Xu Yu breathed a sigh of relief, and seemed to persuade Xu Meng to solve his embarrassing situation, and said: "Your life is your own, no matter what happens, you have to be responsible for your own life and life, life is not a bet for anyone, think about everything, you always say that you are an adult, and you should behave like an adult!"

Xu Meng said to himself: "I still need you to say." "I didn't look at Xu Yu, I just looked around, drank saliva, and lay on the rattan chair without looking at Xu Yu's eyes, maybe I was a little weak-hearted, or I didn't want to face Xu Yu's eyes!

"You're 14 years old, and you're not old enough to get married, so even if you don't say it's going to be happy with each other, it's still difficult, and before you're 20, how do you think you should live your life and how do you get started?"

As soon as he said this, Xu Meng was also a little stunned, looked at Xu Yu, and didn't speak for a while.

"I won't talk about your feelings first, whether you are completely mature now, think clearly, or for other reasons, and ...... for a while."

"No, not interest. Xu Meng hurriedly argued, leaned forward, and stroked the edge of the table with both hands, a little excited, eager to shoot the case, and throw a lot of money on the ground.

"Okay, wait until I'm done. ”

"Then you can say it. Xu Meng shrugged his shoulders, leaned back in his chair, and looked around.

Xu Yu said lightly, "What about you, now it's like this sapling" Xu Yu compared his two hands, one of each stretched out his index finger, indicating two.

"Then, you guys are very sweet now, if" Xu Yu said "If" Xu Meng's eyes widened again, as if he was about to blurt out what Xu Yu said was wrong.

Xu Yu hurriedly corrected and continued, "Okay, you are these two saplings, very sweet" and his two fingers approached, "And then, in the six years you still owe, what do you think will happen, when you are a bigger sapling, and so is he!"

Xu Yu compared a point, and used his side hand to indicate the length, meaning the growth of time.

Then compare the length just now, and the extra section represents the time difference between the differences, which is the distance of change from each other.

"And then?" Xu Yu compared the distance and pinched the other hand and gestured, Xu Meng was like the little bit of the air that day, that hope, compared the distance to the past, and also looked there, bowed his head and said nothing, probably thinking about the distance.

Xu Yu continued, "Six years, think about it, how many changes you will have in six years, let's not talk about you, let's talk about me, I went to school six years ago, three years ago I worked part-time, went to the hotel and now has a salesperson, shopping guide job, of course, during this period, what other kinds of small hotels, factories, and even supermarkets have been to everything, I haven't thought about a better job, but it's difficult."

Sometimes you don't have to think about it, and I still have studies, working and studying, and that kind of job is not so easy to find, because you have to cooperate with your studies, and"

Xu Yu choked up a little, coughed twice, cleared his throat, restrained his emotions and continued, "Moreover, and I fell off the list, not to mention the job before I fell off the list, and it was actually not that easy after that, didn't I think about changing jobs?"

Yes. But I've seen it myself, not to mention whether others recruit people at that time, even if they recruit people, many of my own rules and regulations may not meet the requirements of others, ordinary universities, whether there is a major, and there is no skill, how easy it is to find a stable job, and most of those easy office jobs or something, have been internal relatives or something, there is no part of us at all, and I, to be honest, is not very proficient in the kind of studies, all walks of life will be a little, but all walks of life are not deep.

Now, most technicians, and some of them work too far away, far from home, and I don't want to, in fact, the work is not so easy.

It's work. And then there's feelings, forget about feelings, it's nothing, anyway, it's hard to walk after you don't go to school, that's it, think about it yourself, think about it. ”

Xu Meng opened his mouth and said: "Your feelings refer to the boy you said that time, I want to hear it." ”

"Then let's talk about yours first?!"

"Say yours first, the big one comes first. ”

"The big one should let the small one come first. Xu Yu gestured please.

"The small ones look up to the big ones, and the big ones take a sample first!"

"You're coming!?"

"You're coming!?"

……

They all laughed at the end.

"Actually, we don't really want to talk about our privacy, so I also understand, don't force you, wait until one day you want to say it, I will be your audience at any time, listen to you spit bitterness!"

Xu Meng was a little speechless after hearing this.

Xu Yu gestured, "If you want to say it, just say it." ”

"Nothing, nothing. Xu Meng looked outside again and didn't speak.

The atmosphere was awkward again.

Xu Yu said: "By the way, I haven't finished talking yet, there are really too many things that can happen in six years, from small changes in appearance to big changes in the heart, I think sometimes, not to mention six years, your thoughts three years ago and now will undergo earth-shaking changes, such as preferences, habits, and even lifestyles, details are the concept of the same thing, will change." ”

"What do you want to say?" Xu Meng asked as he felt Xu Yu go around in circles.

"Nothing, I just want to tell you one thing, some things you think will not change may not change in the future, what you think will change, may not change in the future, it means that the times are changing, the only constant is change, then you are sure that you still like him so much in the future, don't rush to reply to me, even if you are sure, what about him, take another 10,000 steps back, even if he agrees, but you can guarantee that his thoughts will not change with time!

For example, what you liked before will not be loved, what will happen to you somewhere else over time? You can't say anything when you meet anyone, even if there is nothing, and you can guarantee that no one will enter his world and his life? and then change his concept, or shake his decision, or even ......"

Xu Meng patted the table with some excitement, "Okay, I understand, needless to say, but don't you think we should have confidence in each other? ”

"Alas" Xu Yu sighed, "I remember that there is a chapter I once read about the phantom speed of feelings, I don't remember the original words, probably the two of them are in love for a maximum of half a year to two years There is a basis, the data of the survey, that is, after the hot love period, I think it will be a normal angle, there is no excited badoamide, it is normal to look at people, there is no kind of love that looks at each other for anything, even if the shortcomings are attractive." ”

Then Xu Yu looked at Xu Meng, "How long do you think you and him may be in love, so long that you are not the conclusion of hundreds of thousands of people who have experimented with others, or do you really think that you can cross time and too many unknown things, and have always loved each other so firmly?"

Xu Yu paused and said: "Are you sure that you will be like this in the future, what about him, the same? Many things cannot be guaranteed and standard, think about it! Everything is not so absolute, no matter how much love you talk about, so what about him now? Where is the person, what is he doing?...... It's not enough to love alone!"

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