Song Yingying smiled and said, "Listen to my story, you can pay for it!"

"That's okay, I have all the milk tea for the employees of the company today. Li Yile said.

Song Yingying nodded: "But the premise is that I won't involve the true identity of my patient, so the cases I said are all pseudonyms!"

"I know this, you have to protect the privacy of patients, this is right, I am just bored, I just want to hear this case of psychological counseling. Li Yi leaned back in his chair and began to wait for Song Yingying's narration.

Song Yingying immediately said: "Then I'll listen to you an audio, about the explanation of some of my patients, of course, the sound of this audio is also processed, not the original sound." ”

Then, Song Yingying played an audio clip on the computer.

Soon, a sound came out of the computer.

At the beginning, it was Song Yingying's voice: "Zhang, male, 20 years old, a student of the No. 1 Middle School in the city. The student has studied very well since he was a child, and often takes the first exam, and the following is his main complaint. ”

After a while, a young man's voice appeared.

"I have been very dishonest since I was a child, and when I was in elementary school, I broke my arm, and I often got into fights with others, and I was approached almost every day. When people came to the door with the children, my father was very angry and beat me, so that I was beaten almost every day, but I still didn't change. I've been very bold since I was a child. ”

"When I reached junior high school, I was still studying very well, but I still had bad habits and often had trouble with teachers. Once, I had another fight with the principal, and he wouldn't let me go to school. Later, my father apologized to the principal, and after several setbacks, I reluctantly went back to school. ”

Song Yingying made an analysis at the end of this paragraph: "After this student was admitted to high school, his problems still did not change.

Just a week after entering high school, he teamed up with two other people to fight with his senior classmates, and was seriously dealt with by the school and punished with a serious warning.

However, soon after, he and others seriously injured another classmate, causing him to be hospitalized for two months, paying a lot of medical expenses, and being expelled from school.

Thanks to many efforts, I came back to school two months later on the premise of writing a letter of guarantee. ”

Zhang: "After that fight, the two of us were driven home, and I went home and saw that my family was running all day for my business, with a sad face, and I felt very uncomfortable, so I made up my mind to get rid of the old problem, and wrote down how to behave in the future in a book at home. ”

"When I came back to school, I took my rules seriously and was very cautious. In the first few days, I didn't say anything except greeting each other with my classmates, and occasionally I was with my classmates, and I didn't just say some face-to-face words like before, and my classmates said that I had changed a lot.

After a few days, I felt very uncomfortable, and gradually I started to talk more, but I was still very careful about my words and deeds, and sometimes I got into a bit of trouble with other classmates, for fear of offending people, and I began to be suspicious.

Sometimes I get nervous when I see someone looking at me a little differently, or when I talk to me in a slightly different facial expression. I also paid close attention to the teacher's expression when he saw me, and I thought about it when I found something.

At the same time, I am also very concerned about the opinions and evaluations of my teachers and classmates, and I have a little trouble with some classmates, for fear that he will speak ill of me behind my back, so I try to maintain a good relationship with all my classmates.

But some of the bad things in the past still can't be changed, and I always want to show that I am better than others when I encounter problems. At the same time, since that incident, the villagers' perception of me has also changed, so when I returned to school, I was very careful, thinking that if I was expelled again, I would not be able to stay in the village, so I thought about everything I did, and every time I finished a small thing, I thought again about whether I should do it or not. ”

"Later, especially during the exam, I began to be anxious, if I saw a small crack in the tip of the pen, I glued it with transparent glue, although it did not affect the writing, but I still felt awkward and always thought about it.

I knew that it was okay and I shouldn't think about it, but I always thought about it, and I was very irritable, which affected the exam. Later, when I took the exam, I occasionally felt that the soles of my shoes were a little uneven and my belt was a little tight, so I felt very uncomfortable, so I kept thinking about it, and I wanted to ignore it, but the more I thought about it, the more I thought about it. In fact, the sole of the shoe is not flat at all, and the belt is not tight.

Since then, I have been thinking about going to class on a regular basis, but I can't study well. Later, I also thought about seeing a little dirt or a little thread on my clothes. This problem lasted for almost a year. ”

"Later, I started to think that other people were dirty, that things were dirty, and I was always afraid that others would infect me with some disease. Once, when the pen accidentally fell to the ground, I thought, maybe someone has spit on the place where the pen fell, maybe someone's shoes have stepped on it, so I feel very dirty, and I don't dare to touch anything after touching the pen.

Another time, a classmate had surgery, and I knew that the disease was not contagious at all, but I was still very worried, and sometimes when this classmate touched me, I was very nervous, and I wiped the place of the clothes I touched several times before I was relieved. ”

"Later, I thought about things that I shouldn't have thought about in my studies. For example, 3 is 1/2 of 6 and 1/2 times of 3 6, I doubt it, and I know in my heart that they mean the same thing, but I still doubt it, so I look up all kinds of information. It's endlessly suspicious, and it's dizzy and uncomfortable. Even when I buy something, I always suspect that I have miscalculated. ”

Li Yi heard this, and the sound of the audio ended.

He asked Song Yingying, "Why is that? Why did he become like this?"

Song Ying has explained: "He suffers from obsessive-compulsive disorder, and the typical feature of obsessive-compulsive disorder is the coexistence of conscious self-compulsion and conscious self-counter-compulsion, and the conflict between the two causes the patient to be very distressed. From what the student reported, it can be seen that he suffers from obsessive-compulsive neurosis, that is, obsessions accompanied by obsessive-compulsive behaviors. ”

Li Yi didn't know these technical terms, so he asked Song Yingying to be simpler.

Song Yingying shrugged, "To put it simply, OCD is a stressful neurosis that is often caused by major real-life events. ”

"Since Zhang was expelled from the fight, he has developed a strong sense of repentance in the face of the triple pressure of the school, his family and the people in the village who think of him, so since he returned to school, he has been very careful in dealing with people, and he is the same as before. ”

However, because his problem has been going on for a long time, he is worried that he will not be able to overcome it, and he will once again arouse the dissatisfaction of his classmates and teachers, so he is very sensitive to the reactions of teachers and classmates, so he strengthens self-restraint, and the more he restrains himself, the more worried he is about the opinions of others, and the crux of the conflict arises. With the increase of pressure, the contradiction deepens, and the conflict is deformed, from worrying about the perception of others to paying attention to one's own objects and related parts of the body, and then to doubting others, and finally to doubting the learning content. ”

In fact, the formation of obsessive-compulsive symptoms is often based on the background of obsessive-compulsive personality, he was originally cheerful, bold, indifferent, and informal, since the experience of that incident, trying to change his personality, due to the incorrect way of change and improvement, and went to the other extreme, resulting in the personality becoming sensitive, suspicious, withdrawn, rigid and timid, which has obsessive-compulsive personality characteristics. ”

After Li Yi listened to it, he felt very surprised.

He originally thought that obsessive-compulsive disorder would at most be clicked on after a message came from WeChat, clicked on after a red dot in the circle of friends, and withdrawn and re-sent if there was a typo.

But he didn't expect that classmate Zhang would become forced because of the fight.

He continued to ask Song Yingying: "Are there any other similar cases?"

Song Yingying nodded and continued: "These days, a corporate clerk, she said that in the past five years she has been working, her interpersonal relationship in the unit has become worse and worse, and even the mood of returning home is not good, and recently, even her best friend has had conflicts with her, she doesn't know what to do to change all this, when she returned home and talked to her husband, her husband suggested that she go to a psychological counselor to talk. ”

Then, Song Yingying played another piece of audio.

The voice was a girl with a northern accent, and she sighed: "I think I am a very good person to get along with and be very good to others, but after a long time, I find that the people with whom I had a good relationship will become more and more distant." I can't figure out why this is happening. I've been working for five years, and I've been in this unit. My colleagues who used to get along well are now reluctant to be with me. Especially my best friend Yueyue, who sits in an office, is also cold to me now. ”

Song Yingying asked Tingting, "What happened between you and Yueyue?"

Tingting replied: "Yueyue came later than me, and when she first arrived at the company, she didn't know anyone. I thought I should take care of the new person, so I helped her a lot, so our relationship got better and better, and we became good friends. I'm really nice to her, and I think about her in almost everything. But I don't know why, some time ago, Yueyue began to distance herself from me. I was angry and asked her why she was alienating me, but she didn't admit it, saying that she thought it was good. ”

After listening to it, Li Yi directly gave her thoughts: "People need a certain distance between people, and she is indeed very good to others, but if the distance between them is too close, it will make the other party feel that their private space is encroached upon, and therefore feel uncomfortable and want to keep a distance from you." ”

He raised his head and asked Song Yingying, "Am I right?"

Song Yingying nodded: "That's true, anthropologist Dr. Hall divides four kinds of distance for interpersonal relationships: public distance, social distance, personal distance and intimate distance.

Public distancing ranges from 3.7 to 7.6 metres for unfamiliar conversations and informal situations, social distancing ranges from 1.2 to 3.6 metres for ordinary workplaces or more formal relationships, personal distancing ranges from 0.45 to 1.2 metres for familiar but less intimate relationships, and the smallest range of intimate distances is within 0.15 metres where skin-to-skin contact is possible.

And everyone has their own standards and feelings about distance, and has a certain degree of flexibility. In public places where private space cannot be considered, people's requirements for distance will be relatively lower and they will accept the current state, but in public places with enough space, people's requirements for personal distance will be adjusted according to their inner feelings.

Compared with the external spatial distance, the inner "spatial distance" is more important. In the outer space, friends need to maintain a "personal distance", while in the inner space, what friends need to do is to "stay close while respecting each other's feelings". ”

After listening to Song Yingying's talk about these professional terms, Li Yi even felt that she should have opened a psychological counseling center a long time ago.

A kind person like her should help others.

Li Yi suddenly thought of something, so he asked, "By the way, didn't a boy say that he wanted to chase you before?"

Song Yingying glanced at him and said speechlessly: "No feeling is no feeling, it's impossible for me to fall in love with a boy who doesn't feel it, right?"

Li Yi smiled: "I don't know what kind of boy you like." ”

He just wanted to complain, but the phone rang, so Li Yi stood up: "Okay, you get busy first, I'll come to you another day." ”

With that, he walked out.

Song Yingying looked at Li Yi's departing back and muttered, "What kind of boy I like, don't you know?"

"Xiaoyi, hello! I'm Zhou Xingchi. Zhou Xingchi introduced himself.

"Master Xing, it's really you!" Hearing that the other party was Zhou Xingchi, Li Yi was quite surprised, you must know that Xing Ye has always been an actor he likes very much!

"Xiaoyi, your new movie Journey to the West, I also went to the cinema today, the quality is very good, it's really surprising, I'm also your fan now......" Zhou Xingchi praised Li Yi with excitement and a smile in his tone.

These words really don't sound like anything to Li Yi, after all, since his debut, his acting skills and works have been concerned and affirmed by all parties, and many big stars, even CCTV news have praised him, and they have long been accustomed to it.

But what Xing Ye said to him, if he let other people in the circle know, he will definitely drop his jaw!

After all, Xing Ye has a relatively withdrawn personality and is relatively engraved, but all the actors who have worked with him think that he is more difficult to get along with, and it is difficult to hear compliments from his mouth!

But his praise to Li Yi is simply more than what he has said to others in his life combined, how can it not make people crazy!

"So, I hope you can agree to participate in my next work as the leading actor, called "The King of Comedy", I think the protagonist is none other than you, I sincerely invite you!" After Zhou Xingchi praised Li Yitong, he finally got to the point.

As soon as these words came out, Zhou Xingchi's heart suddenly became nervous, for fear that Li Yi would reject him.

"Okay!" What he didn't expect was that Li Yi agreed without hesitation.

Because when he heard the name "The King of Comedy", he recalled that it was a classic movie with a score of more than nine points.

"What?" Zhou Xingchi felt a little unbelievable, after all, Li Yi was very picky in taking on the play, he was well-known in the industry, and he had heard of it, so he really didn't expect the other party to agree so simply!

"I said I do!" Li Yi thought he hadn't heard clearly, so he repeated it again.

"Good, good, good, great! Xing Ye suddenly laughed happily, and then couldn't help but ask with some doubts: "Xiaoyi, I heard that you are very strict in the selection of scripts, like Zhang Yimou, Director Chen, these big directors invite you, but you are often rejected, why did I speak, the script hasn't been shown to you yet, and you agreed?"

"Hahahaha, that's because I've been a fan of Xingye since I was a child, I like your movies very much, I am naturally very willing to have the opportunity to work with you, even if I don't have to read the script, I can rest assured!" Li Yi boasted casually,.

"Hahaha...... Okay, good, you just promise, you just promise!" Zhou Xingchi was even more happy and excited, and laughed heartily.

Like Li Yi, after Zhou Xingchi became famous, he was also used to hearing compliments, and there were many people who spoke better than Li Yi.

But when these words came out of Li Yi's mouth, he was extremely touched!

Subsequently, Zhou Xingchi said that he has been busy filming mermaids recently, and the script of the next "King of Comedy" has not actually been fully written.

Li Yi's talent is not only limited to the identity of an actor, but also an extremely good screenwriter, director, and even songwriter, so he hopes that Li Yi will not only play the starring role, but also participate in the production of "The King of Comedy", a movie he has been planning for many years.

In this regard, Li Yi naturally agreed, which made Zhou Xingchi even more overjoyed.

"Well, I have one condition! If I can't agree to this condition, I won't act!" Li Yi's eyes suddenly rolled, and he smiled slyly.

"If you mention any conditions, as long as I can do it, I will do it!" Zhou Xingchi, who was on the rise, said without hesitation.

"My condition, except for you Xingye, really no one can do it!" Li Yi said with a smile

"I hope that Master Xing can come out of the mountain, at least in the work "The King of Comedy", make a cameo!"

This request immediately made Zhou Xingchi feel a little embarrassed, and he also knew that Li Yi had good intentions, after all, in the years since he completely turned behind the scenes, I don't know how many fans are looking forward to him being able to appear in movies again.

Without hesitating for too long, Zhou Xingchi took a deep breath and said with a helpless smile: "Xiaoyi, to be honest, no one dares to use this condition to "blackmail" me, even if I say it, I will definitely not agree." ”

"But who let you be the one who said this, I can understand your feelings, okay, I'll promise you!"

Seeing that Zhou Xingchi agreed to his conditions, Li Yi was also very happy, and everyone was happy.

The two chatted for a while and then hung up.

Li Yi decided to tell the news to the staff of Guoke Film and Television, because they were about to work with the comedy master!