(16) Bizarre theories
By the time the two of them got out of the car, it was already late. Originally, according to the plan, the two of them could also take the subway to the hotel, and the subway was still under the hotel, which was very convenient, but as soon as this time passed, the subway was gone, and the two of them could only choose to take a taxi.
At this time, Su Mu was already hungry and couldn't tell the difference, and before that, the hotel had called her several times to confirm the check-in time. Su Mu didn't know when he would arrive, so he had to give a rough idea. And then when Su Mu was waiting for the car, when he was in the car, they kept calling him, which made Su Mu's mentality even more explosive.
However, Su Mu herself also knows very well in her heart that she doesn't have a good budget for time, this is her problem, and she has indeed delayed other people's work, so even if she has fire in her heart, she has no place to send it, and she has to force herself to put on a good attitude to deal with others.
Fortunately, Ling Feng was relatively mature in this regard, and he didn't say that Su Mu's behavior looked hypocritical. Of course, Su Mu had never complained to Ling Feng about other people's affairs after dealing with them, and at most he explained the positions of the two parties to Ling Feng very usually.
But after Su Mu became a customer service later, her "empathy" was of little use, because she found that the more she gave in, the more some people kicked their noses and faces, and used her concessions to satisfy their own ideas.
On this matter, Su Mu has been educated more than once. At the beginning, Su Mu always had the idea of forgetting it, thinking that more things are better than less, after all, it is a service industry, and it is always necessary to maintain a good relationship with customers. Later, like her colleagues, she began to not give an inch, and when she encountered those unreasonable customers, she asked him to explain his own reasoning there, and she ignored it when she was done.
In real life, there can't be so many people who can deal with everyone and make everyone satisfied, Su Mu thought that she was definitely not this kind of person, so after working for a few months, she couldn't even stick to the idea of being gentle with everyone at the beginning.
So Su Mu began to understand why her friend who was a customer service before kept complaining to her every day, if it was her, it was estimated that she wouldn't be able to bear it for a few days.
After the two of them were sent to the vicinity of the hotel by the driver according to the navigation, the two of them didn't see any hints related to the hotel. Su Mu was already stunned, so he had to open the responsible phone and start contacting him by phone.
Because Ling Feng was very aware of Su Mulu's problem, as soon as the phone was connected, Su Mu and the person in charge had just said a few words, and the phone was snatched by him.
If Su Mu wants to contact the person in charge, she estimates that she can't even tell where she is now, and if she wants to lead the way, it is estimated that the two of them will not be able to find a place to live the next morning.
Seeing that the family was communicating very smoothly on the phone, Su Mu temporarily suppressed the anger that the phone was snatched away, and sat on the suitcase and waited for the person in charge to pick them up. However, the man did not appear in time, and she waited a while before being taken upstairs.
When she saw that the room was fully equipped, even pots and pans, sweet and sour cooking wine, the displeasure in Su Mu's heart disappeared, and after sending the person in charge away, she lay down on the bed beautifully, and said to Ling Feng while opening the takeaway software:
"You see the kitchen is very well equipped so that we can cook and eat by ourselves. ”
"You can stop, let you cook here, don't burn people again, then I can't afford to pay for it. ”
"What do you say? You can see for yourself that people use induction cookers, and besides, I can cook? You underestimate me. ”
Su Mu is really not bragging.
Although Su Mu does rarely do housework at home, this does not mean that she does not know anything, except that because her strength is too small, there are many things that she has more than enough and is not enough, basically there is no big problem for her to live outside by herself. And Su Mu actually enjoys the occasional time in the kitchen, she also thought that if she really wants to get married in the future, she will share the housework with her other half, and this so-called sharing is that one person does housework for a day, and when it comes to Sunday, the two of them can eat together, go shopping, watch movies, and rest for a day.
This is the most perfect life experience in Su Mu's imagination, if she can meet such a person, Su Mu feels that her marriage will be very happy. However, in fact, she is very divided from these people around her, and there is no so-called neutrality at all. Either the boy thinks that his daughter-in-law can't be treated badly and doesn't let his daughter-in-law do anything, or the girl feels that she is not a natural nanny, and she can't be a full-time husband and child, and live by looking at the man's face, or the man thinks that after spending the bride price, the wife is equivalent to buying, so he should take care of the family and give him a child, or the woman thinks that as a man, she should bear all the expenses of the family, and if she doesn't earn enough money, don't talk about any feelings.
So Su Mu's compromise became the object of everyone's education.
Bi Su Mu has never participated in arguments, because she has seen too much normality, she can tell whether it is right or wrong, but she also knows that thinking is the most difficult thing to change in adults. Simply blaming and educating adults will not play any role at all, and the concept of right and wrong has a lot to do with the environment in which they grew up, the education of the family, and the influence of the social environment. Moreover, there is no unified view of right and wrong in this world, and it is precisely because of these rights and wrongs that this society is formed. Perhaps it is also because of these rights and wrongs that people's lives are more real.
But mistakes are to be corrected, and it will take more time. Because it's not just the virus that can be contagious, it's also love.
However, Ling Feng really didn't expect Su Mu to be able to cook, and to be honest, he had always felt that Su Mu was a person who lacked the ability to take care of himself. In his eyes, Su Mu is basically the kind of person who can't do anything, and if it weren't for him, Su Mu didn't know what would happen today. So he rubbed Su Mu's hair as usual and said to her:
"Yes, yes, you'll do it, but now there's nothing, so you'd better think about something to take. ”
Ling Feng's words immediately dragged Su Mu back to reality, she had to flip through the circle of friends over and over again, originally wanted to order crayfish, but as she flipped through it, she dispelled this idea.
Crayfish is okay for supper, and for dinner, it's better to eat seriously. She's thin enough, and if she loses any more weight, she won't be able to stand it anymore.
Maybe it's because he has never been fat, but Su Mu is surrounded by fatter friends. When she is with such a person, Su Mu will feel very secure, and even when looking for a boyfriend, Su Mu will especially avoid those who are thinner, and for this reason, she really hates to hear people's discrimination against fat people, of course, she doesn't like to listen to them, and those who try to speak for fat people even step on thin people.
Su Mu never thought that the world would have such a great malice towards the fat man. She doesn't deny that some people are really lazy and fat, but she believes that the vast majority of people are like these people she knows, desperately trying to lose weight but still can't lose weight. Some things are really born and there is no way to change them, while some people are acquired because of illness or other reasons, and they really can't lose weight. It's impossible for everyone to grow into that standard figure, just as beauty is not the same, why do some people feel that they have the right to look down on fat people, and have the right to identify all fat people as people who are lazy and can't control themselves?
Of course, there are people who speak for fat people, but every time she hears someone say something like "what's wrong with being fat, isn't it only dogs who like bones?"
Because it was a coincidence that she was the one who was as thin as a "bone shelf" in these people's mouths, and she was still glassy, so she felt that this person was belittling her by saying this.
Don't say she hasn't thought about being fat, she has thought of countless ways since she was a child. The family also made a lot of efforts for this kind of thing, but she never got fat. She has drunk a lot of unpalatable Chinese medicine, and she has developed the habit of eating on time, and when people are angry, she can skip meals for a few days, and she has no appetite to force herself to eat, even if she eats one or two bites, she will never dare not eat.
Because if you don't eat it, you will lose the portion.
But do people really have to live for the eyes of others? In order to be accepted by the public and liked by more people, they have wronged themselves and accepted other people's opinions, and they dare not say their own, is it worth it? More importantly, why do we have to look at others from such a harsh perspective? I am not so perfect, am I? So why do we always blame others for these things?
If you don't look good, you have to be said, if you are good-looking, if you are fat, if you are thin, if you are thin, is this kind of behavior really suitable for existence?
Why do people always feel that these things are reasonable, or even feel that they are qualified to say them?
It's weird.
But what is even more strange is that too many people regard their thinking as an anomaly, as an abnormal existence.
So Su Mu understood why one of the most unreasonable things in the world was the truth.
When Su Mu finally chose the takeaway, Ling Feng also chose his at the same time. When the two of them sat down and started to eat dinner in front of the light outside the window, they couldn't help but sigh with emotion, fortunately, the first meal here was not instant noodles.
This is also a blessing in disguise.
Because he was too tired to toss this day, and Su Mu himself had a very poor physique, so not long after eating, Su Mu was so sleepy that he basically fell asleep. Ling Feng originally wanted to tell her about the next day's itinerary, but when he saw that she was sleeping so fast, as if she had fainted directly, he didn't wake her up again, and went to sleep directly.
Early the next morning, Su Mu woke up to the sound of the alarm bell. Seeing that it was still very early, Su Mu couldn't help but be glad that he had set the alarm clock so wittily yesterday. However, after she woke up, she didn't wake up Ling Feng directly, but went to wash up first, and only woke up Ling Feng when it was almost done.
It was normal for girls to need to dress up when they went out, Su Mu knew that she was slow, so she staggered the time earlier, so that Ling Feng would not urge her. And very importantly, if she wants to go out in Hanfu today, it may take longer, so she has to get up a little earlier.
Hanfu has really become popular in recent years, but this kind of rapid popularity will inevitably bring a lot of trouble. The debate about Hanfu on various online platforms has hardly stopped, and Hanfu's own circle has never stopped.
For Su Mu, in fact, Hanfu is a very significant clothing, it is not only a category of clothes, but also shoulders a lot of cultural and historical significance. She agrees with the idea of reviving the non-retro, and she also admits that some hanfu is really inconvenient in daily life. But when you think about it, in Japan and South Korea, people wear clothes that represent their own countries on major holidays, and their clothes are borrowed from our costumes in history, but as the birthplace of this costume, we are often critical of what has been handed down from ancient times to the present. This sounds ridiculous, but so many people think it's normal.
The most fundamental thing in a country is people, but what unites these people is a common culture and beliefs. It is true that there is a saying that the essence of the garment is taken and the dross is removed, but the evolution of history cannot strip away the roots of culture, and the culture that has been inherited for thousands of years has not been lost, so why can a piece of clothing be discarded casually? Does it not have any cultural embodiment? But there are some things that generally need some sustenance, don't they?
In any case, Hanfu should be crossed out of the category of "fancy clothes", right? Even if it is not accepted by everyone now, it should not be allowed to bear both history and ignorance.
Fortunately, Ling Feng was also very interested in these things, so when Su Mu wanted to buy these things, he never objected to them, and he was very supportive. Of course, he knew the significance of Hanfu to Su Mu, and when Su Mu proposed to wear Hanfu to go out at the beginning, he didn't feel any surprise at all, and even prepared for a long time, so he just objected slightly, but in the end he also chose to support.
Of course, the opposition is simply to take this opportunity to listen to Su Mu and him coquettishly.
And Su Mu did make a lot of preparations for the Hanfu that went out this time, found someone to make a hairpin, bought the shoes of the year, and followed the hairstyle she had learned for a long time.