Everyone is working hard for the life they want, or for the small goals they set, but there are always things that are overlooked in the process of hard work.

Or you will lose some things in the process of chasing your dreams, but these things are precious, so at this time you have to weigh the pros and cons and consider how to do it.

If you separate work and life equally, then how to arrange things in your life, so many things sometimes seem simple, but it is difficult to implement.

Just like Lin Yun'er, when she moved out, she swore that she would go back to visit her parents every week, but then the company's affairs became more and more, and then Xiao Fan was also dealing with his own affairs.

That's why the two of them didn't go back to visit their parents for nearly a month, and thinking of this, Lin Yun'er felt that her planning for time was unreasonable.

If you plan your time well, you can better accompany your relatives and do your job well, so in fact, many times people are not as glamorous as they seem on the surface.

Maybe many people envy Xiao Fan and Lin Yuner's life, they don't have to worry about food and clothing, and they can also do what they want to do, occasionally go out for a trip, and then do something they feel is very meaningful.

But in fact, they also give up a lot of things in the process, and they will get something if they give up, and the process of getting them is also a process of giving up some things.

But this does not make them pessimistic, but they live more positively, and they will do everything they can to improve their lives, but make their lives more meaningful.

Instead of blindly compensating or feeling guilty, they waste their time with some ideas that don't exist, and they want to put them into action when they have that time.

For example, they are on their way home to visit their parents. Lin Yun'er talked a lot with Xiao Fan along the way, and she didn't need Xiao Fan to drive this time, and Lin Yun'er didn't have to worry about distracting Xiao Fan's attention.

Then he said to Xiao Fan: "You said that we will go back this time, will my parents be surprised, they haven't seen me for a long time, but calling me is also to let me deal with my work first."

Don't worry about them, the two of them are fine now, although I know they must miss me a lot, but I can't say anything more, because sometimes I don't want to.

However, I can't just give up my job, because then I am not only irresponsible for myself, but also for the labor results of the entire company.

If the company is my own project, then I can leave the project behind anytime and anywhere, and go back to spend time with my parents.

But one of the reasons why I can't is because this is the labor of many people in the company, and I can't deny the fruits of their labor and let their efforts go to waste. ”

When Xiao Fan heard Lin Yun'er's words, he also felt a little enlightened, the reason why they couldn't choose the allocation of their time according to their own wishes was because sometimes some of the things they did involved the efforts of others.

They can't refuse at will, waste other people's energy, waste other people's time, because other people's time is also time, and others may also give up the people they want to accompany to do these jobs.

They can't deny the efforts of others because of their own guilt, or because they want to accompany the people they love, which is why Xiao Fan has been busy with work for so many years.

He can't get a good rest for himself, because he feels that everyone's labor results should be respected, and he should let everyone's efforts be duly rewarded.

Rather than delaying the process of everyone's work because of some other things, because as the boss of a company, he needs to be responsible not only for himself or not only for his dreams, or for a profitable state of the company.

He should be more responsible for every employee of the company, because every employee who chooses to enter this company may come here with the original dream or the greatest fighting spirit, and want to develop their own world.

He can't live up to everyone's trust, so this is also a reason why it is difficult to choose, but Lin Yuna is thinking that in the next few days, she will gradually put some work centers into the hands of some people under the company.

Let them have their own decision-making skills, so that she can also spend more time with her parents.

As for Xiao Fan, Lin Yun'er never forced him to do something, but Xiao Fan did a good job in these things, and he never needed Lin Yun'er to complain or anything.

Of course, Lin Yuner understands Xiao Fan very well, because he carries many people's dreams and shoulders a lot of responsibilities.

Lin Yuner hopes that Xiao Fan will always be the high-spirited Xiao Fan, the Xiao Fan who makes people see the shine, always doing what he wants to do, and working hard for the dreams of a group of people.

She didn't want Xiao Fan to stumble on her feet because of some other trivial things in life, Lin Yun'er felt that Xiao Fan should go to the brightest place and lead a group of people to complete their own dreams.

So Lin Yun'er has always admired Xiao Fan very much from the bottom of her heart, she hopes that Xiao Fan can do what she likes to do the most, but the two of them are husband and wife, husband and wife are one, and sometimes Xiao Fan's meaning represents Lin Yun'er's meaning.

Xiao Fan's actions represent Lin Yuner's actions, so Xiao Fan will continue to find time to accompany her home to visit her parents and accompany her parents in her busy work.

So it's not easy, it's meant to understand each other, she understands Xiao Fan, and she thinks about Xiao Fan, and Xiao Fan is also thinking about her, so this kind of love is enviable.

It is also this kind of love that can last for a long time, although sometimes it is normal for couples to have small fights, but the two of them never seem to have too many disputes.

Just like occasionally, each other will quickly calm down one of their angers, because both of them know each other's difficulties, and this is because they know each other's difficulties, which makes them cherish this relationship more.

If you want to maintain this marriage firmly and not let each other be hurt in the slightest, this is also what like-minded people can do.

Generally, whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, it is difficult for Xiao Fan and Lin Yuner to do this, because few people can really understand each other.