Chapter 416: Distinct

As a child in a big family, although Li Shunyuan has not fully grown up, he is also very disciplined in dealing with people and things. And when it comes to discerning people, he can't be blind.

But probably because of the new school year, with a filter, and out of the original simple environment, he directly planted such a big heel. There's no cleverness in the previous school.

Ou Baobao understands Li Shunyuan very well, and she is also like this.

I thought that if I got out of the original school, the comfort zone from kindergarten to high school, for more than ten years, they would meet more people and have a more exciting life. But in fact, leaving that school, they are equivalent to becoming adults, leaving the underage world and coming to adult society.

"I'm all fantasizing that college is an upgraded version of high school, and it's nothing like you....." College is two schools and two worlds that are completely different from high school. Maybe it's more exciting and amazing than high school, but for them, the atmosphere of this social microcosm in college may be what other students need, but not what they need.

"There are definitely a lot of disappointments, but there are also more capable people in college. We have participated in so many activities before, and many of us don't have the signs of famous schools. Although Ou Baobao has little expectations for college, she will definitely not deny the benefits and advantages of college. It's just that she doesn't need it at all. But Li Shunyuan still has a lot to learn, and unlike her, he shouldn't drop out of school so rashly.

"It's said that the university is organized as an event, but it doesn't feel like it's half of the activities in our high school....... There are a lot of clubs, but they are all full of utilitarianism, doing things for fame and fortune....... I'm a typical rich person, and then a lot of people ask me what I do at home. I later found out that it was to solicit sponsorship. Luckily, I said that I own a snack bar at home, otherwise I ......"

Li Shunyuan's thoughts of dropping out of school are really strong, "I'm not against this kind of sponsorship, this is also a kind of experience and network training." But I just don't like to come up and be nice to me, like a good brother, invite me to dinner, take me around to play, play games with me, and as a result, it's just to trick me...... I reacted later, and I directly said that I run a snack bar at home, but as a result, this person turned around and left, without even looking at me......"

"I thought to myself, if he is the same as I always have, or a little colder, I can accept it, and I can happily find him a team and find sponsorship. But he, they, really, saw me later, and they all pretended not to know me...... Then, the school forum said that I was a bloodsucking rich second generation, and my parents got up early and bought snacks at night, providing me with food, clothing, and clothing......."

Li Shunyuan's heart hurts.

"I really thought I had found a friend with my independent personality....... I also plan to train everyone in the future, as my right and left hand, I will definitely ensure that they eat and drink spicy food in the imperial capital........ But they actually ...... me like this, "It's so sad."

"........" Ou Baobao frowned, "No, you are looking for your left and right hands, you can't start from friends, friends are friends, and assistants are assistants." In my opinion, an assistant can't be a friend, because you already rely on them a lot for work, and if you intersect too much in your private life, it will be easy to plant the root cause. There is a clear distinction between public and private, didn't your family teach you about this?"

Ou Zhaozhao taught Ou Baobao hand-in-hand, among which in terms of employing people, she focused on the four people who distinguish between public and private. The public is public, the private is private, and these two parts of the people must not be mixed together. Because as a leader, even if you are capable, your energy is limited, and it is impossible to stare at it from all directions. And once someone has a lot of important information in official affairs and a lot of information in private affairs......

That means that your whole life is in the hands of this person. It is absolutely not an exaggeration to say this.

"A personal assistant is a personal assistant, my life assistant and my personal assistant, at most there will be a schedule, other information, they can't get it in advance. The assistant secretary on official affairs, even if it is my brother, it is impossible to know how many documents I have read today, and the official documents are absolutely separate and confidential from each other, which also ensures the stability of the assistants to a certain extent, one radish and one pit, so that they are very confident in their career planning......"

Ou Baobao shared his experience with Li Shunyuan, "Friends and friends, these people are like medicine and medicine, even if I cooperate with them, it is not me who comes forward, I don't know what the work content of medicine and Nini is, it is all taken care of by their company." If they need my help, then they will say directly, I can do it personally, then I will find a way, I can't do it personally, then I will leave it to their company to find a way, and this result, I can only guarantee that I am biased towards them, but whether it can have a good effect, I can't guarantee it. ”

"The point is that in official affairs, we are all leaders, not to say a word, but also in terms of position, there is absolute suppression. Do you want to yell at your friend? If your friend doesn't do a good job, will you scold her? So, in my experience, it's better to separate, absolutely separate. ”

Ou Baobao was also puzzled, "This feeling is quite ordinary, your family hasn't taught you?"

Li Shunyuan really didn't know. It was the first time he had heard of this theory of the distinction between public and private.

No, "My father's secretary is his classmate, and my mother's life assistant is also her classmate, they are very good friends....." Li Shunyuan couldn't see anything unpleasant between them at all, "I also understand that friends become left and right hands, it seems that there are many people who start a business together, and starting a business together may not always be able to maintain a friend relationship, but I always have to form my own team, if I don't look for it from among my classmates, where can I find it? I don't worry about other channels." ”

Ou Baobao was even more puzzled, "You are so old, you haven't found a good assistant yet?"

"........." Li Shunyuan felt even more sad. It's so heart-wrenching.

Xie Yunchu laughed for a while, and then interjected to explain, "Li Shunyuan's parents are the kind of parents who want him to be at what stage the child wants him to be at this stage. If you go to school, you must study well, you must have strong work ability, you should get married and be the right person, and when you should have a child, you will have a big grandson in the blink of an eye...... If you think about it, he used to think that I was a two-faced person, so he wanted to learn, but think about it, what is his family environment like......"