Grandma Chen said, "I don't mean to persuade you to divide it.

It's just that from my old man's point of view, the biggest problem between you should be the child.

Marriage is a matter of eliminating all hidden dangers, otherwise they will be separated when they go together.

There are so many in life.

There are those who don't care when they get married, but they care about the other party's conditions after marriage and separate, and there are those who don't take their tempers seriously and separate.

Many things, when you get married, you say that you don't care, but after marriage, it becomes the fuse of divorce.

Therefore, grandma still thinks that it is better to solve this matter first and then tie it up.

”

Xu Suining actually felt that her grandmother's words were reasonable.

It's not that he dislikes her.

The old man is seriously thinking about them.

"Alu, think about it, what qualifications do you have.

How about guaranteeing that you won't regret it for the rest of your life?" Grandma Chen said bitterly, "Your casual promise without a bet will have no effect on you."

But for Ning Ning, that's her whole life.

Although divorce is nothing in today's society, single girls always have a lot of advantages.

”

Xu Suining waited at the door, but he didn't hear Chen Lu speak for a long time.

"If there are no children, it is fate, and we go for adoption.

It took a long time for Chen Lu to say this.

Xu Suining couldn't tell what kind of mood he was carrying.

Grandma Chen smiled.

continued to add: "Ah Lu, let's not say that your father agrees.

Let's talk about yourself first, grandma knows that you especially want children, you can say for Ning Ning that you can not have children, you do care about her.

But don't you mind if you don't have any regrets in your heart?"

"As long as there are regrets, this is the hidden danger of changing your mind later.

Grandma Chen said realistically.

Chen Lu insisted: "I won't.

”

"The future, maybe.

”

Chen Lu was silent again for a while, and finally said in a deep voice: "You don't need to be so pessimistic, it's just that it's difficult to get pregnant, it's not infertility.

I can't guarantee the future, but I'll do my best.

”

Grandma Chen smiled and said, "Grandma just doesn't want any of you to be hurt, just give me a reference, what will happen after that."

It's up to you to think for yourself.

But after five or ten years, you regret it, and for you, you can find another one.

I'm afraid that Ning Ning will be lonely at that time.

”

When Xu Suining heard this, he didn't listen to it anymore.

Turned around and went downstairs.

Xie Xi looked at her face and asked, "What's wrong?"

Xu Suining shook his head.

In fact, Xu's mother also told her about this topic, once there is a little hidden danger in the marriage, the subsequent contradictions are very big.

When it came to marrying Chen Lu, although Xu's mother agreed, she was also a little worried.

The matter of getting married suddenly made Xu Suining a little breathless.

A family that wants to have a child very much, with a woman who has a hard time getting pregnant.

To some extent, it is "the door is not the right household".

Xu Suining knew that he would definitely be unhappy because of this incident in the future.

Love is not omnipotent.

On the contrary, love is fragile and can be shattered at the slightest touch.

When she went back with Chen Lu at night, she said very little.

And Chen Lu is still choosing a location for the wedding.

When he handed the tablet over for her reference, Xu Suining said a little hesitantly: "Chen Lu, I don't think we should be in such a hurry to get married."

”

Chen Lu paused, looked up at her, and looked at her with a bit of inquiry in his eyes: "You don't want to?"

"No, you should listen to my thoughts, right?"

"You say.

Chen Lu said.

Xu Suining pondered for a long time and sorted out the key points he wanted to say: "I still want to get married, and I've always wanted to get married."

If you end it so quickly, I will be very stressed, and the child's affairs at that time will be ...... I'm scared when I think about it.

”

She finished speaking and looked at him.

Chen Lu nodded.

Motioned for her to continue.

"Actually, it makes no difference whether we get married or not.

We're all in this together anyway.

So I thought, or we'll get married in the year of thirty.

What do you think?" Xu Suining waited for Chen Lu's comment.

"What if I had it in advance?"

"Then get married early.

Xu Suining said, "If we don't have children, we will get married at the age of 30."

I just need a buffer period, it's normal not to get married, boyfriend and girlfriend relationships, and not have children.

But got married and had no children.

People will more or less think that there is something wrong with this couple.

I feel very, very stressful when I hear it.

”

She bit her lip and said truthfully: "Actually, every time I go to the hospital, I feel very stressed.

I don't know if I'm missing something.

I'm afraid of what others say.

”

Chen Lu listened patiently, and when he heard the last sentence, he hugged her over.

Stroking the back of her head, he said, "Why don't you tell me if you're uncomfortable?"

"Sometimes, I think it's too pretentious.

Xu Suining asked.

"So you can take my opinion?"

"Absolutely.

Chen Lu said.

Whether it was Xie Xi or Xu's mother who called to ask about marriage, when they got the answer that was postponed for the time being.

They all tacitly understood the reason, and no one urged them.

Chen Lu had to pay attention to Xu Suining's psychological situation, and took Xu Suining to do a psychological counseling within a few days.

Can you get pregnant.

Mental health is also important.

At the same time, he also specially hired a foreign expert to come over to solve the problem for Xu Suining.

Chen Lu tried his best to take the time to accompany Xu Suining.

He would also ask Xu Suining what he thought in time, but she still said it was much better most of the time.

It's much better, and it's a positive attitude.

I have to say that after the experts came, Xu Suining's physical condition was indeed much better, and long-term conditioning still helped a little.

Xu Suining was much more confident when the doctor told her that her condition had improved a lot during a recent check-up.

After she went back, she told Chen Lu the news, and the two of them began to prepare for pregnancy.

She wrote a lot of precautions to Chen Lu, what should not be eaten, what is best not to eat, everything should be eaten, that careful appearance, obviously also looking forward to the arrival of a child.

Chen Lu is also looking forward to it, so he is also trying his best to cooperate.

Chen Lu's biggest change in the company is that he doesn't drink anymore.

Even when talking about business, I don't touch it.

Occasionally, there will be customers who feel that Chen Lu is not giving face, and Chen Zechu has talked to him because of this.

However, after hearing Chen Lu say that after preparing for pregnancy, Chen Zechu didn't say much, even socializing or something, he went out more by himself.

Chen Lu said: "Are you accepting the age?"

"I don't accept it, what else can I do?" Chen Zechu snorted coldly.