No wonder I complained to my mother that not long after cooking porridge every day, after about half a year, our family had lunch and dinner at night, and then even my uncle came to my house to eat, in fact, my uncle was very good, my father once told me: " Grandpa died early, grandma a widow to pull the underage me and your uncle, in order to earn work for the family to share labor, grandma did not allow me to go to school, but your uncle resolutely agreed, insisted that the younger brother does not study and is illiterate will not be productive in the future, grandma reluctantly agreed to me to study, and he often concealed from the aunt to secretly stuff money to your grandma to supplement the family, so after your uncle left, I found a way to get your lobby brother to my unit, send him to my alma mater for further study, train him to join the party as a leader, and repay your uncle's kindness back then”。

Because there are six cousins and cousins in the uncle's family, three sons and three daughters, and eight uncles and aunts, all of them are heavy rations, and the food they get is definitely not enough to eat, what should I do?

At that time, there was no running water in the village, and the river water in the river was drunk after the alum was cleared, and the father was so busy with his workload and had a side job to get, so he naturally didn't have the energy to take care of the details of the water tank at home, and the mother couldn't do the hard work, and the water in the house was just the grandmother carrying a small bucket or the eldest sister, and the second sister and the two went to carry a little back, the eldest sister stood up, the second sister couldn't stand up, or the second sister stood up and the eldest sister squatted still, after all, dozens of catties of buckets were two twelve, How can a three-year-old child lift it, and every time he carries water, he has to pass through the door of his uncle's house, and his uncle is also distressed when he looks at it, so his uncle came to my mother with a smile and said: Brother and sister, in the future, I will help you fill the water tank in the house every day, you can just take care of me with a bowl of rice, even if it is accompanied by some pickles or vegetable soup, okay?

In fact, he wants to save some rations for my cousin and cousin to eat, of course, my mother is also distressed about his eldest and second eldest and grandma's age is not young, the uncle was kind to his father back then, of course, this is not a problem, so after the water tank in the house is out of water, the uncle came to help fill it, and then managed him to fill a bowl of rice, in the long run, my aunt has always resented my mother, saying that my mother seduced the eldest uncle, and my mother from the Qixi Festival in 76, she is no longer a woman, she stopped menstruating, for which my mother and aunt repeatedly explained: sister-in-law, I can't even have my own man, how can I seduce the eldest brother again, and my mother (my grandmother) still lives with us, and there are so many children in the house, how can there be such a dirty thing.

The eldest aunt has no culture, and the grandmother adopted a child daughter-in-law since childhood, and she seems to have been haunted by the fact that the uncle helped my family carry water, until the uncle left us in 1984 for many years, and the aunt's resentment was slightly better......