(22) It's okay, I don't mind

Su Mu nodded nondeniably, and then looked at Ling Feng's mother seriously, looking well-behaved and sincere. And Ling Feng's mother's expression had always been very serious, and after making sure that Su Mu didn't want to say anything more, she continued:

"You and my son were in contact before he went to school, and I knew that for a long time. If I'm not mistaken, the day I dropped off my son, you were the one who kept talking to him on the phone. ”

"I'm sorry, Auntie, I don't know if he just called me, but we did call that day. ”

In the face of Ling Feng's mother's condescending, interrogating prisoner-like attitude and tone, although Su Mu answered the question with a smile and seemed to be very friendly, displeasure had already begun to rise in her heart.

The two of them did make a few phone calls that day, and it took a long time, but if you want to talk about talking all the time, it's really not, because they quarreled while fighting, and they were still in a cold war, and it wasn't like they were talking on the phone all the time. And Su Mu didn't know if Ling Feng had any other ambiguous objects at that time, after all, she had found so many before, so she couldn't be sure of Ling Feng's mother's answer, and she didn't want to take the blame for other girls.

However, although Ling Feng's mother raised this question, she didn't seem to care about Su Mu's answer, as if she had already determined that the person who was talking to Ling Feng on the phone was Su Mu. So after listening to Su Mu's explanation, she didn't react at all, just said to Su Mu immediately:

"My son used to call people like this before, so I didn't care about the two of you at the time. Of course, I didn't care because even if my son was in contact with others, none of them lasted long, and there were so many changes in the middle, so I didn't care much about him in this regard. ”

"Oh, it didn't last long......"

Su Mu didn't know what Ling Feng's mother had to mention this matter to her for. Maybe she wanted to make her jealous, jealous that Ling Feng had a few people before her who could keep in touch with him like her. Or it makes her a little self-aware, implying that Ling Feng is also the kind of boy who is more popular, and it's not that she can't do without her, let her weigh her own weight. It's not that he deliberately wants to be angry with Su Mu and make her uncomfortable.

Su Mu can think of the answers, basically these are the only ones, not that she thinks too much, but this is a habit she kept in her previous job. She is accustomed to seeing those successful people who want to express countless meanings when they say a word, and often experience them mediating at the tea table. So she didn't deliberately want to misinterpret Ling Feng's mother's meaning, it's just that she subconsciously felt that people of their age, every word and everything they did would have their own meaning, and it couldn't be as simple as it seemed on the surface. She didn't want to fall into the trap that someone else had set up a long time ago because of her own negligence, and then throw away the precious things in her hands. And not only that, but she can't let others see how important the things that are important to her really are.

She couldn't leave anyone with the means to hurt her, except Ling Feng.

Because Ling Feng was her biggest weakness.

"Yes, there have been a few girls who have had such a situation before, and they were all beaten in front of me, and my son has never shied away from me when he has something, and he told me. I also blocked it because I knew they were tired of chatting and talking, and I didn't need to stop it. If it weren't for the fact that the two of you had been talking for a bit a long time this time, I wouldn't have cared. ”

"I'm sorry Auntie, I don't know what you want to express, can you please make it clearer?"

Su Mu politely stopped Ling Feng's mother from continuing, and then directly shifted the topic to business. She didn't have the time to listen to his mother talk to her about these things, and she really didn't have the slightest interest in them.

There was nothing wrong with what Su Mu said, but her tone was really not very friendly, so the first thing she changed back was a roll of Ling Feng's mother's eyes, but fortunately, after she said a few more words, she finally changed the topic:

"I didn't care about the two of you at first, because I thought the two of you were the same as the previous ones, and we wouldn't talk anymore, but I didn't expect it to be almost three months, and you two are still like this. ”

"Auntie, you just said that. ”

Su Mu felt that if she continued to grind like this, she might not be able to keep smiling, because when she said this, she had already begun to grit her teeth a little, and if she said anything more than she didn't want to hear, she was afraid that she couldn't help but blast her out directly.

Ling Feng's mother was also very angry with Su Mu's attitude, but because she didn't finish what she wanted to say, she could only calm down and say to her:

"At first, I didn't know that the age gap between the two of you was so big, I only knew that you were bigger than him, so I didn't object to it. After all, it's normal to have a boyfriend and girlfriend at this age, and my son is no worse than others, and it's normal for someone to like it. However, I only found out that the two of you are nine years apart that day. Little girl, I don't know what you think, but if it were you, do you think you would be able to accept that your son has found a girlfriend who is nine years older than him? In this way, your mother can accept that you have found a boyfriend who is nine years younger than you?"

Su Muxin said, even if she brings her a boyfriend back in the future, she can accept it, no matter how old she is. It's just that she can't say this directly, so she can only change her rhetoric.

"Everyone's view of love is different, and in my opinion, love knows no age, gender and race. ”

Su Mu said very directly, and his attitude was also very firm. When Ling Feng's mother heard her say this, she immediately continued to try to reason with her:

"Girl, don't be stupid, you think so now, that's because you two haven't started living yet, and when you two start living, you'll know that your age gap is really inappropriate. ”

"I know you both don't think it's appropriate, but why can't you just give the two of us a chance to prove it to you?"

"How can you let Auntie give you a chance? If you are a year or two older than him, it will be fine, and then he will enter the society, or you are still in school, then this will be fine. But if you look at the two of you now, one is still in school, and the other is already working, can you think the same? You two don't have the same ideas, and you have different views and practices, how can I support the two of you? Do you yourself say that you two can have any good results?"

"Then besides, to put it mildly, my son is still in school, and you are already working, so will the frequent contact between the two of you delay my son's study? If you delay my son's study, what will happen to my son's future prospects? He was going to go abroad, but now because of you, he doesn't even want to go abroad, do you know how determined he was to go abroad before? You said that you are not delaying his future?"

"I'm sorry, Auntie, I don't think you're right about that, because I never made him give up his intention to go abroad. And I have been persuading him to make him firm in his ideas and study abroad. ”

"It's not what you say, I know my son's temper too well. You said that if you let him become too dependent on you and give up the idea of going abroad, he must be with you at home, what will happen to his future?

"I ......"

"You can't be responsible, and I'll tell you, girl, what you're doing now is very irresponsible to yourself. ”

"Where am I being irresponsible?"

"Where is irresponsible? You think to yourself, you are already twenty-eight years old, what about him? He is less than eighteen years old, even if the two of you are together, it is impossible to get married in the future. If you want to marry him, then you have to wait at least six years, and six years is a little bit of a story, after all, he can't get married as soon as he graduates. You'll be thirty-four years old in six years, and you say that if you two break up, how can you marry again when you're so old?

"Auntie is also a woman, and I have to think about you too. A woman's youth is only a few years, and you are now at the tail end of youth, and after the age of 30, if you want to find someone else with good conditions, who will pay attention to you? Don't you have to think more about yourself? Even if you don't think about yourself, can your family accept it? If you are in your thirties and still not married, what do outsiders have to think of you, and what do they have to say about your father and your mother? A little girl can't do things without thinking about the consequences, and she can't always go according to her own preferences. ”

Su Mu must admit that what Ling Feng's mother said is very practical for other girls, because the prejudice against women in this society is still very large, even around her, many girls who are not married at the age of thirty will become the topic of conversation after dinner, she has heard several such girls being discussed by everyone, and they are all because they are not married after the age of thirty. However, she knows all the girls they are talking about. Their lives are delicate and full, which makes her envious, and for her, if she can live such a life at that age, it is actually okay not to get married. She doesn't know why people put the root of the problem of not getting married at the age of 30 on women, because she feels that marriage is free, and it is normal for a person to choose marriage or not. No one stipulates that a person must marry in this life, and no one stipulates that a girl must marry before the age of thirty. They all have the right to choose the life they want. After all, all lives are only once, and the direction of everyone's efforts is to hope that in this only life, they can make themselves happier. If you can make yourself happy if you don't get married, then there is no need to get married at all.

This was what Su Mu had always thought, but at this moment, facing Ling Feng's mother, she didn't say these things, she just raised her head and said in a somewhat stiff tone:

"Auntie, you haven't lived with me and Ling Feng, so you don't know how the two of us get along. I don't understand why you have to force your thoughts on the two of us, because in the lives of the two of us, the things you said didn't happen, and we knew that it wasn't easy for the two of us to be together, so we were trying to make life better. We don't want your blessing either, but we want you to give us at least one chance to prove to you that we can be happy together. ”

"Yes, you two are happy now, but what about in the future? Have you ever thought about the future? When you are forty years old, my son is only thirty years old, and he is just the right age, and you say that there are other women at that time, what should you do? Have you ever robbed someone? They are young, beautiful, energetic, and energetic, what about you? When you are forty years old, you may all become old women. Then you say, can my son resist these temptations from outside?"

"You're right, it's possible, but I have faith in your son, why can't you have more faith in your own son? You should be the one who knows best what he is, don't you? Do you think your son can do such a treacherous thing?"

After hearing this, Su Mu was already very unhappy, but because of her feelings, she couldn't get angry, let alone kick her out, so she could only endure it. However, she was not convinced, so she replied with such irony. When Ling Feng's mother was angry, she was very angry with her words, and even had a tendency to shoot cases for a while. And at this time, Ling Feng finally rushed back from outside.

"It's been a long time, it's time to finish, and when we're done, we'll go first. ”

Seeing that the two of them stopped talking, Ling Feng rushed in, grabbed Su Mu's hand and walked out. Ling Feng's mother kept shouting Ling Feng's name behind the two of them, trying to stop the two of them, but Ling Feng walked very fast, but he left his mother behind in just a few steps, and then in the loud music of the mall, the two of them did not hear his mother's voice again.

After making sure that there was no one behind him, Ling Feng stopped, turned to look at Su Mu, combed her broken hair, and then said to her:

"My mother didn't have anything to do with you, I was going to come back a long time ago, but my dad stopped me and didn't let me go, so I finally found a chance to escape. ”

"Well, no, you don't have to worry, I've heard these things from your mother many times, and I won't care. 2k reading network