When we were very young, everyone had a fairytale castle in their hearts, and in that castle, we enjoyed all kinds of care and care without worries...... Slowly, as we mature and grow up, we learn to work hard to care for others, for our lovers and relatives to work hard to build a castle that shelters from the sun and rain, in order to make the life of our family members and relatives better, we continue to work hard to better and bigger castles, yearning for another better, bigger and more advanced city with a castle belonging to ourselves and our relatives...... Perhaps this is people's longing for a better life, and it is precisely because of it that we have the motivation and source of our positivity and hard work...... It is the positive motivation and source in each of us that constitutes the foundation of the Chinese Dream and the cornerstone of the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation.

First time

In the mid-70s of the last century, the rural areas of Jiangsu were still in a relatively serious era of patriarchal thinking, and although the family planning policy had begun, many families were still secretly doing it in order to have a son

The "superborn guerrilla" thing, our family belongs to this type, and I belong to the one who almost was

"Planed" to get rid of the guerrillas descendants. At that time, there was a mantra in the small county town of Jintan, Changzhou

"Daughters line up to the power station, don't raise a son and don't stop stumbling" (meaning to have a son anyway), although Dad is an intellectual who graduated from secondary school in 1968 (he studied animal husbandry and veterinary medicine), as an intellectual, he is still not lacking in this patriarchal thinking, Mom and Dad grew up in the same village as childhood sweethearts, and grandma and grandma's house are only 100 meters apart, it is said that my grandmother did not look down on my dad except for a little poor culture

"What do you want" poor son-in-law, and in the future she will not even have the opportunity to visit her daughter's house, but her grandfather thinks that this child is honest, diligent, and educated, and should not be bad in the future, so under the strong and tough style of his grandfather, his eldest daughter was married to this poor boy who even married in a thatched house of only 15 square meters and had to squeeze together with his mother and younger brother, which requires a lot of courage and courage, and it is almost impossible to put it in the eyes of modern people!

It is said that grandma and grandfather often quarrel and fight, basically a big quarrel for three days, a small quarrel for two days, and it is basically commonplace to quarrel and shake their faces, and the quarrel for the marriage of their eldest daughter is even more fierce...... Facts have proved that my grandfather and my mother's vision was correct: my father built four tiled houses three years after joining the work, and divided two rooms for his younger brother to live with his mother, and the third sister was born in that tiled house.

Although my grandmother has been complaining and opposing, my grandfather and my mother like him, so my father and his mother got married in that thatched house of only 15 square meters after graduating from school, and my mother got married in that thatched house of only 15 square meters, the second year after marriage, November 29, 1969, at nine o'clock in the evening, my mother gave birth to my eldest sister Zhao Juqin at home, and at 10 o'clock in the evening on August 6, 1971, two years later, my mother gave birth to my second sister Zhao Jufang at home;

"One poor and two white" kind, but fortunately, he is not

"Hanging Erlangdang" type, he has studied, is a literate intellectual, and soon got the reuse of the unit, technical experts, And hard-working and hard-working, and soon was exceptionally promoted to deputy leader (not long ago, a cousin-in-law in the next township came to my city to meet, when he drove to pick him up, he got in the car and said: I just met Wu Manghai, the old stationmaster of the veterinary station in our town half a month or so, he pulled me when he met, and I said, your uncle is amazing, business ability and business level are quite strong, and has been the first place in our Jintan City for many years, no one can surpass him, he is the first station manager in our system to assign a set of housing to each employee, and he is indeed quite capable！

Another year later, at 10 o'clock in the evening on December 5, 1972, they gave birth to my third sister Zhao Juhong.

Chunfeng's pride in his career did not make him complacent and stagnant, but worked harder to do a good job, and at the same time used his learning and expertise to secretly start a side business at home - raising pigs and chickens (ducks) and growing mushrooms (in those days, this was not allowed, this was a crime of speculation, but fortunately he had a position to cover), so that the conditions in the family were getting better and better.

The arrival of the three daughters in the family increased the expenses, the work pressure on the career and the hard work of the family's sideline production did not discourage his desire to have a son to inherit the lineage, so the 1976 Tangshan earthquake (time on July 28, 1976 3:42:53.8 AD) occurred not long after August 2 at nine o'clock in the morning, that day happened to be the Qixi Festival, I

"On order" to accompany

"Sister Chang'e" came to this home full of sisters, in order to remember this special holiday, my mother specially wrote my ID number as July 7, when the earthquake was worried that the tiled house on the side of the road would fall down, so I took two mats, one on the ground, and the other second-hand two feet with umbrellas to open for my mother, grandmother and sisters to protect from the rain.

(My wife didn't believe that I was born on the day of Qixi Festival at first, until one year when my aunt came to Kunshan to play, she took the initiative to mention that my birthday was Qixi Festival, and she seemed a little suspicious).