There is a famous Yue drama "Nine Jin Girl", and I am a big fat boy with nine pounds and six taels, my mother Shun had a heavy hemorrhage after I have been relying on hormone drugs to maintain my life, so I haven't drunk a mouthful of milk since I was a child, and there was no milk powder at that time, I grew up eating run-free eggs and rice porridge soup, so that when I grew up, I saw that the eggs had a headache and nausea;

"Earn work", so the eldest sister took on the responsibility of taking care of me, she carried me to the east and west, and carried me to watch my second sister and third sister dance together, of course, taking care of me seems to have nothing to do with the second sister and the third sister, until I have my own memory of about six years old, I remember that every day in the village (playing) tired when I came home was covered with mud and sweat, the eldest sister would pour some hot water to help me wash my face and wash my hands before eating.

In addition to teaching the children by words and deeds, Dad's education of the child will also require our four sisters and brothers to work in the field to harvest rice, each of them in rotation to cut a group of rice, of course, I can't escape the responsibility of harvesting rice, but when the group is rotated, the rice group of the three sisters is obviously more than me, and mine is relatively small, even so, when the eldest sister's task is finished, I barely cut a quarter, she ran to me and smiled at me, and then waved at me, and pointed to her own action of cutting rice, meaning: You go to play, I will help you cut。

Yes, you can see, the eldest sister is mute, the second sister is also mute, this is also the most guilty thing in my father's heart, and then my father told me all the things in the house: when the eldest sister was 2 years old, the second sister was 6 years old, they both had a cold and high fever, and my father was the backbone of the business in the unit at that time, and he was a strong soldier, and he was busy with the dark every day, and there was no way for his mother to call the barefoot doctor Zhu Zhirong in the team, and first gave the eldest sister the medicine for treating colds, lenmycin (now this medicine is not even allowed to be used by animals at the end of the last century), and then the eldest sister was deaf and dumb; , the same scene was reproduced once when the second sister caught a cold, and the second sister was 6 years old at that time, and she could say anything, and she became the same as the eldest sister.

When my father told me about this sad past again two years before he died, he said that I always remember the voice when they called me Dad, and I really want them to call me Dad again!

So in order to make up for the mistakes caused by his youth and the deep guilt in his heart, he said that he must help his eldest sister's son to grow until he graduates from college, and then he will come to live with me in Kunshan, I'm sorry I can't help you bring your son (referring to my son ---- his grandson), I have always been very understanding and supportive of my father, never complained about him, I think he did the right thing!