After dinner, it's the most laid-back time of the day.

Yuanjia started the broadcast relatively early tonight, and started the live broadcast before eight o'clock.

Like many psychological counselors, the income from simply doing cases is really limited, and many psychological counselors are doing part-time work, in addition to their own work, taking some online psychological counseling, or going to FM radio station as a small anchor.

The two-day live broadcast is quite rewarding for Yuanjia, and it can be done as a long-term side hustle.

After the continuous and stable live broadcast, the audience in the live broadcast room gradually stabilized, especially some girls who had nothing to do at night, just like watching TV after watching dramas, lying on the bedside watching Yuan Jia's live broadcast, listening to him chatting with the audience.

"Hello Mr. Yuan, I like a boy recently, he has a very good personality on the surface, and he is also very easy to contact, and he is kind and polite, but it just feels like people have a sense of distance, I feel that there is nowhere to use power, what is the reason for this?"

Reading the letter, many viewers in the live broadcast room also discussed.

Interestingly, many people say that they are also such a character.

It seems to be easy to get along with, but when you really get in touch, you will unconsciously distance yourself from each other.

Yuan Jia analyzed: "It can be divided into two situations, the first is that he knows very well what he needs, or he knows what he wants in his heart, you like this boy, but he doesn't like you, so it's normal to have a sense of distance." ”

"The second is a more objective sense of distance, that is, he is not only like this to you, but other people who come into contact with him, and they will unconsciously distance themselves. ”

"This is often the case where he has a scar in his heart, and it seems that there is a barrier in his heart. ”

"Many times, we don't think and do things differently, and under the surface that seems to be very easy to get along with, it may be hiding the true thoughts in our hearts, which is called defense in psychology, and is often a subconscious behavior. ”

Such a person is relatively quiet and introverted, he may be in early childhood, often need to take care of his parents' emotions, which will produce a lot of psychological consumption, this habit is retained, and when he grows up, he will subconsciously distance himself from others, so that he will be more relaxed. ”

"If you really like him and want to be with him, then try to make him feel comfortable when you are together, and only people who don't drain his inner energy will bring him closer. ”

After listening to Yuan Jia's words, the audience said that it was quite accurate.

[I was like this when I was a child, I didn't dare to cry in front of my parents, and the more I cried, the more they beat me]

[My boyfriend is like this too]

[I think this kind of character is quite mature]

[Maturity is often accompanied by cruelty]

The popularity of the live broadcast room is steadily rising, and the number of online viewers tonight has exceeded 8,000.

Because he hasn't signed a live broadcast contract with Douniao, the platform hasn't given a big recommendation, just an inconspicuous recommendation in a small corner.

Yuan Jia guessed that to maintain such a live broadcast effect, at most two or three days, Douniao would definitely contact him to sign a contract.

Gardenia will definitely watch the live broadcast every day, but Yuanjia told her about the gift last night, and Gardenia didn't dare to give so many gifts anymore, only when she saw many girls in the live broadcast room saying that she liked Teacher Yuan, she threw an aircraft carrier out.

"Hello Mr. Yuan, I'm a girl, I always can't help but 'do' when I'm in love, sometimes I quarrel with my boyfriend, he is actually very angry, and he will put down his temper to coax me, but I have a very bad habit, that is, ignore him, if it's outside, I will go quickly and don't talk to him, I know it's not good, but I just can't get rid of this habit, am I too willful?"

After reading the letter, Yuan Jia was stunned, shook his head and said: "I am a master of breakup, you yourself are very clear about this problem, if you ask me for advice, then I suggest that you either take the initiative to break up, or 'do' to the end, he will break up with you." ”

"You don't care much about him, you just like to see him circling around you. ”

After a pause, Yuan Jia said again: "If your boyfriend has a question that he wants to consult, I will be happy to help him answer it." ”

[Yes, why should people keep accommodating you]

[If you know it's wrong, you have to change it]

[She should think that Teacher Yuan analyzed that she likes to do it, but she can't control it]

[If you can't control it, then break up]

[To be honest, I used to be like this, after breaking up twice, I forced myself to change it]

......

Tonight's live broadcast was relatively long, and Yuanjia broadcast for two hours until ten o'clock in the evening.

And Yuanjia's fan attention has exceeded 30,000.

[Has Mr. Yuan forgotten what he promised yesterday?]

[Fans will sing us if they follow more than 30,000!]

[Sing!Sing!]

Yuan Jia looked at the barrage and said with a smile: "I'm a psychological anchor, not a good-looking anchor, I really can't sing well or something." ”

[What? Teacher Yuan turned out to be a psychological anchor?]

[Sing!Sing!]

[Mr. Yuan, I want to order a song!]

[Pink Woman: Send out the plane x1]

[Dream in Phantom Xiang: Send out the card x10]

......

The audience wanted to hear Yuanjia sing, so they brushed up the gifts.

[Gardenia: Send Aircraft Carrier x1]

The barrage is quiet.

Yuan Jia Zhengse said: "Gardenia, what song do you want to hear? I can sing two!"

[It turns out that you are such a Yuan teacher]

[Closed]

[Looking up to the rich sister]

Yuan Jia opened Kugou and looked at his song list, in fact, he sang very well, but after work, he listened to fewer songs, and most of the songs he knew were old songs from before.

In the first year of high school, before the lunch time of the class, a classmate will be arranged to perform a talent on stage, and for 15 minutes, you can sing, dance, and talk crosstalk.

At that time, the classmates liked this show very much, after all, this is a rare source of happiness in the day, even if the students on stage sang incompletely, and everyone laughed, but they would not really discriminate against anything because of this.

It's just that this form of performance is nothing to ordinary people, but for Xu Nanyu at that time, it was really a hurdle that couldn't be overcome at all.

In the days before she went on stage, she couldn't sleep and eat, and even cried in the middle of the night because she thought about it.

Fortunately, Yuanjia helped her out, and helped her go up and sing a song that day, and the next day Yuanjia went up by herself.

In Xu Nanyu's view, performing on stage for two consecutive days is simply unimaginable.

If it wasn't for Yuanjia at that time, she wouldn't know what to do......

In the live broadcast room, Gardenia sent a rare message.

Gardenia: "I want to hear snails~"

Snails......

Yuan Jia can sing, it seems that the song he sang on stage at that time was a snail, and after ten years, he couldn't remember it clearly.

"Okay, then I'll sing snails, and there's another song?"

Gardenia: "Still a snail~"

"Then I'll sing it twice. ”

The audience in the live broadcast room looked forward to Teacher Yuan's singing, and small gifts and bird food were fed one after another.

Yuan Jia adjusted the volume of the microphone, chose the accompaniment of the snail, cleared his throat, and began to sing.

Xu Nanyu didn't look at the phone screen, she sat by the windowsill with the little bear in her arms, looking at the night sky, listening to Yuanjia's singing, as if she could see the past.

Should we put down the heavy shell -

Looking for where there is a blue sky -

With the gentle wind gently drifting—

I don't feel any pain from the injuries I've experienced—

......

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