087 Lao Wang's metamorphosis
The closer you are, the less you want to interfere in each other's emotional life.
Let's put a cruel word that I don't care about anymore, so that Lao Wang has a clear understanding.
lest you get a slap in the face and make yourself not a human inside and out.
Chen Shixian felt this point.
His father, Chen Deyun, was in his thirties and worked in a public institution in Rongcheng.
When there is an Uncle Li who has a very good relationship, he falls in love with a young girl who is ten years apart.
Before the millennium, I was still very particular about the right people.
Comrade Lao Chen was not very optimistic about this relationship, so he tried his best to persuade him.
I didn't expect Uncle Li and that girl to be together without fear of gossip.
Not only that, but the woman was also pregnant, and the two parties got married.
This situation made Chen Deyun very embarrassed.
The husband and wife get along harmoniously, making him not human inside and out.
Except for the money that came with him when he got married, he never contacted him again.
More than once, he regretted in front of Chen Shixian.
I regret that I was too talkative and lost a close friend.
So, it's better not to meddle in emotional matters.
A little irony, just let Lao Wang have a number in his heart.
Everyone in the world knows that if you work hard, you can live a better life.
But very few have actually done it.
Everyone understands the truth, but it's still not good to live this life.
It's not that I don't want to, I just don't want to.
Wang Shaojie pondered for a moment and blurted out:
"That...... Sehyun, can you do me a favor?"
"What?"
Lao Wang's movements were a little twisted, and he said under urging:
"I gave Liu Mengying a necklace before, and I want to come back, can you help me?"
Chen Shixian pulled the corners of his mouth, feeling that he was a little unreasonable:
"Didn't you say it was a birthday present?"
"yes, what's the problem?"
"Since it is a birthday gift, it is a gift according to Chinese law, and there is no way to get it back. ”
"Law?" Wang Shaojie frowned, a little incredulous: "Shixian, are you telling the truth?"
"I'm too lazy to explain to you, check the Internet yourself. ”
It's not just birthday gifts, it's also between couples.
Before Chen Shixian was reborn, he had a happy game with a girl in a third-tier city.
It's the kind that exchanges saliva and doesn't enter life.
After breaking up, he was asked by the woman to return the gift.
This kind of sassy operation made him cry and laugh.
At that time, his career was small, and he was quite a little rich.
On that woman, it cost tens of thousands.
He didn't ask for it, and the other party came to ask for a gift of several thousand yuan.
What a laugh SKR people.
In addition to the bride price, the purchase of a house, the purchase of a car, this kind of large expenditure.
Gifts given during a relationship or a pursuit cannot be returned.
Of course, there are certainly loopholes in the law.
Chen Shixian has a bad trick and can do it.
For example, when giving gifts, you can use a joking tone.
Say that this gift is a bride price or a dowry gift from me, and you will have to be together well in the future.
After the incident, take a screenshot to preserve the evidence.
The girl usually takes it as a joke and accepts the gift.
In this case, it cannot be counted as a gift.
The man gave the gift on the premise that he would be able to get married in the future.
When two people can't get married, gifts naturally don't belong to giving.
In this way, there is a right to demand return.
However, China's national conditions are relatively special.
This kind of behavior of asking the woman for a gift is very low.
Chen Shixian, as a person who has come over, doesn't want Wang Shaojie to be obsessed with this kind of thing:
"Isn't it a thousand? School is about to start, and you're still afraid that you won't be able to make money?"
"The ......"
Wang Shaojie looked up at him twice, and said embarrassedly:
"Shixian, can you lend me two hundred yuan?"
"What???"
Chen Shixian looked him up and down, a little puzzled:
"Didn't I give you two hundred a few days ago, and it was spent so quickly?"
Lao Wang's head is buried even lower:
"I ...... I invited Liu Mengying to dinner. ”
Seeing that he was about to fight, Wang Shaojie hurriedly locked his head.
After a few seconds, I didn't notice the fist and kick falling on my body, and then I opened my eyes.
Chen Shixian's shriveled wallet is not much left.
He drew out two red tickets, paused, and pulled out another one:
"I'll lend you 300 for emergencies first, and then I'll lick the girl, just because I don't have you as a friend. ”
At this time, I am still willing to help myself.
Wang Shaojie took the red ticket and was very moved:
"I swear I'll never lick it again!"
Not to mention sending four, sending five is useless.
Chen Shixian looked at Lao Wang, he really hated that iron could not become steel.
In the end, it's the chick mentality.
From a business point of view, this is called "scarcity is expensive".
If you know few girls, you haven't been in a relationship.
When you come across a possible case, you will become very serious.
Unconsciously, a lot of time, money and energy will be invested.
If you don't get something in return, you will become a loser.
If you get to know more girls, fall in love more often.
Regardless of whether you can get married in the end, it will significantly reduce your kneeling and licking behavior.
Wang Shaojie is almost this Yazi now.
The reason why I can't forget Liu Mengying is because of more choices.
Time and new love are always the best antidote to emotions.
When there are more choices, it will naturally not be muddy and tangled all day long.
Chen Shixian thought twice and proposed:
"Well, when September is over, I'll take time to take you to open a melon and experience the experience. ”
Do something that adults love to do, and the mindset will definitely change.
Many young boys' first actual combat does not come from girlfriends.
Wang Shaojie didn't understand too much, and tilted his head slightly:
"Why wait until next month, isn't this month?"
Chen Shixian was a little speechless, and scolded with a smile:
"Damn, I still have to pay for your coming-of-age ceremony, you're too shameless. ”
Hearing this, Lao Wang suddenly realized.
He instantly understood, revealing a wicked smile that all men understand:
"Oh...... Isn't that the ...... The Great Sword?"
Chen Shixian got up and threw the milk tea cup into the trash:
"Alright, alright, let's go. I'll take you to the dormitory, and I'll take the bus back. ”
"Oh. ”
As the saying goes, licking a dog can't change eating.
Inevitably, this Han Han jumped into the pit again, and Chen Shixian made a killing move:
"Lao Wang, there is something you have to understand. Lick the dog lick the dog and have nothing.
I'm going to teach you a way to avoid restlessness in your heart. ”
Wang Shaojie's eyes lit up, and he quietly waited for his next step.
"Before you do something for a girl, ask yourself. Whether this was done to make her happy or to get her help. If doing it will make her happy, don't do it. ”
Lao Wang nodded thoughtfully and asked:
"What if it would make her happy and get her help?"
"Gift-giving and flattery can't be exchanged for favor. Again, as long as doing it will make her happy, then don't do it. The specific method, I will take the time to teach you in the future (on the shelf). ”
Today's exchange has benefited Wang Shaojie a lot.
also planted a small seed in his heart.
Although it is not very useful, there will be a moment when the ground will be broken and the flowers will bloom.
......
[Today's non-prize quiz, interesting questions]
What is the highest level of dog licking (__)?
A: Drink plenty of hot water.
B: Tongue stinks.
C: Remember to wear a condom.