On the third day of the Lunar New Year, Zhang Xiaoxiao took Wenwen back, as the only grandchild in the family, he is indispensable for social occasions large and small, she can also be considerate and happy, taking care of Huang Tingting is much easier after all, and Huang Tingting is also a diligent person, basically most of the time Zhang Xiaoxiao is in a state of being taken care of. Since giving birth, this year is the easiest Spring Festival, so you don't need to keep an eye on your child vigilantly to prevent you from doing bad things while falling.

On the morning of the fourth day of the Lunar New Year, Fang Ling called and said that she wanted to invite her to dinner, Zhang Xiaoxiao was thinking about how to refuse in her mind, but Fang Ling didn't give her a chance to refuse at all, she just kept complaining that Han Juanjuan didn't know why she refused to come, and asked Zhang Xiaoxiao to call to persuade her. After hanging up the phone, Zhang Xiaoxiao sat for a while, she didn't want to go, how could she persuade others. However, Fang Ling is a sensitive person, and if she doesn't go, she has to find a suitable reason, otherwise she will hold a grudge for a long time. was hesitating, Han Juanjuan called.

Han Juanjuan: "Xiaoxiao, did Lingzi call you?"

Zhang Xiaoxiao: "Well, just hit." ”

Han Juanjuan: "Are you going?"

Zhang Xiaoxiao: "To be honest, I don't want to go, how can I go, I'm afraid of divorce." ”

Han Juanjuan: "I don't really want to go, there have been a lot of messy things recently, and I don't have much time." ”

Zhang Xiaoxiao: "What's wrong with you, by the way, what's wrong with you, I haven't cared about you recently." ”

Han Juanjuan: "Oh, I should care about you, how are you?

Zhang Xiaoxiao: "I spent it with a female colleague, and I picked up Wenwen yesterday, and I was with the child, what about you?"

Han Juanjuan: "I, I resigned, and I'm going to go to Shanghai with him, and I've been submitting my resume recently." ”

Zhang Xiaoxiao: "Haha, that's good, after the two of them are together, life will be better." ”

Han Juanjuan on the other end of the phone was silent for a while before she said quietly: "I don't think he's very enthusiastic, and he doesn't seem to want me to go, but he didn't say he didn't want me to go." ”

Zhang Xiaoxiao already had a premonition in her heart that there were too many couples who had separated from each other she knew, and the story was enough to talk about the whole movie. For a truly simple couple, the limit of patience to get together is about a month, unless it is really the kind of man who has no desires and no desires. For a family like theirs, the economic conditions are not particularly good, but the ticket is not unaffordable, it is nothing more than that Han Juanjuan's husband has something more attractive than the family outside.

Zhang Xiaoxiao: "What can be spread out and talked about, let's solve it together!" However, Juanjuan, if he doesn't want to say it, don't be reluctant, there are some things, if you say it, there is no room to turn back." ”

Han Juanjuan: "I understand everything you say, I don't want to ask anything, I also have the past, so why bother to ask others." Originally, I planned to sell my house in Huaiqing, go to Shanghai to buy a school district house with a down payment, and go to a public school for my children, but I am hesitating now whether to wait until Shanghai settles down, after all, everything is unknown. ”

Zhang Xiaoxiao: "I think it's okay to do this, leave a way back for everything." By the way, Juanjuan, let's go together today, or I don't want to go. ”

Han Juanjuan: "Okay, okay, then don't talk to Lingzi about the two of us, so as to save her from being surprised." ”

Han Juanjuan and Zhang Xiaoxiao went to the meeting place first, both of them only brought their children, it was originally a grievance conference, and it was really inconvenient to bring their husbands. Han Juanjuan persuaded Zhang Xiaoxiao to bow her head and give Feng Sen a step. Zhang Xiaoxiao doesn't say it, but she also roughly agrees in her heart that the life of a middle-aged woman is not a chicken feather, the most important thing is that the family is together. Feng Sen has a lot of minor problems, but he hasn't made any big mistakes, and he belongs to the tolerable category.

I saw Fang Ling coming over with the child from a distance, followed by her husband Liu Chun. Zhang Xiaoxiao and Han Juanjuan looked at each other, and they both felt a little uncomfortable in their hearts. Everyone made an appointment not to bring their families in WeChat, but also for everyone to complain unscrupulously together, I don't know why Fang Ling wants to bring it, and every time it's like this, she complains about her husband She is the most fierce, and as a result, she will bring her husband with her every party. Fang Ling walked up to the two of them, and whispered while gesturing to the back with her eyes: "I don't want to bring him here, he has to come, it's annoying." Zhang Xiaoxiao and Han Juanjuan looked at each other again and smiled knowingly.

The party became very difficult, Fang Ling did not ask her husband to do this and that, or loudly reprimanded the child, Han Juanjuan kept putting out the fire, and Zhang Xiaoxiao was straightforward, so she was too lazy to cooperate, and took care of Wenwen eating and drinking wholeheartedly. Sometimes, Zhang Xiaoxiao sympathizes with Liu Chun, and it should be very difficult to be with Fang Ling. Fang Ling's character and Liu Chun's behavior, it is difficult to tell who is the cause and who is the effect, whether it is Fang Ling's character that makes Liu Chun can't wait to escape from the family, or whether Liu Chun's inaction towards the family makes Fang Ling a complaining woman, which can be said clearly in three words!

Fang Ling and Han Juanjuan went to the toilet once, leaving Zhang Xiaoxiao and Liu Chun. Zhang Xiaoxiao thought that she couldn't say nothing, she always had to say a few words, and after thinking for a long time, she said: "Lingzi is really a worrying person, she is willing to take care of everything, it's not easy, you must be kind to her!" Liu Chun looked up at Zhang Xiaoxiao: "Do you think I'm not good to her?" A thought suddenly flashed in Zhang Xiaoxiao's heart: If it was really Liu Chun who wanted to come to the party every time, was it because he was afraid that Fang Ling would say bad things about herself in front of them? And his own question just confirmed Liu Chun's worries.

"No, Reiko keeps saying that you're very nice to her, but I just think ...... You see that she is always frugal, and she is reluctant to buy any clothes and cosmetics, and she has to take care of everything at home. Such a woman is a blessing for you, but for her, I always feel that it is not fair, right?" Zhang Xiaoxiao didn't know what she was talking about, and she panicked, and some words didn't make sense.

"I never care what she wants to buy, to be honest, I wish she didn't care about so many things, and she can control the chickens and dogs in the house. ”

"Isn't it a bit irresponsible for you to speak like this?" Listening to Liu Chun's words, Zhang Xiaoxiao was a little displeased.

"I may be a little ugly, but you should feel the state of our husband and wife. Isn't it good to be a person who wants to open a little, and always nagged about how many years can you do things for sesame seeds. Sometimes, I wish I could find a fool, as long as she knows how to eat, and I'll do the rest, it's better to be physically tired than mentally tired, do you know how it feels?"

Zhang Xiaoxiao didn't completely understand Liu Chun's feelings, and sometimes, she would feel very burdened when she was with Fang Ling. She is really good to others, but she always looks at things very extremely, and she is also a little strong. Every time I chat with her, I have very few opportunities to talk to myself, Fang Ling is talking, and her negative emotions are very aura, every time I talk to her for a long time, I will always be depressed for a long time when I go back. However, understanding is understanding after all, Liu Chun commented on Fang Ling, as a friend for many years, how could he not support her.

"Liu Chun, she is nagging, but she is also dedicated to her family and pays wholeheartedly, in exchange for your thoughts, you are too much. ”

"Is it Shang Fang's sword that gives wholeheartedly to hurt others unscrupulously? Okay, let me tell you this, people like you and Han Juanjuan are considered white-collar workers, it's normal to wear light makeup, buy some clothes and bags or something, right, do you know what she says about you in front of me? Do you want to know? If you want to know, I'll tell you. ”

Zhang Xiaoxiao was dumbfounded, looking at Liu Chun with emotion, her face was bruised, fine beads of sweat appeared on her forehead, and her heart was as uncomfortable as a pinprick, did she want to know the truth, she wanted to, but she didn't want to. The body slowly froze, trying to squeeze out a smile to relieve the embarrassment, but he couldn't smile.

"She said that it doesn't matter what we do, sometimes husbands and wives quarrel and don't choose what to say, and it's normal for us to be harmed. The key is you, you are the person she cares about the most, I hope you will be more considerate of her hard work, she is a knife mouth tofu heart, you should understand. Zhang Xiaoxiao saw Fang Ling and Han Juanjuan coming over, and thought silently in her heart: Perhaps, the next three-person gathering will be a long, long time.

"I'm sorry I said something I shouldn't have said, you're right, I'll try to maintain this family. You don't have to worry. ”

Zhang Xiaoxiao nodded stiffly when she heard Liu Chun say this.

On the way home, Zhang Xiaoxiao and Han Juanjuan were still walking together. Zhang Xiaoxiao didn't tell Han Juanjuan what Liu Chun said, after so many years of friendship, whether it has changed or not, she wants to maintain it well. Maybe it's really like what she said to Liu Chun, it's just a quick word when the two quarrel, and they don't count.

"Sometimes, when I see Reiko, I feel quite happy, at least I don't have so many grievances. Sometimes, when I see her, I feel very bored, I feel that the essence of marriage is almost the same, a mess of mud, but I can't shake it off, and I can't let it go. Han Juanjuan said faintly.

Zhang Xiaoxiao listened to the bitterness, but couldn't help laughing for a long time, Han Juanjuan was annoyed that she laughed at her feelings, but she couldn't help laughing along with it.

"Marriage is a great thing that turns a good wife and mother into a philosopher. Zhang Xiaoxiao concluded.

"I now watch Chicken Soup for the Soul every day, and I think it makes a lot of sense, so I tell you about it, so don't laugh at me. Han Juanjuan added.

Han Juanjuan especially likes to forward some chicken soup for the soul to the circle of friends, and by the way, she also added a sentence or two of her own feelings. Every time Zhang Xiaoxiao also likes to comment below, he deviates the originally good artistic conception.

"I feel that you can also become a poet and writer, you look at your Moments, and advise you to watch less of that kind of thing. It is said that unhappy families have their own misfortunes, and if theory can guide family practice, will there still be unhappy families in this world?"

"I've written it very well, and I want to share it with you. ”

"It is said that what is lacking makes up for something, so ah, people in the circle of friends who love to send chicken soup for the soul always make people feel unhappy, or, make people feel very stupid. ”

"Huh? Why?"

"Are you sending this for your husband?"

"No, I think it's pretty good. ”

"Happy people are speechless, and really happy people don't have time to feel at all, and they don't bother to show happiness. ”

"What you say seems to make sense. ”

Zhang Xiaoxiao smiled evilly: "Look, you believe it again, you believe everything others say." I'm not sure if you're happy or not, but you're sure to be stupid, hahahaha!"

The children in the back seat also chattered, and the adults in the front row also talked and laughed. With Han Juanjuan, Zhang Xiaoxiao is very relaxed and happy. She hoped that the two of them could spend more time together, and when she thought that Han Juanjuan was going to Shanghai after the New Year, Zhang Xiaoxiao was suddenly very reluctant and even a little sad.

"Juanjuan. ”

"Huh?"

"When you come to Shanghai, you have to live well. ”

"Of course, what's up?"

"No matter how you go, remember to share it with me. ”

"Why, are you reluctant to me!"

"I want you to be happy, set an example for me. ”

"Silly, you must be happier than me. Xiaoxiao, hurry up and get back together with Feng Sen after the year, don't delay. ”

"Well, if you can. ”

"Yes, definitely, you are such a good person, where can he find him?"

"It's good that you can understand me!"

"In the next life, let's live together. ”

"Uh-huh...... Forget it, I'll make you a little nagging. ”

"Hahaha"

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