Chapter 014: The Game of Love and Reason

When Xu Meng walked to the fifth meter, Xu Yu suddenly ran over calmly, Xu Yu knew what to say, and he also knew what Xu Meng was thinking.

Regardless of whether there is a baby or not, but Xu Meng has a boyfriend he knows, and Xu Meng has become relatively bold now, Xu Yu wants to put aside anything else, just this point, the man has a little credit.

No matter what the man's purpose was at the beginning and now, but he was close to Xu Meng's heart, and it was also the light that Xu Meng in a foreign land looked at, and the sunshine that shone into her life.

But in Xu Yu's opinion, the man didn't say whether it was a poisonous arrow that made Xu Meng feel like ten thousand arrows pierced his heart in the future, but at least it could never be sunshine, and he couldn't even match the warm word, even if it warmed Xu Meng's heart (if you said the body, it was also warm...... Uh, old driver, you know, hey, naughty, smiling) but also a wolf in sheep's clothing.

Xu Yu stopped Xu Meng and grabbed Xu Meng's arm.

"You, you listen to me, don't look for him now, don't even think about it again, don't look for him. Xu Yu gasped and said.

"Why? Why do you? I know you don't want me much, you, so do you!"

Xu Yu didn't have time to answer, especially the last sentence, Xu Yu felt that it was a bolt from the blue, how could she think like that, could she have been brainwashed when she was.

It is said that a woman in love is blind and brainless.

This is what Xu Tianming often tells Xu Yu.

Although Xu Yu didn't think it was reasonable, but after listening to it too much, it seemed to make sense, especially the friends around him had said similar things, and even done similar brainless behaviors.

This is also the reason why Xu Yu has too many doubts about the confession of the past year and the time that follows.

There are too many lessons from the past, Xu Yu unconsciously always wants to be rational, and then judge feelings rationally.

lest his brain be confused and do the wrong thing as Xu Tianming said, which will harm his life.

Even if he doesn't understand feelings, but he has heard a lot, Xu Yu is too cautious.

It can be said that it is necessary to say that it is necessary to put it another way.

Xu Yu was also brainwashed by Xu Tianming.

Too sane.

Because a lie is told a thousand times, what is false is also true when you hear too much, and what is true is also false, which is called hearing and seeing and subconsciously being poured into the mind.

Therefore, Xu Yu at this time is more rational than Xu Yu at any time.

But for feelings Xu Yu forgot a sentence, that is, on the contrary, love is blindly irrational, equal, if you have been too rational and sober, then is this love?

Is it a game of inner intellect in the cloak of love?

It's also a game battle where it's hard to get true love!

Why, you ask?

Because there is no right or wrong in love, win or lose, hold a game, and divide the victory and defeat, right and wrong, right and wrong of love with a rational attitude, then what you get is the question of the game, not the ladder of true love.

Or to be right.

Later, Xu Yu understood.

Reason and love can coexist.

Be rational before talking about love, you can be blind when you enter love, but there is a bottom line (everyone's bottom line is different, you can set your own), that is, a line that cannot be crossed, a line that cannot be crossed for the other party, and a line with your own principles as the framework.

In-line can be unbridled, relaxed entertainment as well as blindness.

But if you have transgressed, you must follow your own decision if you transgress, and this is the rational and decisive implementation, or break up, or no longer communicate, etc.

The same goes for marriage.

or divorce or the two of them discuss the decision.

In this way, it is more likely to avoid blind love but miss love.

Straight to the point.

Xu Yu was stunned when she heard Xu Meng say that she didn't want her to be better.

Could it be that Xu Meng was brainwashed by that man, and now his mind is full of that man?

Xu Yu didn't hesitate and said, "No, no, we all care about you, but, but that man doesn't love you." ”

Hearing the word "not love", Xu Meng stopped walking with a dashing pace.

Then turn your head.

Xu Meng asked, "Why? Why? Why do you say that?"

Xu Yu was naturally calm, smiled and said, "If you say before, before you turn around, I will have a little doubt that my judgment is correct." Or, there may be a misjudgment, in fact, the man also has true love for you, but the moment you stop and turn around, I am sure, 100% sure that you don't love, that man is not true love, completely sure. ”

Xu Meng was very suspicious, looking at the few steps he had just turned around and walked, he looked at Xu Yu with his eyes in confusion: "Why, what is not sure, turn around and be more sure?"

Xu Yu naturally said, "I think you understand what I said, but you can't believe it, otherwise you wouldn't have asked, you are so sure, you won't be standing here (ask me) now?"

"Uh...... I just want to know your thoughts and judgments?" Xu Meng said a little reluctantly.

"Okay, then I'll talk about it carefully. Tell me first, what were you thinking about in the few seconds you turned around and paused?" Xu Yu saw that Xu Meng didn't answer, and was not ready to persecute, and then paused and continued:

"If you believe enough that your man loves you, you won't hesitate because of my words, the pause when I say 'don't love', and thinking, don't exist, and it's impossible for you to stand up and ask me why, my judgment, if you really love, you can go with peace of mind, and you won't hesitate at all, and you are not.

You have, you have hesitated, it means that you have thought about this question many times, and I am sure that you already have the answer in your heart, but you can't believe it, you are afraid, you are running away, you don't want to face it, you are deceiving yourself again and again, he loves you.

Do you really love? Why don't you listen to your inner voice and decide, what are you afraid of?"

"No, no, I don't!"

Xu Meng's words made Xu Yu feel that she was quibbling, and her words changed from the straightforward kind at the beginning to the quiet tone at the back.

She herself had already lost.

I was faced with the situation and answered myself.

It's just that this is a self-answer of "there is no silver three hundred taels here", and the more quibbles, the more it shows that there is guilt in the heart and guilt in the heart.

Seeing that there seemed to be teardrops in the corners of Xu Meng's eyes, Xu Yu didn't say any more.

Pause.

also let Xu Meng slow down.

Xu Yu looked at the time, it was almost six o'clock, and the sun on the horizon was not so dazzling.

The sunset is so beautiful, Xu Yu feels that he is busy and doesn't appreciate it well, often flashes by, and doesn't take a good look at it, appreciating what the glow is all about.

I once said I wanted to see the sunrise.

Think about someday.

Maybe someday.

I will watch the sunset with the passing year, witness the rising of the sun, and go down the mountain together, together!

It's just, it's just not together.

There is no more after.

Xu Yu always felt that the two of them had come to an end, that is, after leaving, the longer the time, the more expected they were, the more they were persuaded by reason.

After all, this day passes, January and January.

It's been more than a year since then.

For more than a year, no matter how confident you are, you will doubt that there is really, really love in the past?

Even if there is, do you really love it now?

Even if love, there is really no wavering?

There are too many things in the past, all of them are changing, no one is sure that he will not change, his thoughts will not change, how many temptations and how many interferences will be made in the depths of this decision!

So Xu Yu is confident and unconfident.

The self-confidence is the formal confession that has been made four times, plus other suspected confessional words, such as what, work care, verbal hints, etc.

She is also not confident, and she can't believe that no matter how many changes they have, they are still the original themselves.

So the contradictions were wrapped, coupled with the dominance of reason, Xu Yu never did anything, and worked hard and maintained for the development of the relationship.

"Maybe, maybe, I'll take a look one day to see if those possibilities are still possible?" Xu Yu looked at the sunset and thought to himself.

"In addition to what you just said, I think you have any other evidence to confirm that he doesn't love me, really doesn't love me, right?"

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