Is that so?

Liu Dong'er frowned and thought about it, about people who have bitter hatred with her, such as Aunt Zhou, she has never despised it. But if it's just someone who has a general disagreement, she will indeed choose to ignore it. She has so many things to do, and she always feels that it is too stupid to waste time for someone she doesn't care about. Don't say it to irritate Lei'er.

Glancing at Lei'er, Liu Dong'er nodded: "It seems to be so." ”

"I think the little lady must be afraid of being blamed for you, and of course of course for her brother-in-law and the old lady. She can really be said to be empty at this time, and if she annoys you, it must not end well. It's better to stay here so obediently, if you don't make a mistake, you can't find a reason to drive her away, right?" Lei'er leaned out and looked at Liu Dong'er's belly pocket, which was already half embroidered in her hand, stretched out her finger and poked it, but was slapped away by Liu Dong'er.

"It's like I'm fierce. ”

Unfortunately, rubbing the back of her hand, Lei'er praised her face: "Sister, you are very fierce." Of course, you're so fierce. was glanced at by Liu Dong'er, and Lei'er arbitrarily changed her words. For her, the eel is a joke.

is also idle for Hanwha clothes, Brother Jie and Brother Tai have also grown up, and Liu Donger no longer has to worry too much. The youngest Brother Hao is not too young now, and Han Ziye is hoping to send Brother Hao to the official school after the beginning of spring in the coming year. In this way, Liu Dong'er has nothing to worry about except for the housekeeper director. And the Han family population seems to be quite a lot now, but it is easy to intervene, there is no conflict of strengths, and the housekeeper director is about Liu Dong'er, it is all a very light matter.

It's not hard to move some of your energy to Hanwha Fashion, but it's hard to get a good grasp of it.

It is easy to say a single sentence, and it is extremely difficult to treat it as if it were your own daughter. Not to mention, even if it is really her own daughter, unless she really neglects the three brothers, she will be considered patriarchal. What's more, if you are not biological, you are not biological, and this is a fact that cannot be changed no matter what. Liu Donger doesn't want to defraud others, let alone deceive herself. Who does Tete do some work for? Liu Dong'er doesn't feel that she needs those floating names, and it is not her obligation to return to the end of Hanwha Dress.

"Dig deep in soft soil......? It really has to be prevented. Lei'er pondered for a while, and finally nodded: "It's difficult to discipline the children of relatives, if you blindly treat her well, it looks a bit like killing." But if it's not good for her, someone will say it. ”

"So I can only stay away, the old lady is not very old now, and Sister Hua doesn't have to worry too much about her, so she can raise it for a few years and send it out. Liu Dong'er picked up most of the embroidered belly pocket again, but her face was not as quiet as the eel just now.

Hanwha is a big problem.

It is true that from the inside, Han Huashang is indeed an unfortunate child, and if she has nothing to do with herself, Liu Dong'er will also give extreme sympathy and sympathy. But it just so happened that this child had something to do with him, and he was a little ancestor who couldn't be beaten or scolded, and had to be well scolded. Although I discussed it with the old lady of the Han family before, I dragged it out like this first, and in a few years, Hanwha will be older, and it will be worthy of her to find someone to match.

But these are all based on the perfection of all smoothness, but if there is any question in the middle, it is really troublesome.

Not to mention, Hanwha Dressing's future cultivation and marriage are a big question.

Although this dynasty is not as polite as the previous dynasty, the rule of not marrying the eldest daughter who has lost her mother is still there, if it can be raised under the knee of the stepmother, it doesn't hurt, and the reputation is not hindered, even if it is raised in front of the grandmother, it is okay. But Han Huashang is fostered by her, and those in the know know that it is now the old lady of the Han family who is here to cultivate Han Huashang, but if there is any doubt about Han Huashang's words and deeds in the future, this crime will be blamed on her.

It's not that she doesn't trust the cultivation of the old lady of the Han family, but Han Huashang is now that big eel, and many habits have long been accumulated, and the old lady of the Han family will not be determined to correct the eel, so ......

This is just a question of cultivation, and she hasn't thought about the question of marriage yet!

"Sister, don't worry about it, her misfortune is not caused by you, just like you said, just raise it for a few years and send it out. Seeing that Liu Dong'er was a little absent-minded, she hurriedly spoke and persuaded: "It's inconvenient to be a lady, and if you go out in the future, you will be able to unload your burden." ”

Liu Dong'er smiled bitterly, it was better for Lei'er not to comfort her when she said this. "It's easy for you to go out, have you ever thought that like Sister Hua'er, you can find a family like Sister Hua in the future?" "What kind of eel?" In the past, there were similar examples in the capital that you are facing now, but there seemed to be some differences. Sister, you stopped what you were doing first, and I'll talk to you slowly. ”

However, it is said that in the first few years, there was a merchant family in the capital, and the son and his wife both passed away due to illness in the past, leaving only a young daughter. Fortunately, the family had a son, so they handed over all the family business to the second son, of course, in addition to the family business, all the obligations of the family were also handed over to the second son, including supporting the parents and raising the young orphan daughter.

First of all, it makes sense to place it this way. For the sake of the little orphan girl's future marriage, although she did not pass away, she was actually raised under the knee of her second aunt. It is expected that the family is also a good-looking person, and they are very concerned about the food, clothing, housing and transportation of the little orphan girl. To put it mildly, it is arrogant and self-cultivation, and even the children and grandchildren of other people have to give way to this hall sister.

“...... If this goes on like this, it doesn't hurt, maybe it will become a rhyme. ”

Liu Dong'er smiled bitterly, she didn't need Lei'er to say anything more, she knew what was going on on the back. It's inconvenient to grow up and have conflicts over marriage, so the little orphan girl is the eldest daughter of a serious long house, but it is a fact that both parents are dead and there are no brothers and sisters to take care of. What's more, Lei'er just said that it is a merchant family, and if it is the eldest daughter of an official eunuch, there will be merchants who ask to marry, and the daughter of this merchant family is afraid that the marriage will not be idle.

The facts are similar to Liu Dong'er's guess, after the little orphan girl grows up, the marriage is impossible and inconvenient. First, it is due to the hard fate, and secondly, it is also a real question of marriage.

"That person is not well married, and it is really indebted to the general high-marrying girl to ask for a wife to put on her. Even if you want to find the right person, it is extremely difficult. In the end, I chose a family that was not as good as my mother's family, and it was the third son who was married. ”

"It's always a son-in-law, and it's not bad for an orphan girl whose parents are dead to marry into such a family. Liu Dong'er spoke lightly and continued to hang her head to do her work.

"Isn't it a dowry?"

There are old precedents for the general family about the possible descendants of the descendants, of course, it also includes the installation fee of the concubines and concubines in addition to the sons of the ancestors, as well as the dowry of the concubines.

Under normal circumstances, the daughter's dowry is a share of the public middle school, and then each house will subsidize it according to the situation. If the mother's family is stronger, that is, the mother's dowry is extremely rich, then the eel's dowry will be very considerable. But if you don't have the help of your parents, you may not be able to get it by relying on the dowry of the public school alone.

Seeing that Liu Dong'er just hung her head and was silent, Lei'er was a little anxious: "Sister, I know what eel you are worried about, aren't you afraid that you will raise a white-eyed wolf when the time comes?, I don't think your niece is like the kind of person who is greedy and doesn't know what to do, she should also know that with her background, she can't get a good marriage." As for the question of the dowry, it shouldn't be difficult, right? It is common for this relative to add makeup, but there is no reason to organize a dowry for others. ”

"Leil, you don't know. What I'm doing is really different from what you said. ”

Of course, your eunuch family, I am talking about a merchant, which makes the status of the eunuch family high, but your niece's background is really not high, and I expect that even the merchant may not be happy to take over such a marriage." ”

This is not bad, although the farmers and businessmen, the traffickers are at the bottom, but in fact the dealers are the richest.

If it is like the previous dynasty, the etiquette is extremely majestic, then the position of the eel dealer can also be more difficult. But although the current dynasty does not respect the traffickers, at least they no longer despise them. Even this dynasty also set up imperial merchants and official merchants, the former was specially for the royal family, and the latter was traded with the high-ranking official Zhu Zi. In addition, the son of a trafficker can also enter the office, and there is no restriction on what to wear.

It can be said that although the rules of Shinong industry and commerce are still there, in fact, the status of the dealers is second only to that of the eunuchs. Otherwise, why did the old lady of the Liu family marry his stepwife and choose the only daughter of the Jujia family in Luzhou City. Yes, it is Lei'er, her identity as the second daughter and the second master of the Liu family have of course resigned, knowing that it is hopeless to get married to the official eunuchs, so she chose the only son of the merchant family. If the boundary between Shinong and industry is as strict as that of the previous dynasty, then why don't you see the eunuchs and the peasants kissing each other?

"Sister, you speak! I see that your niece is still a good person, even if she is raised under your name, she will not bite back in the future. Moreover, she should be self-aware, she will not fight or grab, and her future marriage will not be too excessive, she will marry honestly. Sister, do you think what I said is wrong?"

"She is an orphan girl whose parents have died, and the uncle and aunt who inherited the family business are naturally obliged to raise her and put everything she has in the future. You say, can this be like me?"

In fact, if Han Huashang is really helpless now, Liu Donger will not drive people out. Although she only cares about her relatives, and at the same time is a little selfish, but in the end, she is not a tyrannical and cold-blooded person. Therefore, she is unwilling to burden Han Huashang's future cultivation questions, marriage questions, and the so-called dowry questions, the main reason is not that she can't afford to be burdensome, but that she feels negative.

Although Han Wah sang lost her mother, her biological father is alive and well. So her father didn't do anything, didn't she have her own grandparents, if it was impossible, she also had her own uncles and aunts. Take 10,000 steps back and say, even if there is really no one in the second room of the Han family, then Han Huashang also has maternal grandparents! Although her mother is not from a high background, she can be regarded as a slight property in the family, so isn't it idle to support a lady's family?

Liu Dong'er really couldn't figure out why the eel Hanhua dress was stuffed into her hands. To put it mildly, since this has been separated, it doesn't matter, at most it can be regarded as a clansman. Have you ever heard of any family in the clan who can't get by, and Leng gave his own children to his clan to raise? Where is this Ci'an Hall opened by the imperial court?