Chapter 539
539
Throw a few years old children out of the house directly, not to mention relatives and friends, even the neighbors will not be able to let them go, no matter how the two of them still regard themselves as scholars, enjoying the kind of reverence that everyone has seen, of course, they can't allow such a stain to exist on themselves, at that time, they don't talk about the current treatment, even ordinary people will point fingers at them, which is extremely unacceptable to them.
So how can they send their children out so that they will not be blamed by others, or the child will not cause any serious consequences, and even a hidden danger will affect their family again in a few years or decades? In the end, the result of the couple's discussion can only be to send the child to the eldest lady of the relative's family to abandon all of them first, maybe our family is not good, you also know which of our relatives is not the first to benefit, just look at the dowry they gave me, you can see that these are black-hearted, there is no good thing, if you say that the child is thrown to them to raise, of course it is a good thing, but I am afraid that they will use this child as an excuse to keep reaching out to us, and at that time it will be more troublesome than raising this eldest child and eldest daughter Waiting for us。
For the eldest lady's words, the grandfather nodded in agreement, in his opinion, most people are good at everything, but the driver's license brought over is too little, compared with his own home, it is simply too far, always let him always have a feeling that he is supporting this family, or that he has suffered a big loss, in his opinion, the assets of the husband and wife are about the same, so they can make up a family. In that case, neither husband nor wife will suffer.
Just like the eldest lady, the dowry seems to be acceptable to others, but in fact, compared with his own family property, compared with his own monthly salary from the academy, he is simply a big loss. If it weren't for the fact that the eldest lady had also read a few books and could usually talk to herself, he would have quit a long time ago.
Although he said so, but in fact, the kind of grandfather said in his heart that he didn't do it, and he didn't know what he could do, anyway, in his heart, no one was worthy of him, it was rare, he could tolerate the other party, it was all condescension.
And the eldest lady's dowry seems to have wronged him here from the eldest grandfather and the eldest lady, but the actual situation is not the case, the eldest lady's dowry is almost urgent to his mother's brothers to make up for him, and one seems to be a very good dowry. Otherwise, it is unlikely that almost ten years later, the eldest lady will still be able to participate in various family gatherings with the clothes in her parents.
But no matter what, the dowry that his maiden brother had put so much effort into making up was far from enough in the eyes of the eldest lady and the eldest old man. In the eyes of the two of them, the best situation is, of course, that the parents belong to them, if not, then the vast majority should also belong to them, and this is completely implemented here in the eldest master, after all, when they split the family, the eldest grandfather accounted for the vast majority of the family property.
But in fact, the situation of the eldest grandfather is also very rare in other families, although everyone also attaches more importance to the eldest son, but it does not exist in the practice of leaving most of the family property to Zhang Ziyiren, after all, in addition to the eldest son, there are three sons.
Even if it is emphasized that it is necessary to attach importance to the eldest son and attach importance to the inheritance, then the general family practice is only to leave half or even seventy-five of the family property directly to the eldest son, which is an extreme approach, but here in the eldest master, he basically took away Jiucheng's family property.
Of course, this also shows from the side how much the original grandfather and wife love and partiality for the eldest son, but when it comes to the eldest master, it has become a matter of course, he never thinks about it, since he took most of the family property, how can the other brothers live, anyway, in his opinion, the other brothers are all people who compete with him for the family property, and it is already considered a grievance for him to get so much, after all, there is still a percent of the family property to be divided between the three of them.
And now other people are doing well, this status quo is even more proof that these guys don't need their parents to give them any family property at all, and after these brothers start a family one by one, they rarely respect or obey their eldest brother as much as before, such a grandfather is very dissatisfied, and now except for the fourth child who occasionally has some dealings with him, everyone else rarely meets, let alone have any friendship.
For this situation, the eldest grandfather doesn't think that there is any reason for him, he thinks that these brothers are all white-eyed wolf attributes, anyway, after the separation, his life is far away from them, it doesn't matter how much respect they have for themselves, but he just can't get used to these guys when they were originally pressed by their parents, one by one in front of them are not bowing their heads, and they are afraid of even looking at themselves, but now a person 5 and 6 in front of other people he is dragged one by one, seeing that he seems to see something he doesn't like and turns his head away, and he doesn't save face for himself at all, the second child won't say anything, hiding in the ravine and he doesn't bother to pay attention to him, the third is the least thing, he asked him to make furniture, that's not to give him face, the result is that this thing is good, let yourself go to the queue like everyone else What kind of joke, I'm your eldest brother, do you know this and dare him to come with him, just turn around and leave, and never give this guy any face in the future.
Of course, this is just the negative slander in the big man's own heart, of course, he also hopes that he can get ahead in the future, so that the third guy who has been stubborn with his head held high and is unwilling to bow his head in front of himself obediently bows his head and admits his mistakes in front of himself, but he is also very clear, it is just a good wish in his heart, but in reality, he has to try to show how good his relationship with the third child is when he is in front of others, not that he has to come to the third child to talk or pull the relationship, but in front of others, he Weiwei also has to mention that he is the eldest brother of the third child, and this matter is often raised by himself when he brings up this matterto get more respect from other people.