Chapter 165: A Major Blow
"As for it? Liu Lili held the hand of the bell, and her hand was a little cold.
"The shadow of childhood is too heavy for me to face. Suzuko hung her head and didn't have the heart to eat it again.
"Okay, I won't act rashly, my mother also instructed me, and besides, my mother is now all focused on my dad, and she doesn't have time to pay attention to that, now you can rest assured, right?" Liu Lili patted Lingzi's hand.
"How is Uncle Liu? I haven't been to see him in the past few days since I came back, is it better than when I first came back?" asked Suzuko.
"It's much better than before, it's all my mother's credit, in the end, the old husband and wife have a deep relationship, with my mother's company and comfort, my dad's unbalanced mentality has converged a lot. Liu Lili sighed, "Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, although I want to escape from this family, but to be honest, I think it's quite pitiful when people are old." ”
"Alas, don't talk about it, it's getting late, let's go back. Suzuko didn't dare to think about this topic, and the two of them walked out of the hotel.
When I returned home, the atmosphere was a little cold, and Suzuko found that there was no one in the living room on the first floor, it was only past eight o'clock, where did Gu Sheng and the children go?
Today is Friday, is Gu Zihao not resting again? Lingzi walked to the second floor, but found that Gu Sheng was sitting in his own bedroom with Gu Zihao, as if he was comforting something.
"It's really a father-son relationship, what are you talking about?" Suzuko smiled and asked casually.
"Mom, my best friend, Liu Jianwei...... His academic performance is so good, how could he ...... because of the results of a small exam" Gu Zihao leaned on Gu Sheng and cried, startling the bell!
"I didn't understand...... What happened to Liu Jianwei?" Lingzi was surprised, it had been several years, and this was the first time she had seen Gu Zihao cry.
"Liu Jianwei didn't do well in the small exam this time, and he may have been criticized by his parents when he went home, and he jumped off the building at home...... "Gu Sheng's voice is very heavy, this kind of thing is a disaster in anyone's house.
"Oh my God!" Suzuko covered her mouth.
"It was fine when we parted this afternoon, but I heard about it in the group in the evening, I don't believe it, woo woo!" the 15-year-old boy cried.
"The parent group also confirmed that this incident was indeed a tragedy. Gu Sheng hugged his son's shoulders and let him lean into his arms and cry enough.
Suzuko doesn't know how to comfort the child, maybe silence is the best comfort at this time, maybe what he needs more is his father's shoulder.
At night, the couple lay in bed and couldn't sleep, and they couldn't imagine that a young man in his prime fell to his death because of the results of a small exam.
"Today's children are really too fragile and make decisions so rashly, how can parents live?" Gu Sheng sighed.
"Maybe this thin paper was just the last straw that crushed him......" Suzuko muttered to herself.
"I remember when I was a child, there were not many times when I could get at the top of my exams, most of them were just above average, and my parents never beat or humiliated me because of my test results, they often told me that if I learned it, I could master the knowledge points first. Gu Sheng recalled.
"So Lao Gu, you are really lucky, there are such enlightened parents, not every child is as lucky as you, for example, me, every exam is a punishment for me, double torture of beating and scolding, and I don't know how I survived to this day. Suzuko closed her eyes, and the past was unbearable.
"I was often beaten when I was a child, of course it was all because I was naughty, haha!" Gu Sheng wanted to dissolve the heaviness in the air.
"People are different, so some children really need guidance, the words and deeds of adults are very important to them, and some children care very much about the attitude of their parents, just like Liu Jianwei, the results of the primary test only fell from the first to the eighth, and I don't know what the parents did at home and what they said?" Suzuko sighed deeply.
"It's a pity that we don't know much about the psychological counseling of children, I think our family Zihao should also carry out psychological intervention? Gu Sheng was a little worried.
"Yes, we comfort the child out of parental instinct, it is still far from scientific psychological intervention, tomorrow I will consult a professional agency. Suzuko is increasingly aware of the importance of children's mental health, but she doesn't know where to start.
Early the next morning, Suzuko came to the Qiming Psychological Counseling Studio recommended by Liu Lili, and talked in detail with the expert about the child's psychological state, and she was received by Ms. Li Lu, a senior psychological consultant.
"Your child is a typical acute psychological trauma, stimulated by the unexpected death of a good friend, and if this trauma and blow are not sorted out in time, will bring unpredictable shadows to the child's life. ”
"So, what should I do?" Suzuko panicked, "Can you do this kind of grooming here?"
"Yes, in addition to me, generally large and medium-sized psychological counseling institutions can do this kind of professional psychological counseling, which is more beneficial to the recovery of children's psychological trauma than the general comfort of parents. Li Lu introduced.
"Great, can I make an appointment today? These two days happen to be weekends, and my children don't go to school, so if it's Monday, they have to go back to school to live on campus. ”
"Of course, you can bring your child over in the afternoon, and I'll give him an assessment first. ”
"Teacher Li Lu, I suddenly remembered something, although my son is a good friend of the child who fell from the building, his psychological symptoms are more serious, but I think the other classmates in their class will also have different degrees of influence?"
"You are indeed more receptive to this scientific theory than ordinary parents, you are not wrong to worry, children in the same class, encounter this kind of thing, there will be psychological trauma, especially this kind of thing, if it happens in school, it is more serious, but I just heard you say that it happened at home. Li Lu patiently explained.
"I also thought about another thing, that is, in the process of growing up a child, once there is some kind of mental trauma, will it leave a shadow for a lifetime, if it has already caused a shadow, how to eliminate it, or how to minimize the negative impact?"
"It seems that not only children need psychological counseling, but parents sometimes need specific psychological counseling services, so let's make an appointment to discuss it in detail. Li Lu smiled and sent Suzuko out the door, and called the second consulter in.
"Liu Lili, this counselor you introduced to me is so good! I plan to do a few psychological counseling sessions myself, maybe she can help me find my way home. As soon as Suzuko went out, she called Liu Lili.
"The matter of your son's school has caused a sensation in the entire education system, and it has also had a great impact on society, it is a pity that this child's academic performance is so good!" Liu Lili sighed.
"Children's mental health should be taken seriously. Suzuko was thoughtful.