Sending away the unpleasant guests, Li Aihua was a little worried: "You drove people away directly like this, and when they talk nonsense outside, they will have a bad impression of our family." ”

Yumei smiled and said disapprerovingly: "What's wrong with this, you see that you are so good to Aunt Li, is she good at reading you? ”

"If I'm not mistaken, the mother and son are the ones she is going to introduce me? The woman's face is mean, and she doesn't look good at first glance, what kind of heart does she have? And the man, with a squinting face, as if he has never seen a woman, what kind of good person can he be?"

"Look, what bad have you done to her over the years? Have you counted how much money you lent her so far? Have you paid back all the money? No, has she ever given you a gift in return? Even if there are a few salted eggs and a pickle?"

Countrymen have the habit of pickling salted eggs and pickles, and no matter how poor the family is, there is no shortage of these things, not to mention that Li Caiyun's two husbands, although they are not well-off, are much better than others.

Compared with Liu Zhen, who has to bring Li Aihua souvenirs every time she comes to the city, Li Caiyun is really stingy.

Yumei said it so bluntly, Li Aihua was not happy to listen to it.

I hadn't paid attention to these details before, but now that Yumei said this, Li Aihua remembered it.

In the past, Li Caiyun asked her to borrow money, she always responded to her requests, and always felt that it was not easy for women, she also lived a hard life, she had the ability, and she would help if she could.

It wasn't until Bei Yulan inadvertently said a word that Li Aihua changed his approach.

Yulan said this: If you are good to a person ninety-nine times, as long as you are bad once, others will only remember that you are bad this time, and forget the previous ninety-nine times that you are good.

Vice versa.

If a person has done ninety-nine bad deeds and occasionally done one good deed, others will think that the prodigal son will not change his money.

Li Aihua still agrees with these words. When Li Caiyun said that he would borrow money, Li Aihua would not be so easy to borrow.

During that time, Li Caiyun was obviously not so enthusiastic about Li Aihua, every time she came to the house, she didn't say a word and looked very impatient, Li Aihua thought that her current husband and stepdaughter were not good to her, and she was in a bad mood.

Now it seems that it is because of the annoyance of things at home, but because she has not met her requirements.

Thinking of the previous incident of going to Xujia Village to meet people, Li Aihua said: "Er Ya has a classmate from that village, and I heard that the male character is not good, so I went to see her again, maybe I really believe her words." ”

However, believe in it, Li Aihua can't do it so simply to settle the family matter.

She knew that she was not smart, so she would ask her son's opinion on major matters.

Yumei laughed: "She is so keen to promote this relationship, either because people give her a lot of thanks, or because this family affair is beneficial to her." ”

Li Aihua was depressed, "Is there still a little trust between people?"

Yumei smiled, A-Niang has tasted the warmth of lovers, and still maintains a pure heart for people, so she lives a simple and happy life.

"Not everyone deserves to be nice to her. Those who can make deep friends, we will make deep friends, and those who can't make deep friends, it's good to be far away. Why bother yourself?"

Li Aihua sighed: "I'm afraid that when she goes back to the village, people will say that our family hates the poor and loves the rich." ”

Yumei was speechless, "People say that we hate the poor and love the rich, so we hate the poor and love the rich?"

Li Aihua slapped Yumei and said, "Girls, speak kindly." ”

Yumei smiled and said, "Who is the score?" Is it useful for a person who kicks his nose in the face like this? People may think that you are a bully. Otherwise, why don't you ask Aunt Li to borrow money from others, and only ask you to borrow it? Isn't it because you have a soft temperament and are easy to talk to!"

Li Aihua had nothing to say.

Yumei said again: "Let's just have a clear conscience, how do we look at you every day, how do we look at you every day, how do we look at you that way, are you tired or not? ”

Li Aihua glanced at Yumei and said, "You are crooked! People live with a face, trees live with a skin, and if you don't want a skin, what kind of person will you become?"

Li Aihua's ideas actually represent the thoughts of most simple rural women.

Their vision is limited to one acre and three points of land at home, and they cannot see the scenery outside their home.

She always feels that when she goes out, the eyes of others will stay on her.

In fact, people come and go, who will pay attention to what a passer-by is wearing?

However, Li Aihua thinks that it will, and is convinced.

This causes her to carefully check her clothes every time she goes out.

She likes to wear gold jewelry, and others will wear it if they want to, but Li Aihua will carefully consider how others will think of her first when she wears jewelry like this.

Wouldn't it feel like she's showing off?

Do you think that she is full of nouveau riche temperament?

What she cares more about is that when others mention her, the words they use are praise, praise or something else.

The result of thinking too much is that she obviously likes these jewelry very much, but because she is worried about other people's opinions, she presses those things at the bottom of the box, and she can only dare to take them out in front of her own family.

Yumei's brothers and sisters are very helpless about her character.

The brothers and sisters are desperately trying to make money, just to provide a better life for their families.

But the standard of living has gone up, and the thinking can't keep up.

Yumei said to Li Aihua: "Auntie, if you have time, go outside more, anyway, there is a nanny to worry about at home now, what about you, do whatever you want." In this community, there are many people who are about the same age as you, you learn more and see more, how comfortable and how to come. It doesn't matter if you go to the park to bask in the sun, go to see people dance, or like to sing Huangmei Opera, let's go and sing, don't think about it. You see that you are not as good as your grandparents. ”

Old man Li is obsessed with fishing, and he can fish all day long every time he fishes with those old men.

Mrs. Li followed a group of old ladies to dance with a sword, and Yumei saw that she was wearing a red and pink practice uniform, not to mention how good her spirit was.

Anyway, Yumei has made up her mind to isolate A-Niang from those unreliable fellows.

A-Niang's temperament is easily influenced by others, Yumei hopes that her spare time life will be richer and her horizons will be broadened, so that she can do what she wants freely, instead of struggling to suppress her nature in the eyes of others.

Li Aihua was silent for a long time.

Yumei knew what she was talking about, but if she wanted to take the first step, Yumei felt that she had to wait. She is not in a hurry, A-Niang is still a long way from old age, Yumei feels that if she lives here for a long time, her mood and vision will naturally be affected.

After eating, Yumei drove away, and when she passed the gate, Yumei said to the security guard: "If there are visitors to Villa No. 9 in the future, call first to ask, and you are not allowed to let people in without the consent of our family." ”

Yumei explained to the nanny, and there were a few people in the family who refused to come and go, hoping that by isolating those unreliable people, Li Aihua would get better and better.

As for whether this wish can be realized, let's see the future.

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