Chapter 186: Avoiding Conflict (2/2)

As soon as the two left, Kang Hui categorically denied Chen Minhao and said: "No, if you are really not suitable for reality shows, then you will not win the first place in "Artist Trainee" and debut with a C position. ”

Kang Hui took out a bottle of red wine from Chen Minhao's cupboard. This bottle of red wine was brought by her, and it was used as red wine for Chen Minhao's housewarming at that time.

Kang Hui simply and rudely poured the red wine into two glasses, handed one to Chen Minhao, and kept the other for himself.

Kang Hui used the remote control board to open the first issue of "Artist Trainee", and fast-forwarded to Chen Minhao, she said: "You first look at you who appeared on a variety show for the first time, I remember that after the first episode was broadcast, your Weibo fans had just exceeded 1 million, and there were 500,000 fans I bought for you." You're recalling your performance in Good Times, with nearly 17 million followers. ”

Kang Hui lit a cigarette with a lighter and said: "When you were in "Artist Trainee", there was a lot of gap between your clothing and style compared with "Good Times", but your eyes turned quickly, and when you laughed, you also smiled generously, when you were angry, your brows were furrowed deeply, and you actively provoked the topic. Your whole being is glowing!"

"But you're in Good Times, and you don't shine anymore. You're still very handsome, but your whole person feels very good to me. ”

Kang Hui took a deep breath of his cigarette and said, "Tell me, what were you thinking when you were filming "Artist Trainee"? What were you thinking when you were filming "Good Times"?"

Chen Minhao fell silent and did not speak.

Kang spat back a smoke ring and said, "Actually, you're scared, afraid that you're not doing well." Because you don't have nothing like when you started, you are not afraid of losing. But there's nothing to be embarrassed about. More than a year ago, you didn't have a Weibo account, but now your Weibo account has more than 17 million followers, in addition to the 500,000 followers I bought for you at the initial stage, you have 1,600 real followers. In just one year, your Weibo followers have grown by nearly 20 million.

To be honest, Chen Minhao, your growth rate is far faster than I imagined. You're the fastest celebrity we've ever brought. With the development of the Internet, information can be disseminated at a high speed, making it possible for a person to become popular quickly. But just like the people who won the lottery jackpot don't have a good death, in fact, the popularity of artists will make many artists have psychological problems.

Many artists who have become popular will get drunk, go on a shopping spree, have promiscuity, etc., but artists who are a little smarter like you will restrain themselves. But hiding the problem in the psychology can also eventually lead to an imbalance in mental health.

Take your senior sister Wan Anqi as an example, she played the second female queen of a palace fighting drama and became popular overnight. But in palace fighting dramas, there are more women, and there are a few female stars who extend the struggle in the play to the outside of the play.

After your sister finished that play, she became popular, but she also fell into a certain degree of persecution paranoia. always felt that some people in the crew wanted to harm her. “

Kang Hui extinguished the cigarette butt and said, "Chen Minhao, your heart is very strong, but you are not an iron man either. ”

Chen Minhao showed a look of "Are you kidding me?" He frowned and looked at Kang Hui and said, "I have read many books on psychology, and I don't think I have any symptoms of mental illness now. ”

"Having a mental problem is not the same as a mental illness. Kang Hui picked up his wine glass and said in a steady tone: "You have your own psychological problems, Chen Minhao, I have noticed this for a while. ”

Chen Minhao smiled.

As soon as Chen Minhao was about to refute, Kang Hui immediately opened his mouth to block Chen Minhao's rebuttal and said: "You were still a trainee who had not debuted at the time, but you were full of vitality and longing for the future. But now you have a TV series that has exploded, an online drama has exploded, you scored 688 points in the cultural class in the college entrance examination, and in the art examination, you are the first in Beiying and the third in Chinese opera.

But now when you are filming a variety show, why do you just participate in the program and just give feedback mechanically? Why don't you take the initiative to provoke the topic? You even subconsciously refuse to be interviewed and refuse reality shows. Can you tell me what the reason is?"

Chen Minhao picked up the red wine on the table, drank it all, then poured himself another glass, said with a wine glass, frowned and said: "I don't know, I just feel that I don't enjoy standing in front of the camera so much, and even a little resistant." “

After Chen Minhao drank another glass of red wine, he said: "I'm a little worried that I won't be liked by the audience. To be honest, I never thought I would get so much attention. ”

Kang Hui also drank the wine in his glass and said, "You are afraid, in fact, everyone desires to be different in their hearts, but they are afraid to be different. Chen Minhao, you have now become a star that only 0.01% of artists can become. In fact, being secretly photographed by the paparazzi when you went to a coffee shop to observe the waiters was a turning point, and your lifestyle is different from most people in the world.

But you still want to go one step further in popularity, but you are worried that your behavior will have a negative impact on you, so that you don't dare to do it, you become very restricted, and choose to escape, which is called conflict avoidance in psychology. ”

Kang Hui looked at Chen Minhao's eyes and said, "You don't have to be afraid, you are shining when you are yourself." So it's good that you've been being yourself in "Artist Trainee", and we can't do ABtest in the future, but judging from past experience, the audience still likes you, right.

And if you mess it up yourself, I'll wipe your ass. How to eliminate adverse influences and so on, these are my jobs, and Chen Minhao has only one thing to do, and that is to be brave and be yourself, the more you worry about your actions, whether your behavior will be liked by the audience, the less you will be liked by the audience. ”

Chen Minhao felt that he was really convinced, he recalled his mental journey, and Kang Hui's analysis was very accurate: "When I was filming "Artist Trainee", my mentality was that the audience liked real trainees, and I couldn't act real, so I chose to be myself. After all, at that time, he was confident in his own charm, and he was determined to be himself in the show, or to let himself go. But now, a lot of every move will consider whether the audience likes it or not. “

Kang stroked his hair back and said: "In fact, in the entertainment industry, your enemies are not only other stars and artists, but you also have to constantly compete with yourself." Therefore, I would like to advise you to carefully consider which school to apply for, and don't choose to play in China because you are afraid of exposure. ”

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