Chapter 480
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When I was with their three leather boys, I always had to be in a hurry, and I was always spoiled when I was with my little daughter, letting him want to get what he wanted, and watching him grow up day by day, and only when I was with this girl, that feeling of mutual understanding among my peers could surround me, and the feeling of being understood and considered made them very happy to see this girl every time, and to say a few words to him that the things that he had been suppressing in his heart became no longer so heavy。
It can be said that the relationship between this girl and their husband and wife has improved a lot, and it has quietly undergone great changes, and the way they get along now is not like a woman or an uncle or nephew, but it seems that there is some taste of friends in it, which also makes the couple feel a headache when they want to find an in-law for such a special girl.
If there was not much contact between the two sides in the past few years, and they still had the impression that she was a timid, cowardly and depressed little girl, as long as they casually looked at the past, and people married her to prepare a good dowry, then even if they had entered the duties of their uncles and aunts, they did not owe anything to this little girl, or they felt that they were at a loss, so they sent it out directly, even his biological parents were like this, they had ignored him for more than ten years, and their uncles, sisters-in-law, uncles and aunts were absolutely benevolent and righteous to be able to do this。
But things didn't go according to the original established route, and as they had more and more contact with this girl in recent years, their distress for him and their love for him grew day by day. In this way, if we find a reasonable plan according to the original plan, it is not feasible for people to marry him off, and they really attach more importance to this little girl's current mate selection than their three sons marrying their daughters-in-law.
After all, marrying a daughter-in-law is not the same as marrying a daughter, one is imported by thousands of people and the other is a matter of this girl's life, if you choose the wrong one, both aspects will have a great impact, but the latter will be more cautious.
And in addition, this little girl is not their biological daughter, but just the niece they have been raising by their side, so that the identity of the little girl is complicated, and it has to be paid attention to when talking about the matchmaker, or it is a factor that cannot be ignored. Even though their father had promised the little girl a large dowry, in fact, the real big family had already shrugged off the identity of the little girl.
In the face of this situation, they are uncles and aunts, in fact, they are also very helpless, on the one hand, they are very aggrieved that they have raised such an excellent girl, just because of the problem of life experience, these big families will directly give up the little girl, you are not in the scope of consideration, but if you want to marry such a girl to a small family, they themselves feel very aggrieved for this child.
It's not their boasting of being uncles and aunts, this is not their biological daughter after all, even if they praise the sky, it is estimated that the relationship with them is a layer apart, but he is absolutely fair, such a girl has such a style, if she is not the kind of housewife who is a big family, it is indeed a waste of this girl's lifelong talent.
The girl has general specifications, the atmosphere that the girl does not have, and the talent that many women do not have. If he marries an ordinary family, he lives in the backyard and thinks about oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea all day long, and lives around his husband and children, which is definitely a kind of torture and burial for this girl.
The grandmothers of these big families or famous families look at the status of their daughters-in-law first when choosing their daughters-in-law, even if they have promised to give their children a rich dowry that is not less than that of the daughters of rich and noble families, these grandmothers are also very picky about this girl.
And these housewives pay more attention to the skills of political housekeepers and so on, and these girls have the skills of reading and writing, and they don't value their own talents in reading and writing, and even on the contrary, this item is not able to add points to girls, but it is a thing that reduces a lot of impression points.
There are very few of these housewives who can read and write, and most of them think that it is enough to be able to make a few words, to understand this scene, to know how to be a housekeeper, is what they are pursuing, and in the end they are more men, and it is not a matter of men. And these women just need to be husbands and children, and guard the backyard.
And it is impossible for the girl's specifications to be famous outside, and it is impossible to know how to know a few young talents in the provincial capital, so this matter ultimately falls into the hands of these housewives, but they don't look down on it, so there is a problem with the life experience itself, and in addition to being superhuman in knowledge, everything else is mediocre, such a girl.
The final result is that there are only a few families that are considered to be good, and people have expressed their willingness to ask for girls, but these families have their own problems, not only a bare shell in the middle of the road, which looks good, and the actual life is very clear, just waiting to get and pretend to be quite rich The daughter-in-law goes back to eat the dowry of other daughters-in-law.
It's just that the children of the family are really not like it, they can't support the wall with mud, and they can't find a serious girl who is willing to marry him, so they have to ask for their door on lower terms.
No matter which of these two situations, the couple resolutely disagreed, even if they married this girl to a poor son, they felt very wronged by their niece, not to mention that such a person who was unbearable in family affairs or had such inferior qualifications came to marry, they directly refused, and with their refusal, gradually spread the reputation of this girl going south in the circle, which made the couple regret it even more.
Fortunately, even if they have some reputation, they are definitely not the most conspicuous and eye-catching, so when the people in the future or the girl are looking for a marriage home, the two are also more cautious.
It was because of such a contradictory and difficult matter, when the two of them didn't know how to solve it, that this uncle came up with such a bad idea, of course he knew how bad his idea was, but didn't the situation in front of him force them to do nothing.