During the National Day holiday in 2001, my parents also came to Kunshan with a worried heart, but this time they were different from the time they came to Kunshan a year ago, and they were in a very happy mood, as if they were looking at the flowers and plants on the roadside in Kunshan with envy of beauty. I went to the train station to pick up the two elders, and I still told my parents again: Don't mention the matter of buying a house in Kunshan, even if you sell the house in the urban area of your hometown, I will not ask for this money, I will find a way to solve it myself.

When it comes to my future marriage, as long as I like it, they will fully support it, and never interfere or obstruct it. When I arrived at her house, the parents of both sides chatted amicably, in fact, there was nothing left, basically everything I had already negotiated, but there were some "technical" details that needed their elders to sign the contract, and the two of them came over just a symbolic nod of agreement. Like a professional manager, I basically prepared the content and framework of the contract and handed it over to the chairman and general manager for signature.

"In-laws, since the two of them really love each other, and your man is not going to buy a house in Kunshan, we will prepare the marriage house, then our two families will merge into one, and in the future, the children of the two of them will have the same surname as our old Dai family, what do you think?", "Hai Dafu" first cut to the topic directly.

In fact, she had previously communicated with me privately and exchanged opinions on this issue, she said that she was the only child in the family, and her father asked the child to have the surname of their family. I don't know what it means to "recruit a son-in-law", but I love her very much, especially knowing that she is very beautiful and has to commit to me as a worthless and useless guy from other places under the huge pressure of the family, I am very moved and grateful, I definitely tell her: I don't think it matters about this matter, anyway, my mother has the same surname as you, but I still have to ask for the opinions and attitudes of my parents, after all, they are also their only son.

"Anyway, in the future, the child's grandmother will also be surnamed Dai, it doesn't matter, as long as the two of them can accompany each other to old age, the child's surname is just a code name, and it doesn't change anything substantial, it's okay, it's just that my son's surname doesn't need to be changed, right?", my dad seems to be more concerned about his "legal assets".

"Oh, his last name doesn't need to be changed", Hai Dafu replied affirmatively

"Okay, that's no problem", Dad seemed to be a little ecstatic, behind this ecstasy only I understood his troubles and anxiety, but his years of experience as an official made it very deep and deep, not so easy to read, and I made eye contact with him to understand it all.

I can feel that my father is forced to be under financial pressure and impatience, but as long as it is something that my son likes, he has no choice but to support it with all his might! In this way, the four old men finalized the general direction and framework, which is like a verbal contract, right! This is not wrong, being a person should have the spirit of contract: her family is responsible for preparing the wedding room, and my family is going to buy some household appliances or something, and began to prepare for the wedding, which is scheduled to be held on May 1, 2002 at the Qianjianlu Yizui Hotel. I immediately shared the good news with my two best brothers, Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Jianjun and Mr. and Mrs. Ding Jianhua, and invited them to come to Kunshan for our wedding this time next year.