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But this kind of thing is definitely not something that Su Muneng often does, although she has always liked cute girls like the heroine in "Kamakura Monogatari", but if she wants to be coquettish and cute with her boyfriend by herself, she feels that it is about killing her. After all, her character setting is 108,000 miles away from this kind of character, and her girlfriends basically regard her as the standard for finding a boyfriend, and it is too difficult for her to do what girls like to do.
Su Mu felt that she would never become a girl like the heroine in the story in her life, because she had not changed anything when she was in love before. Although she can't take care of herself, she always takes care of her boyfriend in all aspects. She never checks her boyfriend's whereabouts, her boyfriend doesn't have to report anything to her, it's not clingy at all, she can get in touch and know that people haven't lost it, she doesn't need her boyfriend to help carry her bag, buy things, go shopping, watch movies, but if a boy asks to go on a date, she won't refuse, when something goes wrong, she just wants to try to solve it herself, and sometimes she even has to help her boyfriend solve the problem. She doesn't know how many people laugh at her as a "good girlfriend in China", and she also feels that if she is so independent, she will not cause trouble to her boyfriend, so that her boyfriend will not be bored, but in fact, she seems to have never had a complete and happy relationship.
She never knew what her problem was, and she had asked her little sisters countless times why she had given so much and was never treated sincerely. They also thought about it for a long time and didn't get an answer, because they had never been able to live so independently like Su Mu, so they couldn't understand the relationship between Su Mu and her boyfriend, and they couldn't be her emotional counselor. In the end, it was a scumbag friend of Su Mu who helped her summarize the answer after listening to her story.
He said that it was probably because Su Mu was too independent, so men couldn't find a little bit of a sense of being needed in her. Men are also strange creatures, and although most guys don't like their girlfriends to be clingy, they occasionally need their girlfriends to show a little dependence on them to satisfy their self-esteem, vanity, and machismo. And people always want to be needed, especially by the people they care about, even if they don't express it in action, they always have to express it in words, so that two people can find the meaning of being together. Su Mu gave away the freedom that boys wanted the most, but men couldn't find the feeling of being needed here at all, so naturally they wouldn't see the feelings hidden behind her efforts.
After listening to this series of explanations, Su Mu said that this bastard was completely talking nonsense here, and he had no credibility at all. Seeing Su Mu's attitude, this friend also knew that he couldn't make sense with a stubborn woman like her, so he never had any argument with her about it, only left a sentence of "we'll see", and continued to harm other girls.
Although Su Mu didn't care at all on the surface, she didn't completely disbelieve this theory. Because someone has told her the same problem before, and she is also a boy. So at this time, I heard someone say this to her again, and it is unlikely that she doesn't pay attention to it at all.
After all, if this theory was not established at all, she would not hear it from the mouths of people with different personalities, so when she realized that Ling Feng had a problem, her first reaction was to wonder if Ling Feng would think of her like this.
If that's the case, then this time, she wants to make something different.
Although these changes were somewhat difficult for her.
But there is a first time for everything, for example, when she was in high school, she felt that wearing a skirt would kill her, and she even vowed never to wear a skirt again, but when she was forced to wear a skirt in college, she found that when she stood in the crowd in a skirt, it was not as difficult to accept as she imagined. So at that time, she felt that it was not a big deal to try it, and if she really felt that it was inappropriate, then she would never repeat such a mistake in the future, and there was no big loss.
Just when Su Mu was arranging the things that Ling Feng might do next in his heart, Ling Feng finally calmed down. What he had to admit was that Su Mu's love words were so lethal that he couldn't make any more trouble with her after spending so long. But if he changed his attitude like this, it really made him feel too faceless, so in desperation, he had to try his best to maintain his attitude, and then ended the phone call in a few words, and then agreed with Su Mu to discuss this matter in the evening.
Of course, Su Mu could hear Ling Feng's hidden thoughts, after all, his reaction was also on her list, so she readily agreed to Ling Feng's request, and after hanging up the phone, she continued to busy her work, not focusing on this matter at all.
Ling Feng, on the other hand, was the opposite of her, and as soon as the phone hung up, he began to regret his performance at the beginning. After regretting it for a while, he felt that he really had nothing to do, and if he wanted to know what was going on, he would tell Su Mu well, why did he have to lose his temper with her first, what if Su Mu was angry and he didn't talk to him about anything in the future. The most important thing is that he doesn't know her that well now, and he doesn't know how to coax her at all, in case she is really angry because of this matter, how can he coax her.
If you don't coax it, then it's over!
The more Ling Feng thought about it, the more he felt that he had done something so wrong that he couldn't do anything, and he kept tossing back and forth on the bed. His roommate was so upset by him that he couldn't help but ask what was going on. Although Ling Feng wanted to ask for help, he didn't really want to share the matter between him and Su Mu with others, so he endured it for a long time and didn't tell anyone. As a result, he didn't expect his roommate to see him like this, and he directly led the topic to Su Mu. He wanted to shake his head and deny it, but his body was more honest and nodded directly, which was considered to admit their conjecture. So the roommates began to talk about their age, and finally came to a conclusion that Su Mu was not a child anymore, and he would not be unreasonable like a little girl, and Ling Feng should not die too miserably this time.