Xu Jianan shook her head helplessly and smiled: "You two, it really makes me speechless." In fact, Zhou Minghua is not a bad person, Fei Fei, you don't need to target him every time. As for you, Lu Yan, if I were also jealous, I'm afraid I would have died of acid by now. ”

After Xu Jianan finished speaking, Chen Fei continued: "This is easy to do, you can almost be a positive identity, in that way, it will be much more practical." ”

But Xu Jiannan smiled and said: "If the relationship needs to rely on marriage to gain security, then the relationship itself is already very questionable." ”

Chen Fei thought about Xu Jianan's words, and then asked Lu Yan: "Mr. Lu, do you think so too? Do you agree with her idea? Have you thought clearly, her idea, it seems that it is not easy for you to marry her." ”

Chen Fei's kind words told Lu Yan's natural way, but he still looked at Xu Jiannan dotingly and said: "I respect all her decisions and practices, this kind of thing is natural and natural." If one party is not prepared or feels dispensable, then even if the marriage is successful, it is also questionable. ”

After hearing this, Chen Fei gave a thumbs up, then clasped his hands into fists and said, "Perfect match! You two are really a perfect match! Okay, okay, I won't delay your time, let's go, so that the two of you can go back to cultivate your relationship as soon as possible." After speaking, Chen Fei also smiled evilly.

sent Chen Fei home safely, and Lu Yan and Xu Jiannan went home together. When he arrived at the door, Lu Yan also asked specifically: "I want to ...... Can I go up and sit down?"

Xu Jiannan glared at him funny and asked, "Did you just go up to sit?"

Lu Yan grabbed her waist and whispered softly: "It's up to you to decide why." ”

The night is warm, and the morning light is faint. Before six o'clock in the morning, Lu Yan's phone vibrate. In order not to disturb Xu Jianan's rest, Lu Yan hurriedly went to the living room to answer the phone. It turned out that a party to a case in the firm had an accident, and he had just received the notice and immediately contacted Lu Yan.

This case is not small, and Lu Yan attaches great importance to it. So after hanging up the phone, he hurriedly washed up, prepared everything he needed for breakfast, and let Xu Jiannan wake up and eat it warmly. finally quietly walked back to the bedroom, helped Xu Jiannan tuck the quilt, and kissed her lightly on the face. Finally, he left a note at the head of the bed, and then left quietly.

When Xu Jiannan woke up, he found that there was no temperature around him, and sat up in surprise. People's habits are the most terrible thing, a habit of living, suddenly there are more people around you will feel uncomfortable. But once you like this feeling, that person is suddenly gone, and it will be even more uncomfortable. This is when habit becomes dependency.

Turning his head, he saw a note on the bedside table. The handsome handwriting is just like Lu Yan himself.

"There is a change in the case, and I have to deal with it. I didn't want to disturb your good dreams, so I didn't wake you up. Breakfast is all ready, you can eat it as soon as it is hot. Be careful on your way to work and eat on time. Love you. Lu Yan. ”

Looking at this simple message and advice, Xu Jiannan couldn't stop smiling on his face. This man is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and unfamiliar people seem to be so unreachable and unattainable, but when you really get close to him, you will find that there is warmth.

took a shower, cleaned himself up, and finished the breakfast made by Lu Yan, Xu Jianan went to work by himself. In fact, this house was first known to rent it because of the good location and convenience of work. It doesn't take too long to walk. Who ever thought...... This house can still bring her such a love.

As usual, he sat in the office and began to check the appointments and cases, but a nurse came to inform Xu Jiannan that a patient would come in a while, just to quit drinking. Yesterday it was said but it didn't come, so the case dragged on to today, and Xu Jiannan was in charge.

Xu Jiannan said, "Okay, I know", and then felt a little headache, because such a thing as withdrawal should be handed over to a psychiatric hospital, not a psychological counseling center. Of course, this is not to say that psychological clinics can't help patients withdraw, but 80% of this kind of thing depends on medication. Moreover, people who already need to quit addiction, generally speaking, the situation is already very serious, communicate with a "drunkard", and study his psychology to channel his consciousness...... It's not an easy process.

So whether it's alcohol, drugs, nicotine, it really needs to be to the point of withdrawal, and it enters the door of a psychiatric hospital. At the beginning, Chen Fei's incident was that Mina found someone to help, which prevented Chen Fei's withdrawal process from being too painful.

But she was dependent because of the victimization, but most of the patients were voluntary. In terms of alcohol alone, in the past two decades, the production and per capita consumption of alcohol have increased significantly, and the harm caused by alcohol abuse and alcohol dependence has also increased significantly. According to the statistics of the Mental Health Institute, among the general population over the age of 15, the prevalence of men and women and alcohol consumption is 74.93%, 38.8%, and 59%, respectively, and the annual alcohol consumption is 4.5 liters of alcohol, and the amount of alcohol consumed by men is 13.4 times that of women. The lifetime chance of developing alcohol dependence is 15 percent, and 25 to 50 percent of patients treated in hospitals have alcohol dependence. This is a dependency that is not easy to treat.

It can be seen that whether it is alcohol, nicotine, or even love and a person, too much dependence will produce pathologies.

Xu Jiannan wants to prepare this alcohol-dependent patient accordingly, and if the psychiatrist "can't talk together" from the beginning, then there is no need for the patient to continue to sit here and pay for this conversation.

It didn't take long for the nurse to bring a middle-aged man to Xu Jianan's office. When Xu Jiannan introduced himself, he looked at the patient's situation. Fortunately, it is much better than the alcohol dependence patients in Xu Jianan's impression, about forty years old, white and clean, big eyes, high nose bridge, and slightly fat. The facial features are obviously better-looking, but those eyes are very unbright, as if they have drunk too much, confused and unfocused. This is the outward manifestation of a long period of heavy drinking, not because he has drunk alcohol. When alcohol affects the brain very deeply, whether to drink or not, the patient's eyes are different from normal. Muddy, unclear, misty, and unfocused.

However, it can be seen that this patient is at least awake today and has not been drinking.

After sitting down, the happy patient smiled at Xu Jianan and said, "Hello, Dr. Xu, my name is Cao Li." 39 years old and lives in ......"

Xu Jiannan patiently listened to this overly detailed self-introduction, and even the house number and home phone number were clearly reported. After he finished speaking, Xu Jiannan looked at him with a smile and said, "Cao Li, don't be too restrained, we just chat." You can relax the tension and make the whole conversation more enjoyable. ”

Cao Li shook his head helplessly and smiled: "Doctor Xu, you don't know, I was forced by my wife and family to come here." They all said I was sick, not just no. In addition, my wife was pregnant with her second child, and she gave me an ultimatum that I had to see a doctor. So, don't mind, I'm really helpless. ”

This Cao Li opened his mouth directly, and directly said that he didn't want to come at all, just because there was no way. In this case, it is difficult to have a "pleasant" chat with Xu Jianan, because the patient himself is resistant to treatment.

Xu Jianan was not in a hurry, she smiled generously and said, "It's okay, but your family and your lover are also for your health." It's not a bad thing to drink a little and drink a lot to hurt your body, and to quit properly. ”

Cao Jian was heartless after hearing this, and said indifferently: "Hey, how can there be so many sayings." I've always felt like this was just a scare. You see, there are those who smoke and drink, and there are not those who live to 9100, right? But there are those who do not smoke or drink, and even those who have few desires, and there are also those who live to die when they reach 40! You say that the length of a person's life has to do with tobacco and alcohol? They all say that before pregnancy, you need to quit smoking and drinking, but you see that the eldest of my family is tough! If I hadn't been drunk at the time, I wouldn't have him! Therefore, this wine is just fermented grain, and they all say that it hurts the liver, and I think I have never had liver pain. After two visits to the toilet, it is gone, so I really don't think of it as a flood beast. ”

Xu Jiannan was almost laughed at by Cao Li's remarks. She felt the need to talk to him, at least to make him understand the absorption and metabolism of alcohol and the pharmacological mechanisms of alcohol.

So Xu Jiannan smiled and said in a very professional tone: "Mr. Cao, first of all, I want to help you correct a concept. Alcohol never harms the liver the most, but the brain. There is a great deal of variation in people's reactions to alcohol, which is what we commonly call the amount of alcohol. Alcohol tolerance is not the same as sensitivity. Generally speaking, the range and degree of inhibition varies depending on the amount of alcohol consumed and the concentration of alcohol in the blood. The first thing that alcohol inhibits is the cerebral cortex, which makes the subcortical layer release, a sense of relaxation, and emotional release, which is to usually drink more and more excited and happy. As the amount of alcohol consumed increases, inhibition deepens, resulting in so-called drunkenness, mental activity, language, and motor inhibition. I guess you must be very clear about the specific manifestations, such as decreased responsiveness to things around you, sluggish sensation, impaired judgment memory, decreased self-control, indifferent movements, slurred pronunciation, etc., which is also known as fragmentation. After that, if you continue to drink alcohol, the inhibition of alcohol will be deeper, and the brain will be in a state of high inhibition. It manifests itself as falling to the ground, vomiting, and drowning in the stool without knowing it. When the blood concentration exceeds 0.40%, coma occurs, breathing and heartbeat are suppressed, and the possibility of death is high. You see, the liver was not involved in the whole process of getting drunk. ”

Cao Li was dumbfounded when he heard this. After Xu Jiannan finished speaking, he said with great admiration: "Oh my God, Dr. Xu is also a fellow practitioner?"