488: Clever persuasion
"Your sister is also anxious for you, afraid that you will really choose the wrong path, but you don't listen to what she says, and you are in a hurry at this time, so you are angry. You calm down and think carefully about whether what your sister said makes sense, grasp your studies, at least this knowledge will never abandon you, but if you catch love, if you don't catch anything in the end, then you really have nothing. When that time comes, you will regret it, but it will be too late. So your sister would rather you hate her and blame her, than let you do nonsense, in the end, she still cares about you and cares about you. You see, why don't you see anyone else who cares about your affairs, because they have nothing to do with you, and they don't care if you're doing well or not......"
"If you regret it one day in the future, and you don't have a good life, Pang Ren won't even ask you, let alone worry and worry. But relatives are different, no matter how much trouble you have now, when something really happens, it is still the closest people who are most concerned. Just like you treat your sister, even if your sister once didn't support your ideals and dreams, don't you still care about her emotional affairs. This is family affection, how many contradictions and incomprehensions are constantly parted. ”
"We have to learn to cherish these things, instead of squandering them willfully, we are happy to be satisfied and happy, but it is those who care about us the most who hurt us, right?"
An Lu's tears fell down "click, click", yes, Pang Fei was too right, but, "I'm just obsessed now, and I can't change it." ”
"It's understandable, who hasn't been obsessed with something, you are now like walking into a lost forest, what you see is the beautiful scenery in the forest, but the person standing outside the forest sees the traps, poisonous snakes, and beasts hidden behind the scenery. The people outside are anxious for you and try to get you out quickly, but you can't see those traps, poisonous snakes, and beasts, you can only see beautiful scenery, then you feel that the people outside are lying to you, and you can't listen to what they say......"
"Then what should you do at this time, do you give up persuasion and let you stay in the forest to enjoy the scenery, and then fall into the trap? Of course it is impossible, the people who care about you will always care about you, and they will still find a way to help you and rescue you. So what should you do, maybe you can change places to see the scenery, and there is no need to stay in this place all the time. ”
An Lu looked at Pang Fei blankly with tears in her eyes, "Your analogy is like telling a fairy tale, but I listened to it and understood it." What if it's hard for me to give up the scenery in front of me...... It's hard to give up the kind of ......."
"Here, I'll show you something. ”
Pang Fei took out his mobile phone, and there was a commotion on it, and after a while, a picture of flowers and birds was displayed on the mobile phone screen.
Pang Fei asked, "Is this painting beautiful?"
An Lu nodded, "It's pretty good." ”
Pang Fei shrunk the screen of his mobile phone, and the painting of flowers and birds became a landscape painting, with a lot of green mountains and green water in the picture, which was very poetic, and the painting of flowers and birds that An Lushi saw was only a small part of this landscape painting, "What about this one?"
An Lu nodded heavily, "It's much more beautiful than the one just now, and it's very meaningful." ”
Pang Fei smiled, and reduced the screen of his mobile phone again, and the picture changed again, not a landscape painting, but an endless portrait of mountains, and the appropriate landscape painting was only a part of this mountain portrait.
Compared with the whole mountain portrait, the landscape painting looks petty.
"Wow, this one is prettier!"
"yes. Your current situation is equivalent to the flower and bird painting, you stand in this narrow circle, you can only see the scenery in front of you, so you think that the flower and bird painting you see is the most beautiful. As for the people outside the forest outside the station, she can see the whole painting, so she knows that if you come out, you will see a more beautiful picture. All you need to do now is just try, try to give up the beauty in front of you first, go out, look at the outside world, maybe when you see more beautiful scenery and more beautiful world, you will no longer be stumped by this small piece of scenery in front of you. ”
"Then what if you go out and the paintings outside are not as beautiful as you imagined?" An Lu asked rhetorically.
Pang Fei said, "Then you don't lose anything, at least you go out and see a wider world and more complex scenery." If you turn around and find that the scenery you saw before is the most beautiful, then you can go back and see. But at this time, when you stand outside the forest and look at it, you will be able to see the traps, poisonous snakes, and fierce beasts behind the beautiful scenery, and you will know how to avoid those traps better. ”
An Lu sighed deeply, "So in the end, I still have to focus on my studies first, right?"
It's not easy to convince a stubborn person, Pang Fei didn't think that he could make An Lu understand just these things, saying so much just to let her have an understanding of An Yao's kindness, stop rejecting An Yao so much, it will make An Yao very sad.
As for whether An Lu chooses to stand in the forest and watch the scenery in the end, or choose to stand outside the forest to watch the scenery, no one can make this decision for her.
After all, everyone's life path is to be walked by themselves, as An Lu said, even if she chooses the wrong one, she can't blame others.
But as her relative, having this responsibility and obligation helps her analyze the right path.
"Let's go, your sister is still waiting outside. Pang Fei tried to persuade.
An Lu flattened her mouth, and it seemed that it was difficult to make up her mind.
Outside the door, An Yao left quietly, sitting quietly in the car and waiting.
She heard all the words that Pang Fei said to An Lu, and An Yao felt that she should also reflect on it.
In these things about An Lu, is he too radical and irrational?
An Lu is an adult in the end, it is indeed wrong to educate with a stick, she has her own thoughts, and she will make decisions by analyzing the benefits and disadvantages of the matter for her.
Thinking of this, An Yao couldn't help but sigh deeply, how could her irrational behavior always be uncontrollable!
The car door opened, and An Lu finally got into the car under Pang Fei's persuasion.
The two sisters were relatively speechless, and the atmosphere was very awkward.
An Yao is her sister in the end, and she also deeply reflects on her own wrong, how can she be so calculating with her own sister.
"Does your arm still hurt?" she took the initiative to care, breaking the embarrassment between the two.
An Lu shed tears and shook her head like a rattle, "It doesn't hurt, it doesn't hurt at all, you hit the right one, if I don't obey in the future, you will beat me like this until I wake up." ”
An Yao smiled, but tears rolled in her eyes.
She reached out and stroked An Lu's soft hair, her voice choked, "I'm sorry, I didn't control my emotions just now." ”
An Lu leaned her head on her shoulder, acting coquettishly like when she was a child, "You bad-tempered stinky woman, why should you be my sister, if you weren't my sister, I would have been able to fight you hard." ”
"Huh, so you still want to fight with me?"
An Lu hurriedly shook her head, "No, no, even if there is, I am not your opponent, you are two people now, how can I fight one against two." ”
An Yao took An Lu's hand and put it down in her palm, and didn't say anything more.
An Lu was the same, on the way back, the car was very quiet, but there was no such awkward atmosphere.
When the four of them returned to An's house, they saw that the dishes on the table had been arranged, and they were waiting for a few of them to come back.
There are so many more people in this An family at once, which can be described as very lively.
An Yaote brought back two bottles of good wine, the white one for An Jianshan and Pang Jinchuan, and the red one for them to drink.
The two families finally got together, and those bad words were not said, everyone ate and chatted, said some happy words, and let the joyful atmosphere spread all the time.
In a corner of the table, Lin Miaoxue looked at the two happy families, but there was an indescribable loss in her heart.
She told herself countless times not to think about An Jianshan anymore, but she couldn't help but peek at An Jianshan countless times.
His tall and majestic figure seems to be planted in Lin Miaoxue's heart, and if he wants to uproot it, his heart is destined to be broken by injuries.
What to do?
She was distressed.
At the end of the dinner, Pang Fei took Pang Jinchuan and Pang Yan away, An Yao and An Lu hid in the room and whispered, An Jianshan and Cao Xiu'e reunited after a long absence, and also returned to the room early.
She helped Aunt Zhang clean up her things and used her busyness to expel the loneliness and anxiety in her heart, but she accidentally broke the plate and cut her hand.
Hong Meixuan hurriedly found a band-aid for her to put on it, and told her to go to her room to rest, and she didn't have to worry about things in the kitchen.
Lin Miaoxue returned to the room, facing the empty room, feeling more and more lost.
Is it right to stay here by yourself?
Will it disturb the peaceful life of An Yao's family?
Could it be that the feelings for An Jianshan will become more and more overflowing, and they will eventually be uncontrollable?
The best thing to do is to leave!
However, after leaving Anjia, won't she become a lonely person again, she really doesn't want to live a day of that kind of day.
Just as he was thinking wildly, the door was pushed open from the outside, and it was An Yao who came back.
"I heard Aunt Zhang say that your hand was scratched, does it matter?" An Yao took her hand to check it worriedly, but fortunately it was just a little scratched, and it didn't matter.
Lin Miaoxue likes this feeling of being cared for and cared for, maybe a person has been lonely for too long, and she is especially eager for someone to care about herself. But she would prefer this person to be the big hero in her mind, just ...... An Jianshan and An Yao......
Every time she thought of this, Lin Miaoxue felt very sorry for An Yao, and her heart was empty.