han family was most pleased when she saw Han Xi replying to a long list of words, and she hurriedly spoke to tease her: "Oh? You have already helped to see each other? Then tell me what kind of person that lady is." This appearance is secondary, and it won't be ugly. This recipient wants to marry a virtuous person, but the nature of his character cannot be careless. ”
Han Xi is naturally clear about this truth.
"Of course. The lady was very vivid and sharp-toothed, and I heard that when she was at home, because her mother's body was not very good, she also helped the housekeeper, and she had a young brother, and I heard that she also took care of it. ”
Liu Dong'er and the old lady of the Han family glanced at each other, with the nature of Han Xi, what she said naturally would not be false, but Han Xi has a characteristic, she has a different mind from ordinary people, and often regards the other party's disadvantages as a benefit.
The old lady of the Han family was a little helpless on her face, it seemed that Han Xi's nature should be changed slowly. Like Lei'er, don't look at her usual big grin, as if she has a heartless demeanor, but Lei'er is very measured in both doing things and speaking, even if she does something impolite, she is below the tolerance line of others, which will only make people think that she is naughty, but will not think that she is excessive.
Liu Dong'er spoke awkwardly and asked, "Xi'er, tell me, how many people are in the Tang family?"
"It's the old lady of the Tang family, and there is the lady of the Tang family and her younger brother. ”
"How old is the difference between Ms. Tang and her younger brother?"
This question was asked to Han Xi, and she hesitated for a moment before she spoke: "Ms. Tang is fourteen years old, and I saw her younger brother last time...... It's a little younger than my brother. Liu Dong'er smiled and looked at the old lady of the Han family: "Mother, what do you think?" The old lady of the Han family shook her head with a wry smile: "Xi'er, you haven't experienced anything, and you can't even see through this little question." ”
The old lady of the Han family was too restful again, looking at Brother Pan in her arms, she decided to teach Han Xi a good lesson. In the future, I will look forward to my brother's marriage, and Han Xi, my mother-in-law, will see each other.
"Xi'er, let me give you an easy answer......
For the daughter's marriage, I usually find a family with a relatively easy population, so that my daughter will not face too many people and things at once after she gets married in the future. But it is the opposite for the son to look at the marriage, the daughter can raise more innocent, but the daughter-in-law will become the head of the house in the future, if it is too innocent and innocent, then how can it be good?
Especially, the eldest daughter-in-law.
In a situation like the Tang family, let's not talk about anything else, just looking at the age gap between the two children, you can know that there are doubts.
Ms. Tang is already fourteen years old, and her younger brother is younger than Brother Pan, even less than a year old. The eldest daughter and the youngest son will have a thirteen-year difference. Who said that such a situation is common in some people's homes, but the question is that those families do not only have two children.
For example, Liu Dong'er is only in her twenties, and if she has another child ten years later, then the gap between her and Zongzi will be sixteen or seventeen years old. This is not unusual, because she is not idle in the middle, not to mention that she has a grandson.
"Xi'er, there is only one possibility in the Tang family's situation. After Mrs. Tang gave birth to her eldest daughter, her body collapsed. It wasn't until more than ten years later that he raised his body and regenerated his young son at this time. But obviously, according to your words, after Mrs. Tang gave birth to her young son, her body bones became even worse. And generally daughters are like mothers, when the mother's body is not good, the daughter's will not be strong. ”
The old lady of the Han family and Han Xi are very feminine examples.
"......" Han Xi opened her mouth, as if she wanted to say something, but she was not very good at words, and she was stunned for a while.
"There is a question, Xi'er, do you see it? The Tang family has no heirs. ”
At this moment, Han Xi thought of words: "Isn't that the best? Our family doesn't have any heirs, like the Gu family." ”
Shaking her head gently, the old lady of the Han family emphasized one thing to her again: "The scale of marrying a daughter and receiving a room has always been unusual. Let's put it this way, my porridge and my daughter married into a family that has never had an heir, just so that she can live more comfortably far away. But I want my daughter-in-law to come from a family with a child, whether it is a brother or sister or a brother or sister, I want her to have many brothers and sisters. ”
Han Xi's eyes widened, and he subconsciously looked at Liu Dong'er, but he noticed that Liu Dong'er's face was as usual, and he smiled at her: "Why is this?"
The old lady of the Han family didn't speak, but Liu Dong'er picked up: "It's normal, the son is like a father, and the daughter is like a mother." Your father-in-law does not have an heir, so Xi'er and your lover will generally not accept concubines for sex. And like me, I have Liu Man'er and a cousin, which means that my mother can take over the concubine's house, and she can also take over the concubine's descendants. If I had married and had nothing to do, and I might only have a daughter, then I would have taken the initiative to take a concubine for my beloved, just like my mother. ”
“............”
"It is better to be a concubine than a concubine, there is no doubt about this, if she is a wife and has not given birth to a male child for many years, then for the inheritance of her family, she has the obligation to let the maid of the marriage give birth to the heir of the beloved person. Liu Dong'er paused: "In fact, my Liu Man'er is only one year younger than me, and I heard that the aunt entered the door when I went out behind my back." Of course, whether the aunt can give birth to a son or not doesn't matter about the wife. Concubinage is an attitude, not necessarily for the sake of giving birth to an heir. ”
Han Xi's whole person was stunned, the universe she had touched since she was a child was too clean, so clean that she couldn't take over a trace of darkness. Even if this is not dark for Liu Dong'er, it is not dark at all.
"Sister-in-law, do you already know your mother's thoughts?" muttered, and then Han Xi immediately covered his mouth again, with a shocked expression.
Liu Dong'er suddenly laughed: "This is the mind of most people, and it is not my mother's alone." Actually, that's what I thought, I have three little brothers. ”
“...... It's not just!"
It is indeed a very unfair thing to hope that the person who will marry his daughter in the future does not have a concubine to have a house, but he hopes that his daughter-in-law can take over the concubine to have a house.
But Liu Dong'er just smiled: "There has always been nothing just or unjust in this universe. What's more, although when marrying a daughter-in-law, there will be such thoughts, but if the daughter-in-law can give birth to a son-in-law, the mother-in-law is extremely happy. Occasionally, the concubine is just a kind of guarantee, and it really can't be compared with the concubine. ”
Liu Dong'er's meaning is very clear, if you want to not take over the concubine's room, you can really give birth to a concubine. One, two, three...... And even more, in this way, even if the mother-in-law really gives the concubine a room, as a wife, she can refuse, or directly force the concubine to take sterilization medicine.
Han Xi looked dazed, and only looked at the old lady of the Han family after a long time: "Mother, when you gave birth to your brother, didn't you ...... it?"
"Xi'er, Ziye is your elder brother and the son of the Han family, this is enough. What's more, your father and I were not in the Han family's old house in Luzhou City at that time, otherwise it wouldn't have been so easy. Besides, Xi'er, have you forgotten? Your father also had a concubine who had sex with him. ”
Hearing the words of the old lady of the Han family, Han Xi's face turned pale, and he hurriedly changed the topic: "I, I am clear." I just think...... Ms. Tang seems to be good. ”
"No one says that she is bad, but I think that Mrs. Tang seems to have a bad body, and Ms. Tang is also average? This Mrs. Tang has not been out for more than ten years, and she has not accepted a concubine for her beloved, maybe Ms. Tang will be like this in the future?" Liu Dong'er smiled lightly: "Really, like Ms. Tang, although she is the eldest daughter, she should be an only daughter for a long time, right? Such a lady is afraid that she is more pampered than a young girl." I think she is more suitable for the young son of a large family, rather than being the eldest daughter-in-law. ”
"Sister-in-law...... Alas, you're right, I just thought the lady was good-natured and didn't think that much. ”
Seeing Han Xi's pessimistic face, Liu Dong'er was also a little unbearable: "This is just my personal words, I will either accept this post, or I will give it to my mother in person, and I don't know if she will agree to me in the end." Xi'er, you also know that the only sister-in-law of the Liu family, Brother Benrui, naturally hopes that his future daughter-in-law will come from a family with a more lively heir. ”
Han Xi nodded calmly, but his brows were still furrowed, and the blankness in his eyes still existed.
stepped forward and pulled Han Xi to the side of the old lady of the Han family, and Liu Dong'er spoke again: "Xi'er, I know that you are very innocent and kind, but by chance this universe is very complicated. You have to learn to approach questions from the perspective of others, and not always feel that these things seem unjust. ”
"But it's unjust. Han Xi pouted a little childishly: "Don't you think it's unfair, sister-in-law?"
"Yes, you're right, it's not just. But this universe is unjust. Xi'er, think about it, why are some people born with a golden spoon in their mouths? Why do some people have to be underfed and clothed since they were young? Why are some people loved by the whole family, while some people are destined to live in a dark corner?"
Han Xi was speechless.
"Xi'er, your so-called injustice really doesn't matter what it is. You are the youngest daughter in the family, and you don't have too many feelings, and with the nature of Ziye, he is more loved by his parents, and he will not compete with you for anything. Like me, I have a Liu Man'er who is about the same age as me and has to compete with me in everything. Later, there were younger brothers and younger siblings. Brother Rui is the only son of my father, he can get a lot of things that I can't get, even if I know very well that I am still the eldest daughter in the family, but I have to recognize that my father and mother love Brother Rui even more. ”
The second master of the Liu family is extremely patriarchal, which is undeniable. Liu Zhang's is better than him, but Lei'er and Brother Rui'er are younger, and it is normal to pay more attention. Although Liu Dong'er said this is a bit exaggerated, it is still it.
In this way, my status in my mother's family in the past was very high. Like my brother Liu Man'er, if they dare to talk back to me, I really have the right to teach them a lesson. There is my father's concubine through the room, my father is a person who sees the concubine through the room as completely inappropriate, and occasionally I don't have to speak to my mother, they are not polite, and they may be rude to me to Leier and Brother Rui, and my father will sell them without hesitation. ”
Liu Dong'er paused, and looked at Han Xi helplessly: "With your words, isn't it even more unfair to them?"
When Han Xi left the Han family, he was suspicious.
As Liu Dong'er said, she has lived in a universe that is too innocent since she was a child, so that even if she is married at this time, many things may not be understood. Really speaking, Han Xi is already much better at this time, at least not like he is still in the boudoir, but he still can't take over many things.
Thinking of the expectant eyes of Liu Dong'er and the old lady of the Han family just now, she may have to think about it after all of them come back. There is too much injustice in this mortal world, but it is rare to conclude a thing by right or wrong. Therefore, she has to learn to stand in the shoes of her family to run for her family.
"Dong'er, you can be regarded as here, Lei'er just came yesterday, and asked what your opinion is. Hurry up, come and read these posts with your mother and your aunt. ”
Liu Dong'er walked in front of Liu Zhang and Mrs. Liu with a smile, first saluted, and then glanced at the large number of posts on the table, and casually put the posts in her hand on the table.
"This is ......" Liu Zhang was the most surprised, but Mrs. Liu was not surprised.
Brother Rui is young and promising, and he is a talent, and the way out in the future is impossible to limit. The partial-born Liu family is rich and wealthy, but the population is very easy, and the housewife is a good candidate, which is really a good candidate for a husband in the hearts of many beautiful families.
This Liu Zhang's family can be regarded as having experienced many people's marriages, but whether it was Liu Dong'er's marriage at the beginning, or Liu Man'er and Brother Xiang'er, even if Lei'er is counted, she has not experienced such a rampant Gengti attack, and now she is afraid that she can calculate the weight of Brother Rui'er in the minds of those celebrities in the capital.
To tell the truth, among the people who handed over the post, there was no high-ranking daughter. This is also normal, those noble daughters of the family don't look down on Brother Rui.
But in this way, there are many people who take a fancy to Brother Rui.
"Brother and sister, you see how popular Brother Rui is, you have to keep your eyes open and choose carefully. Mrs. Liu had a smile on her face, but there was a hint of gloom in her eyes. This Liu Zhang naturally couldn't detect it, but Liu Dong'er saw it in his eyes.
I heard the doll say that Brother Xun himself had a disease brought out of the mother's womb, and when Liu Dong'er was still in the Liu family before he was married, he had no intention of sending some supplements to Mrs. Liu's family, but the supplements for adults were different from those for children, and those supplements went into the stomach of Mrs. Liu's family, but Brother Xun ate not much.
If you are always doing this, even if you eat less, at least you are slowly taking care of your body. But since Liu Dong'er married into the Han family, even if she will go back to her parents' house, her relationship with the Liu family's big house is light.
After the Liu family separated, Liu Dong'er rarely interacted with the Liu family's big house, and even had contacts, and did not send those intimate medicinal herbs and meals anymore.
Because of this, Brother Xun'er's body bones are not as good as Lei'er and Brother Rui'er. In addition, the eldest man and the eldest wife of the Liu family are all looking forward to Jackie Chan together, this mind is normal, and it is best to understand, but they really did not think about the actual situation of Brother Xun. Brother Xun is a good child, honest and steady, but his body is too bad, under the pressure, he can't adapt to it in a different place, and it is normal to fall ill temporarily.
Liu Dong'er looked at the many Geng posts on the table, and then looked at the slightly discolorated demeanor of Mrs. Liu's family, and her heart was clear at the moment.
It is said that Brother Xun is young, but in fact, Brother Xun is already ten years old, and he should have gone to the official school at this age. Think about Brother Rui, he was admitted to Taixue when he was thirteen years old.
"Do you have any advice, auntie? You know, my mother and I don't know much about these things. Liu Dong'er smiled and called Mrs. Liu.
The eldest lady of the Liu family came back to her senses, but she smiled bitterly: "Where do I know anything? Look at your lobby sister, and then look at my concubine Liu Jun, there is something about Brother Xiang last time...... Alas, if you want to calculate it, the most reliable marriage I said may be Dong'er's you. ”
"That's not what I said, Sister Lobby is also good at this time, as for Liu Jun and Brother Xiang...... This concubine can't be on the same level as the concubine. Because all the wives present were there, Liu Dong'er was not afraid to speak out.
What's more, what she said is also the truth, and the things on the side are just that, Brother Xiang'er was really not spared, just because Liu Zhang's was in a hurry to choose a good family for Brother Rui, and he was too lazy to worry too much about Brother Xiang'er, so he randomly picked a family that looked good. To put it bluntly, this is caused by indifference, obviously in Rui Ge'er's marriage, they will definitely be extremely concerned.
Mrs. Liu glanced at Liu Dong'er, and had the heart to say something, but in the end she didn't say it. Instead, he picked up a few Geng posts that were placed next to him and put them in front of Liu Dong'er's eyes: "These three are just picked out by me and your mother, we all think it's okay, Dong'er, you can also take a look." ”
Liu Dong'er nodded, and took advantage of the fact that she also pushed the Geng post she brought to Liu Zhang's eyes: "That's okay, friends, let's take a look, let's give the inappropriate land first." As for those with good premises, let's stay for a while, and we won't be in a hurry. ”
"That's right, and we're not in a hurry. "Liu Zhang's praise is the most, this Rui brother is her own child, and the marriage is naturally careless. In addition to Geng Ti, in the future, she will have to talk to the other party's elders in person, and let the second master of the Liu family check the situation of the other party's father and brothers. If you are willing to slow down, you must not make a mistake because of your old habits.
Not to mention what Liu Zhang and Mrs. Liu looked at over there, Liu Dong'er picked up the three Geng posts given to her by Mrs. Liu.
The Liu family's general request for Brother Rui to choose a marriage is very clear to Liu Dong'er.
First of all, the other party must be the concubine of the eunuch's family, and it doesn't matter if the reason is not the eldest daughter.
This is really the best to understand, the circles of the merchant family and the official eunuch family are very different, and the ladies of the official eunuch family will have more or less a few handkerchiefs unless they are as superb as Han Xi. And those handkerchief friends will of course marry into similar families in the end, and these are all connections in the future.
Secondly, the most woman in the other party's family has more brothers and sisters, and if there are many most women, it doesn't hurt if there are concubines.
This is also what Liu Dong'er cares, usually there are many brothers and sisters in the family, which means that the children and grandchildren of the family are good, and the number of grandchildren means that the mother-in-law is in good health, and if there is a concubine, it means that at least the mother-in-law is a wide space.
In the end, I don't want the other party to be outstanding, or how thick the marriage is, just ask her to have outstanding character, and at the same time, it would be better if she had the talent of a housekeeper.
Liu Dong'er looked at the three Geng posts, and almost picked them out according to these three requests, and then thought about the stack of Geng posts she just brought, I am afraid that there are not many who finally pass. And the Tang family lady explained by Han Xi will definitely not be satisfied.
The three Geng posts are divided into: the Xu family, the Wang family, and the Tong family.
The Xu family is the second daughter, thirteen years old, with an older sister, three brothers, and two sisters.
The Wang family is the eldest daughter, twelve years old, with three younger brothers and two younger sisters, and there are no brothers and sisters in the family.
The Tong family is also the eldest daughter, but she is the only daughter in the family. She has five older brothers, two concubines, three concubines, and one younger brother.
Here, Liu Dong'er carefully considered these three Geng posts, and over there, Liu Zhang's family and Mrs. Liu Jia's eldest lady also almost sorted out the stack of Geng posts that Liu Dong'er brought over, and picked out two of them, but they were the last two.
"Dong'er, you picked it before you came, right? The most obvious one is very inapplicable, but the last two are very good. Mrs. Liu said with a little teasing.
Liu Dong'er smiled slightly, and placed the three Geng stickers in his hand on the table: "Dong'er can only say that my eyesight is the same as that of my mother and aunt. ”
"Then Dong'er tell us in detail, what is the situation of these two families? By the way, who is with you to protect you?"
It was issued by the woman's family, but it may not have been all said, so it would be better to tell someone.
"Xie Jia......" Mrs. Liu hesitated for a moment, and suddenly became open-minded: "The Hudu General's family in Luzhou City?"
"Yes. ”
Liu Zhangshi frowned, she didn't want her daughter to marry a military general.
Liu Dong'er looked at these in his eyes: "Mother, General Hudu is the grandfather of Miss Xie Family, but Miss Xie Family's father is a civil servant, and his official position is not big but it is very beautiful, and he is an academician of the Hanlin Academy." And Miss Xie's brother is also in the Hanlin Academy, she has two younger brothers, one is studying in Taixue, and the other is a classmate of Brother Jie when she is still young. ”
"Is it a scholarly family?" Liu Zhangshi was immediately satisfied: "That's good, Brother Rui will make porridge and deal with scholars." What about the young lady, who can read, who can read?"
Ordinary people don't care about their daughter-in-law's literary talent, but Liu Zhang's knows Brother Rui's porridge, and she also knows why she couldn't please him when she first married the second master of the Liu family. It's not wrong to owe Heng this trick, but it's hard to please in front of the scholar's beloved.
"It's not going to be worse than Lei'er, don't worry. "Lei'er originally went to school with Brother Rui, but her nature over there made her brain very smart, but she didn't learn much. But even so, it is much stronger than Liu Zhang's and Liu Dong'er. "That's good, I look at the Xie family the best. Liu Dong'er laughed: "Mother, don't be in a hurry, let's take our time." By the way, tell me about the situation of these three Geng posts? Just by looking at the Geng posts, you can't see anything else. ”
"Let's talk about the Xu family first, this is your father's favorite family, Miss Xu's father and your father are close friends, and their situation is also very good. Look at it, including her, a duke has five concubines and two concubines, which can be regarded as an heir. Moreover, although she is not the eldest daughter, but the eldest sister is ten years older than her, and she married early, and at this time she also helps her mother manage the middle feed at home. ”
Mrs. Liu put aside the Xu family's post and flipped to the Wang family's post.
"The eldest daughter of the Wang family is a friend, the ancestor of the Wang family is in his nineties, and his body is still very tough. The Wang family has not separated at this time, this lady's grandfather belongs to the third room, but her father is the son of the grandson, and the others are very good, with outstanding appearance and quiet and introverted nature. The only thing is that she has never been on the housekeeper board, and even her mother has never been involved in the affairs of the family, so I am afraid that your mother will have to teach her how to be a housekeeper at that time. ”
Flipping through the last post, Mrs. Liu Jiada was a little hesitant on her face.
"By the way, this post from the Wang family was brought by Lei'er, saying that it was explained by her eldest sister, and that she could take it to the Zhang family next time, so that we can have time to take a look. ”