My "beast-like" uncle always likes to come out and mess with right and wrong. In mid-August 2014, after my father left for more than two years, my mother finally eased her husband's knot, and she repeatedly urged the two of us to transfer the property to our name as soon as possible while her old man was still alive. She kept squeaking and talking about everything else, until she was walking and chatting with her mother after dinner on a weekend, she told me the truth: "Your uncle has told me a few times, the house left by your father asked me not to transfer the ownership to you, otherwise I will be fooled, I will regret it, and I will suffer, the big dumb niece's family conditions are relatively poor, you should consider her, your grandson is not surnamed Zhao, your son is like three married daughters, so if it should be distributed, it should be distributed by at least four people!".

After listening to what my mother told me, I felt very funny, but I didn't say anything, laughed it off, didn't take it seriously at all, just said to my mother who was walking together: " That's a matter between your elders, I'm not involved in it, but about my son's surname, my parents nodded and agreed, and your grandson has the same surname as yours, although my son's conditions are better than before, but we can't do the river and tear down the bridge, I will never change my son's surname again, we have to talk about credit and reputation, I will never break my word, I believe that if my father is still alive, he will definitely support my decision!".

"I know, my mother must also support you! I will definitely not ask you to change my grandson's surname, and I have made it clear to your uncle, your brother's will is very clear, you don't need to worry about it, but your uncle is a ...... , that's why I've urged you and my wife many times to go through the transfer procedures as soon as possible while I'm still there, so as not to have too many dreams at night!", my mother finally explained the reason to me, but she seemed to have something unspeakable, and she wanted to stop talking.

"Mom, I know that you and Dad are reluctant to give up the big sister, and I feel guilty for her, if the eldest sister really wants this house, I will give it to my big sister at a lower discount. If she doesn't want it, I will buy the half-public and half-private house she is living in for my eldest sister next year, and fulfill one of the three last wishes that my father gave me.

"Silly son, I'm afraid it's not such a simple thing!", the old lady said half vaguely, and then kept silent.

"Mom, if you don't want to say it, I also know, it must be my only third sister who can talk and my little uncle are making trouble in it, and want to get a piece of the pie from Dad's inheritance, but she can't talk about it clearly, so she has to say this matter with her uncle's mouth, and I have to say this matter with the excuse of right and wrong out of nothing, but I also took pictures of Dad's will and posted it in the family WeChat group, everyone has seen it, so I shouldn't and shouldn't do it! In fact, in the first half of this year, when my mother went to live at the third sister's house, the third sister had already quarreled with my mother about this matter, and her excuse was to carry the eldest sister's house out to say something, and finally the neighbor aunt next door to the third sister's house ran to the yard to persuade her: "Your mother rarely comes to you once a year, what is there to quarrel with your mother so fiercely? She also helped you bring your son to the age of seven before coming home, what is the sin, so excited to quarrel with your mother!" Only then did she seem to realize her inappropriate words and deeds, and she woke up like a dream and stopped arguing. When I come back and see my mother's unhappy face, I will set out the words in her heart, and don't let him be depressed in my heart, which is not good for her health.

"It's good that you know, if you have time, you and your daughter-in-law can go and handle the transfer as soon as possible!", she paused, and seemed to be worried again.

"Mom, don't worry, my son promises that as long as you are alive, I will never have a conflict with any of my sisters, and I will never make you sad about this matter! Even if a hundred years later, you are really gone, let alone have a conflict, if you are here, we are relatives; if you are not here, we will be relatives, but I will definitely try my best to take care of my sisters, especially the two dumb sisters!", I looked firmly at the road ahead, and continued to take her arm and walk.

I didn't take these things my mother told me seriously, so I put it behind me again, until one day when I was at work, my uncle called me from my hometown and asked: "Son, what's going on with your uncle, he talked to me again and again, and said that your father's house can't be left to you or something, otherwise your mother will be fooled in the future and will regret it." I have told him several times, I am not involved in the affairs of my brother-in-law and sister's family, and I don't want to ask, how to arrange the inheritance is the matter of my sister and brother-in-law, and it is also their freedom, he first called me a few times and told me this and that on the phone, and also ran to my house to block my door to discuss this matter with me, and even went to your hometown village to find your second uncle to talk about this matter; My uncle couldn't stand being stared at by him, so he had to call me to ask about it.

"Uncle, there's nothing to do, in fact, all the property of my parents is just the house that I bought for my marriage, my father came to Kunshan to save a pension of 40,000 yuan for a year, and there has been no deposit before, after he left, the funeral pension and all the money that accompanied the gift, including my friends, I didn't use a penny, all of them were given to my mother as pocket money; My mother has been urging me to go through the transfer procedures quickly, you can ask my mother!", I truthfully reported this matter to my uncle.

"Actually, I know very well in my heart, after all, he is my elder, and I always thought that it was my uncle, he was just talking to my mother, and I was inconvenient to participate in the discussion, so I never broke my face with him, but if he did this, it was a bit excessive, I don't know what it means to give my parents' property to their only son" will be fooled, will regret, will suffer" What does it mean, Dad wrote the reason and reason in the will, Uncle He kept talking about this outside, I really want to ask me what this uncle means!", I was a little angry and a little excited, this uncle actually took this matter to a village full of relatives to say.

"Oh, child, don't be excited, you should make a phone call and tell him about this matter, you should be an elder as an elder! Uncle doesn't want to ask about your family's affairs, but he has been bothering me, so I will ask you about the situation, you can do this according to your father's will, and ignore him!", my uncle was also very annoyed after listening to my explanation, this person who grew up in the same village.

After hanging up the phone of my little uncle, I immediately dialed the phone of the uncle who had been the "enemy" with me since I was a child: "Uncle, hello, I am a dragon, you are in good health, right?", out of politeness and courtesy, I still cared about his physical condition first, although in 2013, the second year after my father left, I also invited him to live in the townhouse for a while, at that time he was also very happy and happy, but my mother said that there was no time to cook and serve him!

"Oh, dragon, you're in good health, what's the matter with you?", maybe he's done too many bad things, and seems a little alert that I have something to question him.

"Uncle, I heard you say outside: My parents will be fooled, regretted, and suffer if they leave that house to me?

"Who said it, there is no such thing!", deception is his usual method.

"Uncle, do you think this thing that my mother and my mother-in-law told me will be fake? Uncle, I am also a person who walks outside, can you take this matter to a village full of relatives to talk about it? Have you cared about my face? Nephew, where did I abuse my parents and owe them, do you want to tell me a 1, 2, 3? About my parents' real estate, your brother left a will, can I show you the will?!" , I threw out a few questions in a row, and the anger and fire in my heart were "suddenly" towards him with "question marks", and I really wanted to use a bunch of question marks and exclamation marks to bury this mythical beast directly.

"I didn't say, and I don't want to read your father's will, there is no such thing!", the denial of the trick has been perfected.

"My nephew doesn't have any place to stay with you? Besides, I'm almost forty years old, do you want you to be the master of the house for me? You don't even look at your brother's will, and you just spray something outside, ah?!", I have been teaching these tricks of this divine beast since I was a child, and I was inexplicably annoyed, and there was a burst of "sudden and sudden rush" towards him.

"I didn't say it anyway!", was the last thing I heard on the phone, and then he hung up. I guess I was going to be unsettled at first that afternoon, but then I changed my mind: he had been through the battlefield for a long time, and he had already practiced the magic of lying and playing with peace of mind.

Although I believe that the people in the village full of relatives will not doubt my behavior, at least my parents often mention the filial piety of their son and daughter-in-law in the village when they return to their hometown, at least my father's personality and charm are many levels higher than his strange brother. However, in order to solve the real estate transfer as soon as possible, I decided to listen to my mother's opinion and return to my hometown in Changzhou as soon as possible to consult about the real estate transfer.

As a result, after consulting and inquiring at the real estate transaction center, I learned that the will left by my father had no legal effect, because it was not notarized at that time, and I still needed to go through legal procedures to solve this matter: that is, to sue my three sisters in my name in the name of inheritance disputes, and then sign and sign a mediation letter to be valid. The two dumb eldest sisters and the second sister both work in their hometowns, and I believe that they will definitely cooperate with their younger brother to take a day off or half a day, but the third sister, who is the only one who can speak 170 kilometers away, is of course very busy when she works in the local private company; I don't know what she will think about this! I still dialed her phone, hoping that she could take a day off and go back to her hometown to cooperate with this matter.

This is exactly what my mother has been urging the two of us to do as soon as possible while she is still there, so as to avoid long nights and dreams and unnecessary things. In the end, my mother came forward to call the third sister to do work, and she reluctantly agreed to return to her hometown to cooperate with us in the judicial process.

Even if the third sister agreed, my mother was still not worried about this matter, and in order to successfully complete this matter, she insisted on following us back to her hometown to finish this matter! When the third sister came back that day, she repeatedly emphasized to me: "There is only one day!" I understand what she means: if you can't do this thing on this day, you won't cooperate anymore. To be honest, I still feel quite uncomfortable in my heart, but I didn't put it on my face after all, my mother was also there, after all, my sister asked for leave and deducted her salary to cooperate with my younger brother, and I also knew that this matter could not make the three sisters delay too much work time for me, but the judicial process is not something that can be solved in a while, and when I was impatient, I thought of my classmates who were leaders in the court.

The old classmate was very powerful, when my mother and I rushed to the court to tell him about the situation, he immediately led me to the office of the president of the case and said that this matter can be handled in a special way, and his president of the case filing was also very powerful to give face to the old classmate, after understanding the situation, he immediately picked up the phone on the table and called the lawyer of the law firm: "You immediately write me an indictment, I will get it within an hour, and deal with it immediately!" It didn't take long for my three sisters to rush to the court, so with the help of my old classmates, the case was immediately opened for mediation, and the mediation judge was an old judge who was rehired and borrowed after retirement, and he said to our four sisters and brothers and my mother: "Although the will of the parties is invalid, this is the true intention and expression of the intention of the parties, and it must be respected and followed, do you have any opinions?"

"I have an opinion, since my parents have left all this house to my younger brother, then in the future, my mother's hospitalization, medicine and nursing expenses, etc., our three daughters will not be responsible for it, and all of them will be borne by my brother and daughter-in-law. Sure enough, the third sister she couldn't hide it, she couldn't hold her breath, she finally surfaced like a king in the water, "It's not responsible for taking care of our three daughters!", she added in front of my mother.

"Son, do you think your sister's request is acceptable?" asked the old judge of mediation;

"Yes, uncle, I never thought of evading the responsibility and obligation to evade supporting my mother, never!", I told the mediation judge categorically, and also looked firmly at my mother who bowed her head and was silent, she was looking down at the table in the court's mediation room in frustration, I knew that she must be very uncomfortable in her heart.

"There is no basis for words, you must write it down in black and white, sign it and put your fingerprint on it!", the third sister seemed to be full of a hundred worries about her only brother, and still did not give up on making "more demanding" demands, completely ignoring the feelings and moods of the mother sitting next to her.

"Child, can you meet your sister's well-founded request?" Although everyone is in the same mediation room, according to the mediation procedure, the judge still has to convey the other party's appeal.

"Uncle, please bring me paper and pen, I never thought of evading the responsibility and obligation to support my mother, there is no problem, I will write it immediately!", I said with a smile to the old judge of mediation. Because the eldest sister and the second sister are mute, they don't know what's going on, they only know that their sister's facial muscles are very tight, and they are talking about something menacingly, and their mother is in a heavy mood You sit on the side without saying a word, the two dumb sisters are gesturing and sign language are asking me what makes my mother frustrated, what is the situation, and there is no way to reply to the two dumb sisters at this time, I smiled at the two of them and told them in sign language: There is nothing wrong, let them rest assured!

"My brother wrote this written pledge, four copies, one for each of our three daughters, and my mother also had to keep a copy, and after the copy was made, I signed it and put my fingerprint on it. When I handed the written letter of commitment to the judge, the third sister couldn't wait to make another request on the side.

"Child, I can see that you are very filial, meet all her requirements!", the judge in charge of mediation couldn't stand it, and then turned to the third sister and said: "I want to remind you that your father's will is the basis for mediating this case, understand it?!", and went straight out to make a copy.

"Mm......mm

Soon I signed, after pressing the handprint, she got the wish-fulfillment of the letter of commitment, of course, there are two dumb sisters and a copy of the mother, the mother without saying a word will hand her the letter of commitment crumpled into a ball and threw it into the trash can in the corner, but the two dumb sisters because they are not very literate, on the side of the dumb language in a dumb language to ask the third sister what is going on, what is the situation? They are also confused, the inexplicable brother signed a piece of paper to them, and asked the third sister to explain what the situation is!

The third sister enthusiastically used sign language to explain the meaning of this paper to the two mute sisters: "In the future, all the expenses of mother's birth, old age, sickness and death will be borne by the younger brother alone, and our three daughters do not need to bear any expenses!" What seemed to her to be triumphant, but she was immediately reprimanded by the two dumb sisters in person, and the eldest sister and the second sister were very excited to reprimand her:" Third sister, you have no conscience, it is not easy for parents to raise the four of us with hard work, they have not brought their grandchildren, and they also helped you bring your son home, this property father told us before his death, this is the house for my younger brother, our three daughters have no share, you are fighting for something in it, it is too conscienceless, if you don't take care of your mother when you are sick and hospitalized in the future, we will take care of your mother!". Especially the second sister because she was only deaf and dumb due to injections when she was six years old, so when she was talking about the third sister, she still made a sound of "Beibeibei......" in her mouth, as if she was scolding.

I felt more and more strange to the only sister in front of me who could speak, her selfishness, Thinking about when he and his brother-in-law fell in love at a secondary school, her living expenses were not enough, and I wrote to me who was studying in Changzhou, and when I replied to the letter, I sent her the 300 yuan I saved by saving money in a reply letter; I think about when she bought a house and moved in, I didn't leave a penny in my wallet and gave it to her like I paid it all out of my heart; I thought about the three nephews who had a purple epilepsy attack that year, and they both cried anxiously, and I got up from bed late at night and drove directly to Shanghai Children's Hospital for treatment; think about when she was financially struggling, I took the initiative to help her pay off part of the debt first, and I only need to owe me one person, and I can pay it off whenever I want...... Now the only third sister in front of you who can speak makes you feel like a stranger.

Because I have never thought of evading the responsibility and obligation of supporting my mother, and if I have an argument with her during the court mediation stage, my mother who is also at the mediation scene will be very, very uncomfortable...... , I kept smiling indifferently throughout the whole process, but my heart re-weighed and evaluated her: You are the same as me, your parents provide us with study until we graduate from secondary school, are you not even as good as two dumb sisters who have never studied, can't tell right from wrong, can't distinguish between black and white?

The mediation judgment issued by the court was quickly in hand, my mother and I were on the way to send the third sister to the station, she still seemed a little unconvinced, I was exhausted, exhausted, on the way to send her to the station, I didn't say a word and didn't want to say, my heart was broken without a trace, I was tired and didn't want to struggle anymore, and I took care of her at the station: "Third sister, thank you for coming over today to cooperate with the formalities, and report safety to us when you get home, be careful on the road, pay attention to safety!"

After sending off the third sister, I immediately drove my mother and my wife to the real estate trading center, and handed over the real estate transfer materials that had been prepared and the mediation judgment that was still steaming, who knew that the little girl at the counter of the trading center saw the materials and immediately said: "This judgment is not right, this property is the joint property of your parents How can you give you all the real estate!", and then hypocritically said to my mother standing on the edge of the counter: " Auntie, this house has half of yours, you can't give it all to your son!"

"This is affordable housing, and at that time, the old man's cadre status and title were only eligible to buy it, and there was no share of mine. My mom didn't have good ears and took two steps towards the counter and replied loudly.

"No, Auntie, his verdict violates your legal rights and rights!", the woman got up from the chair in the counter and followed the glass to do my mother's legal popularization work.

"I don't want this right, I was also present during the mediation, take a step back and say that even if I have my share, I don't want it, I also ask for it to be given to my son for free. Mom was quite "patient" in persuading the female staff, "Okay, okay, you hurry up, we asked for leave from Suzhou to rush back to do this procedure, it's not easy, you can do it, okay?!"

"May I ask you whether the judicial power is greater or the administrative power is greater? If the judicial power is greater than the administrative power, please follow the judicial opinion, okay, don't be hypocritical and pretend to please my mother, don't you just want the people to pay taxes, why are you talking so hypocritically and high-sounding, don't you feel disgusting?

"No, I can't handle this matter of yours, I'm going to report it to our director, I'm going to get off work soon, or you can come back tomorrow morning!", she said this and that over and over again.

"What do you mean, I've told you a few times: we came back from out of town to ask for leave to do the inheritance and transfer of this property, it's only a quarter past four o'clock, you have to get off work, the judge's mediation judgment can't reach your administrative power, you exceeded your authority and violated the law, do you know?", I really want to slap her through the glass, this kind of small county is where some children of officials and eunuchs hold these jobs, the typical door is difficult to enter, the face is ugly, and things are difficult to do! Just like you have to bring a board axe to the hospital to see a doctor, you have to carry a board axe when you go to this arrogant and lascivious yamen to do things, so that these people will do things honestly.

Out of the door of the real estate trading center, I called my old classmate to tell about the encounter here, and he explained the situation and reasons on the phone: "Now the real estate transaction center involved in the real estate transfer change business is afraid of taking responsibility, all of them are kicked to our court, requiring our court to accept the judgment first, and then they go to handle these businesses, so that the workload of our court is huge, our court leaders have quarreled with their leaders I don't know how many times, each other look at each other is not pleasing to each other, you know!" Leave them alone, I'll send a colleague tomorrow morning to deliver them a formal mediation verdict!"

Early the next morning, we met the judge who sent the verdict in the hall of the real estate trading center, and at this time a dramatic scene appeared, the staff at the counter of the real estate trading center thought that the judgment was incorrect and refused to accept the legal document, and the judge on the court side once again emphasized that this is a legally valid document, and it must be signed for confirmation; As he spoke, he put the legal document on the counter, took out his mobile phone, took five steps back, and took pictures to testify.

Because of this incident, the whole hall order and other people's eyeballs were thrown to our corner, at this time the staff member's phone rang, and after answering the phone, he said to us: "Our director invites you to come to the office to talk!" In this way, the three of us in the family and the judge who served the documents rushed to the director's office, and before entering the director's office, I quietly opened the video on my mobile phone, I really don't want to have anything to do with these calves, as long as you are not afraid of exposure! When I entered the office, the dignified female director immediately opened fire on the judge: "This judgment of your court is an erroneous judgment, and we cannot and will not enforce it! We ask for an administrative reconsideration!"

"You have no right to direct the judgment of our court, if you submit a reconsideration, our court will reply to you on the same day, and tell you that the result is the same!", this little judge did not give these eunuchs any face at all, and then directly and forcefully scolded her back, which is enough to see that the contradiction between the court and the real estate transaction center has been protracted.

"You guys go back first, we'll write an administrative reconsideration letter and send it to your court via EMS!", the woman who was used to it dismissed us with disdain.

"Sold the one next door, you want to play dead Lao Tzu, right, how many times have I told you, I asked for leave from the field and rushed back to handle this transfer procedure, you two departments are angry and poor to take our people are not people, right?!From your TMD real estate trading center to the people's court two kilometers away, you TMD want to send EMS? If no one writes your TMD, I will help you print it out from the computer, if you don't have a car, take Lao Tzu's car to send it to you, send EMS to your mother** Calf, do you see that the mobile phone camera in my hand has been turned on? If this matter is not solved today, you see how I expose you to you!", I have not been able to interject my mouth full of annoyance, I will not care about the wording user at all, one hand holds the mobile phone to shoot a video, the other hand pats the corner of her table, the anger in my heart and the foul words spray her face.

Maybe she felt the anger in my heart, maybe she was more concerned about the mobile phone video that was being taken, she didn't answer me anything, and silently picked up the phone on the table: "The two of you immediately draft an administrative reconsideration letter, send it to the court with the parties, and handle this matter immediately!", just like that, more than an hour later, the two mothers-in-law specially typed an administrative reconsideration letter with a total of no more than 200 words.

It didn't take more than an hour to drive the mother-in-law of the two trading centers to the court, and the court re-typed a reply to the administrative reconsideration letter, the content of which was to maintain the opinions of the original mediation judgment unchanged! In this way, for a whole day and a half, these calves were cut under the horse, saying that they were calves was not wrong at all, and after the court replied, their real estate trading center actually made another request: Let us go to the administrative examination and approval center to handle the transfer of ownership, and these calves can be tossed and embarrassed by the people!

To handle the inheritance and transfer of real estate, you must first go to the window of the tax bureau to handle the "tax exemption identification", who knows that when I handed this material to the tax window of the approval center, the staff also had doubts, fortunately, she still understands the laws and procedures, I only said one sentence: judicial power or administrative power? She honestly stamped the seal of tax exemption identification, and then re-transferred to the window of real estate registration and transfer, and encountered the same problem, the fat female staff said at the counter, you wait a minute, and then picked up the phone and called its section chief to come to the counter, and after coming, I heard the fat girl say to its section chief: "It's wrong to lead this judgment, you can't judge it like this!", fortunately, the section chief of the approval center still has some legal basis:" The judicial power is greater than our executive power, and even if it is wrong, we must comply with it, and this has already made a reply to the administrative review, if we don't enforce it, we are really breaking the law!"

Before the end of work, the formalities and procedures for the transfer of ownership were barely completed...... I was thinking that if I buy a house in the future, I should write the child's name directly, I don't want them to toss so much, so tiring!

I feel that this country is becoming more and more invisible, and it is full of pitfalls and abductions, not only the officials who are deceiving the people,** Officials are also cheating each other, I thought of my father's return to his hometown a year before he left to reimburse medical expenses, my friend was a leader in the local finance bureau told me one thing: my uncle's reimbursement can still be reimbursed in addition to the medical insurance reimbursement scope of the part that cannot be reimbursed, and issued a red-headed document on this matter, but told that this benefit is only for public security, taxation and other departments of civil servants or state staff members, other departments do not enjoy this benefit, so they did not receive this document。 When my father found their director of agriculture, their director was also confused, unaware of the matter, and after his angry phone call questioning, they finally agreed to let them reimburse 20% of the ....... And it seems that you can't find a reasonable explanation and basis for all this, because feelings are related to the people, benefits are sought by the people, and power is used by the people.