112. I have some good feelings
In the end, the people on both sides confronted each other.
After waiting for a while, the old lady of the Han family was helped out by two maidservants. Seeing the scene in the courtyard, the old lady of the Han family, who was a little depressed, was a little happy: "Hurry up and leave Tai Ge'er behind, I will naturally treat my great-grandson well, what are you worried about?"
Liu Dong'er pursed her lips, she really didn't want to have a conflict with the old lady of the Han family, but she wouldn't leave Tai Ge'er behind. Seeing that the eldest wife of the Han family was already on the verge of an attack, she could only choose to open her mouth.
Turning around, he lifted Brother Jie in his arms, Brother Jie was one and a half years old, he looked white and fat, and the weight was not light: "Old lady, do you think I will leave my own son behind? It will take at least three or five years to go to the capital, do you think it is possible?" "What won't you?" Hmph, if you don't leave Brother Tai, then you don't have to leave!"
At the beginning, the old lady of the Han family could still stare at Liu Dong'er with that kind of angry eyes, but after a long time, she was a little unnecessary. In the end, the old lady of the Han family couldn't hold her breath at first: "I am Ziye's grandmother, of course I have the authority to raise my great-grandson personally! What's more, isn't Brother Jie raised by you? Wouldn't it be very stable if Brother Tai handed it over to me?"
Liu Dong'er still didn't speak, just opened her big black eyes, stared at the old lady of the Han family without making a sound.
Seeing Liu Dong'er's appearance, the eldest wife of the Han family also remained silent, this was the first day of the opening, and at first Han Ziye sent someone to send the placement along the way. The first day itself will not be too far away, but it will take some getting used to. Therefore, it doesn't hurt to start it later, the eldest wife of the Han family is not in a hurry, but the old lady of the Han family is becoming more and more consuming.
"Thinking about the past, wasn't it inconvenient for my son to be raised by his mother-in-law? Why did it bother you two mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law so much? It was only natural that my grandson and great-grandson should be handed over to me to raise!" The old lady of the Han family really knew in her heart that if it was really the two sides who were strong, she might not be able to get benefits, especially Liu Dong'er and the eldest lady of the Han family were on the same front.
After a moment of silence, Liu Dong'er could be regarded as speaking: "Old lady, is the deceased old man in a good relationship with you?"
The old lady of the Han family was shocked, she really didn't expect Liu Dong'er to speak about this matter. You must know that the eldest master of the Han family is the only son of the old lady, although she also has a daughter, but she married very early, emotionally speaking, she should be inferior to the eldest master of the Han family. What's more, the eldest lady of the Han family passed away when he was Ding Zhuang, which is a very sad thing for the old lady of the Han family and the big family. Like, it's been a long time since no one mentions it anymore.
"Hmph, do you need to talk about it? I asked him not to go inside, he had to go! I asked him to leave his daughter-in-law and son to accompany me, and he had to take it with him! Even if Xi'er was born later, I asked him to send Xi'er back to my care, and he actually refused!"
In fact, strictly speaking, the relationship between the old lady and the mother of the Han family is still quite good, but the problem is that the personalities of these two people are too close. If the old lady of the Han family wants to do one thing, she must be straightforward, but it just so happens that the old lady of the Han family is also a stubborn character, and it is okay to say softly, if you come hard with him, even if he agrees to something, he can oppose it.
Liu Dong'er's face was remote, as if she really didn't care about the old lady of the Han family's resentment against her father-in-law. After leaving some time for the old lady of the Han family to soothe her feelings, Liu Dong'er spoke slowly: "Then, old lady, why do you think there is a gap between your relationship with the eldest lady?"
The biological son and mother really have the same personality, but they are not considerate of each other, so the only possibility is a shortage of communication, Liu Dong'er would not have thought of this, but after listening to the words of the old lady of the Han family, she knew it clearly.
Children raised by grandmothers are not usually very close to their mothers. If the child is still young, it doesn't matter, if he is raised by his grandmother until he is a teenager, it is no different from his mother.
"Then do you need to say that he was brought up by my mother-in-law, and I only brought him to be two years old!" The old lady of the Han family showed a trace of sadness on her face: "At that time, the old lady was going to go inside to take care of things, and my mother-in-law asked him to leave me and the two children behind, but I was not at ease. But it was my mother-in-law, and I made a compromise in desperation, I took my daughter away, but my son stayed behind for my mother-in-law to raise. After that, I only came back once in three or four years at most, and every time I got acquainted with my son, I had to divide the ......."
Liu Dong'er listened quietly, and did not interject, not wanting to, the old lady of the Han family changed her tone: "So what? Even if I can't bear my son, she is my mother-in-law, and if she wants to raise her grandson herself, I won't refuse! This is filial piety, and you should know it as a woman!"
"But I think that more important than filial piety is the family affection between children and mothers. Liu Dong'er subconsciously glanced at the eldest wife of the Han family beside her: "Ziye's personality is not good, you can also see this point, no matter what happens, he will never be angry with his mother, do you know why? I think this is also the reason why he was willing to disobey you more than 20 years ago, and he had to take Ziye away, right? Obviously, in his mind, the so-called filial piety is not as good as his son. β
"What do you mean by saying that I don't care about my son, so he doesn't honor me?" the old man of the Han family roared loudly, and there was already a hint of hoarseness in his voice.
Liu Dong'er still had a breezy expression: "I have always felt like this, if you want others to be good to you, you must be good to that person." Maybe your old example is not enough, old lady, let me give you a more example, would you like to hear it?"
After a pause, seeing that the old lady of the Han family had no point in stopping it, Liu Dong'er spoke again: "This is a joke I heard from my mother's family, of course this is a real joke." In a certain farm, there is a family that is the poorest. One day, the family's daughter-in-law left her three-year-old son behind her poor home. Later, after another twenty years, the son grew up, begged a daughter-in-law, and gave birth to several children, and life became prosperous first. Then, the daughter-in-law, who had left her young son and her poor husband, returned. She said to her son, "To be a man is to be filial, and you must take care of me." β
looked up at the old lady of the Han family, and saw that her face was still dark, but there seemed to be no sign of anger.
After hesitating for a moment, Liu Dong'er spoke in a more tactful tone: "In the past, old lady, you abandoned the young master for your husband, this is not abandonment, just abandonment, and it is not just because of filial piety, there should be a reason, right?
"In life, you have to give up something. Speaking with a cold face, the old lady of the Han family's eyes were full of loneliness.
"Yes, you have to give up some things in life, but for me, I will never be a child. β
"Then you will stay with the child!" The old lady of the Han family changed her face very quickly, and almost in an instant, she thought of a countermeasure: "If you are really unwilling to abandon Brother Tai, you will take Brother Jie and Brother Tai to stay for me!"
"I think, old lady, you still don't know what I mean. Liu Dong'er already had a trace of sympathy in her tone at this time: "Child, I don't want to give up." Love, I don't want to abandon it. So, unfortunately, old lady, you have been rejected by me, or you may say, you ...... Rejected by us. β
As if struck by lightning, the old lady of the Han family was stupid.
Liu Dong'er couldn't bear it anymore, and hesitated for a moment: "Old lady, it can really be seen from your choice in the past, compared to the eldest master, you care more about the old lady and the aunt, and the more you care about the so-called filial piety, which is your mother-in-law." Since you have already made a decision, it is no wonder that the eldest master also chose someone else to abandon you, I am different, and my mother is also different. β
"You, you ......"
In the slightly hopeless eyes of the old lady of the Han family, the people in the big room came out one after another.
"Beautiful, then you hurry up and finish the endgame. Seeing Liu Dong'er, who was happy, Mrs. Han was the most crying and laughing. Fortunately, she thought that Liu Dong'er was just a daughter older than Han Xi, and she didn't care too much.
"The endgame...... Liu Dong'er deliberately sold a pass, and when she saw the serious and expectant expression on the face of the eldest lady of the Han family, she spoke slowly: "When the woman who has abandoned her family comes back again, her husband has already passed away, and her son already has a very beautiful family, and she is not needed there." β
"Huh?" The eldest wife of the Han family was fine, but Han Xi couldn't help but say: "Does her son really disregard filial piety? Wouldn't that make people poke their backbones?"
No, her son did not abandon filial piety, but looked after his mother with joy. Seeing that the eldest wife of the Han family and Han Xi both had disappointed expressions, Liu Dong'er couldn't help laughing. These two people really deserve to be mother and daughter, so even the expression of disappointment is the same, but her words have not been finished: ", but her son made a request, he was happy to take care of his mother, and did not want the other party to intervene in life, he built a room for his mother at the end of the village, and then his daughter-in-law cooked for his mother every day. β
"That's also the end of filial piety, that person abandoned his husband and children before. Han Xi pouted, as if he was not satisfied with this endgame.
I'm not done yet. Liu Dong'er deliberately made a look of grievance: "He and his daughter-in-law are kind people, they are afraid that their mother will eat cold food and upset their stomachs, so they set up a small table at the door of the room, and put two meals on the table every day, waiting for their mother to arrive." Now, that's the end of the story. β
Han Xi's face was dazed, obviously not knowing what this meant. However, the eldest lady of the Han family lowered her head and thought for a while, and soon chuckled: "That couple is also a pair of wonderful people. β
"What?" Han Xi was the most puzzled, and he insisted that the eldest lady of the Han family had to make it clear that it was impossible.
The eldest wife of the Han family was naturally troublesome to Han Xi, and nodded Han Xi's little nose helplessly: "Xi'er, think about it, what is more terrifying in this mortal world than bad rumors? Even in Luzhou City, if this family is rumored, it will not be able to be a person, let alone in the countryside." In the kind of place in the countryside, a little thing can make a lot of noise in the city. Things like that family must be known to everyone. In this way, the son and daughter-in-law are not at fault, but what about the mother?
Being pointed out by the eldest lady of the Han family, Han Xi thought about it for a while, and finally came to his senses. Just think about it, if the mother is shamed twice a day, she must have a son and daughter-in-law who do their filial piety for her, this filial piety ...... I'm afraid it's not a good taste, right?
"Hee-hee, it's good to have such an endgame!" Although most of the jokes have a happy endgame, by chance, a relieving endgame like this is also the best. At least, Han Xi was all satisfied.
The eldest lady of the Han family looked at Han Xi lovingly, she was quite satisfied with Liu Dong'er, but she was always sad about Han Xi. You must know that many times, it is not a problem to have scheming, on the contrary, it is not a merit to be too innocent. Like Liu Dong'er, she is smart and capable, and she knows the general situation, and she clearly knows what she wants, and she will not wait to make enemies with others, but once she bears the trouble, she will come up with a steady way to deal with it, so that she can become a daughter-in-law of a wealthy family.
The Han family's family is higher than the Liu family, and Han Xi is the daughter of the long house, this status itself is more and more noble than Liu Dong'er, but the eldest wife of the Han family is more and more worried, witnessing Han Xi, who has become a big lady, is still as innocent and innocent as when she was young, and there is nothing left in her heart except worry.
Such a daughter, if she really gets married, how can she be at ease?
Seeing the worried eyes of the eldest lady of the Han family looking at Han Xi, Liu Dong'er immediately became clear. Also, Han Xi is a good child, but he may not be able to be a good daughter-in-law, and choosing a husband for her can be more difficult to find Han Yan's in-laws in the past.
This family is too high, and he is still the son of the family, so he still counts it directly. But if the family rank is too low, I am afraid that people will think that Han Xi has some drawbacks. The balance between the two is extremely steady, but it is not an idle matter. Fortunately, fortunately, Han Xi has at least been out of touch with Mrs. Gu's suffering, no matter what, in the capital, look at each other carefully for her, there are many powerful people in the capital, but it is still possible to find a big family that is a little defeated.
Thinking of this, Liu Dong'er suddenly remembered one thing: "Mother, after arriving in the capital, in addition to seeing each other for Xi'er, I'm afraid that this dowry will also be prepared, right?"
Before the eldest wife of the Han family could speak, Han Xi's face turned red, stretched out her pink little fist, and smashed it on Liu Dong'er's body very softly: "Sister-in-law, you are careful, you are too bad!"
Liu Dong'er looked at her most innocently: "I'm too bad? Okay, our family Xi'er won't get married, and your brother and I will also be happy to raise you for a lifetime." β
"This ......" Han Xi is not a person who understands quickly, at first hearing this, and seeing Liu Dong'er's serious and serious expression, he thought she was telling the truth, and immediately became anxious: "Sister-in-law, how can this be done? Which eldest lady still stays at home when she is old? This is absolutely impossible!"
"I, I'm not questioning my sister-in-law, I, I didn't say that I didn't want to marry!" Han Xi was anxious, she didn't have any heart, and Kong Yin couldn't help but say what was in her heart. Of course, the little face is naturally more and more red.
"It's okay, Xi'er, don't bother me and your brother. Our Xi'er is a good lady, if you really don't want to get married, then you won't get married. Liu Dong'er didn't have a smile on her face, as if she was reporting an extremely serious matter. God knows, she pinched herself hard at this moment, and then she couldn't hold back her laughter.
At this moment, Han Xi was really anxious, and beads of sweat first appeared on his forehead, and the sky was not very hot at this time: "Sister-in-law, I really don't want to get married, I, I ...... I'm glad to get married!"
Liu Dong'er looked at Han Xi with a shocked face, and didn't speak for a while. It was still the eldest wife of the Han family who felt sorry for her magic weapon daughter, glared at Liu Dong'er, and then hugged Han Xi into her arms: "Xi'er is not in a hurry, your sister-in-law is deliberately teasing you, and only a solid-eyed child like you will be serious!"
In the homes of large families, they are all prosperous and lossy. If Han Xi can't get married for the rest of his life, then even the marriage of the two brothers born to Liu Dong'er will be affected. Even if the boy is better, no one can guarantee whether Liu Donger will give birth to a daughter in the future. Even, even the two cousins Xiao Huashang and Xiao Nishang, who have two rooms, are going to be tired.
Besides, Liu Dong'er has always had a good relationship with Han Xi, so how can she not think twice about her? Once again, the eldest wife of the Han family felt helplessness about herself, a solid-eyed daughter.
Although Han Xi didn't have any eyes, the eldest wife of the Han family had already spoken so clearly, and as soon as the eldest lady of the Han family's voice fell, Liu Dong'er couldn't help but burst into laughter, what else could she not know? At that moment, thinking of the last sentence she had just said, she was so ashamed that her little face could drip blood. Han Xi fell into the arms of the eldest wife of the Han family, and he refused to raise his head no matter how much he persuaded him.
remembered that when he was not married, Brother Rui, the only sister-in-law in the second room of the Liu family, was personally cultivated by the second master of the Liu family. Although the second master of the Liu family is not so knowledgeable, it is obvious that with the intervention of his father, Brother Rui loves to learn more. Comparatively speaking, Han Ziye's knowledge is much better than that of the second master of the Liu family, but Han Ziye has never cultivated Brother Jie. In the past, when he was in Changzhou City, he had no intention of taking a day off, and Han Ziye still accompanied Brother Jie, but since he returned to Luzhou City, Han Ziye ran around at both ends, and because Liu Donger was pregnant with Brother Tai, he really ignored Brother Jie. After thinking about the proposition, after coming to the capital this time, he must let Han Ziye teach Brother Jie a lesson in person, even if Brother Jie is still young, he can read poetry to him from time to time. Liu Dong'er's knowledge is not good, he is not proficient in poetry and songs, and the only thing he does is to make an account book or something like the housekeeper director, but he can't teach Brother Jie a lesson. Therefore, the difficult mission of cultivating the son of the sect should be handed over to Han Ziye!
Fortunately, because Liu Dong'er and the others were smiling at Han Ziye, Brother Jie at least didn't have any vigilance, even if Han Ziye picked him up, he just turned back to Liu Dong'er with a look of fear.
Covering her mouth and snickering, Liu Donger didn't want to come forward to help. As soon as the eldest lady of the Han family arrived in the capital, she was busy instructing her subordinates to sort out the soup. Han Xi was with Liu Dong'er, but she was also snickering together at this time, and there was no hope of stepping forward to help.
Han Ziye looked at Brother Jie with a frightened face in the most difficult way, of course he didn't want to intimidate Brother Jie'er, but looking at the child's demeanor, he was soft-hearted and bitter in his heart. How long has it been since the children left? When the children still don't remember, if they really leave for several years, I'm afraid that the father and son will really be strangers.
Han Ziye knew everything that happened in the Han family, including the last time his aunt used tricks and wanted to calculate Han Xi, he also knew about it. Not to mention, the eldest wife of the Han family and Liu Dong'er had a conflict with the old lady of the Han family when they left. It can also be in the mind of the old lady of the Han family, there is nothing wrong with wanting her children and grandchildren around her knees, but judging from his attitude, the only people closest to him are his parents, daughter-in-law and children.
If it is today, the old lady of the Han family wants to go to the capital with the big house, then there must be no problem. But if it's forcibly retaining people, it looks particularly cold.
"Dong'er, I know everything that happens at home, it's really hard for you. Han Ziye hugged Brother Jie'er, teasing and talking to Liu Dong'er. Fortunately, he didn't see Han Xi's different demeanor before leaving, otherwise he would definitely be bored.
Waving his hand to let his subordinates leave, Han Ziye was a little helpless. "My mother also struggled, and my grandmother was fine when she was young, but now she is getting older and more ignorant. β
Honorable Chief, even if there is really a mistake, you can't say it too bluntly. Han Ziye only said that the old lady of the Han family was old and ignorant, so she covered up this matter. And Liu Dong'er never thought about seeking justice for herself and Tai Ge'er, the old lady of the Han family is different from Mrs. Gu, and any means of revenge are very impossible.
"It's okay for me, what's more, when I get to the capital, I'm afraid I won't wait to see the old lady. "This is the benefit of being released, right? Wenchen is generally unable to return to his hometown, of course, if it is a matter of more than ten years, it is not impossible to take the route and transfer back. It's as if the eldest lord of the Liu family is still the eldest lord of the Han family, as for Liu Dong'er's father, because the official position is too small, no one cares where he is.
"Well, we won't have to wait to meet in the future, and you won't have any more conflicts. Han Ziye nodded, and talked about the next thing: "This part of the capital is not very different from Luzhou City, and it is not ordinary from when we were in Changzhou City in the past. How can I say that? My official position has also been promoted, and the number of people I have touched has also increased, and the exchange between officials and wives is more prevalent here, and there are at least a dozen banquets a month, right?"
Seeing that Liu Dong'er was a little surprised, Han Ziye soothed: "Generally speaking, you and your mother will definitely be very busy these days when you and your mother have just arrived in the capital, and you don't know anyone. The Han family also has an industry in the capital, but it is not a major industry, and the most people who know it are merchants. I heard that there are many rules in the eunuchs in the capital, but I am not worried about you and my mother, but I am afraid of Xi'er......"
Liu Dong'er and Mrs. Han have both seen the world, and their nature is also here, even if they can't adapt to it temporarily, they will be fine after a while. What's more, Liu Dong'er and Mrs. Han are both married women, and they are still the kind of female relatives of official eunuchs with a fairly consolidated status, even if they are a little unstable, no one will particularly care.
As for Han Xi, there is a big difference between the two.
Han Xi is now a girl to be married, and she is not engaged at this age, although it is not particularly rare, but at the same time, she also makes it clear to others. That is, Han Xi is going to choose a son-in-law in the capital.
Generally speaking, the mutual feasts between noble wives are purposeful. What kind of flower viewing banquet, tea banquet, and even some birthday celebrations and other banquets, many of the ultimate purpose is to see the daughter-in-law.
At Han Xi's age, once he is taken out and included in the banquet, others will inevitably inquire. You must know that generally girls who are engaged and planning to get married will not be included in this kind of banquet. And the girls who are included are all famous flowers.
In this way, some of Han Xi's behaviors and activities will be noticed by many people. An official wife who has a school-age son or a younger brother is bound to use a glance. If it is an official wife in the family who generally has a daughter to be married and a younger sister, she will subconsciously compare. If this is left on Liu Dong'er, she has never cared much about other people's eyes, but what about Han Xi?
Just think about it, Han Xi's cowardly nature, even if there are a little more people, it will seem particularly restrained. In case many people's eyes are focused on her, how can she be good?
"Xi'er's nature is indeed a problem. Liu Dong'er nodded in agreement, although Han Xi was much better than when she was young, but the girls in the capital were more open-minded and modern, and there was a very straightforward feeling. It's okay to look at Han Xi alone, far-fetched praise for a small jasper, dexterity and demure, etc., but if you compare them together, it seems that the little family is incompetent.
"So, first of all, you and your mother should attend those feasts first. What is the difference between you and Xi'er, my official position is over there, and those official wives will not embarrass you. "The people in this officialdom are the most likely to wear masks, and the polite words are slippery. For no reason, no one will bother anyone. Of course, if it is said that it is necessary to glance at it, it is not a difficulty, but it is an ironclad embarrassment when it rests on Han Xi.
Liu Dong'er nodded: "That's fine, at first, we didn't know much about the affairs in the circle of the official wives in the capital. By the way, Ziye, you've been in the capital for almost a year, haven't you?
"My teacher, who is now my top student, has always treated me very well. After a pause, a smile appeared on Han Ziye's face: "Speaking of which, I almost became a family with the teacher." β
Liu Dong'er was stunned for a moment, and then glared angrily: "What does it mean?"
"Don't do that, it really doesn't make much sense. Han Ziye hurriedly bothered: "My teacher is an old friend of my father, and I worshipped him as a teacher when I was five years old. It just so happened that my wife was pregnant in the past, and the teacher said, "Is it good to let the child in my mother's womb be my daughter-in-law in the future?" I didn't know what it meant at all, so I nodded my head and agreed. My father didn't stop him when he saw this, and the two families were world friends, so it wasn't a big deal. β
Liu Dong'er hatefully snatched Brother Jie from Han Ziye's arms: "Then you go to find your junior sister! Hmph!" Seeing Liu Dong'er's angry look, Han Ziye fell to the ground with a smile: "Senior sister, where did I come from? That was the first time my senior mother was pregnant and gave birth to a junior brother for me." Later, my wife gave birth to four more sons, and my teacher had five sons and none of my daughters. Alas, I had no choice but to marry you. β
The next day, Han Ziye took Liu Dong'er to his teacher's house to visit.
"Teacher, this is Dong'er, my daughter-in-law. This is Brother Jie, my son. Han Ziye explained as if offering a treasure, and did not forget to let Brother Jie call people.
Han Ziye's teacher's surname is Le, a middle-aged man of forty years old, seeing Han Ziye come to the door happily greeted, while entrusting someone to call his wife, he took over Brother Jie and teased: "Ziye, I still remember your demeanor when you were a child, why do you have a son all of a sudden?"
"Brother Jie is my son, I have a son, he is too young, when he holds a 100-day banquet, I will invite the teacher to attend. Han Ziye smiled very happily, it was a smile that was different from facing the old lady and aunt of the Han family, and even laughed more freely than when facing the eldest wife of the Han family. Liu Dong'er felt that this gentleman was like a father in Han Ziye's mind.
Mrs. Le soon came over and took Brother Jie from Mr. Le's hands, and her eyes were full of joy.
Previously, Han Ziye reported to Liu Dong'er that although Lejia has five sons, three of whom have already married, none of them have daughters. It's no wonder that Mrs. Le is so porridge Brother Jie'er.
Mrs. Le has the best personality, and her three daughters-in-law seem to be the kind of people who are very easy to get along with, so she told Liu Dong'er about Mrs. Zhongguan in the capital during her speech. Coincidentally, there was a banquet two days later, and the person who invited the guests was not small, and he was a county lord.
At first glance, Liu Dong'er was startled, and then learned from Mrs. Le's mouth that the most important thing in the capital is the official Zhu Zi. There are at least a dozen county lords in each generation, and some of them are removed from marrying outside the family, and there are many left.
"The county lord's name is Ruimin, and she will be seventy years old in a few days. This county lord is very blessed, he is a five-lucky old man, although her father's branch is no longer famous, and she herself is not married to a wealthy family, but she is safe and healthy, and there are sons and daughters in the family, and all children and grandchildren. Moreover, this Ruimin county lord is still a character, and the most porridge laughed with the girl. I thought that Ziye's sister Xi'er also came with her, so it was better to let her show her face at the banquet of the county lord of Ruimin. β
Hearing this, Liu Dong'er was a little hesitant, according to what she had agreed with Han Ziye, it should be that she and the eldest lady of the Han family should attend some banquets first, and then let Han Xi come forward after getting acquainted with the situation. But listening to Mrs. Le's words, the birthday of the county lord who is a few distant away, is also an excellent opportunity. You know, like a flower-viewing banquet, a tea banquet, etc., the purpose is really too much, but it looks like such a clear birthday celebration is a little secret. No matter what, no matter how anxious Han Xi is to get married, he can't express his hope of getting married as soon as he arrives in the capital, right?
Seeing that Liu Dong'er was a little hesitant on her face, Mrs. Le was stunned for a moment, but then remembered Han Xi's behavior when she was a child: "Alas, it's also to blame me for being ignorant, Xi'er's nature is a little soft, it hasn't changed over the years, right?"
I knew in advance that the two families were world friends, and some things didn't need to be covered.
"Xi'er has been a little more open-minded in the past two years, if she is facing too many people, she is still a little cowardly, we hope that I and my mother will attend some banquets first, and then take Xi'er out after getting acquainted with each other. β
"This is a good thought, Lord Ruimin doesn't celebrate his seventieth birthday every day. What's more, the county lord of Ruimin is an old man with five blessings, even if he goes to get it, he has to get it. "Mrs. Le still hopes that Han Xi can be included, Lord Ruimin is not an ordinary person, even if her father's branch is no longer noble, but with royal blood, there must still be some noble wives who will arrive at that time.
As the saying goes, if you marry a high woman and ask for a daughter-in-law, the Han family has a good family and the best reputation, and Han Xi is the daughter of the long house, and she is not married to the son of the Zhu Zi family, so there is no problem in finding a second son or something.
Liu Dong'er was also hesitating, knowing that when they first arrived, the first banquet they chose to attend represented their worth in a sense. Think about it, if you go to the so-called flower-viewing banquet held by some Qingliu as soon as you arrive in the capital, this value will fall immediately? Although the Han family does not hope to let Han Xi marry highly, if there is a chance to be promoted, it is also necessary.
"Otherwise, I'll come back and ask my mother if she is still in charge of the family. Fortunately, Liu Dong'er has a weak demeanor, and she gets along with Liu Zhang's a lot, and the hesitant and undecided demeanor of wanting to rely on is all described.
Seeing this, Mrs. Le didn't have much to persuade her, she thought that if Han Xi was really of the same nature when she was a child, it would not be very stable to attend such a grand banquet at first glance. If you can't show your face, forget it, if it leaves a bad impression on the noble wives, I'm afraid it will affect Han Xi's marriage.
Because of this friendship, Han Ziye has greeted Mr. and Mrs. Le before the Han family, Han Xi has not yet been engaged, and wants to find a good marriage in the capital, and Yan Ming will not marry the son of the grandson, Mrs. Le is even a little moved. There are five sons in the family, even if Lejia has a small industry, he has to think about his sons. The five sons were all born to Mrs. Le, but she couldn't be sent away casually after she was the eldest. Therefore, in the selection of a daughter-in-law, Mrs. Le can be regarded as having her brains.
The eldest daughter-in-law is naturally very important, the selection is the eldest granddaughter of an academician of the Hanlin Academy, the appearance is dignified and stable, and when she has not yet left the cabinet, she will help the management at home, and the dowry is not very rich, the Hanlin Academy is not a fat shortage of oil and water, which is okay, the family business of the Lejia is quite rich, and the son of the grandson is to uphold the family business, and it doesn't matter if the eldest daughter-in-law marries a little thinner.
The second daughter-in-law is a young daughter who has been released to Zhizhou, and her nature is a little delicate, and she is not a housekeeper, nor is she really a person who has no heart, at least she has the eye to see people, and she knows who can be entrusted with the burden and manage the yard in an orderly manner. The joint is, her sweet mouth is twice as much as that of her eldest daughter-in-law.
The third daughter-in-law's family is a clear stream, her appearance is not very outstanding, and her nature is also a little restrained, but she is very stable in her work, and she is very suitable for friends to survive without fighting or grabbing. Usually hobby to look at writing and writing poetry, although the marriage is average, but she has a father who is a chief academician in the Tai Academy, and she has a small equity in hand, and she is also happy to build a son-in-law.
The fourth son and the young son have not yet married, and they are not much older than Han Xi, thinking that the Han family has a rich background, and the eldest wife of the Han family and Han Ziye love Han Xi very much, Mrs. Le started to use this brain. First of all, Mrs. Le was also worried that after Han Ziye married her daughter-in-law, she would treat her sister badly because of her daughter-in-law's pillow wind, so she put the topic aside for the time being. It wasn't until she saw Liu Dong'er that Mrs. Le relieved her heart.
At first glance, he is a person with a soft personality and no opinions, and he obeys his mother-in-law in everything, so he must not treat Han Xi badly, and the problem is here again. It's one thing to not treat Han Xi badly, but it's another thing for Han Xi's nature. Although a daughter-in-law doesn't have to be a housekeeper, she can't be a person who is so weak that she really can't get out, right?
Well, at least like Liu Dong'er, it's okay to be soft in nature, but you can boldly exchange with others, and you won't be too shy.
I have to say that Liu Dong'er is still very fraudulent, especially when she pretends to be weak, then again, Liu Dong'er was really a very weak girl in her previous life, but she was reborn and experienced so many things, she gradually hardened.
It may be said that every girl with a strong personality always has some little-known difficulties behind her. And a girl like Han Xi who is so innocent and naΓ―ve that she is a little stupid is really spoiled and grew up.
"Dong'er, when you come back, you have to persuade your mother that this banquet is not idle! By the way, if you are really not at ease, it doesn't matter, there is no shortage of banquets in the capital. Mrs. Le thought about it for a while, and decided to find a chance to meet Han Xi, what kind of status she had so soft as soon as she saw it.
"Okay, I'll tell my mother. Liu Dong'er lowered her head slightly, revealing her bright forehead, and her long eyelashes covered her eyes, which looked particularly beautiful and touching.
The more Mrs. Le realized that Liu Dong'er's nature was very suitable for being her daughter-in-law, but it was a pity that she was too late. At the moment, her mood was a little wistful: "Dong'er is really a good lady, do you have a sister at home?"
Putting this matter aside for a moment, Liu Dong'er and Han Ziye both decided to ask the eldest wife of the Han family when they came back. Then he talked about the two young masters of the Lejia who had not yet married, Liu Dong'er felt that the meaning of Mrs. Lejia's words seemed to have some good feelings about Han Xi, even if she hadn't seen her for many years, she watched her grow up when she was a child, and Han Xi's character was still understood.
Han Ziye didn't know much about the fourth young master and the fifth young master of Lejia, in fact, he became more familiar with the two young masters of Lejia, and the younger ones didn't play together. I vaguely remember that the fourth young master of Lejia was two or three years older than Han Xi at the end of the month, and he was a weak inkman. And the fifth young master of Lejia was born in the same year as Han Xi, according to Han Ziye's retrospect, it seems that when Han Xi held the full moon wine, the fifth young master of Lejia was born, which means that he is younger than Han Xi.
Although he didn't know much about the fourth and fifth young masters of Lejia, Han Ziye trusted Lejia's tutor very much. Even if the two young masters of the Le family are not as good as their eldest brother, they will definitely not be far behind. At most, it's still young, and some can't see it, and when you get older, there will definitely be a future.