Chapter 110: Dream Interpretation

Before Xu Jianan finished speaking, Lu Yan hugged her, kissed her hair and comforted her: "No, never again." It's not good for me to make you so insecure and so scared. I promise you, no matter what happens, I will never leave you again. ”

"Hmm......" Xu Jiannan nodded with his eyes closed, then kissed Lu Yan and got out of the car. Lu Yan was in the car and didn't leave until he couldn't see Xu Jianan. The overnight change in relationship made him feel that the responsibility on his shoulders was heavier. He had been in love with Xu Jianan, and now, he cherished her even more. He even began to think that after Cheng Tao's engagement ceremony was over, he would take this opportunity to ask Xu Jianan what he meant, he hoped to give her a stable and secure life, and wanted to give her a home. He hopes that she can justifiably take her current address as her own house, and Lu Yan can't wait to get rid of the identity of "landlord".

With a good expectation, Lu Yan also left and went to his office. Recently, all her thoughts have been occupied by Xu Jianan, who has handled her affairs wholeheartedly, and has not taken care of the company's affairs well. Today he is refreshed and energetic, and he is just going to take care of the affairs he has dragged down these days.

As soon as Xu Jiannan got out of the elevator, he saw Yu Leer in the corridor. She was standing by the window looking downstairs, and she was a little distracted. After seeing Xu Jianan, she did not have the arrogant-for-tat confrontation of the past, but asked with a little sadness: "It seems that you and Lu Yan have reconciled......

Xu Jiannan looked at her expressionlessly and did not reply.

Yu Le'er looked out the window again and said, "He drove away downstairs for a long time, so he must have been watching you." Scold...... Xu Jianan, you are really lucky, it seems that Lu Yan really likes you. ”

After speaking, Yu Le'er looked at Xu Jiannan carefully, and then said with an inexplicable smile: "You look ...... today It's not the same as before, it seems to be more feminine, and the whole person has a feeling of happiness. I think there must be a lot of good that Lu Yan can give you. Otherwise, how could you be so radiant and so happy? Woman, it's really important to find the right person......

Listening to Yu Leer's words and words, Xu Jiannan decisively interrupted her and said, "It's nothing, I'll go back to the office first." Xu Jiannan didn't want to look at her for a second, and she didn't have anything to say to her. This woman has reached the point of madness for the sake of Lin Weizhou. There is no point in arguing with her or reasoning with her. In Xu Jianan's view, in the Jiamei Psychological Counseling Center, the person who should take a good look at mental illness is Yu Leer.

But now she seems to have been transferred to a position and turned into a clerical job sorting out cases, working as an assistant to Lin Weizhou. No longer working as a psychiatrist. This is a good thing in Xu Jianan's opinion, with Yu Le'er's psychological condition, it is good for her to be able to adjust herself, and it is really irresponsible to let her treat patients.

walked past Yu Le'er coldly and detachedly, and Xu Jiannan walked into his office without looking back. She didn't bother to talk about this kind of person, she just wanted to take a good look at what the final result of Lin Weizhou and Yu Le'er was.

There was an appointment patient in the afternoon, and when Zheng Yan told Xu Jianan, the general situation had already been sorted out. This patient, a thirty-two-year-old writer, came to counseling because of a dream.

This piqued Xu Jianan's interest, because so far, except for patients with severe sleepwalking, there are very few people who come to the psychological clinic because of dreams. To be precise, even people with serious mental illness may not necessarily seek help from a psychiatrist, let alone just because of dreams?

Dreams are universal, yet they are universally ignored. Before Freud, there was no discipline that devoted itself to dreaming, because for most of them, dreams were ethereal and worthless things. In clinical medicine, there are still so many diseases waiting to be solved and dealt with by medical scientists, who would study such a boring thing? After all, dreams are not a social fact, and in the eyes of the public, they are not worth paying attention to.

For example, if a mentally ill person causes social harm and endangers the safety of other people's lives and property because of mental illness, this is called a social fact, which requires attention and treatment. But dreaming, unless it is sleepwalking, does not cause any direct harm to others or society. Of course, it's not uncommon to have cases of waking up from a strange dream and doing something impulsive and stupid, but it's a matter of personality and behavior, and it has nothing to do with dreams.

For these reasons, Xu Jiannan is looking forward to this special patient.

At 2 p.m., the patient arrived on time. When he first walked into Xu Jianan's office, Xu Jiannan only felt that his eyes were bright. This female writer named Bai Ling is very different from the writer in Xu Jianan's impression. She didn't have heavy glasses, she didn't have a dull atmosphere, and she looked younger than her actual age, looking like she was in her twenties. She wears a pair of tight jeans, martin boots, a white sweatshirt, and a pink wool jacket over it. The long black hair was scattered over his shoulders, and the whole person glowed white. Light makeup, gentle smile, just the right lip color. When a woman looks at a woman, her aesthetics are absolutely picky, but in Xu Jianan's eyes, this "patient" is definitely a beauty. At least, it's the type that Xu Jiannan likes very much.

If the first impression of each other is good, the rest of the conversation will be much easier. After Bai Ling sat down, he introduced himself to Xu Jianan with a smile, and said something politely like "tired, troublesome". has a good conversation, and she has poetry and books, which are completely reflected in her.

It wasn't until I talked about my illness that I could see the unknown side of this beautiful girl in her heart.

Bai Ling first made it clear what she was coming from, she dreamed almost every night, and every time she dreamed, it was extremely real. There are good and bad things, and over time, dreams and reality occasionally overlap, and she gradually begins to project the feelings in her dreams into reality. This made her feel that her psychology might be a little abnormal, so she took the initiative to find a psychiatrist.

Such "sober" patients are often the favorite and most troublesome for psychiatrists. I like it because they are sober enough to recognize their "illness" well. Headaches, they are too sober, not easy to be hinted at, not easy to restore mental health with talk therapy, to put it bluntly, such people, it is difficult to cure.

Xu Jiannan first said to Bai Ling: "Each of us dreams, in fact, in psychology, dreams are an abnormal psychological activity, and they are also a projection of wishes and desires. A person has many dreams in sleep every day, but we can remember very little when we wake up. Are your dreams clear and real?"

Bai Ling nodded: "Well, for example, the dream I had this morning was that I killed two people who tried to bully my parents with an axe. I vividly remember my movements, the scene of the brain-bursting, and the sane mind of the time. I knew I couldn't run, so I chose to turn myself in. Before turning myself in, I knelt at my mother's feet and begged her to promise me a few things. One, don't spend a penny, don't try to save me, don't bother with me. Second, you must live well, and don't feel sorry for me. I also told my father that he must enlighten my mother more and accompany her more, so as not to let her think about it. After that, I woke up. Dr. Xu, in your opinion, does this dream have any special significance?"

Xu Jianan replied with a smile: "Instead of asking me, why don't you ask yourself, do you think this dream has any meaning?"

"This ......" Bai Ling didn't seem to expect Xu Jiannan to say this.

Xu Jiannan explained: "In fact, dream interpretation certainly exists in psychology, but I want to tell you a fact, that is, the first person who can find the clues of dreams is yourself. For example, if you tell me a dream, and I ask you directly, why do you think you have such a dream? Your first answer is probably the real answer. But I guess the main reason you're here isn't just to explain the meaning of your dreams, but to know why your dreams are so real and clear that they affect your emotions and behaviors in real life, right?"

Bai Ling admired Xu Jianan's professional attitude, she nodded and replied truthfully, "Yes." There are a lot of dreams, but I don't really need to understand their meaning, and I believe that no matter what the meaning is, it can't change my life. For example, Zhou Gong often said in his dream that seeing a coffin in a dream is to be promoted to an official and making a fortune, and at the beginning of the year, I dreamed of a funeral comparable to a royal funeral. Dozens of people carried a coffin, which was pitch black and decorated with nine dragons made of gold. If you look at it in the dream, the coffin must be at least ten meters long, very, very large. The funeral procession was also huge, and the entire street was filled with them. They all wore pointed hats, sprinkled paper money, and carried tall white flags, just like the ancient royal family. I took a closer look at the gorgeous coffin, and after waking up, I smiled and thought about it, if Zhou Gong didn't deceive people, then I would definitely be going to soar and get promoted. But now it's the end of the year, and I'm still a writer, and I'm still immersed in creating my stories. So I said, I really don't mind what those dreams mean, and what they mean won't change my life anyway. ”

Xu Jiannan listened to Bai Ling's description with a smile, and clearly understood in her heart that this beautiful girl was a patient who would give psychiatrists a headache. She is not only sober and sensible, but also very intelligent.