Liu Suling is very helpless, what kind of scene does this kind of thing last?

She really didn't understand what Jiang Yan was putting in her head anymore, the most important thing was that Liu Zhenguo didn't object at all, and the couple was discussing it hotly.

"You don't care, you don't understand this kind of thing, anyway, you just need to know, your parents will help you handle things. ”

"I know, Mom, I'll go to bed. ”

Liu Suling went to the house to rest, and simply left it alone. Anyway, as long as they are happy and the marriage is not messed up, Liu Suling will let them come.

Since this matter was settled, Liu Suling's house has been like opening a supermarket, and more and more people come to visit the door every day, and there are some things that Liu Suling has never seen before.

It is estimated that these teachers and staff in the school, or their families.

The news that Liu Suling was going to marry Qin Bai spread at once, and it was not clear what Liu Suling said outside, but it was definitely true.

In the past few days, their family has begun to prepare, in addition to informing relatives, Liu Suling's family has to buy a new set of clothes.

According to Jiang Yan's words, if you don't wear a decent dress for such a big thing, people still say that you are reluctant.

They began to spread out, and all relatives and friends notified it, leaving the grandmother's family last.

As for the reason, they actually know it, and it is estimated that Jiang Yan also told Liu Zhenguo about this matter and got Liu Zhenguo's tacit approval.

When I informed my grandmother's family, they went out as a family and brought a lot of things with them in addition to humanity.

The second uncle and the second aunt often go to grandma's house, and most of them can't avoid it this time, not to mention the eldest uncle, who lives with the eldest uncle.

When the three of them arrived, the second aunt was very enthusiastic: "It's just a festival and it's not an important thing, why did your family come so neatly?

"I really let my sister-in-law guess it. Liu Zhenguo came to open this mouth, Jiang Yan was actually afraid to talk about this with the second aunt, and the second aunt's mouth was really unforgiving.

"What's the happy thing? Let's hear it. ”

Liu Zhenguo didn't say anything in a hurry, but put down the things first, and then sat down.

The second uncle and they heard that Liu Zhenguo was coming, and they all came over, tea and snacks were served, and the family gathered around the table to chat.

Liu Zhenguo also opened his mouth: "This time it's mainly about Xiaoling's marriage, and we plan to get married in two days." Time is also optimistic, so this time I want you to follow us over, we are all a family. ”

"What?" The second aunt looked surprised, with a smile on her face: "You two are really fast, the last time you came, you said that you didn't have a word, but this time you even have to get married." Tell me which guy it is? Have I seen it before?"

Liu Zhenguo and Jiang Yan looked at each other, Jiang Yan gave him a look, and Liu Zhenguo knew that he had to let him say this.

"I guess you know this person, it's a colleague from the Swallow School, and he's been here before. ”

The first two sentences are not tight, and the latter sentence shocks them all.

Although Jiang Yan has a lot of colleagues, there is only one one who has brought it back, and it is needless to say that he knows who it is.

Everyone present was stunned, but the second aunt didn't speak first, and it was the eldest aunt who spoke first.

"You're not kidding, are you? I remember that the young man was quite old, Xiaoling was just 20 years old this year, and she was not even 20 years old. ”

Liu Zhenguo nodded: "The age difference is a little bigger, and his two children are sincere." Now is not the era before, since the children like it, then we can't stop it, and Qin Bai is also a good person, Xiaoling will not suffer if he follows him. ”

"It's not a loss, I don't know how many rounds it is. I said, little sister, you really have to think clearly. If a man is much older than a woman, life is stressful. When you talk and do things, people can see at a glance what you want to do, how can you still have any freedom? Besides, Xiaoling is just a girl, he is already an old fritter, can you still fight with others?"

Jiang Yan, who had never spoken, could be regarded as opening her mouth at this time to refute the words of the second aunt: "It can't be so absolute, there are ages in the world, but there are also personalities." I have known Qin Bai for so many years, and I know his temper very well. When he first came out of society, he was very honest and down-to-earth, and he was very responsible, which is rare among the boys I have ever seen. Being old is not necessarily a bad thing, he can take care of Xiaoling more. ”

The second aunt doesn't know why, but she is not particularly optimistic about this kind of relationship with a little age difference: "Saying that taking care can also be taking care, when you really want to make a stumbling block for you, you really have no way to take him." If you want me to say take a look again, even if you don't stop them from getting married, you can't get married so quickly. ”

Jiang Yan and Liu Zhenguo looked at each other, Jiang Yan was the second aunt who knew that she couldn't make sense, and sighed helplessly.

Liu Zhenguo came up: "We are not in a hurry, Xiaoling is such a good girl, is our family still worried about getting married?" Mainly because Qin Bai and his father are in a hurry, we think that the relationship between the two children is also good, and the conditions are okay in all aspects, so we obey others. ”

The second aunt didn't know that Qin Bai still had a father, let alone what their current situation was, so she pouted: "No matter how good it is, how good can it be? Without a mother by your side, you will marry and have the remaining children in the future, who will help? Who will take care of them? This is a very real problem, don't be wronged in the past, it will be the two of you who are uncomfortable." ”

"Sister-in-law, you are wrong. Although Qin Bai's father said that he hadn't met him for decades, he was a very generous person. And we also discussed, and said to the outside world that Xiaoling was married to their family, but in fact, Qin Bai will follow us in the future, and we will take the child born to Xiaoling, and we will not be afraid that my daughter will be separated from us in the future. ”

When the second aunt heard this, she felt that it was impossible: "How can there be such a good thing? Who is willing to spend money to marry a daughter-in-law and then let their son follow him? Isn't this nonsense?"

Liu Zhenguo accosted on the side: "Yanzi didn't tell a lie, it's all true." People have said the same, so there is no such thing as fraud. His father was abroad all the year round, and Qin Bai said that he would not go with him, and the people agreed. ”

"Abroad?" The second uncle was quite interested: "The people who can go abroad now are all rich people, and the sons of rich families can give you a son-in-law?"

They were stunned or not, and Jiang Yan and Liu Zhenguo didn't know what to say.

Liu Suling also helped to speak: "It may be that their thinking is different from ours, both men and women are equal when they get married, and there is no such thing as who goes to whom's house." That's exactly what happened, and there's no need for us to lie. When the time comes, I will call you over and ask you what you will know, so why bother?"

Listening to what Liu Suling said, they all believed it a little.

There is nothing wrong with this, and when the time comes, everything will be understood, what is the point of lying?

The second uncle didn't say anything, but the second aunt had a big opinion: "Xiaoling hadn't been with him the last time she came, and how long has it been since she said she wanted to get married." Neither of them has yet to understand clearly, and I still think it is too hasty. ”

"Second brother and sister, you two have more opinions than others in charge. It is Xiaoling who wants to get married, and the little sister and brother-in-law have already agreed, and the matter is basically decided. You said that you are here to give your opinion, can this matter change in any way? Young people have their own blessings as young people, and we really shouldn't care too much about it. ”

The eldest uncle has always been a person who rarely speaks, probably when he was young, he has always given people the image of an elder who is the master of the house, and the second aunt also listens to the words of the eldest uncle, but he doesn't say anything more.

The eldest aunt was more obedient to the eldest uncle, and quickly eased the atmosphere: "Don't make your face red and your neck thick, aren't we all a family? The little sister and brother-in-law came to tell us this, not because we are connected by blood, and we are different from others." It's okay for others to object, but we can't say that our own family is wrong behind closed doors, and if it really becomes like that, it is better to be a stranger on the street. ”

What the eldest aunt said was particularly reasonable, and Liu Suling looked up to the eldest aunt a few points from this sentence.

When I was with Zhou Ying in my last life, in addition to not being able to stand the atmosphere in Zhou Ying's family, what I couldn't stand the most was his relatives.

In front of people and behind people's backs, everything you say is for your good, and you are still willing to listen to what you say in your heart, but when you turn around, you tell others about it.

And it's very likely that when people talk about this to others, they do so with a bit of ridicule.

With that kind of relative, it's impossible not to care about gossip, and think about slapping a swollen face and being fat all day long, and it's yourself who suffers in the end.

The second aunt was also moved by the eldest aunt's words, and her attitude changed, with a bitter look: "Little sister, sister-in-law really didn't say that she had any opinions. It's just such a daughter in your family, who of us doesn't want her to be good? If you marry well, that's the blessing of the rest of your life, and if you don't marry well, you'll suffer for the rest of your life. ”

Liu Suling thought of the past again, when she married Zhou Ying, it was indeed not bad a few years ago.

Zhou Ying may also be looking at their family's face, and he will also come to his grandmother's house, and he has done a good job on the surface. The second aunt and the eldest aunt still like him more, and they seem to be happy.

However, since Liu Zhenguo and Jiang Yan died one after another, Zhou Ying basically never went to his grandmother's house.

Every time Liu Suling told Zhou Ying about this, Zhou Ying shouted, saying that he was very busy all day, how could he have so much effort to care about those mothers-in-law.

Liu Suling went to the point by herself, and said good things about Zhou Ying, saying that he couldn't leave now that his business was bigger.

Since that time, Zhou Ying said that it was impossible to follow, and Liu Suling couldn't pull off that face to go by herself, so she was estranged.

After more than ten years of estrangement, I called several times to greet each other and never met again.

Liu Suling knew that she was not doing it right, and she always felt indebted in her heart.

To be a man, you still have to put your mentality right, especially after a woman is married. The blood relatives of their own family, as long as they are not the same as enemies, as long as they are not people who do that kind of thing, they should always keep in touch and maintain a relationship.

Anyway, a woman can't push all the relatives around her aside, otherwise something happens, and you will find that there is no one on your husband's side that you can rely on.

Jiang Yan also had a heart-to-heart with her second aunt: "How can I not understand your thoughts? Of course I know that you are for my good and for our Xiaoling's good." But this situation is really different from what you imagined, otherwise, you don't have an attitude of opposition for now, let's go and see first. If you find something that you are not satisfied with during this period, then you can bring it up, as long as we all feel that it makes sense, then we can't ignore this matter. ”

That is to say, nothing can be hearsay. Don't always think that the friends around you are not good off when they marry old men, and you think that older men in the world are not good. People are also good and bad, didn't we also watch it when Qin Bai came last time? A very gentle person, and he also behaves and speaks decently. ”

The second aunt thought about it, and nodded: "Then take a look, and turn around and call your daughter." Your daughter is the smartest in our family, and she is married well and has a good life, so she called her to help her sister palm her eyes this time. ”

The eldest aunt is most proud of her daughter, and marrying well is secondary, mainly because this daughter is not raised in vain. Even if he gets married, he is still filial to his mother's family, and he finally didn't raise it in vain.

So as soon as the second aunt said this, he smiled from ear to ear, and nodded again and again in agreement: "I'll tell them when I go back, my sister has a happy event, I have to go and see it, if she dares not to go, I have to teach her a lesson." ”

No matter how you talk about it, everyone is not unhappy, and they are chatting happily.

The eldest aunt asked Liu Suling's family to stay here for one night, but they still had something to do, so they rejected the kindness of the eldest aunt and went back.

Everything was ready in a few days, and the people who should be invited were informed, and they waited for that day.

The day before the engagement, my grandmother and her family came over, Liu Zhenguo's only mother was gone, and Jiang Yan's maiden family was his closest person.

So this kind of thing is to bring the people of the mother's family together, and everyone will help Zhang Luo and greet the guests.

Their house is such a big place, Liu Suling went to talk to Qin Bai on purpose, Qin Bai was stunned to fool his colleague to live somewhere else, and then vacated the downstairs room and let the eldest uncle and second uncle live downstairs.

The second aunt naturally met Qin Bai, and they had dinner together that night.

Of course, Qin Bai also knew that his second aunt was prejudiced against him, so he was quite attentive, and compared to the previous meeting, he seemed to be able to speak well.

Liu Suling