Chapter 041: Go
Zhao Xiaozhen listened to the movement, felt that something was wrong, and was about to call Tong Youliang, but Tong Youliang ignored it, feeling that Zhao Xiaozhen was looking for something to do, and there was nothing wrong, saying that she was thinking too much and continued to fall asleep.
is only a mother, even if the child is the oldest, she is still used to worrying, worrying, and not worrying, not to mention that the child finally married a daughter-in-law, and this Ge Qiaoer is not worrying at all.
In the few minutes she had been in a hurry to get up and go to her room, she had heard some eyebrows.
It turned out that she thought that Xinrong was looking for trouble this time, and it was more that he was mentally ill again, but she didn't expect that it was mainly because Ge Qiaoer had a thorn in her heart.
I thought that the bride price in the past, as well as the wedding scene, I didn't expect it to come out.
Zhao Xiaozhen suddenly didn't know whether to go over and take a look, or stand still and observe, or go back to sleep and continue to sleep?
After a while, Zhao Xiaozhen went back to her bed and was in a daze, worried, and anxious.
Tong Youliang accidentally found that she didn't sleep, and just said, "What are you worried about every day, they do their own business, it's hard for you to manage your life!"
That being said, but your own children!
Zhao Xiaozhen also wanted to ignore it, but she couldn't get over that hurdle in her heart.
Seeing that her children are anxious about not working well, and those who are not married are anxious, even if they are married, the children are wronged in life, she will worry and worry about all kinds of things, even if the worry is superfluous in the eyes of others, but she can't say that she is not worried and does not care.
Perhaps in the hearts of most parents, even if their children get married and have their own flesh and blood, they are still their own children, and they will still worry about and worry about various things.
Even if this worry is worried, this love is not understood, I still do it, and I keep doing it......
(1. Memories)
Zhao Xiaozhen is like this, as for Tong Youliang, he has never wanted to worry about anything, and Zhao Xiaozhen is mainly in charge of everything inside and outside the house.
And Tong Youliang didn't have that incident, before he was *imprisoned*, he still helped the family a little, and got the fields, etc., but especially after learning to speculate with Xu Tianming, he was more or less idle, and he didn't want to go to the field anymore.
Some small jobs that can come to money are naturally not appreciated.
After all, one is busy working day and night, just for the harvest, the harvest for a few days, and if he encounters any natural disasters, and the weather is bad, the seedlings are not rising, and naturally go out to cost this, and there is not much money to feed the family.
So when I went to Xu Tianming to learn from him, I was very positive, but I was naturally not happy about the loss.
And after being released from prison, even if in the first days of return, it is true that his body was not in good health due to factors such as life in prison, but he recovered almost during his rest days.
But no one wants to go back to work in the fields, as well as family chores, and there is no one to help him, and he doesn't dare, he has no direction, and he doesn't have any principal.
Zhao Xiaozhen had a hard time raising the children during the days when they went to prison one after another, and her life barely continued.
Naturally, there is no spare money to give Tong Youliang the principal to go to Bo again.
And Tong Youliang began to drink, to alcoholism, to a muddy life, and often blamed Zhao Xiaozhen for the failure of his business.
That's how brainwashing comes from.
Regardless of whether it is correct or crooked, but the same words are repeated thousands of times, the fake is also true, the real is also false, naturally after a long time, Zhao Xiaozhen also feels that it is her own mistake.
And Tong Youliang naturally began to habitually rest in bed, even if he didn't have any pain, he still didn't want to get out of bed.
And Zhao Xiaozhen was also dissatisfied, but slowly he didn't bother to say it, so he let him go.
(2. Reality:)
Right now, it was still noisy over there, Zhao Xiaozhen looked at Tong Youliang, who was sleeping on the side, did not speak, and paced back and forth in the room in a little distraught.
also thought about what Ge Qiao'er said.
"What kind of thing am I, I have to marry you, you look at your virtue, what do you want, and you are arguing there all day long, I didn't want to, otherwise I wouldn't want to, then I wouldn't marry anyone better than you!"
Zhao Xiaozhen thought about this, pondering the meaning between the lines and the current situation.
I understand more or less that this dissatisfaction is for Xinrong, and naturally for himself.
Now, Zhao Xiaozhen, who had thousands of words, couldn't say a word.
Open your mouth, you can only give up in the end, otherwise, in the past, you will still advertise what should and shouldn't.
In the final analysis, her family owes too much to others, and it seems normal to be dissatisfied, but with such disrespect under her nose, Zhao Xiaozhen is still angry.
Zhao Xiaozhen vomited, but she didn't know what was appropriate or not, so she hesitated.
(3. Past)
As for this Ge Qiaoer's words, although there are exaggerated elements, there are also some facts.
After all, no matter how bad she is, she has fewer chances to choose at most, and the other party's conditions are worse.
It is said that it is a blind date, but in fact, to a large extent, it is a bit like an offer, a counteroffer, and a buyer's kind of "transaction".
In remote areas, such a sky-high bride price, and then give the daughter to someone else's family heirlooms, or, in order to make up for the family difficulties such as their own sons, or bring some income, income abounds.
In Xinrong's hometown, or near Xu Yuna's hometown at that time, there were few such phenomena.
But most of the blind dates still depend on the conditions, and then they are suitable, and the parents of both sides say that they listen to their children, and then the parents of both sides match to meet, see fate, and get married.
And if it is a girl like Ge Qiaoer, she is really willing to want to know about the man's family, and there are few people who are willing to join relatives, but if the other party's family background is not good, or the boy's situation is not good, the natural bride price is less, and others are also willing to see, understand, and be close to *close relatives*.
And today's situation is largely due to the *broken* body*.
If it's not complete, that's another matter.
Even if the woman is beautiful, in what kind of figure, environment, or good work, but the parents always feel that others are a lot shorter.
Of course, this situation is all because the men are more traditional, or in other words, the traditional ideas in the countryside are heavier.
So in this case, it's like the crab, the price of life is high, but it's worthless when it dies.
That's not a perfect girl, how many men feel that their faces are dull.
Even if you marry for other reasons, you still have a thorn in your heart, and you will quarrel because of this.
It can be said that in addition to special reasons, the man is more short of money, too powerful and other reasons, if it is a not very beautiful girl, but it is complete, and the housework is so-so, but compared to a better family, if a beautiful girl is more likely to marry the former.
Of course, this kind of thinking is mostly more important in rural areas.
So Ge Qiaoer's words are not unreasonable.
It's just that she doesn't have a choice.
Because of the rumors of such an overnight stay, naturally the woman's reputation has been damaged, so it is difficult not to marry this, because it is difficult to have someone willing to accept it, unless the woman is ready to marry for life.
That is, even if the other party is intentional or unintentional, and is *forced*, and then the woman is not finished.
In that way, they will basically let their children marry that person, even if that person has a criminal record, or has been in prison and other things, but the fact is that even if the girl is unwilling and the man does not want to marry, he will match the woman to pass.
If it hadn't passed, it would be dull for the woman's family.
Speaking of which, this kind of traditional requirement for completeness, as well as the face, pay attention to face in everything, is also very important in the countryside, and it can be said to be something imprinted in the bones.
If you say that the two husbands and wives are not in harmony, they are also married to chickens and dogs, and they have been mixed like this.
There are other economic factors, as well as problems of face and habits, and most divorced people will be criticized by others, and the main woman will be gossiped about by others.
And being poked in the back is naturally what they hate.
Naturally, extramarital affairs are also difficult to accept.
However, when the woman appears, there is a great chance of leaving, and the man's words are mostly to persuade the woman to make do with it......
It's far away, that is, traditional thinking is a problem, so now even if Ge Qiaoer is unwilling, he still stays at his house if he is noisy.
(4, I want to go)
It's just that this Goqiaoer doesn't seem to play cards according to common sense.
Now, I don't know how to talk and talk, but I also packed up my things.
And she put it away, suddenly stopped her movements, and started to call.
Naturally, I called her parents.
It was already late at night, and the phone rang several times, and Ge Qiaoer's parents answered the phone.
After chatting for a while, knowing the situation.
Ge Qiaoer's parents said meaningfully, "Forget it, it's not a big deal, it's over with patience, it's really uncomfortable, wait for a long time, go back to your parents' house to have a look, play, now, now"
Ge Qiao'er's father looked at the time on his mobile phone and said, "It's not early, it's one or two o'clock in the clock!" Don't make a noise, what's the matter tomorrow, let's talk about it tomorrow, don't make the gossip next door, it's not good, it's only been a few days, how can there be so many things that don't go well......!
"Dad, can you come to pick me up, come over now, I don't want to stay for a minute, Dad, you just ......"
"Child!" Ge Qiao'er's father didn't finish speaking, Ge Qiaoer's mother answered the phone and said, "Mom and Dad are all from here, they won't harm you, you just have to endure it, after today, it's dawn, it's fine, what's the matter at dawn, you are like this, don't say that your in-laws can't rest well, even your parents are worried, it's not good to listen to the movement next door over there, you have to stay in the future, obedient, obedient!"
"But I want to leave now, you don't know him, he" Ge Qiao'er whispered, covering her eyes a little and said, "He, that son is sick, you don't know, and that"
Then Ge Qiaoer continued, "I'm really not having a good time here, life is not good, and I really don't want to stay anymore!"
"Life is not so freewheeling, you are still pregnant, you ......"
Before Ge Qiao'er's mother's words were finished, Ge Qiao'er looked around, and whispered with a little meaning, "Child, you know what's going on, don't persuade me, I really don't want to stay, just hurry up and take a taxi, hurry up, pick me up!"
"Well, it's not that my parents don't want to, I don't have a car at this time, and I don't have a way to get there, I can't see it on the road, it's late......!
Ge Qiao'er hurriedly said, "Then find a way, I really don't want to stay." I'm not happy to stay, I'm ......"
"That's it, that's it, you'll be fine if you calm down by yourself, it's not early, your parents have to go to bed, don't make trouble, that's it, hang up!" grabbed the phone, chattered a few words, and hung up the phone with displeasure.
The sound of hanging up the phone in such a hurry, Ge Qiaoer was a little dazed, and suddenly couldn't accept the fact that the phone had hung up.
And suddenly came from outside the door, Zhao Xiaozhen's voice "Let's sleep, it's not early, I've slept with me for a long time today, I'll sleep on the sofa, you ...... by yourself"
Wanting to say something, Zhao Xiaozhen sighed and didn't speak, shook her head, she was about to go back, but Ge Qiaoer opened the door.
With a click, the door opened, and Ge Qiaoer stood in the door, holding on to the door, and said lazily, "I'm hungry, I want to eat chicken......"
"Didn't you just eat today?" Zhao Xiaozhen looked at Ge Qiao'er in surprise, and the look in her eyes that turned back had a great look of hesitation and disbelief.
Obviously, I ate it all in the afternoon, to be exact, they mainly ate it, and a chicken was basically eaten by them, why do you say now, you want to eat chicken, eat chicken, eat chicken?
Zhao Xiaozhen's mind was full of question marks.
But Ge Qiao'er was busy and said, "What, I haven't eaten enough, your son has eaten it, don't you have a few at home, just kill me to replenish my body, this chicken is not ready for me to eat, otherwise why keep it?"
"Chickens don't lay eggs, they still ......" Zhao Xiaozhen meant that the chickens should keep the eggs, and the words were not finished.
Ge Qiao'er took a deep breath and said impatiently, "I won't talk about that egg in the afternoon, I can't sell a few anyway, I can sell it for a few silver, and I don't get money for feed, anyway...... By the way, there are also two white and one yellow dogs, they will be killed when they are free, why keep them, and they will have to clean up the ** everywhere!
The chickens and poultry in the countryside are released during the day and called back at night, otherwise the poor number is to be found, and they have to go home.
In Ge Qiaoer's opinion, lest you have to feed and find, this and that hygiene are all things, and it is not better to kill and eat them.
Seeing that Zhao Xiaozhen was speechless for a while, she continued, "By the way, that dog is hygienic or something, and this hair is not good for children, and the air also has an impact, anyway, it was also fed for years, and it was also a little fat, killed, and the stew was a little bit!"
Saying that, Ge Qiao'er seemed to be still thinking about how many times the dog's size could pause, and looked at one place in a daze.
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