514: Equal Relations

This lively family is happy.

But Pang Jinchuan had an idea in his heart, and he had been thinking about this idea for a long time.

First of all, the first thing is that the An family has no responsibility or obligation to help Pang Fei raise the child, he wants to take Lele back and take care of it by him.

"Good and decent, how can you say such a thing? Lele lives well here, why do you have to take it back?" An Jianshan asked puzzled.

There are some things that An Jia doesn't say, but Pang Jinchuan can't be regarded as not knowing.

Every time he came here, he could always hear some gossip and discussions, as the saying goes, people are terrible, their family is enough trouble to settle down, but they can't make trouble for others anymore.

However, An Jianshan didn't mention this, but said, "The sins created by our Pang family want you to come and clean up the aftermath for us, and I really don't want to go in my heart." I thought about this for a long, long time, and I felt that it was best for me to take care of it. ”

That being said, but it was An Yao's decision to keep Lele, and whether to let Pang Jinchuan take it away also depended on An Yao's decision.

An Jianshan doesn't want to participate in the opinion, now he has learned to let go, let the children solve the children's affairs by themselves, as a parent, not to cause trouble to the children is the biggest help, as for the rest, let it be.

This matter about the child, even if the two of them reached an agreement, there is another thing that Pang Jinchuan has always been sick of, that is, the marriage problem between An Yao and Pang Fei......

He was embarrassed to ask an elder, so he could only tactfully ask An Jianshan's opinion.

"You really asked me about this, I rarely ask about the two of them now, but I think the two of them get along very well, much more relaxed than before, I estimate that remarriage is a matter of time, don't worry about this." We're old, and our minds can't keep up with young people, so don't think so much useless. Regardless of whether I remarry or not, I will always treat Pang Fei as my own son. ”

An Jianshan really saw it, and he also persuaded Pang Jinchuan to look at it too, and stop thinking about so many useless things.

The two families had a happy meal, and taking advantage of the good atmosphere, Pang Jinchuan proposed to An Yao that he wanted to take Lele back to take care of him.

"Why do you want to take it back, isn't it nice to be here?"

"Hey, but I don't want to go. ”

An Yao comforted him instead, "You don't have to worry so much, Lele can be best taken care of here, and if you take it back, it not only involves the question of whether he can adapt to it, but also whether you can adapt to it." Now that winter is about to enter again, I am afraid that the children will not be able to stand it when they go back. ”

An Yao's thoughts of thinking about others everywhere really made Pang Jinchuan ashamed.

There is no sense of comfort at all, but it is more and more uneasy as if a stone has been pressed in my heart.

Pang Fei and An Yao, he can be regarded as watching all the way down, it is difficult to distinguish which is right and which is wrong, but in the final analysis, the matter between Pang Fei and Lin Jingzhi is that Pang Fei is wrong.

It was the Pang family who owed An Yao, and now An Yao is generously helping their family raise their children, which will only make Pang Jinchuan feel that he owes An Yao, and this debt cannot be made up for with anything.

On the way back, Pang Fei found that his father had been sullen, and asked suspiciously, "Dad, what's wrong with you?"

"What's wrong with me, I'm in a bad mood. You said that An Yao was so good to you and so good to our family, but you couldn't give her anything, I feel uncomfortable in my heart!"

"Didn't you say you don't have to worry about these things? Pang Fei has said this several times, but how can a parent not worry about their children, and some things can't be controlled.

Pang Jinchuan lamented and said, "I don't want to worry about it either, but this ...... You don't ask anything with both hands, but I can't pretend I don't know anything. I have been to An's house a few times these days, and every time I go, I can hear some people talking behind their backs, some saying Lele, some saying An Yao, people's words are terrifying, this is too unfair to An's family. ”

Pang Fei knew this question before, and Cao Xiu'e personally raised it.

There is no good solution, either send Lele away, or settle down and move all of them, and change to a place where no one knows them.

The second option is obviously impossible, so only the first option remains.

However, as An Yao said, Lele grew up in the comfortable environment of An Jia, and he may not be able to adapt to it if he suddenly changes him to another environment.

Moreover, the An family has Aunt Zhang and Hong Meixuan to take care of them, in the end, it will be easier, if Pang Jinchuan is taken care of alone, he will not be able to bear it.

Pang Fei himself doesn't have the energy and ability, if this matter doesn't bother Anjia, who else can trouble?

"There are some things that you can't think about so much, and the more you think about it, the more you don't know what to do. If you want me to see it, don't think about so many things that you don't have, or take Lele over and let me take it well, don't make trouble for others to settle down. Otherwise, I won't dare to visit Lele at Anjia in the future, I really can't listen to the gossip. ”

If you want to talk about the trouble that brought to the An family, not to mention Lele, didn't An Yao also sell Feiyao and follow Pang Fei to Haocheng.

These favors are indeed something that Pang Fei can't get back with no amount of effort and hard work, and the indebted kindness will only accumulate more and more, and then it will never be finished.

This is not the mode of getting along that Pang Fei wants, and I believe it is not what An Yao wants.

The premise of re-pursuit should not be based on these things, but on equal relationships, equal treatment, leaving behind everything in the past, like two strangers starting from scratch!

Anyway, Pang Fei really doesn't want to owe the An family anymore, "Then I'll go back and talk to An Yao and take Lele to you to take care of." ”

"Okay, okay, then...... I still have to think about what identity to give Lele, otherwise I don't know how to answer when this neighbor asks. Pang Jinchuan thought in pieces.

Pang Fei has a heavy heart, he has created his own sins, but he wants an ignorant child and a woman to pay for himself......

When he returned to Pang's house in the evening, after Pang Fei cleaned up, he lay on the bed and chatted with An Yao about Lele with a text message.

He told An Yao about his father Pang Jinchuan's concerns, and also explained why he agreed with his father to take Lele back.

"I think our new start should be based on an equal relationship, I don't want to turn my feelings for you into a debt and pressure, you have already paid too much for me, enough, I really shouldn't let you let your family bear anything for our family anymore. ”

This is the most real reason why Pang Fei wants to persuade An Yao.

An Yao didn't insist on leaving Lele in the An family, but considering Pang Jinchuan's body and Lele's situation, she was afraid that they would not be able to bear it. But I have to admit that what Pang Fei said is also reasonable.

After thinking about it again, An Yao finally relented.

She likes the equal relationship that Pang Fei said, in the relationship that starts over, no one owes anyone, no one is sorry for anyone, since she has decided to start over, then put aside everything before and start over like two strangers.

Lin Miaoxue often said that she lost herself in this restarted relationship and became too humble, this is no longer an equal relationship.

True equality is when two people attract and appreciate each other, not who gives much for whom.

When one party gives more than the other, this kind of love has become a kind of love based on gratitude, and it is not pure.

"Okay, then you can come and pick it up tomorrow. ”

So, the next day, Pang Fei took Pang Jinchuan to Anjia again, and this time, they came to pick up Lele.

In fact, the An family likes Lele quite a lot, watching the little guy grow up little by little, sighing at the miracle of life, it is also a kind of fun. It's a bit reluctant to take it away all of a sudden.

However, everyone also knows very well that picking Lele up is the best environment for him to grow.

The arrival of the little guy made Pang Jinchuan busy all of a sudden, even with Hong Meixuan by his side, he still seemed very at a loss.

The child is too young to know how to hold it, and he always feels that this soft little guy who seems to have no bones is like dough, and he does not dare to use too much strength or lift it recklessly.

After these dozens of minutes, it is really too tormenting, more tiring than doing physical work.

"Look, you have to take it and bring it yourself, now you know you regret it. Pang Fei wanted to laugh but didn't dare to laugh, but he could only joke with his father like this.

Pang Jinchuan said, "Tired is tired, but this is just the beginning, and it will definitely be good to get used to it later." When the child is brought back, I don't have so much pressure in my heart, otherwise I always feel that I owe an family, and I don't want to go. ”

Pang Fei smiled and didn't speak again, and carefully made the child's bed.

An old man who is over half a hundred years old with a child always needs a period of time to get used to, and during this time, Pang Fei can only stay in Rongcheng and can't go anywhere.

Fortunately, Pang Jinchuan got started relatively quickly, and after a few days, practice makes perfect.

This little guy is also solid, and I was worried that he wouldn't be able to adapt to it if he changed the environment, but this kind of problem didn't exist at all.

As the little one grows up, he shows more and more of a lively and active personality than ordinary children.

Punching and kicking all day, I don't know I'm tired at all.

Every time he sees Lele like this, Pang Jinchuan has to say, "This kid will definitely have a lot of success in the future, and he will definitely be stronger than his old man." ”

What can Pang Fei say, he can only smile and not speak, what else can he do.

On the seventh day of helping to take care of the children at home, Pang Fei received a call from Shao Sheng, telling him to assemble in the concentration camp.

Since leaving Rongcheng, Pang Fei has gone to the No. 3 number one of the few times, but this time, he can clearly see the unhappiness and dissatisfaction on the faces of his companions.