"Xue Luchuan, so now that you have decided that the conditions are ripe, you have finally decided to take this step, right?"

"I'm sorry Ou Ruoxi, in fact, I and this Bingbing, I also hope that you will go to the UK with us, but I think we owe you too much, if we are very selfish at this time to take you abroad, it is really impossible, of course, if you are willing to go, the three of us can still live happily like now, of course, if you don't want to, you can stay in the country, we will not be reluctant, and we will definitely help you find your best boyfriend, definitely!"

The news was so sudden that I couldn't digest it for a while, and I didn't know how to answer them because it was really embarrassing for me.

I value friendship very much, it's something I've been very important to for so many years, and I know that it must be better at this time.

Xue Luchuan and Yang Bingbing, we have known each other since elementary school, we have been classmates in the same class since elementary school, high school and college, we are all studying in the same school, we really belong to that kind of friendship at the level of ashes.

In addition, the people of our two families are completely familiar with each other, so we know a lot of things completely, and we know each other very, very well, so in this case, for sure, I don't want to leave this relationship.

I let out a long sigh, I wanted to calm myself down, and I didn't want this feeling to be morally bound, in fact, for the two of them, they had already fallen in love with this situation, maybe it was really looking for a shot of their own.

I asked him, "But if you leave, then the parents in the family don't think about me, but some parents will promise me, you can't hide this life, sooner or later you have to face this kind of feelings, when you have children, you have to say such a thing." ”

I burst into tears, I just thought that they might have loved it too much, so there might have been too much consideration for it.

Xue Luchuan sighed often, "I don't know how to do this, I just feel that I feel very depressed talking to my husband here, I have no way to survive, such a space will make us not know how to take the next step." ”

Bingbing hugged me, and she was very sad and sad when she wore it.

"Ou Ruoxi, don't cry, in fact, we really want to give you a chance to repay you, for so many years, if you don't have you, we really don't know how to proceed, and if you really plan to stay in China, we also respect your choice, but if we continue to stay, we can't solve the problem at all, and my parents have begun to force marriage, and have already helped start preparing for this wedding, and I'm fed up with this kind of life, I don't want to live in such a false and illusory state anymore." 。 If you want, you can immigrate abroad with us, and I want to live a real life. ”

I really don't know what to say, I just kept crying, how to say such a thing, on one side is the human heart, on the other hand is family affection, in this case I can't go, immediately balance to give him an answer.

I am the only child in the family, I deeply know that it is impossible for me to leave here willfully, this is my home, my roots, and my future development, of course, Luo Jin is also here.

But if I had to make a choice, maybe I really gave up my roots and they went abroad, then it would be a pity for Xue Luchuan and for Yang Gonggong.

And in order to pursue their own happiness, they make such a decision, perhaps only in life under such circumstances have to be painful.

It's just that the price of staying away from your homeland to develop in another country is too great, and if it is really not something that ordinary people can afford, you may have avoided for a year or two, can you still hide for 10 years?

Life is long, there are too many things to give up to be rich, just like the poems say, thousands of miles of inheritance, there is no banquet in the world.

Someday.

I went to Xue Luchuan's house again as a guest, and when Xue Luchuan was very excited to follow Luo Jin to communicate about these, implementation issues and economic forums, in fact, I have been paying close attention to Xue Luchuan's mother, this is a very simple and ordinary woman.

Xue Luchuan's mother really has a kind of mother's brilliance and radiance, looking at her son with a very expectant eye, growing step by step in his career and gaining in love, or for this mother, it is the greatest wealth in life.

Yes, if Xue Luchuan's mother knew that it might be difficult for her son to come back after crossing the ocean, even if it was a long, long reunion, when she knew that her son had married the daughter of her enemy, what would that feeling be?

Does that background have to be brutal?

Yes, this mother's biggest wish in this life may be to simply watch her son get married, have a body that he is satisfied with, and dance happily every day in the future, this is a dull life.

All of a sudden, my heart ached, I was eating the fruit hard, and I gently put it to my mouth to hide my uncomfortable feelings.

When I came back, I sat in Luo Jin's car, and he looked at me with concern, "Ou Ruoxi, why did you have such a big mood swing just now, I saw that you seemed to be frowning just now, do you have anything on your mind?"

I shook my head, "It's nothing, I'm just very simple, I'm just a little hungry." ”

"Should you be worried about Xue Luchuan's affairs?"

"Luo Jin. ”

"Huh?"

"I said that if your family knew about Xue Luchuan and Yang Bingbing, how would your family react, whether it was for or against, or if there was any chance that they would be able to re-enter your family with some kind of will?"

Luo Jin shook his head helplessly, "If I want to tell the truth, I really can't guess this final result, I can only say that this kind of destruction is really great." ”

"Do we have room for accommodation?"

"Maybe it's a lot more tragic than we imagined, because this matter is not a matter of the two of them, it is a matter of two generations, and it also involves the revenge of killing the father, such a thing, think about it, for a traditional family like ours, for the older generation, how can they accept such a crime as the daughter of a murderer?"

I bit my lip, in fact, I also imagined that for traditional families, it is generally difficult to accept such an emotion, really, either you have to give up, or you have to cut off grievances, or you have to break away from the father-son relationship.

Luo Jin stretched out his hand, held my hand, and pinched it to give me a warmth, "Is it Xue Luchuan that they have some plans and a plan, how are they going to deal with this matter?"

"Actually, I don't know what they plan to do, I just know that they seem to be preparing to immigrate abroad to settle in the UK at that time, maybe it is really possible that there will be little time to come back, that is to say, the marriage relationship between me and Xue Luchuan may be dissolved forever, or I will follow them to continue to prolong, this relationship is very conflicting, I especially want to help them, but I don't know how to help. ”

"Silly girl, you can't help you hide these things for a while, but you can't hide them for a lifetime, after all, you will marry one day, if you don't marry me, do you still want me to wait until I am old?"

"Oh, Luo Jin, I'm telling you true, they're really planning, I'm really worried that this Xue Luchuan's mother can't accept her son's absence, and at such a time, it is possible that she will never be reunited with her son when she is old, so how can you accept it as an elder at that time. ”

He said, "So what are their plans to go abroad at this time?"

I said, "I'm still working on a plan, and I think it should be a year from now, and this opportunity may be achieved soon." ”

He asked, "So you, what are you going to do about it?" ”

I was stunned for a moment, "Speaking from the heart, I don't know how to arrange it now, I'm panicking now, I don't know if I should follow them, or I shouldn't or dissuade them, if this door inside is blocked, I really don't know how to deal with it." ”

Luo Jin patted the back of my hand.

"Ou Ruoxi, you must believe in one thing, no matter what kind of choice Xue Luchuan and they will make in the end, I think this is an important look in their lives, and it is much better than frustration concealment and reporting, if you feel that you want happiness, you should be generous to strive for a decent life for the person you love, if you can do this, then Yang Bingbing will always be in an underground state of life, then it is not fair to Yang Bingbing, no one can say anything about love, it really has nothing to do with your background and your education and your family, so if you love someone, you are brave enough to pursue. ”

I was shocked to hear what he said, I looked down and thought about it, I looked up and asked him.

"Do you mean to have the courage to pursue one's own equal face, but how do I feel that when this courage does come, it will really be ignored?"

"Silly girl," Luo Jin smiled, How can they lose everything, they are still having their things, and they have some scruples now, that is, such a family problem, really in my opinion this problem is really not very big, maybe the parents of both sides are not very difficult to accept at all, such a situation, maybe all aspects to block their development, maybe they may be swept out of the house directly, such an ending is really difficult to go, can't be controlled, if you want to understand this, in the creatures of nature will always be tiger poison, do not eat children, even if it is their own children do what kind of thingsNo matter what, they will always be willing to let these children embrace the world happily, and then accept them, so I don't think the two of them should hide, nor hide, nor should they avoid flying away, I think the two of them should be honest to face this matter, how to persuade both parents of this process. ”

I was shocked by Luo Jin's open-minded thinking.

My shock lies in his courage, the kind of ruined ship, regardless of my friendship, I seem to feel like a dream, feeling the feeling of love at first sight with his girlfriend.

Is he desperate to pursue it with a kind of courage for the sake of his girlfriend?

Suddenly, there was a little bit of sourness in my heart.

I cheered up and asked, "Does this seem to you to be overcome?"

"Of course you can, this thing lies in how much strength they have, how much courage they have to face this painful process, this pain is like taking off an itch, not everyone can bear it, not everyone can hold on, then it depends on their ability to bear it. ”

I immediately raised my voice, "I'm telling you that they can accept such a promise, because among the people I know, they have grown together from elementary school to college and now, and they really have Romeo and Juliet, I think they will definitely be able to resist all of this!"

Luo Jin grabbed my hand, and looked at me very firmly and said: "Of course you must be firm now, not only believe in the other party, but more importantly, you must be loyal to your inner choice." ”

I put his words in my mind to think about it seriously, I don't understand what he calls your inner choice, the most real feeling, isn't he also making your inner choice when you love that girl? Why are you separated now?

Really, I've been thinking about these things, such things really make my head run out, and I'm really curious to know about the unforgettable love affair he once had, but I couldn't hold back, I didn't open my mouth in the end.

"Silly girl, in fact, these things are the experience of life, only after experiencing those twists and turns, you will slowly understand this industry, my silly girl, you don't have to think about anything, you have to follow me, I will cover you." ”

After he said this, he whistled at me in a very angry manner.

He held the steering wheel in one hand and my hand in the other, and said, "Xue Feifei came to my office this morning and invited me to eat an ice cream, and asked me some very strange questions on the way. ”

"What kind of strange question?"

"This stupid girl said that she recently met a little uncle who was also close to 30 years old, and said that it was very good, and this little girl was thrilled again, and asked me again, saying that these little uncles about 30 years old will not be so fierce in some abilities, and if so, then they may abandon this man. ”

Because when I heard this, I really laughed so much that my stomach hurt, and I didn't expect this silly girl to really use the standard word fierce as the first thing when choosing a boyfriend.

Of course, my face blushed slightly, and this topic is also limited edition.

"That's right, I think it's absolutely normal for Xue Feifei to think about it, this is called taking precautions. ”

Luo Jin looked in the rearview mirror and asked slowly, "How do you think I can answer her question?"

I smiled and slapped him: "How do I know how you answered, I don't want to listen if you don't listen, it's just dirty air." ”

He smiled and didn't stay, and immediately parked next to it, because the house arrived, and I was also curious about what kind of answer he wanted to make, so I asked him again.

"And what did you say?"

He smiled hesitantly, didn't say anything more, opened the door and carried my princess directly on the sofa, he looked up at me.

"I said that this problem is actually very simple, not complicated, everyone is different, not everyone will be very diligent, some people are tigers, some people are sick cats, although they belong to the same age group, this thing is difficult to judge, if you really want to know each other's practical ability, whether it is strong, you really must be on the sofa current affairs and theory combined. ”

When I heard his words, I knew that I leaned forward and leaned back, I simply thought that his words were too old-fashioned, "Hey, Luo Jin, such an education method of yours is definitely not right, what does it mean to practice to know that this thing is not suitable at all after a while, wouldn't it be a big loss!"

"Then Ou Ruoxi, please, then you tell me how about it, I can't tell him that when people get a pleasant feeling at a certain stage, they can let the other party go directly into the clouds?"

I slapped him directly, "You're just misleading the girl." ”

He looked at me with a deep gaze, and asked for a long time: "Then you tell me, can I do a good job in theory and practice, can a man of my age match you, are you happy?"

Damn it, I gasped for air, because I saw a thick burning heat in his eyes, the kind I was familiar with, and I knew what was going to happen next, and I blushed.

Sure enough, before I could refute, he hugged me as a princess and carried me directly to the second floor.

Looking at his impatient appearance, I really have a feeling of excitement, maybe this is what love should look like, maybe he really loves you, maybe he and that beautiful girl have long been a thing of the past and a distant story.

He hugged me all the way, very happy all the way, "Let's go, let's go, we're going to have a big meal." ”

Of course, this is the tacit understanding between me and him, the so-called big meal, that is, we are both hungry and need to eat each other.

I closed my eyes, I cleared those so-called disturbing thoughts, and cherished the present moment, that is!

Really, if you have been bothered by this problem, then you have lost your original taste for this kind of gain and loss.