At the beginning, for us to get married, my parents scraped together 30,000 yuan for us to buy electrical appliances and got married, several times missed the opportunity of life Dad was squeezed out and asked to be laid off in advance, and at that time Dad's unit only paid him 380 yuan of laid-off wages, and at that time the city's subsistence wage line was 850 yuan, it was such a whole two drawers of various honors of the state cadre status, this laid-off salary is not even enough for their own basic living expenses, far away 160 kilometers away I was in a very heavy mood, and suddenly felt that the responsibility and burden on my shoulders were greater。

After getting married, once my mother inadvertently said something on the phone, telling me that my father, who had been excluded, couldn't sleep all night, and was most worried that the loan would not be repaid, and the house would be closed by the bank...... Although my financial situation is much better than when I first came to Kunshan two years ago, but we just got married and gave birth to a son and we did not have any savings, in order to reduce the pressure and burden of my father's heart, I discussed with my wife to use the gift money received at the time of marriage to pay off all the loans for my father to buy the house he bought, and my mother later told me that your father was relieved.

Because I have never been an old man, when I lived with my father-in-law and mother-in-law after I got married, I gave my father-in-law 1,000 yuan every month for food, plus the above expenses such as diapers and milk powder behind my son, and there was really no balance.

Under the strong requirements of my godfather and grandmother, my father-in-law reluctantly agreed to change the house that made up for the demolition area at that time directly into the name of our husband and wife, and I found a way to apply for a housing loan of 75,000 yuan.

I finally don't have to look at my father-in-law anymore

"Leopard head" type eyes, although it is a demolition community, although this house is the top floor and an attic, although the area is not large, only 89 square meters, but for me it is simply flawless.

In order to save some decoration costs, I called my two cousins from my hometown to Kunshan to help me make furniture, lay floors, stairs, etc., her third uncle is a plumber, what is the cheapest choice of materials, and even the large long wooden base material for the stairs in the attic is pulled back from the large sleepers used in the imported equipment from my guest factory...... Nine months after the conflict with his father, in September 2003 the two of us moved to a new home in a neighborhood close to her home.

In fact, I paid off all of these loans in less than three years.