Chapter 11: Blind dates

In the evening, Lu Xifei accompanied Jia Yizhen on a blind date. Lu Xifei remembered the scene when he went on a blind date. Before meeting Huan Shaojun, he had been on a blind date more than 30 times. Because Lu Xi is not highly educated and has a decent job, as well as being 1.8 meters tall, there are many people who have been introduced to him. Especially in Tianyuan City, the illusion is always that there are many marriageable women, and women are worried about getting married. This is actually related to the characteristics of men and women. After all, there are a few young men with successful careers, and successful men need a certain amount of time and experience accumulation. But women are not necessarily willing to wait until the day when a man has a successful career. It is difficult for A man to match A woman, so there is a man A with a woman, a man with a B woman, a man with a C woman, and a man with a C woman, it is normal for a man to choose a woman who is weaker than him, but an excellent woman is definitely unwilling to find a man who is weaker than herself, so many excellent women are left like this. In addition, women are only a few years of youth, and it will be even more difficult to marry if they don't get married as soon as possible. On the contrary, men still have a market after the age of 35, and they are not as anxious as women. Therefore, high-quality men are very sought-after in Tianyuan City, and a large number of women take the initiative to come to the door for blind dates.

There were many people who introduced Lu Xifei back then, but there were very few who really caught their eyes. He also once met a woman he liked, but the other party was from Tianyuan City and looked down on him as an outsider. The women of Tianyuan City like to find local or foreign men, and they have a natural sense of superiority in their bones, and they don't know where this sense of superiority comes from, even if the family is crammed into a small house of 40 square meters, they also look down on outsiders who live in mansions. Some of the blind dates heard that he was just an employee of the unit, and rejected him. More people are because he has no house or car in Tianyuan City. Lu Xifei can also understand the snobbery of these women, after all, in this materialistic society, firewood, rice, oil and salt are daily routines, and they can't be eaten in the wind and snow. He once had very low self-esteem, thinking that it was impossible for him to get married in his life, until he met Huan Shaojun one day.

On that day, Lu Xifei's landlord, Sister Feng, celebrated her birthday, and Sister Feng was also Huan Shaojun's colleague. Sister Feng had already told him before that she was going to introduce him to a girl today, who was Huan Shaojun. Huan Shaojun was late that day, and Sister Feng deliberately arranged for her to sit next to Lu Xifei. As soon as he saw Huan Shaojun, he was attracted by the girl in front of him, although Huan Shaojun is not a stunning beauty, but he definitely belongs to the type that is durable, and the more he looks at it, the better he looks. Her skin is delicate and shiny, her eyes are large and bright, her lips are thick and sexy, and her body ratio is well-proportioned, which is the kind of sexy and plump type that otaku fantasizes about, and it is easy for men to arouse primitive impulses when they see it. But Lu Xifei was attracted to Huan Shaojun more because of her character, she loves to laugh very much, and her smile is infectious and affinity, giving people a very comfortable feeling. The two fell in love at first sight, as if they had a tacit understanding with each other, and they knew what each other was thinking with a single look. The two fell in love that day.

After getting married, Huan Shaojun told him that the first time she saw Lu Xifei, she knew that he was her only one. Sometimes fate is like this, there are not too many reasons, impartiality, and it just happens. Huan Shaojun didn't care about his identity, nor did he care if his family was poor, he was determined to be good with him, and even did not hesitate to turn his face with his parents. Huan Shaojun's parents did not agree with their relationship, because they had a suitable candidate in their hearts, and that person had several suites in Tianyuan City. But Huan Shaojun just didn't agree, he wanted to be with Lu Xifei in life or death, no matter how his parents persuaded him, it was useless, and in the end, his parents had no choice but to agree to their relationship.

Later, things turned out to be a bit unexpected. After four months of dating, Huan Shaojun became pregnant, and her parents were worried that her belly was getting bigger and bigger and she would be gossiped about by relatives and friends, so they urged Lu Xifei to hurry up and propose marriage. But Lu Xifei's family is too poor to come up with money to propose marriage. Huan Shaojun also knew that his family was poor and couldn't afford a dowry, so he knelt in front of his parents and begged them not to give a dowry.

The parents were very helpless, shook their heads and said to Huan Shaojun, "I don't know what you want him to do, marriage is a matter of your life, and it is your own life to be happy or unhappy, we persuade you to do this for your own good, and there is no way if you don't listen." But hopefully your choice is not wrong".

In this way, Huan Shaojun married Lu Xifei, and even Lu Xifei's family couldn't get the money for the wedding, and it was still the wedding that Huan Shaojun's parents paid for. Lu Xifei sometimes can't believe that he married Huan Shaojun like this, and the marriage between the two seems to outsiders to be incredible. Looking back now, the two fell in love with each other at first sight on the first day, formalized their relationship in 3 days, Huan Shaojun became pregnant 4 months later, got married 8 months later, and the child was born within 1 year. This speed is no longer a flash marriage, it is simply a rocket, and the speed of development is jaw-dropping.

Thinking back to reality, today Lu Xifei accompanied Jia Yizhen and arrived at the date place in advance. It's a coffee shop. There are many such coffee shops in Tianyuan City, with elegant environment and convenient transportation. The blind date each ordered a cup of coffee, talked if it was good, and paid the bill and left if it couldn't be discussed. The fast-food blind date method is highly efficient and does not delay the other party's time, making it the first choice for blind dates.

Lu Xifei and Jia Yizhen discussed, and exchanged opinions in the bathroom at that time, if they both thought the girl was good, Lu Xifei left, leaving the two of them to continue talking. If he thinks that the girl can't do it, Lu Xifei will come to him again and find a reason to leave. After discussion, the two separated their seats, Jia Yizhen waited for the girl's arrival, and Lu Xifei was secretly observing.

Not long after the two sat down, a girl found him according to Jia Yizhen's description. Lu Xifei saw that the woman was dressed in casual professional clothes, and her height was less than one meter six. Compared with Jia Yizhen, the height is really a little unmatched, after all, Jia Yizhen is 1.85 meters tall, and the other party has to be at least 1.66 meters or more to not feel abrupt, but the woman's facial features are quite delicate, her voice is soft, and her manners are elegant, and she looks like a lady. Lu Xifei heard Jia Yizhen chatting with the woman, and only then did he get a general understanding of the woman's situation.

The woman's name is Mo Han, her name is very good, and she is a lawyer. People with the surname Mo are rare, so the surname is refreshing, and it is estimated that it may be a descendant of Mozi. Mo Han seemed to be very satisfied with Jia Yizhen, and between a smile and a smile, she could obviously feel that she had a good impression of Jia Yizhen. However, Jia Yizhen's own conditions are very good, he has handsome facial features, a burly figure, coupled with a high degree of education, a high diploma and a casual personality, women are easy to have a good impression of him. Lu Xifei quietly observed for a long time, and couldn't wait for Jia Yizhen to hint, and after a while, he heard Jia Yizhen say to Mo Han, "I'll go to the bathroom and come back in a while." ”

When he got up, Jia Yizhen gave Lu Xifei a look and walked in the direction of the bathroom. Lu Xifei knew that he also followed.

When he arrived at the bathroom, Jia Yizhen said to him, "What do you think of this girl?"

"I look at the looks and figure, they are very good, and the personality is okay, not informal, down-to-earth and generous. It's just that the height is a little shorter than yours. ”

"yes, I think the rest is good, but it's a little shorter. Still, it's barely acceptable. ”

"How do you feel about her?like or dislike?" Lu Xifei asked.

"To be honest, I don't feel anything special about her right now. You also know that I used to have a girlfriend who was a model, and this girl can't compare with her in terms of figure or appearance. ”

"Then you mean, we'll withdraw in a moment?"

"That's where I'm struggling. Although my ex-girlfriend's physical condition and personality are not bad, we finally separated. Do you know why? Her job is precarious and precarious. She's just like me, an out-of-towner. The two of us are together, we don't have a house, and our income is not high, so it will be very difficult to live in Tianyuan City. And this girl is a lawyer with a stable career and will continue to grow with her seniority. In addition, the introducer told me that this girl's family conditions are very superior, her parents' business is very large, she can be said to be a rich second generation, I heard that her parents also bought her a house in Tianyuan City. You see, I'm not young, we're the same age, your children are 3 years old, but I haven't married a wife yet, so I want to try to date. ”

"With such good conditions, what are you still struggling with. Her appearance and family conditions are also good, but her height is a little shorter, but it doesn't hinder her, the woman is small and looks like a bird. I think the woman's conditions are really good, you can try. ”

"You think it's good, don't you?" asked Jia Yizhen.

"Well, it's good. When I observed her just now, I found that she spoke more decently and elegantly, and her personality should be very good, and from her body language, I found that she also has a good impression of you. If you're willing to socialize, it shouldn't be a big problem. ”

"Well, if my brother thinks it's good, then I'll try to get along with her. ”

"Okay, I won't disturb the world of the two of you. I'll withdraw first, and then you can talk about it. ”

"Thank you, brother. Jia Yizhen said.

After saying goodbye to Jia Yizhen, Lu Xifei left. Walking on the streets of Tianyuan City, the lights are bright, the high-rise buildings are dazzling and colorful decorated with neon lights, the whistle is roaring in the ears, and people come and go on the street, but no one can enter their hearts. At this time, he thought of Chen Yuwei, who was always empathetic, which made him feel that he was no longer so lonely in such a city.

What was Chen Yuwei doing at this time? So I sent her a message.

"Xiaowei, what are you doing?"

"I just took a shower. Just as I was about to send you a message, your message came. How about a blind date with my brother tonight?"

Lu Xifei had already told her before that she would accompany Jia Yizhen tonight. After the two have a close relationship, they always like to share the things around them with each other.

"Well, the two of them had a good conversation, so I came out, and they went to the world of two. I'm not right in there anymore. ”

"How's that girl?"

"The conditions are good in all aspects, he is a lawyer, he looks good, but he is short in height, his family conditions are also very good, and he has bought a house in Tianyuan City. ”

"That's really good. What does your brother think of her?"

He said it didn't feel anything special. But the other party's family conditions and work are not bad, and he is willing to try dating. As you know, the salaries of our researchers are too low. He is more rational and knows that the woman's conditions are like this, and the two can struggle together for many years. Lu Xifei said with a sigh.

"I think that when the two are not married, they will consider a lot of material conditions, but after being together for a long time, they pay more attention to the values, outlook on life and worldview of the two people, and whether their personalities are compatible. Everyone has to go through this process before they know what kind of marriage they really want. ”

Chen Yuwei expressed such emotion based on her own life experience. She and her husband have a house and a car in Tianyuan City, both of them have their own careers, they are middle-class, and they have no worries about food and clothing, but the two communicate too little, and even X's life is very perfunctory. In the end, the two have almost nothing to say, this kind of life is very depressing, and these are things that material life can't give.

Lu Xifei's economic conditions are average, life is very hard, he and Huan Shaojun are still struggling for money, and they are miserable to be collected by friends, it is difficult to understand Chen Yuwei's words.

"Without a certain economic foundation, there will be all kinds of contradictions, and life will be very difficult. So the economic base determines the superstructure. If Jia Yizhen and that girl succeed, at least it won't be too hard financially. I think he has some truth in his considerations. Lu Xifei said.

"What you say is not unreasonable, but I always think that the most important thing is that the two are in love and have the same views. Chen Yuwei emphasized again.

"It all makes sense, it is best to have good economic conditions, and you can also be in love with each other and have the same three views. ”

Lu Xifei didn't want to argue with her, so he used a peaceful way to resolve the argument.

"If only everything in the world could be perfect." Chen Yuwei said with a sigh.

Lu Xifei and Chen Yuwei talked a lot later, Chen Yuwei shared with him what she had seen and heard during the past two days with Teacher Cui and Teacher Wang, Lu Xifei also talked about her recent life and work, and gags with some small humor and love words, which made Chen Yuwei's heart feel happy. Unknowingly, Lu Xifei had arrived at the door of the community. It was already half past nine in the evening. But he didn't want to cut off contact with Chen Yuwei so quickly.

"Are you home?" asked Chen Yuwei.

"I just arrived in the community and haven't returned home yet. I don't want to go home now. ”

"Why don't you want to go home?"

"It's inconvenient to go back, I want to talk to you again. Didn't want to be separated from you so soon. ”

Seeing these words, Chen Yuwei was very moved, she knew Lu Xifei's mind, but she didn't expect Lu Xifei to care so much about herself.

"Go back, fool. It's still a bit cold outside, and it's easy to get cold outside. Chen Yuwei said with concern.

"No, let's talk a little longer, and I'll go back when it's about right. Lu Xifei said pleadingly.

Seeing that Lu Xifei insisted on refusing to go back, Chen Yuwei also wanted to accompany him again, so she accompanied him to continue chatting. The two chatted for a long time, and before they knew it, more than an hour had passed, and in the blink of an eye, it was almost 11 o'clock in the evening.

"Aren't you going home yet? It's almost 11 o'clock, and she should be in a hurry if she doesn't go back. Chen Yuwei said pretendingly.

"yes, it's almost 11 o'clock. What to do? I still don't want to be separated from you. ”

"Fool, go back early, we can talk tomorrow. It's almost 11 o'clock, I'm also tired and a little sleepy today, and I want to go to bed early. You'd better go back and don't worry her. In order to coax Lu Xifei to go home early, Chen Yuwei said pretendedly.

"Shall we make a pact? You are not allowed to mention her in the future. ”

Lu Xifei knew very well in his heart that Chen Yuwei deliberately mentioned Huan Shaojun because he was jealous in his heart, but he really didn't want her to mention Huan Shaojun, because as soon as Huan Shaojun was mentioned, he felt a deep sense of guilt in his heart.

"Oh".

Chen Yuwei was suddenly a little lost, and the woman's intuition told her that Lu Xifei cared about his wife very much.

"You go back" Chen Yuwei's message was calm, and Lu Xifei also felt it.

"Aren't you happy?" Lu Xifei said.

"No, don't think too much, it's too late, you should go back early. ”

Chen Yuwei was surprised to find that Lu Xifei's mind was so delicate that she could keenly perceive the changes in her heart. But she still had to pretend that nothing happened.

"Alright then, I'll go back, it's a little late. ”

It's really not early, and if you don't go back, Huan Shaojun will really be suspicious. In fact, Huan Shaojun had already contacted Lu Xifei before, when he pretended to be on the subway and told her that it would take more than an hour to get home, and according to the lies at the time, this point was almost home.

As soon as he finished speaking, Huan Shaojun called and asked where he was. Lu Xifei took the opportunity to say that he had already gone downstairs and would come up immediately. After hanging up the phone, he carefully checked his phone, switched the WeChat account back to the main number, and deleted the login information of the account. At the same time, he checked the photos on his phone and deleted some of the selfies he had taken before, as well as the photos of the café environment. He knows very well that women's intuition has always been very accurate, and men must be bored with taking selfies for no reason. In addition, he was not at ease, and checked his phone back and forth to make sure that there was no problem before going upstairs. After arriving home, Huan Shaojun asked Lu Xifei why he came back so late. Lu Xifei excused himself by saying that Jia Yizhen was afraid of the embarrassment of the blind date, so he stayed with him for a while. Later, Jia Yizhen and the girl gradually became familiar with each other and went to the movies, but they didn't want to be a light bulb before rushing back. Huan Shaojun already trusted him very much, so he didn't doubt it. Later, Huan Shaojun asked Jia Yizhen about his relatives, and Lu Xifei also told him truthfully.

At this time, Chen Yuwei did not fall asleep. She thought about her relationship with Lu Xifei repeatedly. As a married woman, she knows very well that the current situation is tantamount to a moth to a fire, and she also knows that Lu Xifei will definitely not divorce Huan Shaojun, because he cares too much about his wife, and she can feel that the relationship between Lu Xifei and his wife is very good. On top of that, she is also worried about being discovered by her husband, who is a powerful character, and once he finds out, she will inevitably be beaten. However, she couldn't let go of her feelings for Lu Xifei, this man could always stir her heartstrings and make her calm stagnant water ripple layer by layer.

As the saying goes, when the judgment is constantly suffering, it is chaotic.

Chen Yuwei doesn't know anything about it now.

People, if it were so easy to get rid of relationships, the world would be much easier.