In fact, there were a lot of things in the follow-up yesterday, about my sister, about my eldest sister, about me, all the same, each with its own troubles.

Sister, the work has not been going well recently, it may be because she has just gone to this job and has not adapted, or it may be that she really feels that she is not suitable, I also talked to her a lot, if this job is not going well, then resign and change to another job, then you want to change what job you want to change have you thought about?

In addition, it takes time to adapt to a job, and if you are not used to every job, it is best to stay at home.

But there is a problem with staying at home, how do you spend money, my sister is not the kind of person who spends money, she is used to spending lavishly, if you let her save some money, she will feel panicked, she can't stand it at all.

Then let's take a step back and say, I will support her, but I can't support her for a while, and in the end, my sister still has to find a job to make money to support herself.

Now this job is her own choice, study, research, work until now so everything is her own choice, since the choice should be persistent, if this can't be persevered, then looking for a job in the future is always with this three-minute heat, it is difficult to do a thing.

I remember when I just quit my last job, my sister came to chat with me, the reason was one set of things, I was stunned, and now I gave these words to my sister as they were, but my sister couldn't accept it.

Sure enough, in the same way, it is okay to convince others, but it is always difficult to convince yourself. Recently, I've been chatting with my sister and asking her to insist on it, I'm really afraid that she won't be able to hold on and collapse.

So I was careful when talking to my sister for the past two days, for fear of exploding this time bomb, and I was the one who was unlucky in the end.

Regarding the eldest sister, there are two girls in the fifth uncle's family, and what we are talking about today is the eldest sister. The eldest sister is just 19 years old, I met a boy last year, pregnant, no way, the two families are together, talking about marriage, my uncle is too, there is no money at home, and there is a younger brother who goes to school, and the eldest sister is not serious at work, she loves to play before she is pregnant, she has a boyfriend but there are no messy things, and in the end they all broke up peacefully, so the eldest sister got pregnant not long after they met, and the hometown is all, what to do if you are pregnant, then prepare to prepare.

Before they got married, my mother said that the boy smoked and gambled money, and the eldest sister would definitely not be able to control her in the future, but no one in the family listened to her mother, even her younger brother, my uncle, did not take it seriously, I guess he must have thought that he could finally marry off an unconscious daughter.

Life is their own life, whether it is good or not only I know, before the eldest sister is going to get married, my sister and I accompany her to go shopping, my sister asked the eldest sister, asked the boy if he was good to the eldest sister, the eldest sister said that it was very good, the boy took care of her very much.

The eldest sister thinks that we outsiders can say anything, so the back is to accompany the eldest sister to buy something or something, on the day of the wedding, my sister and I accompanied her to put on makeup, we all took photos together, indicating that the family will go through thick and thin together.

I had just quit my job at that time, and after attending the wedding, I went around a big circle, and when I got home, I attended my aunt's brother's wedding.

At that time, I felt that the two of them were fine, maybe I didn't have much contact with my eldest sister. Later, I heard her information from my mother, but I knew that giving birth to a little baby was a boy, and the eldest sister's husband earned a lot every day.

If it weren't for the eldest sister chatting with my sister yesterday, I wouldn't know that my eldest sister is actually not living a happy life. The eldest sister told her sister that she regretted it, and the younger sister said, I thought you would never regret it.

Because before we got married, we all asked the eldest sister, and the eldest sister said that she would not regret it, but now, before the marriage has been a year, the life is so unhappy, so how to live in the next few years.

The eldest sister didn't dare to say it to the family, the eldest sister didn't dare to let me listen when I was there yesterday, and then I found an excuse to go out, the eldest sister and my sister talked for a long time, I only learned about these things through my sister yesterday afternoon, and opened a video with my mother at night, my mother thought I had something to do, so I asked me, I didn't think about how to say it at first, my mother asked me vigorously as soon as I saw that I was something, and I told my mother, my mother is a cannon barrel, just a little bit.

Before I could finish speaking, I hung up and said that I would ask my uncle what the situation was, and I hurriedly called my mother and asked my mother to be tactful, but then I didn't know what I said, and when I replied to the message, I said that my uncle said that it was nothing.

Hey, I thought to myself, if I was bullied by the man's family, even if my dad didn't order his family, he would make his family restless.

I didn't say anything when I heard my mother say this, so I talked to my mother about other things, and my mother said that from ancient times to the present, it is women who suffer, hey, I talked to my mother about this topic for a long time before I hung up.

I don't know how to talk to my eldest sister, my sister said, wash up at night and go to sleep. When I woke up in the morning and took a look at my phone, my mother sent a voice message, saying, it's normal for the two to quarrel, don't be nosy, don't get involved.

I can't say anything, I can only wish my eldest sister a smooth and happy life in the future. As for me, I've been having a headache lately because of work.

Hey, anyway, it's a mess of things, and it's also the kind that I can't take care of, let me take care of my sister, I don't have time for these things of my eldest sister.

I can only take care of myself now. A long time ago, I read a message that said, when you feel tired, it means that you are going uphill.

I think this sentence can be shared with my younger sister and eldest sister. Let's hope we can all be okay in the future.