In the evening, Xia Zhiwei called Qi Yanhan to eat, although it was a meal, but Xia Zhiwei drank beer one after another, this was the first time Qi Yanhan saw her drinking.

"Vivi, don't drink it, she'll get drunk. ”

Qi Yanhan couldn't accompany Xia Zhiwei to drink while pregnant, but she couldn't watch her pour herself cup after cup, she knew everything that had happened in the past few days, she knew that Xia Zhiwei must be bored, but she couldn't use wine to kill her sorrows like this.

"Why is it so difficult for me to get divorced......"

Xia Zhiwei sighed, she felt that she was under a lot of pressure, as if she had become a sinner for the ages after the divorce, but this pressure was not given by her in-laws, but by her own mother-in-law.

"Uncle and aunt still don't agree. ”

Xia Zhiwei shook her head, "If only they agreed, I wouldn't be sitting here drinking." ”

"Then what are you going to do? Ignore their threats and divorce Xu Cheng, or compromise. ”

"I don't know, my mom is threatening me to cut off my mother-daughter relationship. ”

Xia Zhiwei shook the beer in her glass, her eyes a little confused.

"One thing I think is very strange, the divorce seems to be the only one fighting for it, Xu Cheng is like no one, he goes to work and gets off work as usual these days, I gave him time to think about it, but he has not given me an answer, my parents are the only one who is dealing with it, Xu Cheng's attitude is like ......"

"Like what?"

Xia Zhiwei sighed, "Xu Cheng doesn't seem to think much about divorce, maybe I feel wrong, but he is really not positive about divorce at all, and it is completely different from what I think." ”

Xia Zhiwei's expected divorce, Xu Cheng should be much more active than her, after all, this is the only way for him to get out of the sea of suffering, but he has not moved at all in the past two days, and he does not help her persuade her parents, but eases the relationship between her and her parents in the middle like a peacemaker.

Qi Yanhan thought for a while, "Maybe Xu Cheng really doesn't want to divorce." ”

Xia Zhiwei didn't believe it, "How is it possible? He should want a divorce more than I do." ”

"How is it impossible, do you think, if he divorces you, which woman is willing to marry him? Although the love life of the two of you has not been very good in recent years, you have taken good care of this family, and you have also given Xu Cheng a good treat, washed and cooked for him, and also took care of his children, where can you find such a good wife." ”

Qi Yanhan was also ridiculing, half-jokingly, wanting to make Xia Zhiwei feel more relaxed, Xia Zhiwei burst out laughing when she heard it.

"Don't be like this, although I am already the child's mother, but I still look forward to feelings, if Xu Cheng really thinks so, then it is better to find a better nanny to take care of him. ”

Qi Yanhan looked at Xia Zhiwei and suddenly said seriously: "Weiwei, have you made any plans?" ”

"What are you going to do?" Xia Zhiwei was puzzled.

"That is, you can't get a divorce. "Qiandu Chinese Network

Xia Zhiwei was stunned and shook her head slowly, she really hadn't thought of this possibility.

"Am I destined to stay in the grave for the rest of my life......"

Xia Zhiwei took another sip of wine, but Qi Yanhan persuaded her, "No, Weiwei, cheer up, even if you don't divorce Xu Cheng, you can live the life you want." ”

Xia Zhiwei was puzzled, "How do you do this?"

Qi Yanhan smiled and said slowly, "I know that you and Xu Cheng divorced because you want to start another life again, but in this situation, your parents are so opposed to you, this marriage is inseparable, so you have to find a way from other aspects." ”

"I don't know what else to do but get a divorce. ”

Qi Yanhan raised his eyebrows, "Yes, of course there is a way, the main reason why your uncle and aunt oppose your divorce from Xu Cheng is your son Xiao Jelly Bean, they are worried that you will not be able to take care of Xiao Jelly Bean alone after your divorce, and another reason is your financial situation, the cost of raising a single mother is very large, you don't have a stable source of income, how can parents rest assured." ”

"But I'll go out and look for a job, and I can go to work. ”

"Yes, you can go to work, but your parents don't think it's so simple, after all, you haven't been in contact with society for several years, can you make sure that you can find a good job and get a good salary to support your mother and son, their older generation doesn't dare to gamble, once you lose a gamble, it will be you." ”

"Then I...... So what should I do. ”

Xia Zhiwei frowned, but Qi Yanhan gave her a reassuring look.

"Actually, I'm a bit like yours, in the years when I had a falling out with Xu Sheng, I gave birth to Dingding alone, raised Dingding by myself, and raised our family, and I alone bear all the expenses of our family of 5. ”

"But you did it, you took good care of Tingting, and the family's life is also very good. ”

"That's right, I did it, I had already planned before I left the students, I want to raise our children alone, not only do I not have this worry about you, but I can confidently say that I can raise Dingding by myself, even if I don't get back together with Xu Sheng now, I can also give Dingding a better future." ”

Xia Zhiwei looked at Qi Yanhan with some envy, "Siyu, you are much braver than me, really, if I had your courage, I wouldn't have dragged it out until now." ”

Qi Yanhan shook his head, "You are wrong, courage is only one aspect, more because I know that I have the ability, and I have the economic conditions to support a family by myself." ”

Xia Zhiwei was stunned, and Qi Yanhan continued: "You think, if I didn't have a penny on me at that time, how would I dare to give birth to Dingding so boldly? ”

"I have a good job, a stable source of income, and I earn several times the money of ordinary office workers, although money is not everything, but no money is absolutely impossible, money gives me confidence, gives me confidence, gives me courage, let me give birth to the top, bear the burden of a family. ”

"A person's financial freedom is really important, especially a woman, when you reach financial freedom, you won't worry about other trivial things, money can really settle a lot of things, make a person strong, if you have a few million on hand, I guess you would have divorced Xu Cheng a long time ago." ”

"Because you are good enough, have the strength and economy, even if you leave this family, you can live a wonderful life alone, you will not be afraid of this, fear of that, and you will not think about how I am a woman to support her son, when you are financially free, these problems are not a problem at all. ”

"Weiwei, if, I mean, if you really can't divorce Xu Cheng, then try to change yourself, make yourself stronger, and become confident, when you are strong and confident enough, you may feel that Xu Cheng is not worthy of you at all, and at that time, if you mention divorce again, no one will refute you. ”