What are you talking about? Pain and sadness, because it can really be said that you have been through a difficult period of time.

Ou Ruoxi: Is there no value in inviting today's guest house?

You suffered.

"Hello everyone, talk to each other, the founder of DNA News sanctions, the investigator who trained the teacher Kuaiyi, disseminated his speeches to people, and he is also a best-selling author who interprets life's problems in new words," Luo said. “”

He can be copied by everyone through TV shows.

But.

At the end of 2015, after participating in a smart education program, his years were unfavorable.

It seems to have started there.

She didn't know.

On the way to the recording site, he finally had his bald head smashed by a prop, his head was scarred, and one eye was acute to himself.

From conjunctivitis to keratitis, the price of red and swollen eyes and almost blindness, you can only continue to fight with sunglasses, is there really a problem with your eyes at present?

If the squad leader said that he must write it down, he would listen to his father's words In this situation of low physical condition, the last project of the next family in the fire special police was paid attention to, and two mistakes were seriously injured at the same time.

The phone went up and that was what he said to him after her.

A woman taller than yourself has no sense of conquest because she can only hug her waist.

In fact, she sees that you take a bland light, because there are two sentences in the back, and our teacher will share it with you:

The first one is called indifferent.

The second one is called Uncle Remember.

She first talked about how much money you make, how many successes you have achieved, and eventually you have to return to the dull, she thinks it is different for men and women.

But she thinks that most people will have the courage to happen tomorrow, and they will fade it as soon as possible to the point that you are not only willing to share it when you write, have you ever thought about it and will be under some pressure.

Well, she's summed up a lot of treasures.

She believes that it is very important for health.

Luo Jin writes a new book The author is interested, what is the matter with on-site teaching? Put 6+ angry to jump feet and ridicule the coolie type in red, and connect the silent for Ou Ruoxi on the spot.

It must not be a lot of interesting things, Luo Jin told about the strange things he had encountered, and how old the people who had visited the sick.

You said that you were recorded in the studio show reality show, you are not old enough, what fight with young people, you have played yourself badly, you deserve to sit at the distance she is lying on the sick sofa.

He was at a distance of two meters, Ou Ruoxi and the two wanted to talk, so she sent WeChat to the two of them, just like falling in love, that is, using text messages to send money?

How wonderful does it feel?

And what is the reason that he finally solved the misunderstanding of love after 20 years, after she was injured.

Ex-girlfriend 10 years ago who loves ex-girlfriend very much. Suddenly, the world evaporated.

She hadn't seen Ou Ruoxi for 20 years.

He suddenly found her and showed up that day, then she must have asked him.

She asked him angrily where have you been in the past 20 years, and he said that she has no way to face you, and tonight Luo Jin wrote a new book as a guest, revealing the story of his coming out of the trough of his life at close range.

Wanted to ask.

She remembers that participating in this show means that we came to Chaogang more than last year, remember?

And then after the show, it came to this beauty, that's a series of things, right?

Car accidents are unlucky, aren't they?

Well, yes, it didn't take long to listen to it, it took about half a month to have a car accident, and then I was injured.

But in fact, this injury is related to her previous injury, because the principle of his injury is that her eye inflammation changed from conjunctivitis to keratitis, so when she was injured, your eyes were blind and invisible.

The other eye is blurry.

And then the meniscus of her knee, uh, tore all the way and didn't drag and didn't stop breathing.

So when she slid off the slider, she didn't have a way to see that, she didn't know where you were, and there was no way to estimate how long it would take for her to get to the ground.

And the most important problem was that the first time she slipped down, she was hit in this knee and it hurt a little.

So when she was the second time.

Because the whole person is actually equivalent to doing his own heels, and then you went to the hospital and went to the time, and after you went, I told Ou Ruoxi what the situation was.

When she went to the hospital, she was actually more miserable when she first arrived, and the reason for the misery was because it was already more than one o'clock in the evening.

Not having a doctor is a time when you can't find a specialist, especially sad and helpless.

She called several friends, she was very embarrassed, and at 3:00 in the middle of the night, she asked others what they said to her for the answer, which made her feel more relieved.

In fact, she is a case that has not been confirmed by 10,000%, she will always come to confess, and there is one point whether to have surgery or not, because there are active therapy and conservative therapy, and conservative therapy can be conservative therapy, that is, if you don't have surgery, let it automatically absorb positive therapy.

It is to take the initiative to go in and remove the bruises, and the opinions of experts should be the main focus on such major issues.

You tell her that she won't listen to you.

This makes you think a lot, that is, I swallowed and didn't sleep well all night before the operation.

Well, before the surgery is only a part, in fact, after the surgery, do you want the surgery to be successful?

The operation was successful, and when I woke up in 4 hours, the little nurse said everyone hurry up, and your mother told you to go home for dinner.

She grabbed his hand, she grabbed his hand, and she said she saved?

He replied to her um emotion.

Then today, Ou Ruoxi invited a guest who she felt very dare to speak out.

So she believes that people divide into groups, and his friends must be of this type.

So next, Ou Ruoxi entered the good looking forward to the wind and rain, and came to see his friend together, saying that she remembered that although she was injured in an accident, Luo Jin experienced a lot of fear.

I can't be sure, Luo Jin not only wrote the new book Dandan, which he wrote from being trapped at the bottom of his life to recovering physically and mentally, with unadorned and concealed words.

And when Luo Jin was the most fragile and unbearable, he also received the care and encouragement of many friends, take a look at what this teacher usually does in this life.

It is built with a strong force, aiming at the ecological environment, and this is particularly like this.

He looked at her.

Knowing wow, she saw such a strong person, and when she looked at her with a helpless look at her at this moment, it was actually quite uncomfortable, because of course she didn't know what it was, but what about it.

She can't talk to him, so it's going to be harder for her to talk to him, and you're going to make him strong when he's here?

This was her first reaction at the time, how to ask for it, it must be happy, rational to help analyze and come in a new blue course and from the perspective of a professional doctor.

Ou Ruoxi wants to be able to do things as perfectly as possible.

So the advice to him is to hope that he can try his best, because in different situations, the above choices will be different.

It's really hard for anyone to accept.

If she was hurt like this, she didn't want to be comforted by anyone, and she hoped that she wouldn't at this time.

She just wants to tell you that there are a lot of people waiting for them to stick around.

There is also one who doesn't speak at all, silently accompanies her next to her, what she needs her to do, he said that she doesn't have that much time to go back to the city to write, well, if you don't mind in the end, just sit over there, just sit there, so Ou Ruoxi is inside.

Ou Ruoxi sat there for almost a whole day, well, she didn't say anything, he just kept writing after the first time.

Then I ate a little bit in the middle, but I still kept writing, in fact, Ou Ruoxi didn't know each other, I have to say that the teacher's personnel are really good, so among so many comforts and encouragements, which one is the most useful to him?

These 4 different ways of comforting belong to what kind of personality color people belong to?

When he finished doing what he was really doing, the director listened to the ridicule of the coolie type in red, and connected the scene silently for Ou Ruoxi.

She's really stupid, no one told her, Ou Ruoxi hasn't had time to be happy yet.

OK, Ou Ruoxi was actually right now, a few people around Teacher Luo Jin told some stories when they visited him.

But Ou Ruoxi found that visiting patients is actually related to personality and method, so it is better for Ou Ruoxi to take this opportunity to share with you how to see others and comfort others, which is quite interesting.

It seems to be a matter of urgency that the bar friend silently accompanies the head drink, salutes, and analyzes the ridicule and encouragement.

Because Zhao Lei is a particularly funny person, the point is that he used a very powerful method of seeing a doctor.

How he comforted her after he read it, he told her about his own experience of illness, the painful experience of surgery.

And then when he spoke.

She realized that the kind of misery he described was worse than hers.

But in fact, it is a common disease, and everyone has heard of it, but in fact, she only found out after listening to him, because people are embarrassed to say it.

So in fact, there are about 6% of the cases, which is actually a very high disease, and the main problem is that this surgery is difficult to treat at the time of surgery.

It wasn't until he finished talking that she realized that he also had a lot of pain, so you know people have a mentality when you're in pain.

When another person tells you that he is more miserable than you, you become gentle when he feels good.

She thinks he's doing it very well, so it's a pleasure to encourage and comfort your friend next time, right?

What's so funny, you know who to tease and encourage, one of the biggest characteristics is that they have a kind of ability in their nature.

He doesn't take the kind of things that the masses look particularly horrible and tribulating.

He's going to be big and small, in fact, this is very important for the patient, that is, the person itself is about to die, and when you go to see him, you are still frowning, and the patient who was visited,

In fact, the mood will be psychologically stressed by you, and even heavier is that you make fun of yourself, which will actually be more interesting.

So the biggest benefit, he can make you add a lot of joy when you are desperate and miserable, so you talk to him, talk about the mountains, tell jokes about the outside world,

In fact, it is very, very important for patients, and the encouraging type is suitable for the person who is set off by red, that is, the person with a red personality is most often used.

But for human beings, she thinks that she can use it when she is highly stressed, and there is one thing that she will actually be very touched in the ward, and there is a brother in the next ward who has cancer and chemotherapy, and his hair is all gone.

You know what his family did when they came to see him.

When his family came to see him, his son, his father, and his brother, the three men came to visit, and they all shaved their hair bald.

The moment I saw them, I first cried, and then laughed.

When he was discharged from the hospital and went home, more than 50 relatives and friends all had shaved heads, and she told you this thing, do you know how strong it is to people's hearts?

There are so many ways to love the home.

I think you don't touch these things, you don't know, it's really helpful to these parties, it's called empathy, right.

What makes you feel this thing, Li Shuai is that she plays Beijing Satellite TV in her, she is a student in the orator with brittle bone disease.

He is in a wheelchair and he has undergone more than 130 surgeries on his body, because he can't touch it, you touch Ou Ruoxi again.

Ou Ruoxi broke his bones immediately, so he was discriminated against a lot since he was a child, and he didn't understand his grievances.

So he only had one sentence to her, he said that after you see that you are injured, there must be many people who look at your jokes and wait for you to make a fool of yourself, and you must not compromise.

You have to find a way to stand up and make all the people who are teasing you and laughing at you make them regret that she thinks this is on him.

Very important core pillar, so he told her this sentence, and he wouldn't comfort her, so it happened to be at that time, in fact, this sentence was very important to her, and this sentence was one of the core motivations of the book.

Because the very difficult thing about writing this book is that it involves a lot of medical jargon.

She has no concept at all, she must evaluate them all, self-study and there was a time when she couldn't write.

So she thinks this statement is valid for people like her.

But she has another friend who is also red, and you know that when he came to visit her, he said the same thing that hit her very hard, and this is critical of you.

When I knew he was coming in, I said, oh. How many times have I told you not to record how old you are before this show, you said that you were recorded in the studio, what is not sincere, do not disturb, what is close, what is a speaker, you don't have to move the reality show, you are all old bones.

What do you fight with young people, no wonder you play yourself badly, she tells you yes and goes home and says this.

But the point is, is this person a very good friend to her?

What he doesn't think this is what she tells you when the character is more red in the person.

He instinctively often has a lot of criticism, and these criticisms are caring, but this care feels very uncomfortable, and she doesn't like people with red personalities very much at work.

For example, he often says, for example, if you use people, she thinks that this person is not good, you always look at people.

Stop, she said to what happened in two days, for example, she had already seen that if this thing could not be done, you had to do it, you don't see that one day she was thinking.

In fact, she wanted to tell her friend with a red personality, and she said that in fact, Ou Ruoxi saw that it was not good, it was one or two out of 100, but the 98 were taken out.

If Ou Ruoxi doesn't have these two bad, you won't be able to see the 98, because Ou Ruoxi won't be bad if he doesn't do anything, and Ou Ruoxi won't be wrong if he doesn't look for anyone, right?

So the person with the red personality needs to talk to him like this, you said you look at what Ou Ruoxi did.

Ou Ruoxi did this because she had the courage to try, so Ou Ruoxi did this, then you can't stand up for these two, these two are not because you see that she can't find someone to do it.

You also told her at the time that she couldn't do it, so why don't you do it too?

So you have to follow along, but she thinks Ou Ruoxi is honest, she likes to talk to the red personality so much.

But the next step of the red personality is not particularly fond of afterthought, that is, anyone who has a lot of red in the personality.

Sometimes they will have a problem, that is, they will be critical, that is, he thinks that criticizing you is helping you grow.

But when the person is actually in despair and pain, there are times when there is more encouragement than others.

She's got to give you a round of applause, she thinks it's not just about seeing patients.

Ou Ruoxi was at work, and then she very much agreed with what Teacher Luo Jin said, she felt that this was an emotion, which was what he called helping you.

But in the way of criticizing you, in fact, Ou Ruoxi has seen too many of these in her parents.

But this is her parents, right, she already knew that you couldn't do it, you see you have to do that.

She just depends on how long you can't last, you said that Ou Ruoxi has finally become a benevolent, and she has to accept a generation of critical friends.

So he's not good or not, anyway, she thinks that everyone may have to correspond to everyone has this side, Ou Ruoxi has to adjust, and there is another very important.

Regarding the secret of character, people with a lot of red personality are difficult for them to control.

An important reason for them is that in their bones, they are very concerned and particular about the right and wrong of everything.

But the typical red color is actually the most important thing: happiness.

He doesn't care so much about right and wrong, so when something goes wrong, he wants to help you solve it.

But he first comes to judge who is right and who is wrong in this matter, whether it is your problem or somewhere.

Don't do this problem again in the future, he actually wants to express such a point of view, but when the words come to his mouth, it actually becomes a high-pressure state, and the trouble is that there are a lot of lies in her character.

So when he came to criticize her.

Her reaction will have antibodies, you know, she said that a red, orange and red person is very painful to be married to a group of scalpers, and it is painful to be a husband and wife.

But there is no problem, because the red man Da Qiao is easy to forget and easy to forgive, and there is one more.

Something has a benefit, red a lot of things are actually reluctant to take too many decisions.

But Huang is particularly assertive, in fact, the most difficult and difficult thing is that a man with yellow is with a woman with yellow, in fact, that trouble is too big.

Because when one party criticizes, the other party will actually see and resist in his heart, and this will actually be very, very big in conflict.

So she has a lot of things to solve, this is the state of the needle tip to Mai Mang, who wants to fall in love around, really look at what he said and check it.

You're quite right about that, then.

Her friend, who is also one of her students, is named Kurbanjan, and his personality is not green.

But the method he used that day he used was a green method, he said he was going to see her, she said so familiar, you don't need to look at it, and she was writing a book, you came to see her.

She still has to spend time chatting with you, and she says she doesn't have time to talk to you, but this person is very stubborn.