Chapter 37: A Heart of Compassion

When she said this, the corners of Mina's eyes were slightly raised, and she still looked out the window with a hint of indifference, and said in a somewhat unpredictable tone: "Once upon a time...... We are all stupid, our lives are also confused, and people are also living in a confusion, and we don't understand life at all, let alone what the meaning of life is. In fact, life is short for decades, and the best years with capital are about ten years. You say, in such a short period of time, you still have to make compromises and make compromises, what is the point of living? There are some things that you will never be able to do if you are not brave enough to do them. There are some people who you will never get if you don't fight for them boldly. This person, whatever he wants, he still has to rely on himself. I used to be too cowardly, too cowardly, but now I think about it, I live like a fool. ”

When Mina said this, she also showed a self-deprecating sneer.

I don't know why, at that moment, Xu Jiannan felt that the person in front of him was familiar and unfamiliar. Strange because she didn't think that her best friend would have such an expression on her face, and she didn't think she could say this. And familiarity, not only because they have known each other for too long, but also because they are very similar to those people who Xu Jiannan often encounters at work with too much negative energy.

However, Xu Jianan's standard has always been that she will not apply the knowledge of psychology to the people around her. Even if she could see that Mina had changed a lot, she didn't want to speculate.

Therefore, Xu Jiannan just smiled and said: "Yes, living, it's not an easy thing to do, it's the same for everyone." In the eyes of outsiders, we should see more thoroughly than ordinary people. But in fact, when it really happens to us, we are just as ordinary people. Knowledge and professionalism do not save our lives. However, Mina, you have always been a very high-spirited person, and compared to me, you are too motivated. I just hope that you don't let yourself get too tired and live happily...... More than anything else. ”

These words were Xu Jianan's heartfelt words, but Mina snorted with a somewhat unappreciative smile when she heard it: "You, you, just stand and talk without backache! If I have you as a condition, of course I will feel that happiness is the most important! But the problem is that the real truth is...... There is nothing that can make me happy from the bottom of my heart! Otherwise, a landlord like Lu Yan, you can also introduce me to one. Maybe I'll be happier than I am now?"

Xu Jiannan only thought that Mina was joking, she laughed and said: "Don't make trouble, just now, you haven't learned yet? Knowing such a person will not only not make you happy, but will make you extremely angry, and even have the heart to kill people from time to time." ”

Mina didn't argue anymore, laughed for a while and said, "Okay, I've come all the way here, and I've seen you and your landlord, you're really doing well, and as a good friend, I'm really happy for you." It's not early, I'll go first. ”

Because Mina is not Chen Fei, her place of work is a little far away from here, and it is inconvenient for Xu Jiannan to keep her staying, so that she will have to get up very early the next day, which is very inconvenient. Moreover, Xu Jiannan is not unable to see that the current Mina, even if she opens her mouth to keep her, she will not really stay and live.

So Xu Jiannan looked at his watch and said, "Okay, I won't keep you for now, come to me another day when you are resting, call Fei Fei, and let's have a long talk." Haha, no one will want to sleep first haha. ”

Mina smiled and walked to the door: "Have a good rest, see you another day." ”

"Okay, be careful on your way. ”

After sending Mina away, Xu Jiannan cleaned up the living room a little, and then looked at the case on the table, remembering the agreement with Lu Yan tomorrow.

In fact, she knows very well, let alone her, even if it is her teacher, Wang Le's situation is helpless, and it is impossible to improve it once. But if he can meet in person, Xu Jiannan can at least provide some reliable advice to Lu Yan. Even if Wang Le could only be restrained and treated in a psychiatric hospital, it would make him have a number in his heart.

Although Xu Jianan felt that Lu Yan did not have any special care and care for Wang Le, he probably just wanted to make his mother feel at ease. To put it bluntly, it's just to help his mother consult. But Xu Jiannan remembered what Lu Yan said about Wang Le's experience, even if Lu Yan was put aside, she still wanted to help him as much as possible.

If he can recover a little, even if it is at least to ensure that he does not pose a danger to society, he can come out of the mental hospital. You know, that place is actually similar to a prison, and it is possible that it is ...... Mental hospitals are much more terrifying than prisons for different conditions and reactions.

In prison, what is terrible is the viciousness of all kinds, and their psychology is generally violent and cunning, and of course it does not exclude those who have been wronged or innocently implicated. But in general, prisons are places where criminal behavior is restricted.

But in a mental hospital, it is not murderers, nor fraudsters, nor thieves and thieves who are terrible. In this spiritual world, they can be anyone. A sick person may be a mushroom, a loaf of bread, or a fish in the morning, the sun god or Zeus in the afternoon, and Satan or Hades in the evening. It is completely impossible for their psychological identity to be fixed to those identities of murderers, robbers, and so on. Who they are at this moment depends entirely on their state of mind at this moment.

In such a special place, there will inevitably be special treatment. It is impossible for a doctor to treat these patients the way they treat prisoners. Not because they are weaker, on the contrary, because they are stronger and more destructive and harmful.

A prison guard can threaten an inmate and educate him that he may have an increased sentence if he behaves badly. The prisoner has a sense of the law in his head, and even if he doesn't want to live, he clearly knows what he wants, what he wants to do, what he can do, what he can't do, what is advantageous, and what is disadvantageous.

But if you are a doctor in a psychiatric hospital, explain to a mad patient what is called criminal responsibility, and what is called "thinking about your family and children...... That's just a fantasy. They simply don't know what they want or what they're doing. For such a high-risk group that is simply uncontrollable, it is often necessary to take extreme measures.

This is the reason why critically ill patients wear restraint clothing and wrap restraint belts to control their personal freedom. As soon as they can move freely, they can hurt themselves and hurt others. There is no way for the psychiatric hospital to "suppress" attacks and injuries but to temporarily incapacitate the mad patient in the fastest way.

It is conceivable that day after day of sedation and medication, their brains will gradually become sluggish until they ...... Lose the ability to attack. It will no longer cause any harm to others or society.

Thinking about Wang Le's age, he shouldn't have spent the rest of his life in such a terrible environment. Again, they are highly regulated places, and what is more terrifying about a psychiatric hospital than a prison is ...... None of the detainees here are awake. Because it is not sober, it can be unscrupulous.

There are a lot of hurtful incidents in psychiatric hospitals, impulsiveness between patients and patients, or medical malpractice, etc...... In the eyes of most people, if a person is arrested and imprisoned for committing a crime, it does not mean that his relatives have given up on him from now on. But if a person is sent to a psychiatric hospital by a loved one, it is basically equivalent to giving up on him completely.

The prison still has a chance for the prodigal son to turn back, but it is really difficult for those who come out of the mental hospital to "turn back".

Xu Jiannan sat on the sofa, thinking about these things a little distractedly. She sometimes often sighs, how can there be so many unfortunate disasters and man-made tragedies in this world? Just like what Lu Yan asked her before, can a person's spirit really be fragile to that extent? If he says that he collapses, he will collapse? Xu Jiannan thinks...... explained to Lu Yan, that was an academic explanation. But if she were really asked to say it from her heart, she would probably say, yes, it's really that vulnerable.

It's just that the bottom line of mental breakdown is different between people. Some people can withstand ups and downs, but they can't accept life and death. Some people look down on birth, old age, sickness and death, but they can't let go of what they have gained and lost. When the bottom line cannot be touched, the spiritual potential of human beings is infinitely strong. But once you touch it, you will want to burst the embankment and burst for thousands of miles.

Those who are completely "crazy" are actually equivalent to death in a sense. Their spirits are dead, dead in a false world of their own making, never to come out again. Since then, they have cut off all contact with this world. In the eyes of outsiders, this is the "six relatives who don't recognize" the madmen.

The silent sigh expressed Xu Jianan's pity for Wang Le in his heart. She hoped that she could help him, and if she didn't, she would go back and see from time to time, and try to stop him from being manic and hurtful with her profession.

Clean up your troubled mood, and it's not too early to take a shower. In order to avoid Lu Yan slamming the door tomorrow morning to urge her, Xu Jianan decided to put aside all his cranky thoughts, go to bed early, and strive to have the best mental outlook tomorrow to meet the poor patient that Lu Yan's mother has been thinking about.

Not to mention, this night, Xu Jianan slept really well. She woke up refreshed in the morning, and before the alarm clock went off, she was already up.

After washing up properly and changing into suitable clothes, Xu Jiannan saw that it was still early, so he looked at Wang Le's case again, and took out the books he often read to compare them, wanting to know more about his condition.